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Ewoo ndi umuadannonu.(the beautiful ladies of the house, Uju, Ify, Odunnu) nnonu nnonu, diokpara(first son) Dayokanu, mother mukina. OAMJ,Yield, Roland, Alubus, everybody. I am happy to have all' you here, thanks  for your wishes.

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Thanks to you all my good people of Obodo naira. Plenty hugs to y' all.

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Semi atleast wish her what she craves for

Even as you don OLD tey for this life so how many times you don celebrate your birthday

OLD MAN [/quote][quote author=mama-gee link=topic=737967.msg8947119#msg8947119 date=1313610031][color=deeppink]Happy Birthday![/color][/quote]Thanks Sweetie pies.

semid4lyfe:
Na wa o. . . .see me see ''by force by fire, dem must wish me HBD''
Be like sey the OP nor get friends for real life hence the resort to a faceless forum for birthday wishes

Thanks Mr. Acidic,
Why don't you just pass if you have no excitement and warmth in you. I am having a lovely day, never mind friends are warming and pepping it up for me. I happen to be in love with excitement which is why I posted it so you see there's no space for acerbic persons like you in a beautiful day like this
Thanks all the same and do run along sweet.

Bless you Baby!

Thanks Pips! Hugs and Kisses to ya all.

imconfused:
Happy Birthday ma, God blesss you

Thanks Baby!

Oh dear, minutes ago I told God to specially bless the first person to wish me a Happy Bday here so that goes to you. May the blessings of God be yours, may he grants you that your heart's desire that you wish much for soon. Amen!
Cake and Ice cream? Guess I will have to owe you that Sweetie!


Yeah girl, let's drink to that, yeah, yeah, yeah!

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W-o-o-o-y-y-i-i-i-i-i it's my birthday today Pips, Make some noise-e-e-e-e-e-e-e!
Magnify the Lord with me for the gift of Life and you can rock this sweet song with me. Isn't God good?


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W-o-o-o-y-y-i-i-i-i-i it's my birthday today Pips, Make some noise-e-e-e-e-e-e-e!
Magnify the Lord with me for the gift of Life and you can rock this sweet song (that is giving me the goose pimples all morning) with me. It's great to know that a day like this years ago I came into the world with a twin sister in tow but who wasn't as lucky as I was to be alive. I remember her on my birthdays even as I bless the Lord for his goodness to me. Alleluiah! Alleluiah. Isn't God good?


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@Poster
Nne you should be more concerned with getting a cure for the freaking STD the selfish Dude gave you and stop swooning over him for goodness sake. He has STD and I am not hearing about you guys getting a cure for yourselves instead pregnancy and having a child is more important to him in his STD ridden state.

Have mercy on yourself and run go get a cure because dude is playing games with you and with that STD he gave you he is also blurring your future for you. I will advice that you don't sleep with him again and that you keep your heart open because you can meet better caring persons than him.

You said that he is a divorcee how divorced is he or was he giving all ya ladies stories while married and just looking for fun? Gather yourself together dear, work hard at whatever you are doing and be making a good life for yourself. Your Mr. Right will come when he will come, don't allow friends, family and society pressure you into settling for any dirty thing/STD infested, selfish and cunning thing that comes around you.  Hurry to the doctor and cure yourself fast, what are you going to tell Mr. Right if he arrives soon and starts planning to marry you.

Alleluiah!
I'm happy for you!

Fhemmmy:
Na wa oh, but i thought i read somewhere that the guy was still alive . . . .

Nnaa men, me sef follow dey hold out hope say the thing na ordinary rumour, I guess it's really true.

Ewoooooooo Sammy Baby, why now? Why did you go and die? Why you come mud/delete so dearie. I follow love you proper and your unique ways of making us smile and laugh through your movies. Only Osuofia and Ibru comes close to that. You've always had a place in my heart right after Osuofia in those movies.
What can I say? Rest in Peace sweetheart. Ndo oo-o. Nadu mma.
We sure know you have peace and is smiling all the way to that restful/peaceful place of rest. There's no doubt that you will find a special place in the heart of God as you will be making him smile and laugh non stop. Adieu brother man.

@Poster
How about we even change the title of your thread as a sign of respect to your wife. Your wife is your partner not a recalcitrant child that you find punishment for when you think that she has misbehaved. The title is derogatory methinks. 


Isn 't it sweet of Tpiah to get out some laughter out of you when you were boiling and unhappy. Kudos to her

horny4u:
Poster I know it hurts , man that is your mum and without her you will not be here , talkless of married.

But you donot want someone who does not want to be with your mum with your mum when your mum is vulnerable , your

mum needs someone to take care of her and unfortunately your wife does not want to.

Simply find someone else, donot bother punishing your wife for her childish behaviour, this is an opportunity to score

with you and she has not made use of it but you need peace, harmony and most of all your wife's affection ignore your
ego and find another solution.

@Poster
Miss horny4u made a fantastic point here in the bolded part of her post, that statement appealed much to me.
I know that our culture, upbringing and family values gave us all such mindset that had you boiling at that attitude displayed by your spouse. Normally your wife is expected to do that but there may be more to her reasons for not doing that than met the eye. The fact that she refused to go be with her is an attestation that they are not comfortable with themselves.What is the relationship between her and your mother? If they are estranged, it may not be your wife's fault alone. Don't go blaming her for it all. Your wife doesn't want to go be with her so you can arrange for somebody else to do that, it sure will hurt but refuse to let it weigh you down and it won't.

Your statement showed that you are aware of some friction between them, why not see how you can smoothen their relationship by communicating with the two to know the differences and deciding on how to go about making peace. You have to tread carefully doing that and not play the blame game, these are two women that mean a lot to you. Don't they?

I just want peep my head into una thread remind una say oil dey finish. Just kidding
What is that 37k thing being paid to a Nigerian lawyer that gradged from a university, abeg spread your wings and your minds old boy. They are limiting you there, even a young boy trader can earn better than that. If you can afford the schooling go for it if you can't invest that savings into a good business or something.

r231:
On what he's getting from the divorce
Chika: ''I am getting where I am living now with my son Boris which is a 3 bedroom flat, my car, my shop, Boris' up keep and him paying me for the next 6 months. Isn't that ok for me? Let him continue f***king around as I don't care anymore''.

Chika continues
''Am single and seriously[b] searching for a honest, sincere and genuine one and not those that will only lay me in bed and take advantage of me or start demanding money like Nigerian guys are doing. [/b] I saw it coming and The fact is that am not shocked at all neither does he even care but the best of it is am on my own once again. My son is all the happiness I have ''

Am I the only person that this dude sounds like a wh-oring man to. Somebody tell him to hush up a bit. I know that it is not easy out there when we all migrate to other lands to make a living but should a man, a full blooded Igbo man like him give himself to being manhandled, abused, s*domized and battered just to get some dough. Isn't that masculine wh-oring of the highest order.   It's flabberwhelming.

Evil Brain:
Haters gonna hate. If the guy cared what you people think he wouldn't be talking about his h0m0sexuality in public.

What he does in the privacy of his bedroom, no matter how kinky, is his own business. You guys need to stop looking at others and face your own lives. Afterall its not like he's trying to stick anything up your own backside, is he?

davidylan:
He was the one who told us his butt hurts after 3 rounds of sex every night

You guys gave me a good laugh now, thank you.       Did we ask for all that details that he and his metal clanging mouth was shoving down on us and making people like me want to throw up. I guess the next thing we will be hearing from his end is the number of rounds his new Nigerian man gives. I gotta run out of here now.

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no, but sometimes individuality isnt the priority.[/quote]The part I mentioned about having joint accounts for the family plans but women being allowed to still have their accounts and do other stuffs too is an indication that I am putting the family first here. The two have a family to take care of and should have a plan for their home first.

9jafetish:
only in nairaland
but this is why i will never marry a nigerian man, they are all cheaters

All Nigerian men are not cheats dear. There are plenty good ones that love and respect their women.

fellis:
The subjugation women suffer in marriage stems from the (largely African)belief that women are the mothers and their place is at home with the children and not making money with the husband, but in my opinion, women can work if the men join hands in running the home and taking care of the children, they can keep pride aside and do it afterall it is also their family, not just the wives'. That way, she might not have to lose her individuality.
No offence intended to men that believe in upholding ancient/ice age traditional values.

You made it sound like women have been relegated to the home and not allowed to work. I know that nowadays 80% married women are out there struggling with their men to take care of their families. It's only a handful of women that are housewives nowadays.
Yes you are right about the part about keeping pride aside and men embracing their women along with their successes without having inferiority complex. A lot of men have a problem with that and that can cause lots of friction in a home. 

Pettitegal:
GBAM, Well spoken! I am by no means a feminist(big difference between feminism and individuality as regards to females). Most men mis-contrue both arguing on biblical precepts that are largely one sided i e( "the bible says that women should be submissive to their husbands etc etc) but the same bible and even the Koran says that Husbands should love their wives like their own bodies! Individuality is a "HUMAN RIGHT ISSUE" and cuts across gender lines(males and females). Even God/Allah gives lets us have our individuality by allowing us to choose what we want to do, which may or may not be right for us but its our "individual right of choice" which he has given everyone on this earth.
I would not want to stifle my husband and make his life miserable because he is married to me and vice versa. I think respect from both parties is essential in any union be it a marraige or relationship and shows maturity from both parties.

You just said the word dearie "RESPECT", with that two persons in a marriage can wade many waters and can be at peace enough to be themselves knowing that their spouse respects who they are, their dreams and aspirations.

Oh my God, I can vomit right now. I am so disgusted by this. They even had a baby so how did wifey Chika give him a baby or did they use a surrogate mom? He said he will now care for his baby, I am wondering what life a kid exposed to all that madness/craziness will have.
Our Chika wifey is a loud mouth, he is even telling us about the pains in his a**s.
What the freaking hell! Somebody get him some pampers because he may be needing some. I have heard of a lady that engages in that s*domy thing and now pads her backside all the time. Ouch!
The same person that was singing about cooking Husby Marc some Bitterleaf soup some months back, now he is telling us how his body is being battered and abused. Is he not the one that throws himself there to be manipulated as a s*x object. S-tupid! Madness in the name of sophistication! I feel for him a bit though as in it won't be easy on him emotionally right now but he is bringing these on himself, he better get a grip and get his essence back too. He seems to have lost a greater part of his dignity to all these and now sounds like clanging metals. He wasn't even happy therein and was getting seriously abused only to heave a sigh of relief now that it's all over.

What a waste of a handsome Igbo man, can you imagine all that sweet gorgeousness of him being wasted when he would have been making some woman somewhere happy. He will rather throw himself down on a bed to be dangerously s*domized by men, a shame to our clan of great looking Igbo men. Abeg this man-lover thing no fit a black man, I don't care who hears that. A black man is such an epitome of masculinity as not to be wallowing in that miry gutter. Ouch, I still feel like vomitting, somebody get me a mint! Serious.