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iice:
[color=#9900ff]Since you made your mind not to love again.
Make your mind to love again.[/color]

Yeah Yeah.

Geez:
I got married over 5years ago and 3 kids down the line I still don’t love my wife. [size=14pt]80% of me wanted a fling when it all started [/size] and 100% of my friends were too sure I couldn’t marry her but my mother liked her and she pulled those ‘wife material girl’ stunts which endeared some of my family members to her. Like in most Pentecostal Xtain homes, [size=14pt]she took me to a ‘prophet’ before we got married and the man of God said he saw trouble which we could overcome through prayers[/size]. A few months later she got pregnant and before we knew it, we were married. Before we got married she confessed to having the following intimate relationships:

1.Some guy in a school in Kwara State when she was 21
2.Some guy in a SW polytechnic  she dated for 4years (This guy was razz and rough)
3.Some albino in the same polytechnic who also was her neighbor back in Lagos
4.Some married guy who was a drug dealer that helped her when she went for her WAEC certificate
5.A married man she claimed helped her financially in Jos and she was in hotels with him on several of his biz trips but she claimed she only had MouthAction all of the time
6.Some guy she met through her friends. She claimed they hung out at a bar and next thing all the girls went into separate rooms with the guys. She said she was bleeding at that time and only had MouthAction. Hmmm
That was all the affairs she said she had. However after the marriage, she confessed to some more affairs:

1.Some guy that gave her a ride from her big sis’s house on the island
2.The MD of her company (where she still works). This man is well known to her big sis who got her the job in the first place
3.Some much older guy who is a friend of her much older elder brother

[size=14pt]Ever since I’ve felt cheated and she just pisses her off each time I see her.[/size] To make matters worse, her diction and spoken English was kinda horrible before we got married and she promised to do everything to change. Till date, nothing has changed and she apparently makes no effort to improve on it.

[size=16pt]I’m tired and frustrated.[/size]

Quit being self righteous dearie even you yourself confessed to wanting a piece of her like other men after which you intended to jump over her. You made it sound like she forced you into a certain box, trapped you in and locked it up. You wanted to play games and got played because she was smarter and played her cards to put a ring on it. She outsmarted you in a game you started yet you still consider her dumb because she can't speak the language of some other foreign country. Why don't you teach her English, if you don't like that she can't speak fluently instead of being ashamed of her?
I haven't seen any Igbo man that detests his wife because he wants her to be able to speak Hausa very well and she cannot?  Okay I understand that you want her to be able to represent good-----start teaching her.
Stop feeling disgusted by her please if you have succeeded in adding her to your own list of flings and marrying another, your own list will have lengthened up if you too begin to name drop lovers for your wife.
Why will she go listing her past lovers to you like that??

The cause of your frustration in summary is her long list and her inability to speak fluently. The latter can be remedied, the former I decided to leave to you to sort out for yourself because something you said about one of the persons in the list is making me want to say something I decided not to point out to you as I don't want to worsen your disgust dearie.
Let's face the truth, you both played some games here so don't feel conned because if you have succeeded in outsmarting her----it is the same thing you are accusing her of that you would have been guilty of. You have been lovey doveying with this woman for 5 years and now that you learnt how many men she has slept with disgust sets in.

If she is cool headed now you shouldn't hold these to her because you have been with one lover or the other in the past too, be mature about it. You should be more concerned with ensuring that she is not still sleeping with men while married to you instead of crying over spilt milk getting disgusted at her past lovelife. I hope you understand me.
Hey! that part about visiting prophet and prophetess, how do you allow your fellow human being to see into your future for you? I am sure they took money from you guys after browsing into your future. Better run away from such people abeg.

@Perx

------To you Sweetheart.

I love this!

Ijeoma Daniel and Odubayo Itohan were taking care of their looks much before the make-over. That Long curly hair on Ijeoma made her look very beautiful. Odubayo's short Ras is beautiful and exotic. The make-over was good for her too but I give it up to her as one woman that takes good care of her look, she is so hippie and cute with that her hair.

Magdalene Alaoghemena's great eyes got revealed by her make-over, she has lovely eyes. I am happy for them and their improved looks.

Good move, Good move!
Just what I have in mind.

I am happy for them they look lovely.

alex406:
to say na mad man nw nobody go dey proud to say he come from his village. Idle lads.

Nna m-e-e-e-e-n

Biko why is it that some Naijas love and appreciate and respect the rich like crazy?
Gosh man!

I didn't have the time to spare to this thread because I hardly do this star crush craziness cos we all can be stars so why trip unnecessarily over my fellow human being? Her pictures was getting too much negative comment that I decided to inject positive to it because I truly feel that one of the pictures is beautiful.
The first picture in which she posed alone is [size=14pt]absolutely beautiful[/size]. Its just that this actress has a way of over acting which takes the context out of things just like she overdid it in her body language in that picture too. I agree with the person that said that the picture should have been shot in a natural environment with much greeneries/vegetation to bring across the message of the animal print better.
Go girlie. Rock your life! It's only one life we've got people. Live yours and let her live hers as she deems fit.

denzel2009:
OP, dont mind tpia@ she is suffering from kwashiorkor.
Pele e go better, when next you see [size=16pt]trousersnake[/size] without helmet, just run!

Funny!

Snaky and wriggly, now don't be mad at me!
No be wetin you call am?  

@Chiomamb
I am thinking that the title of your thread should be amended.
It's true you wrote that because of the way you were feeling and fortunately got help but it sounds a bit dehumanizing too.
We don't want people searching for stuffs in the internet and thinking that we Nigerians are too unfeeling to be asking "Who wants a Baby girl?, She is just a week old. Lagos-Nigeria" . I hope you understand Sweetie, we are not being harsh on you. More hugs to you and your lovely one.

[quote author=emöfine link=topic=839251.msg10021392#msg10021392 date=1327234763]Lol I prefer it when they borrow from within and not too much from without i.e. xeroxing American musicians from left to right as opposed to sampling African/Nigerian artists.

haha you're not the only one. [/quote]Yeah you are right dear, it's still better to celebrate our own music than giving us too much yo me-e-n, what's up me-e-en  Come to think of it , this Rex Lawson is late so this Flavour's song will in a way keep his legacy alive. So it's not bad at all, I write songs too and you will not catch me writing another person's song. I like originality but it can be great how some old song can be sophed up into a greater song. I woke up this morning and while still lying on my bed in a prayerful mood and singing found myself creating a new song just by humming/adding lyrics from my heart to a common christian song so such does give birth to greater things after all.
Girl I love that refined beats of this "Nwa Baby" song when that is playing around me, I am loving it
We were in a Nigerian party the other day and everybody went crazy when the song came on, I thought it was only me and my girlfriends that like it.

@Lady Tpiah
Nne how you dey? Happy new year to you.

@Poster
I fell in love with your MIL reading this for the understanding that she gave you through it all.
Our people sabi talk and it takes a sweet person to rise above all of that the way she did.
I hope that she was made to know about all these sweetness being said about her here.
It will add colours and spice up her life so don't hide it from her.

It's high time our society get down from our high moral horse and be realistic in facing these happenings in Life. See what this girl went through hiding it all away from the eyes of the others, going through terrible frustrations-----if she has fallen into the wrong hands she could have handled it all wrong and ended up harming her child, herself and her future. Thank goodness that she bore through. Thank God this life that was formed in her body is alive today breathing.

@Chiomamb
Whatever mistake you must have made, don't feel terrible about your life. We are all imperfect beings.
I know that you must be feeling very unhappy right now. Wipe your tears
Everything is going to be alright okay Baby. Sending you lots and lots of hugs.

Ngwakwe:
Please can somebody who knows him personally beg him to write a Will to including donating his kidney, heart, and vital parts of his body for use to alleviate the sufferings of the poor sufferers that need urgent transfer. Probablly he gain it back in after life

Logic Mind:
who wan use roasted organs?

Naijas una too much, only una sabi make person laugh from the bottom of the heart.

Thank goodness that it was all a joke, as for you poster I have nothing to say to you right now.
I did think that somebody that wants to kill himself does not need to go burning himself and that it may
not be a serious threat and it wasn't. We can't be accused of not looking out for one another.
Did you say that you have a wife and 3 kids at home and still playing this kind of expensive prank on people. Ouch!

@Poster
Please please don't do this, whatever you may be going through that may be overwhelming you now. Someday soon you will get over it all, and think of your past and be smiling. Everybody passes through things in Life and hold on to reach the other sweeter side of it. Don't give up on life, quit being angry with the government and find a way to make an honest living. There was a time there were no companies to give people jobs and every person has to toil and use whatever little skill or resources they have around them to make kobos and pennies and naira.
Be patient please o-o-o, we beg you don't do it okay Baby.

@ALL
It was good that some persons are giving this the seriousness it needs, even if he is joking we should make effort to stop this person in case he is serious. We don't want to wake up tomorrow and be told that he did this. Let us see how we can stop him please. [size=16pt]I gathered from his post that he lives around Ikorodu area and got this phone number 08165265567 in his posts which he said is his number. [/size] I tried to call him and and sweet talk him out of it but the phone is switched off. Let us keep trying it and see whether we can get hold of him. We can still search to see whether he has another phone number. Anybody that knows this poster should inform the people around him to watch him and prevent him from doing this bikonu. I hope he is joking.

There is absolutely nothing a foreign IG can do to solve the problem we have, it's like recruiting a foreigner to fight Gangsterism when it is the persons in the country that knows who the real gangstas are---so tell me what can a foreigner do? Ask you to point out the Boko boyz for him? Mtcheeeew

Absolute waste of money, foreigners can be consulted on the mode of fighting down the menace but not decorating them with the high office of an IG and wasting resources to make them happy while we all can hardly benefit a dime from the resources that we have. They can bring in some crime detectives into the country to assist, I think that we need the advanced technology used in gathering info over crime at this point but make a foreigner an IG----nah, nah,nah!

Sawa Sawa Sawale!
Funny that I and my non-Nigerian girlfriends shouts out "Sawa Sawa Sawale" to each other across the
net nowadays and to think that they were the ones that introduced me to this song. Lol
Good beats and riddims (not too fantastic lyrics though) by Man Flavour! Can't stop liking it.

Wait, just when I was liking this song I stumbled on the main Rex Lawson song our boy resang and I was even thinking that it was only
Alex Zitto's beat that he used. Man Flavour hurry up and give us something original, no copy too much abeg. The remix is nice though.

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Music!

The sight of babies melt me and bring smiles to my face.
Am I the only person that love babies that much?

Seeing love expressed does it for me too.
Family and lovers sharing hugs and love in the open.

Nature at its best, beautiful things of nature lovely greeneries, the sky at sunset, moonlight,
lovely sights of mountains, hills, blue sky, birds flying, fish in ponds or aquarium or waterbodies.

maclatunji:
Maybe the Vultures in Nigeria are too corrupt for Juju  

nedu210:
na wa o, upon all this thing wa FG dey shout make we dey patronize our local things this woman still get mind go dey import.

You go fear importation.   


Who is still fiddling with them dirty things at this age and time?
Why do people choose to believe in dirty/disgusting juju persons and their disgusting juju acts?

Sweet Sweet twins!
They look lovely.
Glad for their achievements.

amaham:
Mshewww, if na to collect 20naira 4 road dem go de shine eye, comot under-30 aboki de dribble dem so

 

May God protect his people!

Most times some parents can't help liking some of their children more than the others maybe because the beloved children behave in ways that appeals to them, are more obedient to them, closer to them or more caring and understanding than the other children yet parents are always advised not to let that show as it breeds siblings rivalry and unnecessary negative feelings in the family.

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[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=849787.msg10001837#msg10001837 date=1326995428]It will be better for you to post it here cos I ani't gonna be redirected anywhere hon[/quote]

@Poster
Keep your head up girl, keep your head up
if they wahala you too much, tell them make they find a cute man for you and
that they should get ready to accompany you go pay his dowry. Sh-o-o-o

Loling at Saga's video
I was right when I said that Saga's anger has plenty swagz to it.
That was cool and funny
You should win an award for making humour out of your anger
I hope the poster gets cheered up by these

I love the way brides and grooms rock our traditional attires these days.

Great looking pictures we' ve got here.

@Poster
It's hard to decipher what the problem here is because I find your post sweet. I mean it's lovely that two persons fighting ended up making love. If he kissed the wife and the wife reciprocated and the two made love to themselves, then nobody can be accused of violating the other. Violation is when he forces himself on the wife and becomes intimate with her against her volition.

zayhal:
@drnoel
You have so much details as a 3rd party. I wonder,
@topic
What's the situation on ground now with the in-laws?

Does he?