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Alexgman1:
You have being dating a girl for a year and all of a sudden she broke up with you and went back to her ex who she said she hated so much & would hurt him if she ever saw him again because he used her & took advantage of her. Do you think there is something am not doing right Or does her ex has something i don't have that she went back to him?

You sure say no be that 'Ex'(now current) be the first to swim inside her river or shine her congo?

JaneYave:
It means you have become an ex too and if you are patient, she will come running back to you. .After all, it is said' if you love a thing, you let it go, if it comes back to you, it is really yours'. Happy waiting! Na who get mind dey love ooo!

Hmmm... Oya talk another one

Handwork is a very lucrative course to study...
Thank me later

it is well

Poloyanabo2:
Sowore obviously knows the game he is playing, he isn't doing this for Nigerians, he knows that the more fame he gets before 2023 will make him more appealing and sellable to the masses if he eventually contests.

you are on point man!
you valid!

none of them looks surprised

ebijimi7:
that was what one of my ex said just because she was older than me with 5 years now I'm married she is still single all her age mates and people older than her they all broke her heart and I'm here now happy with my family she does chat me up the only thing she keor saying is that i realised age is just a number but it was too late

God bless your generation

Kestolove:
God4bid, I can't marry a man that am older than...guy beta leave that girl for somebody better

Receive sense
Someone should epp me with that father Mbaka picture

Cheatnotagain:
* The marriage journey is a walk of faith...
From what you’ve said I think you are okay to start the process, your write up was focused on the financial part of the marriage, you’ve not even mentioned the choice of who you will marry which I think is the most important...
* Always focus on the marriage and not the wedding as the latter is just an event of a day or two while the former is for life...
* The steady income part is very important also...
* You also need to know that when you get it right (which I know God will help you to), marriage is a synergy (1 + 1 = 10) where you join efforts with your wife and get tremendous results, so stop seeing everything from your own side of the divide...

God bless you sir...
You just opened the young bros eyes to seeing beyond the frivolities

btw me gaan never marry and I ain't ready to do any large shii... we would have many things to celebrate later in life so kini big deal

To say na dem dey feed their family dem nor go dey Twitter dey make a noise like bird wey dey chop free food
make dem go protest for Aso rock...

SMH

Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.

i support your future wedding with one mudu of rice

binarymachine:
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2020/10/10/9-crazy-stupid-things-people-do-when-they-fall-in-love/

i support this post with one bag of semo

tot:
Nigerian government. Lagos state government. Blood is on your hands.

That blood will not depart from you, your families and your supporters. Amen.

Amen

decatalyst:
I like this initiative from the father!


Teach you child how to fish.


This will build the man in him and he will be a better man.

Yes Buhari should learn

AmericanQuarter:
From Onitsha ENDSARS protest


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fH09K-nDYqI

ANYI ACHORO ZI NDI SARS

Macsjebs:
Source: https://www.mirror.co.uk/science/scientists-discover-24-planets-conditions-22793127

are they trying to say the people who said there are nine planets all these years are lying ni?

Abi planets don start to dey grow like tree?

chai

Kubernetes:
Hello,
So I bought three used smart phones from eBay.
The phones just came this afternoon via EMS post office.

The office called me and said my items have arrived, but I am gonna pay #41,000 as custom duty.This means I am am average of 13,000 per phone.

This is ridiculously high for a country who does not produce a phone.

It's also very surprising that the phones are even old used phones that reigned in 2006.

Edited.

I just collected them.

1..Hp ipaq glisten,cost is w $48 and the duty I paid is #600.

2...Hp ipaq h6318,cost is $10 and the duty I paid is #300

3...Iphone 10,the cost is $450 and the duty I paid is a whopping #41,000

convert your 'duty paid' to USD value before I say what I want to say

Juliusmomoh:
Eight person a day ? ... I wonder why thunder is still dressing up.

Learn1:
Thanks. This particular job is a 8-5 mon-fri job. And transport daily is 300. What do you think? Lol

hmmm... my brother the ball is in your court and even the goal post is in your stadium

Learn1:
Thanks
The thing is the money offered can’t even pay half of my bills how then do I cope or even deliver effectively. It’s very funny when I heard the salary offered

Bros mi good morning. Let me first say this there is hardly easy-to-get jobs that can take care of your bills.
I studied BSc Accounting, graduated in 2014 with Second Class Upper, and I went for my professional (ANAN) 2017-2018.
Personally I started with a firm that paid me 20k in 2018 (honestly I started going there expecting nothing coz i had skills that brought me money and paid my bills) I offered to go there to start getting experience in the field of auditing since I wasn't employed. So I told my boss that on Thu rsday and Friday I wouldn't be coming to work because I do go for my personal hustle(and honestly he agreed).

You can accept the offer and tell the person if you have other sources of income. So that you can get experience on the job and still take care of your bills as well.

sylve11:
Nice

But wait o @ op, what do you want us to do with this information?

Epp me as OP whether this one an value adding News...
Even the Mods sef

Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.

Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.

That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.

Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.

I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.

Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.

That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.

What's your take on this?

OP the thing you talk make sense and make i add say your English dey sweet me sha.
Oya Chop Knuckle.

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kestolove95:
Don't blame them, they wia brainwashed by the lies in the Bible dat says "he who find a wife has found a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord" that is the favour his obtaining from d Lord now..

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i think you should read everything again before you display Woronworon in public
1. The OP is talking Sensibly...
2. He did not talk Bible/Quoran

Meanwhile if you find it difficult to read and understand a little observation written by the OP let me help you summarise it:
it is the orientation of individuals that should change, and not tie their lives around religion myths. Man own your life.

Is that white rope i'm seeing they use to tie the mask?
Sebi it's supposed to be golden ropes for the golden face mask?

GOFRONT:
Anybody notice the face off between Mynd44 and our bloggers??

Omo, no be small battle oh......Bloggers go create thread, Mynd go lock...them go create another, mynd go lock.......

This evening is a very busy locking evening for mynd.......

Meanwhile, I thought Efcc have sealed off Trademore in lugbe..

My thoughts first went to Lugbe as well...

Adunny07:
Please I just really need someone to talk to about this and I will like your candid advise..

So since my older sister got married I always come to her house and spend few weeks or months and go back. Al·through my university days, whenever school is not in session I always come down here to spend time with her and her husband.

Truth be told the husband is a very nice man and has helped me always financially, anytime I come here once my sister welcomes me the first day like this, from the second day she leaves all her house chores for me, I mean everything and she just relaxes. At times I get really tired and don't even feel like doing those chores but because most times when I come visiting she is heavy ( pregnant) so most times I just help her...

Thing is my sister doesn't appreciate all my effort, most times she complains self its the hubby that tells her that I am hardworking and at least she should give me credit for all I do.

Now the reason why am writing this is because am done with service (NYSC) and as it is its like I have to stay in her house because the state where she stays has more job opportunities compared to where our parents live... She stays in Abuja...I have been down with malaria for few days now and I have been on treatment, just because I can't do certain house chores because am not too strong my sis started complaining saying I can't be living in her house and be waking up whenever i like... Mind you I was always the first that wakes up when I wasn't sick, in fact I will wash the dishes, sweep, mop daily, cook food, bath her children and all those things.

The only thing she does is to bath her youngest baby, but now because for these few days she has been doing those work I do daily she is already saying she can't tolerate me sleeping and not waking up on time.

My question is this, does she have the right to be so angry at me because she is doing her house chores? I feel its her house and so she doing her house chores herself shouldn't be a problem since am not too strong to help her do it. She herself just sweep and doesn't mop, but she expects me to sweep and mop everyday.

Should i just go back to my parents house and get a job there? Me renting my own house is not an option because am a lady and am just 22...

Please i need you guys advice, what can I do?

My sister you typed this epistle with which energy abeg ?? Gaskiya you are not sick again.
Abeg goan epp her till you find a favorable job.
Its not matter of whether she has the right or left

op if you are a male share ur girl pix and if you are female share your pishur

nice