NairaMedia:

It is 'dump' not 'dumb'.

JasonScoolari:
Good evening my fellow Nairalanders,

Do you guys know that none of the 8 beautiful ladies are registered members of any FEMINIST group?

So, whenever you see a Nigerian FEMINIST especially the bittered and frustrated one's here, Just ask them this simple question;

"Do you have a Rolls Royce"?

What is it about feminism(the movement that made it possible for your sisters to go to school and drive like men) that scares you?

Olamsoh:
"What is the most ridiculous job offer you have ever received?"

Applied as an Operations Manager in an iron company. I was offered d job. 3months later, dey sack d gateman & handed d key 2me. I wil be d 1 to opn d gate,wash d toilet,mob d offices,go 2 bank evryday 2 deliver client cheques plus multiple insult frm my boss r.All dis for 40k

Let us hear from you.

It is 'mop' not 'mob'.

Emu4life:
Is feminism a movement?? It is a failed movement then. You can't beat NATURE.

Your level of ignorance sha. It is because of the 'failed' movement that your daughter can drive. I hope you are aware? A lot of you don't even know what feminism means.

Deicide:
Women wealth is always associated with the Men they are married to, what is their personal Achievement?

Did you read everything there?

Deicide:
Women wealth is always associated with the Men they are married to, what is their personal Achievement?

Did you read everuthing there?

hush15:


honestly, i dont care bout what his sister inlaw said... So far she couldnt mention it earlier.... its inconsequential....

You guys have started this evil 'why now' talk again. If you read the article, you would gave seen where her family tried to intervene. They spoke up but nobody believed them until now that there is a reason to. Doubting Thomases like you wouldn't have believed.

Bossjakande:
d day I will handle u in dis room u will regret why u join nairaland

Hahahhahahahahahha! Threat of life.

stankezzy:
Rubbish post , make una go hug transformer ,rape way u no shout, u no report for police then after 6 years thinking that he will marry u , he no come marry u , e come become rape, if he had consented sex which is not against Nigerian constitution ,although it is sin as a pastor but may not mean anything for muslims then consequence of his sin is left between him and God and not foolishly shouting rape , if it were in developed world , ese will be jailed because they will not attach sentiment whether he is a pastor or not ,they will base it strictly weather it is consented or not and if they find out it is consented then ese will be jailed

She was underage. It is rape. You sound like you were there when it happened?

Evercurious:


He won't drink any sniper..They simply had a sexual relationship.. He didn't RAPE her

Who knows

Evercurious:


He won't drink any sniper..They simply had a sexual relationship.. He didn't RAPE her

Who knows

desvi:


sensible advice has already been given here

Everybody is entitled to thier own opinion.

desvi:


will she have peace of mind if she accepts his nonsense?
this 'for peace to reign' is an empty phrase in such a context, which you can use for trivial things but her situation is more serious and she should not be asked to swallow everything in the name of peace
she deserves better

So she should say no and fight him? Or carry the money that is not her own and run away?

Excesslove222:


I don't have that information, but I know he has spent about 300k so far. And its just the starting point according to him.

Allow him to do his masters for peace to reign.Since you've seen how he can be, start saving your own money to buy your own car if you want. Also consider expanding your business or getting a good job if this business is not lucrative enough. The era of waiting for a man to do stuff for you has gone.

calgaryFriend:

You guys are still struggling to survive, and you still want to buy car. Do you think it is paper they use to service a car ?
A car maintenance cost money, instead of buying a car that will still make you spend money on the maintenance why not invest that money in getting another degree that will help your husband to get a better job in future.

That man is a man of vision, most poor people are poor because they live in the present, the fact there is no job now does not mean after he gets the degree it will remain the same.

You dont rush to get a degree when you see a vacancy, you get your degree and wait patiently so when the vacancy for that degreee comes you can use it.

I just feel very sorry for your husband, you are not complaining that he is womanising, or smoking or drinking. You want to turn your marriage up-side down because he wants to pursue a degree rather than buy a car.

Did your own parent have a car when they were pregnant with you ? Did they not survive ? Are you telling me all the families around your location all have cars ?Are they not surviving ?

YOu want to follow all the old women on this forum who are still begging God for husband at almost 40years old, those are the people you want to be listening to ?

Oya recieve sense......

Is it impossible for parents to have a car whilst pregnant for her? Did you grow up around poverty or what? Na wa o

yvelchstores:
what is your father's take on this? I think u should focus more on him, doesn't matter how elderly he is, you can rely on his counsel more than her. Men are more rational in their thinking. If he too objects, find out why. I can't say much about ur mum cos na ur mama she be however an irrational person can't be granted sole access to decide for u. Ur father is still alive thank God. Explore that route more. Even if u two are not close at all.

Men are more rational in their thinking? Interesting.

Where did you copy this one from? Let me hear that you are the real author.

eyinjuege:


I'm so happy to see you say many women contribute to their homes. This is something I notice in Nigeria a lot. Is it the bankers, drs, market women etc. The only downturn is that they don't pursue their careers aggressively like their male counterparts because of their children and homes, so at the end of the day the male collegues may end up doing better.

This is not true. Most pursue relentlessly and rise to the top. Stop generalizing.

showafrica:


My dear is safer oo, don't even allow your husband carry Konji commot. There is a type of Konji that is so bad that even a she goat is in trouble. If he force am in, it's better and safer. Sometimes, na him sweet pass self at least you are sure you are the only one he is digging.

Are you sure that you are okay? Do you think rape is a joke?

showafrica:


From the same legal point of view, a woman does not have the right to deny a husband who legally married her sex. The story looks like the man wanted sex but the woman was not in the mood and he forced himself in, it's difficult to call it rape.

He forced himself on her and you cant call it rape? God forbid your type of person.

Nukilia:


Its so pathetic when i see folks like you who have the interest of the nation at heart but do not understand how corrupt the system is. Ever since I opened my eyes in this Nigeria, electricity companies do not believe Nigerians deserve 24 hrs stable electricity. Nigerians are willing to pay but the electricity companies keep disappointing the citizens.

The electricity men are quick to carry ladder for disconnection but not quick to provide digital meters to the people. Lack of organizational skills is the root cause of these problem. Let the electricity companies supply digital meters and anyone who bypasses it should be prosecuted and shamed for everyone to see...

Nigerians are not ready to pay anything. How many Nigerians can pay 100,000 naira a month for 24 hours electricity? My dear, discos supply 24 hours light to only the very rich ones that can pay. Yes, there are people like you and me that have uninterrupted power supply and their bills run into millions every year. Discos will lose if they try it everywhere. And a lot of people bypass meters.

JasonScoolari:
God did NOT create some of these animals for us to keep in the zoo, He gave them to us as MEAT for the nourishment of our bodies.

I laughed at one of my friend who tagged me a murderer for killing a nutritious porcupine. I killed it and prepared it very well that even my friend who was accusing me of being a murderer had to have a taste of the meat.

Op, allow your friends to enjoy themselves and if you feel like partaking in the feast, do well to join them and wash it down with a mortuary standard beer of your choice. Don't listen to any Animal Right Activist here because if you check their pots of soup, it is fully loaded with different species ranging from Iguana, Crocodile, Monitoring Lizard, Antelope and possibly a bat.

Monitor Lizard not 'monitoring' lizard.

maberry:
They always look dirty & Disgusting

Hypocrite. See your own disgusting display picture that shows your pubic hair.

kelib:
Chibok girls could not speak English n sold could not even write how on earth did she pass sat n every other exams. Ave not seen her pics but only unknown pics. M not condemning it but only sharing my thoughts.

Oga did she start the school yesterday? People can learn English, you know?

Amiblaize77:


Monitoring spirit.

You are welcome dear. English is hard, I know.

Amanda4life:

They need to work on their weight.
Some women are just bad cook. The cause of their husband poty belly.

The can fry for africa.

Women have suffered. A grown up man has pot belly and you blame his wife. Even these ones that are not yet married.

Penywise:
Please stop posting this on nairaland or I'll leave this platform for good. It's not useful to people don't know them.

Who cares if you leave this platform?

erifeoluwasimi:
My title says it all but I still need your contribution. Looking at the recent celebrity story about a failed marriage I have decided to take a thought about failed marriages.
Before we go further I am a woman and have been Married for 7 years. I think I know little about marriage.
Firstly, speaking as an experienced person in marriage counseling (I head a big school where 30 Percent of my parents are either divorced or separated) each time I have issues with a child (moral or academic default) I invite the parent mostly mom. At the end of the day we find ourselves discussing the father. Blames upon blames on how irresponsible the father is or how the child is taking after the father. I end up asking the mom if she knows she couldn't raise the kids without the father why did she divorce him
Note: most times it's the woman that was at fault i.e.lack of patience
I have a friend too who is separated from the husband to the extent that she has refused to tell the man she put to bed till date. When she was about to put to bed she called that I follow her but I told her I couldn't because it wasn't my duty. Then she started ranting about how the man has been useless and all that. I later volunteer my sister. After the birth it was a normal birth I called my sister to come home. She said she wanted to bury the placenta that there was no one to do it. Then I asked her to return it and tell the lady to call her husband who lives just 50# can from the hospital. In summary she didn't take the placenta from the hospital. She asked a nurse to bury it and didn't bother to know if she did or not. Then I told her it was dangerous. She went back to her to her usual story of 'he is not a serious man'
Just to make peace reign I called the man to find out only to find out that my friend was a cheat, the man found out and she opted for divorce. He is not ready for it but my friend asked him to leave ( they lived in a rented apartment)
Same as been the story of most of my divorce parents, they cheated.
When the marriage failed they find it hard to forgive themselves and they resort to ranting.
Women who weren't cheating or weren't at fault are usually calm after the divorce because they know they did their best.
To avoid becoming a sadist.....be transparent in marriage
My opinion tho .....( Don't mind my typo and writing)
Cheers

If you head a school, you should be more conscious of your written English and typographical errors. Take time to edit your writeup instead of asking us not to mind it. If you can't, I wonder what you teach those kids.

EVILFOREST:
MEN should always endeavor to treat LADIES the way they present themselves.

As for this type, treat her RAW like a THRASH and watch her cherish you

Trash

Amiblaize77:





Hell is an understatement, had my extraction on Wednesday and after the anesthetic wears out damn it was like my vains were being cut off, it was that painful.

Veins

reservd:
Too many make this error , initially I thought pple were doing it as abbrevatn while typing bt I'v come to realise that as not the case, is it the foundation teachers or who is to be blamed. It's common among those born in d late 90s and after

Your write up is even worse.