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ARUN-NGO you have to watch it because the next thing that randy man may plan to do is to find a way to abort that child against that lady's wish either by drugging her or by secretly planning with a doctor.
I feel like getting angry with you but I shouldn't, you seem a bit biased here from your comments so far. Thanks for your good efforts so far for the troubled lady but your organisation are not as close to her as you guys should be. You seem to be helping from an uncomfortable distance, if anything happens to her, don't be surprised when you and your organisation gets blamed for it. I am beginning to think that you guys ain't handling this properly, see whether there are more that you guys can do to ensure the safety of this girl from her state of mind and from randy and his family. She is not very safe right now.

Nnaa I am at work and can't really chat up like that, perhaps in the evening when I get home we can chat in yahoo messenger okay Baby.

I am good my brother, now what's wrong with getting excited when I see my brothers?? Hope you are alright?

Ivynwa:
Evy so after all these denial you still hit the nail on the head, so you are even one of our wives who got gaga-ed to the point of marriage with a Nigerian man and there you are singing "they ain't nobody special". [b]Now go ahead and tell me that your husband isn't a fabulous man, isn't very homely and down-to-earth, isn't responsible and that there isn't just that thing about him that you can't place that makes you love him much.
Go ahead and tell me girlfriend cause right now I have you in my trap and you ain' t wriggling away. No way Baby girl.  [/b]Don't forget to buy some goodies this xmas to come and greet us (I mean pay special obeisance to us the daughters, the adas, the umuokpu's) if you understand what I mean. Ask your husband and he will explain to you the traditions that nobody messes with the umuokpu's-o-o-o so we are waiting for your gifts and thing. Smile!

Mrs. Eve quit acting like you didn't understand my question, that is my question above girlfriend.

Ranoscky:
Naija men rules the world.

Ikedonn:
@ poster
I agreed with you.Nigerian men are the best compared to other african men.Atleast i have seen it over and over.

oniema:
@Ivynwa what a nice post this is but i bet to differ a bit, did you know that every man have their own wonderful character that others lack so respect be given to every man from African continent else some pple will start having swollen head lol

H-E-E-Y-Y-I! Ikedonn, Ranoscky and Oniema are here, Make some Noise somebody!
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[quote author=Mr Cork# link=topic=570836.msg7372507#msg7372507 date=1292839050]****hmmm. no wonder women always gaga over me ****[/quote]Ouch Corky Baby is here, Oh my God!
Let's make some noise all the same! Ivynwa claps
Corky, did you say that they gaga over you too. How wonderful!

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=570836.msg7370740#msg7370740 date=1292811321]Uhmmm, what else do you call a Nigerian? Are there other names I don't know nothing about?
Me calling my husband Nigerian still doesn't negate the fact that Nigerian men are no better than other African men nor American men.
I don't think non-Nigerian women wake up going I got to get me a Nigerian oooooh lawdy! Let me hunt for me a Nigerian. [/quote]Ha-ha-ha Naughty girl! You still haven't answered my question, don't try wriggling out of it cos I ain't letting you off the hook 

jmaine:
so this is it eh ! And you were busy throwing formats in your replies. ladies and this their die hard methodology of "don't let them know what you thinking". Am sure the guy is a real Man pocket wise and otherwise such as Strength and gusto if you know what i mean

Jmaine
Don't mind her one bit!

[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=570836.msg7370271#msg7370271 date=1292804469]Not this Non Nigerian girl. I like them as friends but not in a relationship. Bad experiences has made me gun shy. I did not find the ones i knew to be responsible at all. Very child like!![/quote]Girlfriend don't deny that time in the past that he was rocking your world. Deny it let me hear you! Lol

[quote author=Ochi_Agha link=topic=570836.msg7370403#msg7370403 date=1292805800]I get the best of both worlds, with my Naija swag and my Black American outlook.[/quote]I think you came close to pin pointing it out brother, is it in the Nigerian swag? Is there something like that in you guys dictionary? I am trying to place it but can't yet.

D-sense not in this age and time when 1/3 of Nigerian women are contributing (while some even carry their family alone) immensely to the upkeep of their families. Time has changed brother!

What is it with us women and shopping I mean where does that exhilarating feeling that goes with shopping spring from?? Can that feeling be the "endorphins"(the feel-good body chemical/peptides) in action?? I noticed it when I was in the university, it's always excitement each time Popsie gives out a little "going-back-to-school" money and the shopping begins. It's a sweet feeling to be buying stuffs for oneself, a girlfriend's sister then loves to shop so much that she ends up giving out a greater part of it out and while we were about graduating she kept saying that she can't wait to travel to the US where she will work 2 jobs so as to have enough money to shop till she drops. Lol
    Christmas is here and I noticed that women shop the most, buying off every wearables that are hanging in boutiques and shops and if you are a boutique owner dare play the nicest music while we are it and the feelings will be out of this world, nodding your head, humming and even stepping unconsciously to good beats while doing the shopping, boy that is so sweet! It's one of the best feelings around. why do women like shopping very much,anybody?

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=570836.msg7368325#msg7368325 date=1292783844]When I say black I am referring to Black American and I have always called African men in USA by their country of origin. For example, if they are from Ghana I would say Ghanian American or Black. I always say my husband is Nigerian although he is Nigerian American.[/quote]Evy so after all these denial you still hit the nail on the head, so you are even one of our wives who got gaga-ed to the point of marriage with a Nigerian man and there you are singing "they ain't nobody special". Now go ahead and tell me that your husband isn't a fabulous man, isn't very homely and down-to-earth, isn't responsible and that there isn't just that thing about him that you can't place that makes you love him much.
Go ahead and tell me girlfriend cause right now I have you in my trap and you ain' t wriggling away. No way Baby girl. 

Don't forget to buy some goodies this xmas to come and greet us (I mean pay special obeisance to us the daughters, the adas, the umuokpu's) if you understand what I mean. Ask your husband and he will explain to you the traditions that nobody messes with the umuokpu's-o-o-o so we are waiting for your gifts and thing. Smile!

queenafric:
U mean u will prefer quadruplets? That is like overstretching one's body o! Moreover, be sure to always be running after the kids up and down everytime. That will surely be too damn stressful. Well, if it is your heart's desire, so shall it be.

Not really, I heard that it poses a risk to have lots at a time but I will gladly accept a healthy bunch of four if God grants me that. I think that 2 or at most 3 at a time won't be bad,  Don't worry about having to run after them, I like those kiddies' adventures and excitements. I bet the ladies going thru that will be like "Wait till you get there and see for yourself".

favouredjb:
I claim twins too in jesus name amen!

Be it done to you according to your words! 

[quote author=bashy_demy link=topic=17627.msg7367865#msg7367865 date=1292776736]I will use the bolded up there to nail you, why will Xtains take a fellow human being as God[/quote]They don't, it seems you were misinformed. I don't do argument and it is generating into one here.
I respect people and their choice of religion, all I do is tell you that our God is good and how much you are losing out not believing in him and wish that you can develop a relationship with him. That is all I did and that's all I am wishing now. Take care of you okay Baby.

We are not warring here sweethearts, we are only sharing and discussing in love. I don't do religious arguments but what beats me right now is why a human being will take his fellow human as God. God is spirit and his worshippers worship him in spirit and in truth. Not with bows and arrows and wars and all what nots. God is a God of love not of wars and defeat. Let us love ourselves inspite of our religious differences and not hate because others do not believe alike with us. That way we can live in harmony in Nigeria.

[quote author=bashy_demy link=topic=17627.msg7367614#msg7367614 date=1292773531]^^ i believe you have a PC there or are you at the cafe? if not then go to google and make some search for the most influential man in the world even Jesus is number 3[/quote]Influential huh Jesus would rather be poor that we may be rich, such is the extent of his love. The one to whom heaven and earth belongs to does not need the riches of the world in order to get validated by mere humans he moulded with his hands. He-he.
Riches, influences are all but vanity dear. The clay can never ask the potter "How good are you really at your work?" or "How much goodies have you even got?".

Sweetnecta:
@Ivynwa: « #45 on: Today at 08:43:13 PM »My sister, Kedu. I know igbo people who reverted to Islam. 2 people like that I have met on Nairaland. The case of christianity to me, when they claim what they claim, I look hard at what they present. Anyone will realize that 3 cant be 1. 1 cant be 3, especially when in each situation each of the entity is a whole. 
Whoever wishes to end up in Hell, there is nothing anyone can do to persuade him/her against such destination. Look at Fir'awn of the time of Musa (AS). With all the miracles, his heart was hard as a stone. Finally he pursued Musa and the people with him and he got drowned. I am not a shepherd of anyone, but first myself, then my family, then my community and those I am in contact with. Hell fire burns and consumes everything. Paradise is real, too. Your choice.

Sweetnecta my brother, thanks for asking how I am faring. I am doing okay and hope you are. We all have the right to choose what to believe in but you are really missing out on the beautiful relationship one can have with the Lord like these worshippers in these songs below are having a beautiful time in the presence of God. Check it out for me.
Such experience fills and feeds one spirit whole the way food takes away physical hunger. You truly don't know what you are missing sweetie.

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Carolece:
To whom it may concern
I dont come here for likes, I dont care who wants to like me. I could say the same about you, but I dont know you, to tell the truth, first time I'm even seeing your user name.

Whoops!!
Sorry dearie, it's a pity that you are just noticing that this is not the first time I have mentioned wishing for a good Nigerian man for you. I have come across your touching posts about some distastefulness you have on the attitude of some men and I knew that a good Nigerian man will be good for you. Now I gotta run before you get angry with me.

I ain't giving you no special attention really, just feels for you after reading abt that betrayal by your loved one. It just gladdens my heart to see a foreigner chilling here and feeling at home with my people. That is all there is to it, do take care and go on and have fun.

Carolece:
Your point is not taken by yours truly. If you see there's a problem and you aint doing nothing bout it when you have all powers then shut the hell up. With thirty plus posts on the forum, how better do you think you are to those who make those threads you hate to read?
SHUT THE HELL UP OR MAKE A DIFFERENCE!!

Don't I like this Carolece lady especially how at home she seems to be in this forum, please people help me I am trying to find a good Naija husband for our Carolece.

queenafric:
I want them more than u do. Well, since u are a twin yourself, then there is the possibility of u having twins. I pray u have 4 set of twins. Can i hear u say a big amen .

Amen-o-o my sister but 4 sets of twins means 8 or even more . Nne that one dey too much-o-o.
Or do you mean quadruplets??
If I have quadruplets that will a big blessing, that means it's only one pregnancy I will have to go thru in my life and close that chapter and begin enjoying being a mum. That will be very wonderful! I wish you sets of twins too, to your heart's fill.

aletheia:
Someone is getting more frantic!
@Olaadegbu: Dear brother, please keep the videos coming. There are many Muslims who are silently reading and making their choices.
Hallelujah! Jesus is Lord

Frantic is the perfect word for it here but that someone does not realize that we have soldiers of the cross like Mr. Oladegbu. The armies of God sacrificing and giving their best for the children of God.

Carogirl, are you asking me or you are stylishly affirming that because the the way I see you catching your fun and socializing here, you can't say that you don't like Nigerians----lol

Yeah I am beginning to wonder what it is that makes non-Nigerian women go gaga over Nigerian men. A girlfriend of mine invited this non-nigerian lady to lime with us last night and while we were chilling in a club and getting to know ourselves she was tripping how much she loves her Nigerian men, counting how many Nigerian men she has dated for me and even revealing that she had a child with a Nigerian guy. Her reasons for liking Naija men is that they are fantastic in bedmatics (no be me talk am o-o-o), homely and responsible. According to her, her Nigerian Baby's father has returned to Nigeria yet he still cares very much for his daughter even across the Ocean, paying her school fees and taking care of her needs (their child attends one of the best schools). Her present b/f is also a Nigerian and you need to see how she was endlessly telling me how much she loves and loves him very much.
    I also have this 51 year old girlfriend (she really looks 37, believe me) that lives in my street who is crazy about Nigerian men and everything Nigerian, when she broke up with her 32 year Nigerian boyfriend she cried and cried, called me every minute of the day to cry on my shoulder. Kept on lamenting "how she loves him" and "So I will not travel to Nigeria again?". When her heartbreak subsided she found herself a church being pastored by a Nigerian pastor just to be around Nigerians and perhaps get another Nigerian boyfriend too. She can't stop telling me how she wants a next Nigerian man and I am wishing that she gets married to one because that woman will make an excellent wife (she is homely and real domesticated). She recently persuaded me that we will both travel down to Nigeria and when I replied that she should save up money for the ticket and hotel bills, she was like that she is not staying in no hotel but in the village----lol.
     All in all, I appreciate Nigerian men much too (I remember saying so in the thread below), I just wonder what this craze is all about What do you think may be the reasons??

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-474286.0.html

Afshin's testimony is wonderful, Glory to God! Such testimonies affirms to one again and again that God is a good God. God bless you OLADEGBU and others that are building the faiths of others.

queenafric:
Oh my God! I love and want twins . Im happy for her.

Now don't get me started. You don't want them more than me dear, I am even one and also have brothers that are. Can't wait for my own bunch of them! He-he

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=569879.msg7352558#msg7352558 date=1292563428]Hmmm, I have a feeling she had IVF. A lot of celebs use IVF. Why do you think there's so many celebrities with twins? [/quote]Whatever works for anybody sweetheart! If wealth can enable one have any material thing like good cars and houses, it's not a bad thing when the wealth is employed to have the number of children one wants at one's heart fill. The only thing that is not really good about the IVF is the issue of having to exterminate some embryos. If doctors can engineer a way around avoiding that then that is not a bad way to help women having problems in getting pregnant.

What Madness is that? Are they not tired of shaming us all in this our African continent, always mumu-mumu political news of foolish killings. Your fellow human that you are out there fighting and dying for him to get on a throne is still alive to enjoy his throne and its goodies while the silly fighters are buried deep under the ground.

Blazay:
Nigeria is next.
Atiku is right.

That is not our portion, we reject that!

Are we allowed to peep in??
Sorry if we are not, I just wish to wish Googles a belated Happy Birthday too.
More blessed and prosperous years to you dear.

Nick Cannon could not contain his joy anymore when he joyfully let out the secret that he and Mariah Carey are expecting twins!
Wooooooooooyyyyyyyyyyiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!
Ain't we happy for them Make some noise somebody!!! Ivynwa claps and claps and claps
May she get though her pregnancy successfully to the time they will behold their babies and rejoice, Amen. We can as well have her sweet heart-warming music spice up our evening as we listen to these my 3 favs of hers.

It's a long road when you face the world alone
No one reaches out a hand for you to hold
You can find love
If you search within your self
And the emptiness you feel will disappear 
And then the hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And then know you can survive---

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You'll always be a part of me
I'm part of you indefinitely
Boy, don't you know you can't escape me
Ooh darling, cause you'll always be my Baby
And we'll linger on and on---

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I wanna know what love is
I want you to show me
I wanna feel what love is
I know you can show me
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To read more on how excited Nick Cannon is tripping all over the place, click on the link below
http://new.music.yahoo.com/blogs/stopthepresses/338881/nick-cannon-mariah-carey-and-i-are-expecting-twins/

It is not right that you remain in a position that can make you vulnerable to falling into temptation of any kind so you have to sit down and think of a way out of the situation. It is not fair to work for no pay. I remember working a lil job with a classmate when we graduated and were jobhunting, it got to a point we were paid no salary and my classmate got angry and resigned, I decided to hold on and be patient and at the end of the day regretted it because I still ended with no pay. When I finally decided to leave the job, our employer cunningly tried to make me keep working for nothing by threatening that he will pay me nothing for the times I stayed if I leave and I damned him and his threat and walked away from the office and the job and went and chilled by the bar beach that day to exhale and think straight for a way forward for me.
Check out for other job openings and at the same time put more effort into your present job to see whether you can make a headway and generate commission. Some jobs that one benefits from the commissions always have a little basic salary that goes with it and can help the worker maintain her/himself, not providing such for a worker is not humane at all. Take care of yourself and don't allow the situation overwhelm you, survival is one of the reasons we all work in the first place.

My friend use the brain that God gave you and remove that amount that you are shouting to the world that you have in your account, I am tired of people shouting here in Nairaland that they have so so and so money and asking how to invest. I am not trying to be rude, I am trying to say that you can seek advice without announcing how much you have. You know why I am a bit concerned?? Because i will hate to see you fall prey to scammers and evil youths that are prowling Nairaland looking for who to dupe off their money, some of them will hit here the minute I leave this thread and want to contact you and talk business when they actually mean no business and are only planning to get you close and take your money, such can even kill to cover up their connection to you so you are exposing yourself to danger. I shouldn't waste my time and energy, just be careful who you are talking to, who you are going to meet and who you finally invest with. If possible delete that amount so that you will at least attract less 419ners. I'm out.