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[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=578201.msg7455612#msg7455612 date=1294090532]Damn that some bleeped up cheese you got!
If it was American men or Uk men that married an older woman usually they are younger men marrying older women and most of them are sugar babies. A VERY FEW OF THEM actually love them old hags.
But we are talking about AFRICAN MEN and I don't care how many FUBU and Sean John apparels they wear you can't take AFRICA out of an African man. They will still be some low down sommamishes and the fact she got a buncha children too. Hmm. Hell, African men ain't really going after women with too many children and older women when they don't have sons.
Did I mentioned AFRICAN MEN LOOOOOOVE BOY CHILDREN?[/quote]Attention to all Nairalanders, it is with due respect to everybody that I beg to be given the opportunity to do what I never do and be rude at this point in time because it is high time that this person gets put into her rightful place here.

Mukina and the moderators in charge, it's high time Mrs. Eve or whatever the dirty mouthed lady calls herself get told that we are not going to fold our hands and watch her dish out insults of all kinds both written and unwritten to Nigerians and Africans. Her mouth leaves a disgusting
trail behind, what with all these po*s and pu*nies and every kind of unwritten insults (that even generations past do not know) coming from her every minute. I am not even the only one that has noticed this, other people have complained  as shown in the thread below

Quote by Johndoe
So many people find that lady's use of language offensive. She call us "niggers" and says it is meant to be offensive. Moderators, can we now allow foreigners to call us "niggers"? Do you know how offensive this is?I think a warning to the lady - "Mrs Eve" is in order.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-505782.320.html

I refuse to believe that this person is an American because she is a big disgrace to America, I mean from her language she is lower than any low person that can come out of Africa yet she has the temerity to come to this forum and insult Nigerians and Africans on a daily basis.
How can a lady keep yapping endlessly everyday and 95% of her yaps are insults bikonu? You are married to a Nigerian and you have no atom of respect for your husband's people. You have even boldly told us beating-hands-on-the-chest mannerlike that you have been chased out of the house of other people because of your mouth. If you have no manners we can get you started on Manner 101 in this thread as you are married to our brother, seriously.
Can somebody warn her or better still get her stinking faggotted mouth out of this forum for good. Classless-gutter-people who have no respect for others do not belong here, I hope she got my message. Excuse me out of her gutter e-presence and to think that I ever called her a friend.


@Ilovefred
I am sorry I have to write this here but this person has overdone it for the umpteenth time, I can't stand and watch her talk down on my people everyday.

@Ilovefred
We all want to see you happy especially after your divorce, it's nice you met this man. It is very important that you make sure that he really loves you and is not here for the opportunities you may offer him. Love has a way of getting us all tingly and blind, do be careful that is what most people are trying to tell you for you not to make mistake okay. All in all lots of good people abound in Africa and everywhere.

He seems nice from your description of him but children does matter a lot to people from our culture and you should clear that issue with him and be certain that he can bear with it if you are able or unable to make a child for him in the future and has the maturity to accept for you two to adopt or something.

Mukina and Moderators can something be done about this Mrs. Eve lady that is going about insulting Nigerians and Africans in this forum, if she can't respect us let her leave the forum with her dirty and gutter mouth. She goes about dishing insults out on a daily basis and she brings the worst out of me as I can't stand and watch her denigrate and insult Africans. Nonsense, Excuse me!

If nobody wants to put her on a leech, I made an effort at that in the thread below when I couldn't stand and watch her insult Nigerians and Africans and nobody should edit that out because it is written from somewhere in my heart where patriotism flows from, that person needs to be put into her right senses please.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-578201.64.html

There are people who have contributed to eradicating corruption like Ribadu and Dora. None is perfect but we at least know these ones have conscience. There are thousands unknown Nigerians that can fit into the shoe of the president very well, that they are not making noise all over the place and are not known by all is not enough reason for them not to rule.
I have always thought that Soyinka will make a great president but he seem not to be interested in that and agewise, I don't know whether he has retired or something. Great pips abound in Nigeria, let us stop this mumu zoning thing and find a great person whose heart is open to all tribes to man that seat. I am tired of us going round the circle with the politicians of the past, what can they do for us if not continue the looting where they stopped.
The best is still for Nigeria to be split up into 4 or 5 countries (with one of the countries allocated to moslems alone so that they will happily have themselves to themselves without them having to mingle with christians and getting annoyed to the point of murders at the sight of christians) and  christians themselves can live their lives peacefully while we are it at least the radical extremists moslem ones will get enough space to do that extremist thing to their heart's fill, abi? That way each country can work hard at making a good country out of theirs and resources can reach everybody. I don't even know what I have benefitted from Nigeria as my country apart from our culture that I got imbibed with because everything my parents used to rear me got paid for. Better organised countries are enjoying free education, free health facilities etc and we are all packed and stuck up on one another in one big country that doesn't really care to our needs. What's the sense? Can't see any!

Do we have to keep recycling these same set of people as if we Nigerians do not have able men and even women that can lead us with clean hands. How about when time moves and those generation of politicians are no more around should we live leaderless.

[quote author=Baby_E link=topic=18438.msg7451385#msg7451385 date=1294023836]Love is not obsession,  this "ga-ga" thing sounds so  ,  and this is not in offense to anyone, BUT the same ones that are going gaga turn out to be the ones to bash them in the end if they are not what they expect. If anything is important, love them for who they are and not where they are from.[/quote][quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=18438.msg7451335#msg7451335 date=1294023103]^^and as you saw according to the replies, everyone else begs to differ. Not that there is anything wrong with Nigerian men but we don't go "ga ga" over them. I more so lust after Ghanaian men [/quote]You guys don't have to take these things to heart and too seriously, we are just talking and having fun for goodness sake. Loosen up ladies    Anybody can go gaga for anybody for sure irrespective of the person's origin. This is just a forum for chit chat and that's just it, no big deal girls.

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Nnaa do you really mean that you want to be a Jamaican so f*reaki*g bad? Dining with Oprah and the queen. You go boy, work it, work it!

Her not calling isn't enough reason to dump her, she may not be calling because she doesn't see the sense in calling when you will always call for you two to chat. It can also mean other things and the only way you can find out is to let her know how much it hurts that she doesn't call you, she may not be aware that you are not finding it funny so let her know just like you've let us know and find out for yourself why she wasn't calling.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=578211.msg7451086#msg7451086 date=1294015354]^^pls. dont mention ishiddy4body and me on the same thread abeg. [/quote]

@Poster
Sweetheart, we seem to be musing alike, I came up with the thread below 2 weeks ago after noticing that trend in which some west Indies ladies are tripping for Nigerian men. What a coincidence.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-570836.0.html

190:
[color=deeppink]((shaking head No-No-Noo-- Although myself,cock and mobo meant to build a snow man but mobo messed up))[/color]

What a great NL trio, I bet you three can make the world's greatest Snow man 

190
Happy new year to you my baby, how are you doing? Hope you still don't run around in the snows?

Congrats to Odunnu and Mrbrownjay, it's beautiful that you invest your precious time in improving people that are in ugly situations. May God invest a lot in you two, Amen, Amen.

190:
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check out last year's election which was like war with platimunk winning it and i comin second
not this, [/color]

190 Baby you mean you actually came that close to winning--(huh) why didn't they make you get lucky? Not to worry I ma vote for you this year okay Baby.

Yes, I  haven't seen her for ages now and I miss the traffic jam she has a way of causing wt her great body and great mouth. Somebody tell her I miss her and can't wait to have her back as I happen to be her number one fan.

I think the best way the good muslims can make the extremist ones stop is to form a peaceful unit and send out a high sounding message that if they continue to rub mud on you guys religion that you guys will have to let go of the muslim religion (I am not encouraging that you leave your religion.If christians stoop as low as these extremists are doing, I will choose to worship God on my own in the secrecy of my bedroom, once I can get sweet praise and worship songs in youtubes and read my bible).
I am sure that if they realize that their actions are putting others to shame and making the good ones want to lose their faith they will come to their senses and want to stop, they love the religion with passion and won't like to be the cause of others breaking away from it.
When did we all wake up and lose sweet peace, tolerance and unity in the name of religion. God please come heal our world!

I think the best way the good muslims can make the extremist ones stop is to form a peaceful unit and send out a high sounding message that if they continue to rub mud on you guys religion that you guys will have to let go of the muslim religion (I am not encouraging that you leave your religion. If christians stoop as low as these extremists are doing, I will choose to worship God on my own in the secrecy of my bedroom once I can get sweet praise and worship songs in youtubes and read my bible).
I am sure that if they realize that their actions are putting others to shame and making the good ones want to lose their faith they will come to their senses and want to stop, they love the religion with passion and won't like to be the cause of others breaking away from it.
When did we all wake up and lose sweet peace, tolerance and unity in the name of religion. God please come heal our world!

Everybody make some noise for Dayokanu, hip hip hip hurray. Ivynwa claps and claps

Hey! Everybody make some noise for chaircover. Hip hip hip hurray!
wedding boutique + marriage counselling = the hottest business in town
We wish you success madam.
Mukina,nike4luv this year you will have to include my Mutter-o-o okay baby. You go girls!
That's what great women do, build the people around them and the society at large. Keep making some noise somebody! Ivynwa claps and claps  Wishing us all a great great year!

I am now convinced that Jonathan is not fit to be the president of Nigeria, he is too quiet for that post. That post needs an active person that knows when to rise to occasions. Please can somebody give me the contacts address to the UN and all other bodies. I need to spread the message that fire is burning in Nigeria and that the rest of the world can come to our help.
See what is happening and they are minding another country like Ivory coast and are talking of sending soldiers when people have been roasted here by idiots. If not for God, today I would have ceased to belong to any religion. What Religion, if doing religion means burning people then I don't want to be part of that religion madness. If not for God who I love very much.

I am truly disgusted at this stupidness.

You really mean that those burnt humans are Nigerians burnt by muslim extremists, somebody tell me that that picture is not real. The religious conflict in Nigeria has passed that stage of talking about it in Nl, reading about it in Yahoo and listening to it in CNN. The time has come for solution, those burnt persons can be your brothers, sisters or mine.

What wickedness and inhumanity is going on in Nigeria, why will a certain people cling to other people they detest and are killing and want to be one country with them all because of some liquid oil? What Nigeria? We are all a piece of joke that call ourselves one. Something should be done now or the day christians arise there will be calamity and we may have millions dead.

Are we going to keep quiet till that time comes, what is that Jonathan man and his govt doing, they are all more interested in perpetuating their power and people are being roasted like meat. DISGUSTING!!!!!!

The topic of this thread is for us all to chat and have fun as in that girlfriends and Paddies way of chatting, laughing and giving themselves high fives. If anyone noticed at the beginning of the thread I was just catching my fun and pulling Eve's leg just to make her laugh and for all to be happy. I am surprised that things got out of hand this way.
I truly respected everyone's opinion whether it sounded positive or negative. No one should take these to heart and allow others to draw them out of themselves over nothing as unimportant as this. In my heart I am free minded and believe that people fall for whoever they like depending on what attracts them, that I brought up this thread after coming across people tripping for their Nigerian men does not mean that Nigerian men are better than everybody in this world.
If I come across a Non Nigerian man that I love, I won't mind going gaga for him in spite of the the fact that I like my country and my people so let's not take things to heart and hurt ourselves with strong undignified words. We are only chilling, having fun and learning here.

It is interesting to see that some of them assumed that black people are the one that lives in ghettos, sell drugs, have children out of wedlock, and failing schoos.  The same group of oppressees putting the oppressors in a higher pedestal and then turn to seek God for favors.  Unbelievable.

I hate that we arrived at this point in this thread, things have really got out of hand here. Let us love not remember the old, open age-old wounds and hurt our brothers and sisters please.
Guys please respect yourselves, nobody should get angry with Eve again please I am begging. Eve please don't feel bad anymore okay sweetheart.
Eku bear, it's enough. Leave the argument alone, for the sake of our black heroes and our black brothers that suffered in the past let us respect that Africanness and brotherhood that we have in common.

I am beginning to think that this is just a case of a good but coarse husband that has some edges that needs smoothening which is becoming hard for the poster to smoothen.
  Some Nigerian men are that coarse and it's left for a woman to lovingly smoothen such out. I give it up to Naija men that they are homely, responsible, make good husbands, are studs in bed as being testified by some non-Nigerian ladies but some are guilty of taking their women for granted and being overbearing on a woman all in the name of wanting to make their position as the head of the house felt. A non-Nigerian woman friend has once also complained to me about her man lacking such finesse as to order that his food be brought to him instead of nicely asking and not showing appreciation for the efforts she makes to make him happy like doing his laundry, chores etc. Such attitudes make women feel unappreciated, cheap and worthless. Some Nigerian women acommodate that and find no problem with such abrasiveness as the culture here has taught women that respect includes bearing with such things in marriage but foreigners and Nigerians that grew up abroad do not find that funny at all.

  There is also this craze in Nigerians abroad to make piles of money with which to build houses, ride good cars to show off and be appreciated. Some add much pressure on themselves in the bid to acquire that money and if that money is not forthcoming, he becomes frustrated. It's natural for one to want or worry over having money to provide one's basic needs and even luxuries but we shouldn't overdo things and put pressure on ourselves to be very rich at the expense of the joy of the family life.
  Poster you don't have to get tired of smoothening him out and say that you are tired of your marriage, keep up the good work he will come around. Remember to always do that lovingly lest you meet roadblocks and stubborness from him if you don't pass your message across good enough which has been the case already. Persevere dear, it's going to be alright.

The attendant replied, "First they put you an electric chair for an hour and then they lay you on a bed of nails for another hour. The Nigerians devil then comes in and whips you for the rest of the day". Bewildered, the man retorted, "But that is the same type of hell that other nations have but they do not have long queue in front of them". At that point, one of the men on the queue pulled him aside and said, "People are rushing to the Nigerian hell because there is never electricity so the electric chair does not work. The nails were paid for but were never supplied by the contractor so the bed is very comfortable to sleep on and the Nigerian devil used to be a civil servant so he comes in, signs in and goes back home for other business." Need I say more. Merry Xmas everyone and prosperous New Year.

Wooooooyyyyyyyyyyyyyiiiiiiii
Give it up to Oyingboju Ivynwa claps and claps
That joke was sweet, it funnily shows that there are good at the other side of the coin of the hardship in Naija. May God help us eradicate poverty and hardship in Naija Amen-o-o-o
Happy New year to you friend Oyingboju, remember me? Are you still angry with me for having Mukina take off those your pictures

@Eku bear
It's okay, we shouldn't encourage this to go on and on. Both Africa and America are great nations that the heroes past have sacrificed their sweats, labour and toil to make great. I love Black Americans very much. I fell in love with them after reading Martin Luther's speech in Ebony some extracts which I use to even hang on my walls in my hostel room in school. I love their striving spirit and the fact that they underwent a lot and are turning out great after going through the worst things that humans can do to their fellow humans which is tear them away from their country and loved ones forever. Africa on the other hand is a great continent, I love it endlessly even with the incessant stupid political and religious killings that make me want to go crazy. It is a continent that has been through a lot and is still toiling to develop up like everybody else. It's not fair for anybody to bring Africa down one bit or even the people there in.
We children of nowadays that are reaping the fruit of these liberty won by our fore fathers shouldn't get on advanced technology pieces like the laptops like some spoilt children and insult ourselves and tarnish the good names those great people won for us all.

@Mrs Eve
I shouldn't be too hard on you sweetheart, I was almost forgetting that you are our wife but you almost overdid it and that got to me really. You don't have to let some male get to you and make you say stuffs. I have told you that before. Take care of yourself okay Baby.

Mukina please I just couldn't hold it any more and lost that my cool on that my girlfriend as she went on using undignifying things on people, please hurry up and help me close that thread.

Mrs Eve
   I did beg the moderators to hurry up and come close this thread because I refused to lose my cool over you but you went on calling people the unprintables and saying so many disgusting, snobbish and undignifying things and I just lost that my cool but I will be careful and not stoop to your level.
I honestly can't believe that any human being that grew up in the noble states of America can display all these gutter attitudes that you are busy displaying here. I really doubt that you are American as somebody mentioned. Did you say that you are really a married woman? It's hard to believe from what is coming out of your mouth and you had the temerity to announce to us that you have been chased out of people's house because of your mouth, OMG! I hope I am not incurring your wrath by losing my cool because I don't want that mouth being transferred to me. How can you spend much time like this in bringing people down and talking endlessly when 80% of what you say is to tear people. Get a grip, women are builders not destroyers.
   You are my great friend, remember and I hate that this is spoiling our friendship but you are only my friend as long as you act sweet, nice and considerate to people, we lost that friendship when you started doing the opposite of that. Some weeks back that I talked you into editing out a certain post in another thread, I was trying to save you from being insulted by Nairalanders for saying something that snobbish to another person little did I know that you are in the habit of doing that. Please, please get a grip sweetie, you are overdoing things.

Where is mukina, please come and help close this thread so that this madness can stop. What is this??

@Poster
As Rhea said, good advices have been proferred to you. Nairaland is wonderful (the good and the bad, yet lots of the good) when it comes to helping a situation. In my opinion all you have complained of here suggested that your heart is screaming for communication and more communication, understanding and more understanding. It seems that you are unable to convey to your husband the desires and longings crouching somewhere in the inner crannies of your heart. You did a good job of sharing them with us from all your narrations and I am sure that if you do better jobs of letting your husband understand these feelings that you managed to put in a great way in this forum that he will be touched enough to want to get out of his comfort zone and see to your happiness too.

Have him in a relaxed and romantic environ and tell him that you love him very much and wishes to work hand in hand with him to fully utilize the great potentials of the love you two are capable of instead of making do with just a little bit and unsatisfactory percentage of it. There are great infos online on how you can turn things around in your marriage. I love cosmopolitan(cosmo is wonderful, believe me!), redbook and all their advice and I searched for a little info that will do you good and got this for you

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/How-to-Stay-Hot-for-Each-Other?click=main_sr     (the introduction)
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/How-to-Stay-Hot-for-Each-Other-2
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/How-to-Stay-Hot-for-Each-Other-3
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/How-to-Stay-Hot-for-Each-Other-4

A million dollar worth of good info on marriage are in the web, you can search for them and get through to your man as well as spice up your marriage to an unbelievable new leaf and out of the rut your adventurous heart is begging to be freed from. You have the power to make it brand new, I believe. USE IT!

@Newmi
Your double and triple postings resulted from your clicking the "Reply" button more than once when you are posting a comment. Simply avoid that and your posts won't be replicating itself okay.

Ghotee whatever you do don't be hard on that your wife, she might have erred and made mistakes but we are all human. You need to be correcting her in love, if she is using "Sirs" in her sentences for you that means that she respects you much in as much as she seems distant from the gulf this problem created for you guys, it still takes respect for one to use that title for others.
  Your baby lost weight, thank God nothing worse happened, you realize now that you must never leave your family to run away from a problem though you must be credited with having acted with some diplomacy here.
Remember that MIL will always be your MIL and when things cool off you have to work on having a good cordial relationship with her as that have been spoilt by the overfamiliarization and her inconsiderate overstay in your house. Wishing you and your wife a new year of new found love and happiness. You go boy!

I wasn't doing that.
The detective should be the one watching the clicks of all. How about that? Now we ain't throwing words sweetie, are we? Hope your Xmas was nice? Goodnight!