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lagbaja20:
^^^^
Mind your business sweetheart
Ivynwa 08:16:42 AM Viewing nwadelta's profile.

What's the essence of shouting to the world whose profile I viewed dearie??
Dude had a thread on wanting to leave his white wife to try out black chics and I checked it out to see whether he has acted against our advice and done his wish.
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-534600.0.html
There's no need for you to play detective on me, is there?
Now let's leave the thread for our sister to get more advice and consolation from good NLs. May the new year be good for you and us all.

Oh dear, why is he giving up on you having a child or is there a little known problem on your part that has prevented you from making a baby?? If not has it ever occured to you two that he may have a lil problem like low spermatozoa count etc and need to be checked out too for any anomaly to be corrected.
I am sure you are aware of this but in case you are not: Are you sure you two are are trying out for a baby at the perfect time in your cycle which is the ovulation period? I have heard a married woman who didn't know the right time to try out for a child until she got told by a doctor. This thread below is about a couple that was finding it difficult to make a baby until they took the good advice of Nairalanders which is basically good timing.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-147141.32.html

I truly feel for your plight and wonders how you must be feeling now, it's going to be alright okay Baby. Try calming your husband with much love so that you two can try all available option to succeed (if you have more options remaining). If he is insisting on marrying somebody else he shouldn't be unfeeling enough to have you choose for him and what is your sister doing in that picture? Doesn't she feel your pain? Let her know how much you hurt and that you need her to be loyal to you as a family now and not consent to your husband should he approach her.

Who is that Nigerian singer that sang a song about how she became pregnant years into her marriage and just at the throes of the painful period that her husband was about to marry another woman? May God help you as he helped her. Amen

Hey people, sorry about this but too much profanity is beginning to go on here and I have called on the moderator to come and close this thread which was intended for just fun and plain chat up but is being turned into a garbage bin of profanity. Thanks for coming by here to contribute, Merry Xmas and a good new year to you and yours!

Merry Xmas and Happy new year to you Mukina and all in this thread.
Mukina this is to beg that you close this thread of mine below please

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-570836.160.html

My reason for wanting it closed is that it's no more serving its purpose for people to chat and have fun, some individuals are busy there using profane and the dirtiest words of the earth on themselves. A certain unbelievably married woman is running amok therein cursing people in an unheard of manner. I'd rather the thread be closed so that I don't lose my cool on her not that she has any respect remaining as she has sold all of them. Right now she is vomitting things on other people(not even me) on that thread but it's getting to me and some others that a human being can look down on her fellow beings like she does. Just help me close that thread please.

Mr. ghotee you seem very unhappy in your marriage, from your past posts in NL you are not happy that your wife cannot really work a job or show much responsibility at business either, it got compounded by the MIL side of it.  You have really been weighed down by these problems, they are no easy problem for a young man as in having to fend for a family and stuff. It is good that the MIL's part of the problem is being solved, you and your wife need counselling and good communication between the two of you. Have you ever let her know how much you hate that she can't handle business? If you haven't, do let her know she might put more effort into it. You two need to seriously discuss that issue, she need to get her striving spirit on so that she can handle stuffs and be able to take care of her children wherever the wind blows. They did say that no condition is permanent.

queenafric:
Carry gini [/i]on top which head? [i]tufiakwa! nne biko, no be me go carry gift 4 head like market woman. If that is d case, then i reject d offer to be santa, abi na wetin dem call im name? father christmas' wife. Fat, old and miserable santa with im bushy bia bia

Ha-ha-ha-he-he-he I no fit laugh-o-o--o
Don't worry Mr Santy will build you  a house and even buy you Phate07's kind of jeep. Nwunye santa!!
Make some noise somebody, Santa has got himself a wife.

Phate07:

**drives in, in my new Infinity Jeep, and pours stale xmas rice and chicken on thread and drives off.**

MzDarkSkin:
*Grabs the BIGGEST KEY I can find and stares @ the jeep with a sinister smile *

Ivynwa admires the car with Mzdarkskin and quickly makes a mental note to add that in her list of new year resolution. She looks around the thread, hisses at the mess PHATE07 made and gets to work cleaning off the rice and chicken and mopping the thread while singing "God of miracle, na my papa-o-o" just to see whether that God will hurry up and send her own infinity jeep.     

Do you actually mean that moslems bombed churches in Nigeria on Xmas day? Is that really true??
If that is true then Nigeria should hurry up and divide up so that the moslems can do their religion in their own country? How long will people be getting killed in the name of religion and we all write it in the newspaper, talk about it, point fingers and wave it aside. I have had enough of it and hope you have.ENOUGH IS ENOUGH PEOPLE.

@poster
Glad to see somebody thinking almost exactly the way I do. Life will be better and development will be faster for us all if we split up, we are too large to handle. Zoning to me is child's play, it is the direct synonym of tribalism. Divided into smaller 5 or 6 nations, resources and amenities can get to reach people. I pray they realize that before that zoning thing causes a big problem. Let us not be negative anyway because I detest bloodshed in the name of politics and the struggle for power.

MzDarkSkin:
You are speaking everything BUT patois lol.

My Bad sweetheart, I did refuse to unlearn the little English I learnt.
I am yet to understand that kind of chase between you and the sense, it looks like a romantic chase he-he. You go girl!

queenafric:
Santa's wife? thinks for a while well i guess it aint a bad idea, as long as i dont get 2 be d one to deliver the presents to peeps. Wait a min! i could also have most if not all of the presents for myself and u folks out there would have little or nothing.
Well, maybe being Santa's wife isnt going to be a bad idea afterall.

Queeny You are dreaming because you will be the one carrying all of Santa's gift on your head while he goes about sharing them and he will mercifully give out all the gifts away. Poor you!

freecocoa:
Sugar please don't even talk about kay now cos he's busy with dyt inside the room,imagine!they didn't know i'd show face today,but i won't let them spoil ma xmas for me jor.my day is gonna rock. You go girl,i love u,merry xmas.

@Freecocoa
Sorry sweet, I hurried away without reciprocating your Xmas love. Love you too. Come ere, plenty Xmas hugs and kisses to you.     

adamse:
@post, yeah its xmassssss!!!!!. uhhhhhhhhh, haleluyahhhh,glorieeeee, hurrayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy ***voice crack**

@Adamse
That's the spirit Baby, keep the excitement up.

MzDarkSkin:
*grabs D-Sense's shirt as the turns to run*
In an exaggerated Jamaican accents says "A weh YOU CALL MI BWOY? 'witch'?"

@Mzdarkskin
What's wrong with him boy?? He mad or! He drinking rum or!
Somebody tell him that we want no more slackness and that he should keep it to himself
Isn't that how Jamaicans say it,
Dsense I no dey abuse you Ojare

Oh! Poor girlfriend, enjoy your xmas all the same but still pass my message to kay okay. Later

Yeah, freecocoa is here, make some noise! Cocoagirl where is Kay-money? please invite him over. Tell him that I have been asking for his santa pics, don't know where he gets those but we need him to come and decorate the thread for us with it. Merry Xmas girlfriend! I am getting ready to go out and enjoy my  Xmas!


190
Yes sweet, I'm high on santaquin! Sorry, didn't know that you are still lying down there in the snow.

Daduke sorry sweetheart, Cheer up okay, there will be real hugs at your doorstep in the morning when Santa arrives.

Okay Queeny, you can have this very lovely danceable santa song from me only if you will agree to be Santa' wife cause you know what

[size=32pt]SANTA 
            LOOKING
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                                       A
                                            WIFE!!![/size]


Queeny please have mercy on Santa and be his wife he-he-he-he-he-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha 


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Happy keresimesi to u Dayokanu, Idowuogbo, Gator lady. He-he

Oh Baby! Not to worry I have asked Kay money to send down Santa to your end with lots of hugs. The Santa is wearing a green hat, watch out for him!

@Onlytruth
Nnamochie biko what did they say is ailing Nna anyi ukwu Ojukwu?? May God be with him-o-o-o. God please!
Ewo-o-o. Una say make I cry, No I no go cry. I am real excited that Xmas is here and pray God heals Ojukwu for him to celebrate wt his loved ones too.

Merry Xmas to everybody in the house-o-o-o. Yes-o-o-o-o.

Kilo happen?? Kilonshere
Nothing dey happen, nothing dey kpaa.
Merry Xmas everybody!!!

Plenty Christmasy hugs to you Daduke!

queenafric:
Hippppeeee!!!!! It's Xmas! Something good is in d offing and i cant wait.
Merry Xmas everyone

Queeny, you seem to be feeling like I feel: pretty excited!
Is it only in the offing that we have something?? What about the oven?? Are we getting some of that turkey?? We can do with some.

[size=32pt]MERRY
                XMAS
                            EVERYBODY!!!!
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Thanks Yorisb, wishing you same.
Let's get busy, where Sean paul is??
You go boy!

OMG, you have me cracking 190. You are so so incurable Sweetie. Merry Xmas 190

Woooooooooooyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, it's Xmas. Make some noise!!!!!
Let's get excited cause I really am right now, Where my people at Freecocoa, Kay-money, Ranoscky, everybody?
How about we boogie to these piece?? Send us your own piece if you like, Kay money how about you getting us some of those sweet Santa pics and stuffs.  Bubble and shuffle people!!!

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ROSSIKE:
My experience as a Nigerian dealing with foreigners has almost never involved any perceived negative prejudice coming from them on account of news headlines or stories of Nigerian fraud, crime etc.
Some of you who do not interact regularly with foreigners as Nigerians tend to exaggerate those supposedly ''widespread negative perceptions'' about Nigerians.
If you DID mix with people, you'd find that 99% are actually more interested in the positives of the country than the negatives you assume they are all thinking and talking about.
[b]The other day I was in Jamaica, and 99.9% of the people I interacted with were full of respect for my Nigerian nationality. And I mean PALPABLE respect. I wouldn't discount the influence of Nollywood on this, by the way. Over there, almost every home has at least 20 Nollywood films. I know some people there who hold thousands of Nollywood films in their collection.[/b]All foreigners with a bit of brains and exposure KNOW that Nigeria is FAR FAR MORE than the parochial media stereotype.

R-E-P-R-E-S-E-N-T-I-N-G!! Rossike give me some high five there.
Infact let me give you this West Indies song below as a little gift


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Erup
Click My Finger lyrics
[Intro]
Representin'
E to di R. Represent to di worlddd
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[Chorus x2]
Click mi finger gal wanna roll with me yeah
Say dem wanna stroll with me
Girl from all over di world inna di West Indies yeah
Say dem fall in love with me

@Poster
Please note that we are not supporting that you bring in relatives to live with you and your wife endlessly, it can get uncomfortable and make marriages hard through loss of privacy and other interventions, so avoid that too.

If the issue is strictly that of the maid of the house, that attitude of chasing out maid after maid does not tell well of a wife, those maids are the children of other people. If she take them like hers there shouldn't be much problem between them.

Sometimes a problem cannot be solved by adding more problem to it as he is being adviced to bring in his own band of relatives. It is true this method worked brilliantly for Brai777 but that does not mean that it will work for this poster as his wife and MIL are too colluded together for that besides the part that he is not from the same ethnic group as they are seems to be making him unwary of the steps to take that can be mistaken in the culture of his spouse and her family.
What is the main reason why MIL is in the house? Is she sick and is being taken care of by your wife as in some cases that are understandable,if she is and you are still uncomfy with her presence, you can help make arrangement and give financial support for her to be taken care of by your wife's relative outside your home. If she is not sick and have no purpose of staying on for years like that then Christbenogor's advice is a good one, some uncles and elders of both families should be invited over and the matter discussed.

Poster you know the same set of people you paid her bride price to, when you meet them support your claim by asking them whether you paid the brideprice for your MIL too? That it is only your wife you humbly asked them to let you marry. That should help you defeat them hands down sweetie, please go home and make yourself comfortable Ojare, you did not commit any crime in getting married for you to run away from your cosy house.
So na all these wahala people dey see for marriage sef, abeg make I follow dey enjoy myself-o now abeg wetin!

Let's say that that child is that of you and your wife, I'm sure that you two will be putting heads together to find a solution and teach her to respect people. Should the child be sent away because she belongs to somebody else and you two cannot train that child to do right.