₦airaland Forum

legendsilver:
Religion is a bigger scam than yahoo yahoo

Who are the victims?

micflo28:
Women should bow their heads in shame. They only see a gold digger in a man who courts the attention of a rich woman while a good number of them run after made men and they dont consider it as gold digging.

Actually, gold digger is a term coined for some type of women.
Shouldn't you hide your head in shame for not knowing this?

SugarMuffin:
So what do we call a woman that claims to love an independent guy? She's just a woman, right? And she needs to be treated right?
Some people will open their phone and come online to type rubbish without thinking at all why can't a lady be independent? What's wrong in working her ass off to pay her bills instead of waiting for one man to settle them for her? And at the end of everything now, it is only sex people like her can offer their man, nothing than opening their legs like a dog to please the man, the way some women reason these days pisses me off, why can't a man love an independent lady? And if such guy dump them because they were too materialistic, they will start forming one foolish feminist that men are scum. I'm sure some people are seeing this one as their mentor and role model oo

While her idea is wrong, she has a right to air them.
Women in relationship offer more than sex even if she is worth zero Naira.

The idea of seeing people's worth through the lens of money is damaging to societal peace and cohesion.

Nobody has to offer any particular thing in a relationship, if their partner thinks otherwise, they should break
up and look elsewhere instead of being judgmental brats with big flaws of their own.

jaxxy:
She sounds like an illiterate. What’s wrong with dating an independent woman?

She is not independent.
She probably got played by a "lover".

This empty-head is not an independent woman so I see no reason for her rant.

MissRaine69:
The type of warped feminism I abhor. This is what crazy looks like ....what have “independent” men been doing all these years?
I bet her “independence” happened because of a man, cause women who do graft are independently independent and don’t try to justify anything.

Always showing your misogynistic side at every opportunity.

Yeye woman, did your friend also introduced you to pimping?

I never knew OGD is this daft. APC will never trust him as a traitor.
He will end up being sidelined and will be too ashamed to return.
At last, he will bite his fingers and end up with an unknown party.
A former governor has now become a boy boy to a governor-elect.
What a shame.

It is official. Buhari is a disaster at every level.
Most people previously think that Buhari is just an economic illiterate but it is clear
that he is as useless in other spheres of governance.

Never have we seen army sergeants and captains openly snatching ballot boxes like common criminals.

Buhari spent 4 years with nothing to show for it.
Not even Daura felt his presence.

Nigeria will remain stagnant as long as illiterates remain in charge.

KunleyY19:
ediot Afenifere... They never supported jagaban/APC always playing the opposition card now you wanna produce president...
Las Las Fayemi will be minister under Osibanjo...

Small boy, give the phone back to your father.

I believe this man is a rapist since the accuser is a member of his family.

@OP, point to any verifiable source where Jimi Agbaje used tribalism in politics.
Remember that "People X, please vote for me" is not tribalistic.
Every Lagos aspirant has done the same while campaigning even donning ethnic attires while
campaigning.

Mynd44 should close this thread for lie-based ethnic baiting.

He was charged with 1 Billion Naira fraud not 4.5 Billion as the headline suggests.

sonature1:
Lots of American males don't accept alimony from women.
It is always the other way round.
They see it as a letdown on a man because he's supposed to take care of the woman.

Stop believing internet propaganda, many women are paying alimony to their poor ex-husbands.
It is not always the other way round as you claim.
No poor man will reject alimony unless he wants to become homeless.

But why are more men paying alimony?
That is because they are the richer partner in most marriages.

Since this particular man is apparently jobless, there is no way he won't collect alimony from the family
breadwinner.

dochenaj:
The only way the husband is getting an alimony is if he can prove that the marriage led him into making sacrifices that affected his income. For instance a man who had to stay at home to take care of the children while the wife worked and made career advancements that positioned her to have a much higher income than the husband, might be entitled to alimony in the event of a divorce.

Divorces are always complex and usually relies heavily on how good your divorce lawyer is.

But I'm certain, the husband will have to pay for child support as long as the wife has custody.

Though jurisdiction law differs, it doesn't matter if she made career advances or not.
The most important thing is whether she is way richer than her husband.
The purpose of alimony is to help the poorer partner stay on their feet and not plunge into poverty
due to a divorce.

Some states like California have special software for calculating alimony based on spousal incomes only
such that divorcing couples can already know in advance what each would get unless they decide to negotiate.

There is no way that woman owned a house by sitting at home and taking care of her children.

My submission isn't about assets sharing which is a different beast on its own but alimony.

How much child support do you think a jobless husband can afford?

princfred:
Yet you reason like one who is 15yrs younger.
I asked you what if a spouse/partner losses his job or wage source or goes into a different wage bracket what becomes of the relationship?

I guess you are a lady because that's how a typical selfish oriented Nigerian lady thinks once they start making money not usually when they are dirt poor or broke. This is why many of them cant be humble to a man and destroy their relationship with selfish greediness induced arrogance after making it leaving the man who suffered for them thin and dry such that he lays a curse on them even without saying it out loud. Tell me which man we not run from these ones knowing fully well that their love is based on the weight of his pay check.
And many cant find a husband after or get wrong ones when "successful" because their eyes are mainly on wage bracket instead of character and personality.
Do you have a clue how many Nigerian ladies are/will become manless like Toke and other female celebrities raised with and following this advice and if men play by that rule? If Character and personality is right and the joy is there, marry (for some assurance) and build the other up if you can that's how many men do and think not knowing that most women is playing by a different book.

Blame greedy parents who teach children nonsense.
Income bracket is too dynamic and emotionally unbinding to be bases of long lasting relationship.

Western ladies found out the hard way that income may not matter so many resort to dirt poor guys even from undeveloped Africa. I wonder who your kind will resort to.

I am a man and would never accept the mentality of a rich man coming to save a dirt poor villager, never.
This is not the 15th century where the only role of women is eating and giving birth.
Your type will never understand until it bites you so hard.

I remember how a governor couldn't have a first lady because the wife is functionally illiterate.
I won't blame you though, many Nigerians can't understand complex concepts, when they encounter
a situation that is not black and white they lose it.

When a bank cleaner loses her job, her wage does not become zero, it is still a cleaner's wage.
And when a bank manager loses her job, her wage is still in the managers' range, she may get a
similar job or go into business but she will never become a bank cleaner.

Wages tells you about intellect, exposure and education(not certificates).
I can't offer more explanation if you still don't understand.

I pity this woman.
The US law heavily favors the poor, that is why many people are running from marriages or signing prenups.
If he goes to court for divorce, she should be ready to pay alimony for a very long time.

Pearlyakin:
From Ibadan.

My point is that Akala's reason does not follow since Penkele is also from Ibadan.
Oke-ogun is more likely to produce a governor before Ogbomoso because of Akala's
instability.

Pearlyakin:
Oyo State Governor is not meant for Ibadan indigenes alone we have individuals from oke ogun, ibarapa and Oyo that are capable too.

Where is penkele from?

princfred:
How old are you? So what happens when wage changes or when a partners income goes south since that's what the love depends on?

Older than you.

What lots of you don't know is that earning power or potential earning power isn't
really about money, it is about character and worldview.
For some people in particular wage bracket, I am completely certain that we have little
in common in terms of life outlook and dreams which will eventually cause distrust and rift.
So why waste time and resources?

Wage is one of the predictors of compatibility in the modern world. Take it serious!

soberdrunk:
No sane man will leave the mother of his child immediately after delivery without a very solid reason.......

How do you he is sane?

Queenext:
Why did he doubt the paternity in the first place?

There's no smoke without fire

Because he is either an illiterate or he is broke.
Paternity test is about 120-150k but he couldn't afford one and prefers speculating.

kolnel:
Abounce knows better

He doesn't know shit.
Only DNA test can settle the matter.

princfred:
So those guys who date and help dirt poor girls or the ones far below their income bracket are foolish?

It is generally a foolish decision.

donbenie:
That is NOT what I deduced,obviously she was provoked..

Only a NUT goes about pummeling people for no reason..

Whatever the boy did clearly got her annoyed,but being a woman does not mean license to unleash a furry of slaps and knocks on the guy out of frustration..

I see no reason why you had to bring women into the picture since this particular woman
respresents nobody but herself.

The reason why I asked for the other part of the video is that people cannot be trusted
these days because there is usually a big agenda behind them just like the Covington boys video.

I think I have seen about two videos today about Okada man and their passenger fighting, fortunately,
no one remembers to bring men into the picture because it is an irrelevant point.
The discussion was about the Okada people and their passengers.
But if just one of the gender is switched, people will forget about the video itself and turn it to gender wars.

For me, any political video cannot be trusted without seeing the complete clip.

Amakavula:
Please don't listen to this idiot that can't keep any relationship. So what happens if your wage increase during dating your wage ? so you should discard the lady abi ? this woman hate women because she failed with relationships. Don't listen to her ooh.

Find compatibility , find character find companion. Don't date wage.

You are deceiving yourself and others.
Dating outside your wage range is one of the most dangerous relationship gamble.
Because wage range itself already suggest some compatibility in terms of financial behaviour.

Men who date within their wage range will easily avoid gold diggers.
Women also avoid being tagged as proud and disobedient when they date within their wage.

Compatibility does not happen in a vacuum.

donbenie:
Obviously,the incident started very much earlier,but one thing obvious from that video was that she started the physical assault and the guy was trying to be initially manly about it until she over reached herself..

Even if someone played a prank on you,that doesn't make the assault justified,or if the roles were reversed would you have tried to justify the guys physical assault on her? based on what she did prior to him assaulting her?

I am not passing judgment, but I know how mischievous people can be with cameras these days.
What we can see from this video is that a man reacted against an unprovoked assault.

donbenie:
Who cares,does that give her the right to start pummeling him like that?

If someone cut the video and only shows the part where the man attacks her, will it be fair to pass judgment?
The fact that someone filmed the girl's attack means that the incident started very much earlier.

Russia will be doing them a favor.
Russia has no economic value for Africans except drug dealers and traffickers.

Another political infidel.