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I watched a video that states. You don't get married because you're in love. You get married because you're willing and able to to provide an enabling ground for your kids to grow in love. If you're willing to put yourself second and ready to make the necessary sacrifice for such, then marriage is for you. If you're getting into it for the sole purpose of enjoyment or pleasure. It's most likely going to fail or won't last the taste of time.

Men like them. The difference is Men rather rent them than keep them forever. You get the point now. 😆 🤣

Uber business, thankfully I own my car which has just 2.0 litre engine. One of the best decisions i made was not to sell the little car for an upgrade. And now it is helping me more than any one could. I average about 12km for 1 litre and maybe more on the high way. Any day I drive I generate atleast 10k and at most 20k if i get an airport trip I use 5k -10k top back the little fuel, feed 2k and save 3k-5k. Depending on how the day turns out. No wife and kids yet. And no gal frnd for now. Once I find my feet, I will look for a working class lady and marry. I drive 8-10 hours in 4-5 days out of 7 days in a week . This is how I have been surviving.

And what is wrong with this apartment? What is wrong with starting small? This house is even bigger than what some people rent in UK. Everyone just want made men. That's why some of you are clocking 30+ without a husband. You can't even afford a fridge yet you want a man that is staying in a 2 bedroom furnished apartment. Onye oshhi

lilkech:
Honda beat Toyota any day anytime in their sedan category. You can’t compare vvti to ivtec.

Put Camry 2000 vs accord 2000 side by side
Camry 2003 vs accord 2003
Camry 2008 vs accord 2008
Camry 2013 vs accord 2013
Camry 2018 vs accord 2018

My brother if you can remove our Nigerian fear of fuel consumption and ball joint wahala accord kills Camry every time in aesthetics, handling, premium feel, engine power e.t.c

The resale value is just happening only in Nigeria as we are more used to Toyota because our trusted mechanics love them

So, why should you remove those wahala when they are very important. You're rushing to catch a flight, your leg pulls. Honda is cheap luxury.

jayred:
Never say never when it comes to issues of love, you can't speak for billions of singles guys all over the world. If she has a good character and all the attributes a single guy desires who says he can't marry her. Her mental health and happiness is more important than her desperation to be with a man,afterall it is not compulsory he remarried, with all the red flags that is so obvious, it is better she gives it a critical thought than make a decision she will regret in the future.

A single mother of 1 can easily re marry as long as she has good virtues, value or her own money. With 2 children, even the man's family will not agree. Let's be realistic. When in such condition, you should also be looking at a single Dad.

See finish

You need to also acknowledge the fact that you're a single mother of two. How many tall men with money will want to make you thier first wife? Or are you thinking of a single tall father to marry? Life is all about sacrifices. You can never have it all.

Saving to invest has no disadvantage. Savings helps you take advantage of opportunity. A distress sale of a good car, House, land or asset or even start up business. No matter how little. Save.

I can't remember the last time I used Ac

Enjoy the fruit of your conji. Lol

brainbox34:
May 2023 - full tank 15k
June 2023 - full tank 45k
July 2023 - full tank 55k

Same car, same fuel, same country…

And normally, full tank takes you for a week. Maximum 10 days. Now, imagine buying fuel 200k+ in a month. What a country.

It's not how much you earn but how much you spend. UK STUDENTS EARN ABOUT 1200 POUNDS(1.2M NAIRA) and spend about 1100 pounds on rent, feeding and utilities. So you can see. Your problem is that you live above your means. Which is one of the biggest problems in Nigeria. Someone who earns 450k feels he should rent a house where ppl who earn 10m monthly have thier personal house.
Meanwhile, feeding, utilities, transportation and other expenses might take up to 300k in a month. Then, you're left with little or nothing for your house rent, emergency fund or mortgage.

Since you're a fresh graduate. Think of a skill that can pay you even when you're 40, 60 or 80. IT skills, Security or CCTv installation, Don't learn gas filling, you can do driving part time. Put, the skill you will aquire ahead of temporary gain. Think long term. And don't go for any skill that involves manual labor. Except, you can employ non graduates.

Take the skill you will learn very serious. It might be your saving grace. Right now, only few job can pay you the right amount needed to live comfortably in Nigeria. Without experience and connections.

Do what you can to save up and buy your machine. You will be more committed to it. Prostitution isn't lucrative either. Is that even a career? Can you compete with the 20 year olds in the street? It's not a permanent solution. You can even expand your fashion business and be relevant even upto 70 years. Will you be relevant with Prostitution at 30+ Men don't care about you once you start aging. They, will look for a younger gal.

You can't. Tell your boss you can't work full time. Highest 2 times a day. While your search for a better opportunity.

Lagos even pays better. Do you know the kind of job you have to do in Abuja to earn 150k? Yet, you can bearly see a room and palor for 500k.
Bro, cut your coat according to your size. With steady 150k, you can save atleast 50k every month. As long as you avoid olosho and broke galfriends.

There's no comparison to this. A typical Nigerian lady will choose the generous womaniser. Women are loyal to thier needs. As long as you're giving, they will flock around you. If you like cheat and marry 100000. More will want you. Ask OBO and 2Baba

[quote author=QuinModah post=124166489][/quote]You wrote a lot without saying anything

PAQ:
I owned a 2012 Corolla, travelled monthly to kaduna from Abuja for 2 yrs, it is not as heavy on the ground as a Camry but it certainly aint no bicycle, except you are a speed-demon. wetin you go come call 206, piccanto or yaris? A 2013 Corolla may not be a rocket but its a very good, problem free ride, to me its even better looking than a Camry and alot more reliable, the interior is better than that peeling interior of a Camry (Muzzle).

@OP if you need space, speed, peeling interior then go for the Camry. But if you want a compact, reliable, slightly slower quieter ride with better looks (subjective) then go for the 2013 Corolla S.

No mind all these Corolla yabbers, many dont understand the joy of going to the mechanic only for servicing and general maintenance.

If you travel frequently. Long distance. Camry is your best bet. Highway driving Camry is more balanced. Spacious and have better handling
and crash test. The Corrola is meant for community driving, more reliable, smart, fuel economy.

mirinder:
have you fùcked them 30 yr olds

Best at the game. But, thier body ain't tight like the 20s

So what happens to all this my crush weyy don turn 33

Worriedwife:
Business people find it hard to refund money that has entered their pockets. Keep collecting barbecue fish until ur money is complete

E be like u don chop person money like this...lol

You ppl saying you live in poverty when you move out. You that is in your in father's house, are you rich? Any young man at 30+ still in his father's house is most likely due to financial constraints. Other factors are health conditions or lack of balls. Even students below 25 years are doing online jobs, making skits to pay rent this days. Don't pressure yourself, but also tell yourself the mudafkn truth.

omolola100:
To me I don't think there is age limit to leave your parents house..
What about guys that live in there parents house after getting married.
I'm 25, and I still live with my mother, getting an apartment for myself will create more problem for me and it may hinder me from getting married...
I will have to wait till God answers my prayer and will move to live with my husband

At 25, you might not have the opportunity to live. Considering the economy and school age. But, at 30, 5 years from now, you should be thinking about it. Plan it. If you cross 35 still at home, you're mostly likely going to be there even after marriage. You will take some shit.

Sniper101:
Even if na true sef, na poverty at home na e make am run commot from e papa house at age 17

If everywhere stew for his family, wetin wan make pikin of 17yr leave e papa house go outside go begin hustle?

Some of you are just stupid and truly adult children. Many sports men and entertainment guys left thier home early and still contribute to the family more. If you're still not mature enough to live alone. Stay at home, be a baby. Adulthood isn't easy after all. The day you wake up, that's the day your morning starts.

360clips:
he's a small boy na. Doesn't know anything.

Fools at 40. Google is your friend

Kobojunkie:
Look, moving out it something some do while others don't. Pretending it has to be done in order to obtain success is to be unaware of reality as it really exists. No law says one must move out, nor is there a cultural mandate that one move out no matter what. It is all for good reason as it lets individuals decide when it is best for each to leave if it is a desire.

So, a 50-year-old staying back breaks no law and so should not be looked down on, particularly by the ignorant masses.

Google is your frnd.

360clips:
oh! So it's all about vagina women and how to impress them. What a slowpoke. What about doing of all these for yourself and personal achievement. Instead of doing all these bullshit you posted up there for women. They wouldn't still like you! To tell you the truth, your foolish wife never loved you and never will! Just did it to escape poverty.

Go and wash plate make mommy give you food....40 years old man

Chronicwanker:
Greetings everyone. I've had this on my thighs and under my scrotum for a while now and I've tried to get rid of it but it's still there. Please who knows what it is and how can I truly get rid of it because I'm worried.

I bath twice a day and I don't wear a boxer for more than 12 hours. I shave regularly too so I'm confused.

The skin area is white and sometimes falls off when I scratch it, but the marks are there and the whiteness still.

Treat The water you drink and the water you bath with

Kobojunkie:
Look, moving out it something some do while others don't. Pretending it has to be done in order to obtain success is to be unaware of reality as it really exists. No law says one must move out, nor is there a cultural mandate that one move out no matter what. It is all for good reason as it lets individuals decide when it is best for each to leave if it is a desire.

So, a 50-year-old staying back breaks no law and so should not be looked down on, particularly by the ignorant masses.

Kudos

Kobojunkie:
There is absolutely no truth to any of what you just said. The zeal to succeed has nothing to do with zeal to succeed as it is quite possible to succeed from wherever you find yourself, it instead depends on what it is you are looking to succeed at.

Sitting at home does not mean family problem will overwhelm you. And meeting like minds has to do with networking with people not living with said people. So, let's stop confusing things in order to justify that which can't sanely work in all cases. If you work in a company for example, among all those who you think are doing well, you will find those still living with their parents and those struggling to find a decent place to live. There are so many business owners today who started their company right in their parent's home. Some eventually moved out while others simply moved the business alone out of the house.

Do what suits you. Maybe you should move out at 50