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According to reports, the single lady explained to Shonibare’s wife that she was only dating her husband and their relationship was not for marriage because she had her own children.

sinaj:
He said that he is even ready to go and pay people who would stand as his parents if need be

This is the part I dnt support.

You dont have to blank them out of your life just because they not always right. I believe op has uncles/elders dat can talk to his parents or represent them if need be.
Never let anybody or issue tear your family apart.

sinaj:
You will only get to knw the importance of parental blessing/consent when u start facing challenges in ur marriage.

I love a lady with all my heart. She loves me back too

We have been through thick and thin. I have even enquired from God Almighty if I should go ahead and wife her and I got an affirmative reply.

Now my mum and dad does not like her because of her tribe or whatever reason they have

And you SINAJ is saying I need to beg them to like her because I need parental blessings??

You are making it look like our parents are always right

wisestman:
Nice line but you ruined it with the .....You are a better christian than me....there is no comparison in the body of Christ, its like a glass cup comparing itself to a glass bottle when both are made of glass. She has Christ and so do you. that's what makes both of you Christians, abi is the Christ in her better than the Christ in you? its high time Christians stopped all this unnecessary comparison.

jnfoage:
If you have anything to offer, the US will naturalise you and give you their passport. But I strongly doubt you have anything to offer apart from becoming a liability to them. Note, US doesn't need non American liabilities.

Spokesman for the White House

Your advice has been noted. Thanks