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A woman shouldn't threaten her marriage with the "moving out" kind of moves unless it is a marriage that she is sure that she is quitting from for good.
I once met a woman who lamented to me how she was threatening her husband about her leaving and moving out of their home when they have misunderstanding. The last time she moved out and went by her parents------she waited for her husband to come as usual to beg but got the surprise of her life when her husband went and married another woman instead. She became mentally sick as a result of that.

Just reading that the "hussy" in this case was hardly home too, that wasn't nice. He was throwing tantrum like a big Baby, nice he realized that he was wrong and apologised.

**ck that fr*aking girl up.
Her husband needs to be told or else the possibility of her sleeping with your husband again is still right there.
If her husband is informed she may never near your husband again.

If I'm in your position, I won't fight her but I will do my homework enough to make sure she stays clear.
I don't agree with the part about absolving a woman that is sleeping with another woman's husband and considering her innocent. It is true that most times these cheating husbands are the ones that make the first move but a woman should know her place in that circumstance.

Dyamante:
@[b]ivynwa not that im advocating for such kind of behavior from women especially in the African society or even from women all over the world,[/b]but i think that she is being judged too harshly,
However if he does cheat on her then she'l have no one to blame apart from herself as she went into that union knowing what kind of man she was commiting to

Ivynwa:
Are you kidding me? Is carelessly and shamelessly having a child for a famous personality now a gold chain around the neck?
However much we like the Annie girl and her co-competitors, those pregnancy marathan some of them did is still all about the Benjamins. We all know that it is a ruse by some of them to get an easy meal ticket and a ticket into the hall of fame as well.  Having a child for a celebrity is not celebrated or cheered up in our country, it may be in some country where the level of star-worshipping and materialism is astounding. I was watching E-News the other day and couldn't believe my ears when a media person talked down on the former George Clooney's girlfriend Elisabetta Canalis saying that she went bananas for her to have stooped to another "low key actor" (that she is now dating) after dating a Grammy actor. Do they want the poor girl to hang on to a man who may not be wanting a family like she does or should she be walking the streets paved with Grammy actors looking for a companion so as to please materialistic them? I couldn't believe my fellow woman was that low-minded.

No biggie girlie, you are not the one I was referring to as low minded. I was referring to one of the E-News presenters that I mentioned. Are you really from Kenya? Good to have you here.

Dyamante:
@Sagamite well im not Nigerian so i wouldn't know all these things,
But why wouldnt anyone marry her despite the fact that she has a kid with a famous personality?

Are you kidding me? Is carelessly and shamelessly having a child for a famous personality now a gold chain around the neck?
However much we like the Annie girl and her co-competitors, those pregnancy marathan some of them did is still all about the Benjamins. We all know that it is a ruse by some of them to get an easy meal ticket and a ticket into the hall of fame as well. 

Having a child for a celebrity is not celebrated or cheered up in our country, it may be in some country where the level of star-worshipping and materialism is astounding. I was watching E-News the other day and couldn't believe my ears when a media person talked down on the former George Clooney's girlfriend Elisabetta Canalis saying that she went bananas for her to have stooped to another "low key actor" (that she is now dating) after dating a Grammy actor. Do they want the poor girl to hang on to a man who may not be wanting a family like she does or should she be walking the streets paved with Grammy actors looking for a companion so as to please materialistic them? I couldn't believe my fellow woman was that low-minded.

beeke:
A Muslim friend called after watching the repeat broadcast he said that now he truly believe it wen we say that Christianity is a religion of peace, cos according to him no muslim will tolerate any act considered as blasphemy

Now that they know that, can the violent ones do the world a favour and let us all have peace. We've had too many violence that we all long for a peaceful world again. P-l-e-a-s-e, seriously.

Daresh:
Ok lets get this clear, I am not staying for my children, I am staying for myself. I know that there are ups and downs and that I have had a lot of downs but I believe in giving another chance because frankly the man has begged me tire for the last four weeks. I dont now how much longer I am going to be angry for. My husbands and I are good friends and honestly things were good before I found out who she was (because I dont let things die). I know a lot of poo has gone down and we have both been unhappy but I'm looking to the future to be better. Most older ppl I asked say the first few years of marriage is the hardest. However, I am taking a few precautions. First I am putting my accounts in order so I can cut out if this happens again. I have my kids passports because when I ja, its out of the country. Third, I wont be so trusting as I have been in the past so I dont get so hurt anymore but, I believe this too will pass.
I know there are a lot of advocates for divorce but, divorce is also a very difficult and painful process that should not be taken lightly. I know he has seen all the pain he caused because he has begged me to forgive and we decided to hold each other accountable. I even thot of revenge sex but, I refuse to sin against my body just for revenge. However, I have decided to whoop that bitches Bottom and report her to her hubby. I have concluded plans, I know where she works now and where she lives(i do very good research even payin ppl to find things out. I am going with my passe to beat her down because no one insults me.
Thank you for all you advice, I appreciate and pls stop cussing each other out. The problem with women is self hate, we ae always fighting and sleeping with each others man. Guys dont do that, only ladies. Pls lets be more loving and build each other up rather than hurt and tear down.

Your word "Passe/Posse" had me laughing----OMG heheheeeeeeeeeee! Did you say "Whoop her b*tt*m?" Can't stop laughing.
Girl don't get physical on her lest you get yourself locked up or something.
She ought to be told on so that her husband can understand what kind of Ashy girl he just got.
She acts up Miss "Sexy" on other people's husband and walks home like an angel to her husband. Hehe!
You may even be doing the man a favour, better he knows and keeps a watchful eye on her before she starts diving all over the place in her marriage too.

mutter:
Daresh do not bring yourself down to her level, that is what she want and it will make her feel important.

Story-
A man at the beach hung his cloth on the door of a cabin. A Unclad mad man collected the cloths put them on and started running . The man chased him Unclad while shouting," CATCH THAT MAN HE IS MAD,

Now THAT is more funny!

I watched that performance and the second time they showed it, I changed channel.
It's bad taste to play with the religions of others. It's like making mockery of the moslem's way of touching
their forehead on the ground in worship. I am not a moslem but I so appreciate the devotion that makes them
postulate in that way of worship.

It's true that we have been told many stuffs religionwise and when one matures into an adult begins to question
some of those stuffs. People can choose to believe whatever their mind can handle as their religion yet
we mustn't play with things bigger than us which we are still trying to fathom with our human minds.

Several days ago when I first read this post I was tempted to say that that office girl should be told on to teach her a lesson  (but I hadn't the time to post then), how can she lure away the husband of another and pack away her own to go and enjoy cooly? Fr*aking Ashy girl like her-----yet it is wiser to concentrate on your marriage for now and finding out where things went wrong and whether it is redeemable  besides going after her in a situation like this may end up being placing her as the victim which can even draw out all the remaining love of your husband towards her as it's always the case in such things.

Agiboma needs our understanding and tender advising, most of us grew up with the love of our fathers. I can't imagine what life would have been without my father really. This lady lacked that love that only a father can give and may just be wanting that much for her children and putting that above her needs. She is sacrificing for her children however we look at her circumstance and not be happy with it. It's a dangerous position for one to be in but one of her reasons for staying is skin deep. I hope that God makes it right for her in the end and brings her man back to his senses and God will for sure.
Hey when they wanted to steal Bill away, didn't Hilary stand by her man for her own reasons too?

ThiefOfHearts:
*sighs* I dont env you at all

Chair, Im happy Im not the only one who sees his "nmew behavior" as being a manipulative trick and good on you for telling the OP to NOT apologize. Apologize and you're telling him what he did is ok.[b][/b]
eh. Good luck OP 

Yes-o-o no apologise-o-o? Be civil and make your peace moves but he should never be allowed to think that it is okay to slap you.
Infact if he doesn't take time, all of us fit land una house sef come deal with him. Not minding that you sef fit hala for us when we reach say we wan come deal with with your darling honey. Wetin dey Shere him sef? How dare he slap pregnant you? I am not even laughing. Mttttcheewwwwww.

Ivynwa runs out of the thread screaming "[size=24pt]WT*[/size]" 
She nearly threw up, no I didn't throw up----I managed to hold it all down.

What is inside that man's tummy? Jeez and girlfriend did you say that you are tripping for that?
I want no part of that "big-large-10,000-pumpkin-rolled-into-one-Tummy". Tufiakwa! Mbanu (No way!) 

onila:
thanks hun happy val 2 . . . .i can see myself jumping on his belly like a bouncing castle

Goldieluks:
That tummy is filled with shiit. Gosh!

Hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

norrisman:
------------------------------ There is woman expecting her 3rd child for Tuface and he goes ahead and proposes to another lady and people are congratulating him
I for understand if say the woman was expecting her first for Tuface, we could have concluded that it was just a mistake on a night when they both lost their senses but a 3rd child! That means he was targeting!

Yeah boy they should have waited for the poor lady to deliver before announcing stuffs if not for anything for the sake of decency but come-o-o who tell you say Tu-face dey target the thing? target wetin? E fit be the pregnant lady dey do her mathematics dey target the thing.
Sh-o-o-r Those ladies know wetin them dey target o-o-o biko, dey there now!   Time don change-o-o, you think say na the olden dayz time wey some men dey take women play, nowadayz na women dey play real games for men head while you guys dey do siddon dey look  . Dey there dey do obi ebele (kind heart) like me. Hehe 

Malice should not be stretched all that out in marriage yet who knows the magnitude of the disagreement or what the disagreement is all about? for example a cheating wife can disgust her husband to that level when he finds out. Yeah, yeah.

tessybaby:
cheiiiiiiiiii 3 weeks
even ifi was was right i would have begged by now
i can't stand having problems for too long with
hubby.
ronke and CC you girls rock
i am stealing some of your techniques lol

after a misunderstanding with hubby we usaully resolve to "no talking"
i mind my business u mind urs
but i can't lie to you guys
after some days if he does not beg
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
then i go just do some lie lie sickness
come see as i dey shake for nite,
by morning na hubby go ask me wetti i go take for breakfast.
by nitefall we close everything with a hot blah blah
come and see confession
"i miss you baby" like say some person be travel before

He-he

He slapped pregnant you? 
I am so mad at him that I have to leave the thread now and come back later.
Where do some men get the heart to hit pregnant women? Gosh!

Nice that you spelt it out to him that you are not ready to be used as a punching bag.
WT*

Sorry okay Baby.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=871204.msg10198197#msg10198197 date=1329271004]what about the lady who is currently pregnant?

abeg this story don tire me.[/quote]Nne M-e-e-n I just thought about that lady too and wondered how she must be feeling carrying around a pregnancy for a man who is somewhere else getting lovey dovey and proposing to another woman? Chei, umunwanyi( women) don suffer for this world. I pity her sha but no be me say make she register for the " Who-go-get-belle-pass competition"  They just draw the result of the competition nah, wetin man pikin go do?   
Why are we even pitying women wey their heart dey do yori yori say dey born for Ichie dike Tuface. . Ichie Tuface na ndi nwunye ya ana m ekene-o-o(Ebubedike Tuface I dey greet you and your wives o-o-o)

I like the Annie girl -o-o sha, she must be feeling happy for finally being the one chosen by their Ichie-Chief-polygamous-husband. Some men dey get codes for different area codes but him dey get wife and kids for different area codes. Nice that he still takes care of his brood. Dike Ichie Tu-face!  

But come-o-o why the Babe come dey cry kwanu? Awwwwwwwwwwww may be she was feeling like----
"Oh darling Tu-face, thank you, thank you. I am so happy that I'm the one you finally chose after all those pregnancy-marathon we did for you Baby"
Awwwwwww "Tu-face Sweetie I'm so touched now I am going to laugh at all those my competitors silly" -------
"Yes yes yes everybody come and see, he has chosen me. Can't you see that I am the first wife after all and he loves me most?"     

Hey! I'm happy for her if that makes her happy, I just like the way she carries herself. I know a graceful lady when I see one.

[quote author=Ogidi-Olu link=topic=869423.msg10181802#msg10181802 date=1329075386]^^^I said share, not laugh at me [/quote]

[quote author=c.fours link=topic=869423.msg10184036#msg10184036 date=1329103843]
well, you just embarrassed yourself here again
too funny[/quote]Spare him please

Still can't believe that Whitney is no more there to make me sweet music like this

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najib14:
Just carry ur ghana must go and go to imo

Imagineers:
Your wife is a good companion.  The earlier you get into wedding the cheaper it is. The more you prolong the more expensive it becomes. Take then cue start early, start now!  If you are not ready yet let her know your reasons. Have you ever visited her home/parents? God bless you as you embark on this faithful journey.

Are you serious dear? You mean the sooner the cheaper? 


@Freecocoa
Cocoanwa, you are so cute!  _{referring to your picture}

I saw a surprising one the other day, a bus stopped to drop passengers and I saw a group of boys rush to that bus pointing guns at the passengers and I later saw them running away from that bus with a bag. It was scary! Why will anybody want to live off the contents of the handbag of a lady when they can easily get a job? S-t-upid! huh! 

Woyiiiiii glad to see another African sun rising and shining.
Clapping You go boys!

PrinceK12:
If the Zambian LovePeddlers gave free punny because Zambia won the semi final match, I wonder what the LovePeddlers will be giving tonight since Zambia won the African Cup of Nations.

Do we know? Why don't you go find out and come tell us. 

This is too funny.

DEvil don Suffer!!!

Abi o.     

Whitney girl, why did you go and die?? Huh-----I'm sulking. 

Poor Baby!
Will always love you girl.

The baby has such a defined face already and is looking on confidently like "Yeah y'all, I'm here"
She resembles Beyonce's mother very much. Glad for them.
Hey! Beyonce and Jay-z gotta pay me for using my name for their baby and who also told them that blue is my favorite colour?
They tripping for me or-------

What kind of topic title is this dear? the way you coined the title doesn't sound good at all.

Marriage is not all about "honey" and "darling" and the good times, this is the other side of marriage that nobody talks about. Be prayerful and stand by your wife. If the position is switched, will you like to see her abandon you?