₦airaland Forum

Judolisco:
that's why it's called hardtalk... U invite me for morning talkshow and I give my view about something then u start arguing with me that I'm not correct is jst wrong.... Alot of Nigerians have been on hardtalk before and it came out well.... Hardtalk no be to dey fight people....
Go and watch rufai altercations with fayose...fayose said no election since 1999 has been free and fair and that d losers should go back and recalculate, rufai next question was that in Ekiti you've been accused of rigging elections.... Like what's the correlation? Fayose was not invited to come and discuss ekiti state election but d past presidential election that he wasn't a part of wetin carry ekiti state election of 4 yrs ago enter conversation ... I was happy fayose gave him back hot

It doesn't matter what it is called.
That is the classic British way of interviewing.
If you don't like it, don't honour or watch the interview. Go for the non-confrontational programs.
Is that too much to ask?

Kids everywhere.
Emefiele took Naira from 220 to 700/$.

He is doing his job by arguing against weak or wrong claims so as to force the guests to come clean.
That is the classic British style of interview. You don't honor such invitation if you want to deceive people or have something to hide.

You would understand better if you have seen BBC HardTalk.
There are interviews and there is the interview.

#5,000

Kazeemabiodun:
the man give you fact but you just ranting

Who are you?
ISIS or Boko haram

Our journalists are so ignorant.
BUA did not reduce cement price to #3500.
#3,500 is for distributors and not consumers.
The actual reduction was about #200 to #500

Young singles giving marriage advice.
What a joke.

Okay

This demotivates me and does not make me actively develop myself in this field.

Passion alone is not enough to sacrifice for but if it also involves developing yourself, then go for it.

aktolly54:
DNA will be done as part of investigation to clear wumi name from being suspect in mohbad murder case. Hope you get it? No going to court to do that

Since when does paternity has anything to do with murder?
If DNA will be done, the father won't be granting useless interviews.

Some of you make me laugh as you think the police are like backward villagers who force widows to drink corpse water
to exonerate herself.
The police have not even pronounced that he was murdered let alone clear anyone of his fictional murder.
The only people who have a case are those seen threatening him simple and that is the only weak charge against them.
Every other person will be let go. Mark this post.

We have a lot of traitors hiding under religious canopy.
You can't trust christians but wants Christians to trust you.
SMH

aktolly54:
which law state that? The old man can go court and when Liam reach 18urs ,he must always come to his family dad side. Even before 18yrs, she must brought him to his late dad side. Let them do DNA first, we Nigerian want to confirm something. Why did they push agenda that DNA is done before when I reality is has Not Been done?

We are talking about a child here not an adult.
The is even free to abandon his mother when he clocks 18.

Let the grandfather go to court and disgrace himself.
Only a dumb lawyer will even take the case.
Here is how the case will go:
"My lord, I am the grandfather of this child but I am not sure I am the grandfather.
I want you to force this woman who has no legal relationship with my family to let me conduct DNA test
so I can determine if this child is really my grandchild."

VEHINTOLAR:
Which Nigerian law stops a grandfather from seeing his grandchild ? Some of you are just funny !

Which Nigerian law stops you from seeing your neigbour's child whenever you want?
None.
Law doesn't work the way you think. You simply have no right to see your neighbour's kid.

It is even worse for the grandfather in this case as the woman was not married and he has exhibited latent hatred
for both the wife and the child.

Let me even make it clearer, the woman can ban anybody from conducting DNA test on her child and there is nothing
anybody can do about it.

Maynman:
Ok, and?

Yes it's so simple, a strand of hair can be use, your urine or blood, and results are out maximum 2 days.
I don't see how this is hard for anyone to do, you are not donating a kidney

You didn't answer the question, was a DNA conducted for you?
If yes, how about all your siblings too?
If not why? The test is just $150-$200.

If you still don't get it, some patients have never been asked to take HIV test despite visiting hospital for years
while others are asked to take it on their first visit.
There is a reason for that.
Hint, it has nothing to do with complexity or simpleness of the test(takes less than 10 minutes).

Maynman:
The wife will block his father in law from seeing his grandchild because he asked for a DNA test?
Is DNA test that scary?

I am wondering if a DNA test was conducted for you since it is so simple?
It is never too late to check if you don't have one.

Badmashii:
You must definitely be a hoe. Not surprised,hoes always have each other backs.

She must conduct the test and if it comes out positive,then she have no right whatsoever to block access to the kid. However if it's a negative then she can go away with her bastard pikin.

See this imbe cile.
Your entire family must be prostitutes for you to think of nothing else but this.
I really pity your background.

VEHINTOLAR:
Lol,block him from seeing his grandchild ? You must really think Nigeria is UK or United States ! In a typical African settings like ours,trust me, she will be the one looking for that old man if she steps out of boundary ! N'ile Yoruba,she will definitely regret it if she is stupid enough to travel that route. As per the test 💰 money, there a lot of people who are ready to sponsor it. The reality is that;whether she likes it or not,the DNA test will eventually be carried out. The question is;what is that lady's fear about DNA test ?

You think your local custom override Nigerian law?
The grandfather has no right over the child.

hmm

kennyz247:
And if the results turns out to be negative,what den will happen?

Same thing, he loses access to the kid.
A smart grandfather will not support such test because he would lose either way.

I hope you have money to settle the fallout
because if the DNA turns out positive, the unwedded "wife" can block you from seeing the child.

Hmm, yet another week of legal and online firestorm.
Well, we all know how the court will rule.

bukatyne:
If the story is true:

Life changing help is not N250k wrist watch or changing a car to a more expensive one.

Life changing help is introducing the OP into the family business or getting him a very good job so he can take care of their sister to their taste.

While the story might be false, I think everyone should marry at their social level. You both would understand yourselves.

If the OP's family was also rich and giving expensive gifts, he would not feel it and probably hound his in-laws for his own and vice versa.

While it is easy to say he is 'ungrateful', every husband/wife wants to feel adequate in running their homes and families as they deem fit.

It is this type of interference from MILs that also makes the DILs complain.

They 250K wristwatch is not for the husband and neither was the car, so how are they related to life-changing help for him?
I am talking about help for the husband and not the wife.

There are husbands who made it big through their in-laws and you won't know unless you are very close to the husband.
I personally know one myself.
Some men who face financial setback refuse help from in-laws with the excuse of avoiding 'stories' in the future.

Marrying at ones social level is the norm but it cannot apply to everybody.
Egoistic and and emotionally unintelligent men should stay away from richer families.

Pakute:
Try to dey use your brain abeg. why OBJ himself no sell am?, trying to sell refinery 3 or 4months before you leave office, na how to sell be that?. Nobody go buy any refinery if Government no fix am first.
This refinery will work, all dis SS youths protesting because of deve, dem no get sense, if to say Dangote refinery dey SS, e for never complete am today.

OBJ sold it but was reversed by Yaradua.
Privately owned or operated refinery is the only option for us.

Acidosis:
How did you transition from buying your wife a car and a wristwatch worth 75k to giving her 3k to cook for you and your two kids?

If your story is true (which I 100% doubt), then you have a bigger problem on your hands - the problem of financial stup*dity.

He probably overspent himself into poverty while trying to financially compete with his wealthy in-laws.
His ego will also not allow him accept life-changing help from his in-laws. This is a clear example of self-sabotage.

The hypocrisy is due to these reasons:
1. Chinese are not Jews, so they don't elicit hatred
2. China is not dependent on western ammunitions and support and so can't be blackmailed via western directed propaganda
3. China is the largest of consumer of oil and no Arab country want to risk its economy fighting a losing battle.

Somilat:
Palestine is equivalent to ukraine. That is why Russia is silent

Putin/Russia is not silent.
It is in favor of Palestine but hopes to be the eventual mediator.

busomma:
Palestinian occupation by Isreal is the main cause of all the deaths & destructions in the middle east. But no matter the number of Palestinians killed by Isreal bombs,Isreal will never know true peace till the Palestinians are free to chart their own destinies.

Stop skipping history. The Arab rejection of 2 states created by the British mandate of Palestine is the main cause.
If you are asking what right does the British has to divide the land, it is the same right it used to divide and create Nigeria
and several other countries. It is the same right Russia has to annex Crimea and no one dares make a move against it.

If wishes were horses ...

Appointing MKO Abiola's wife killer and a confirmed assassin as NSCDC head is a new low.
I understand why such character may be romanced before election but it is totally wrong post-election.

okay