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Nackzy:
Omo i don see shege banza i am the eldest and poorest, good abeg ooo, the fight we had few days ago was that my mum respect them more than me, na today my papa settle the fight

This is common in African homes. They start to make decisions without involving you. My advice to you is detach yourself and contribute from far. Humans are wird

SmartyPants:
Okay I get, but to me these places are just the same as living in Nassarrawa/Niger/Kogi and a one bedroom in Bwari or Kuje can't be 500 - 800k. The finest one bedroom in Bwari won't go for more than 450 so I was wondering why you said 500 - 800 and where that could possibly be.

Bwari might be cheaper.
But, In kuje, Abacha road, Deidei. If you get standard 1 bed with POp and two toilets for 500k it will be too far from the main road . This places thier prices increased as city rent increased. Thier standard has increased to 500k, some 600k. Infact in Abacha road now it's 700k for a standard 1bed

SmartyPants:
Are you talking about Nassarrawa? The federal capital territory is not so large like that na. Anywhere one hour away one is already approaching Kogi, Nassarrawa or Niger depending on the direction.

It means you haven't travelled round the 6 Area council in Abj. Some part of Nasarawa like Maraba, masaka, abacha road is even closer to Abj Town than many parts of Abj like

Deidei
Kuje
Gwagwalada
Abaji
Bwari
Orozo
Karshi
Theses places are up to.1 hour drive to CBD

Talk to him. Except there are other reasons. This shouldn't be a cause for an alarm. Is he usually aggressive when angry? How can football club cost him a relationship?

flokii:
A corper blowing 2.5m on house rent for 1 year alone isn't a nice idea in my own opinion.. he'll definitely want to stay back for a while after his service year so he needs to spend wisely.
Some of these rich kids born with silver spoon in their mouth have money to throw round sha.. some na Bentley or Ferrari dem dey carry go camp and PPA.

Maybe him papa get get money like Adeleke. Most of them don't know what to do with money

2024 Anything Baby Mama should end

dauntless15:
What about someone relocating because he wants to change environment, mind you the person doesn't have 2.5 mil for rent like the lying op, how much to get a decent one bedroom outside all the high brow areas.

800k-1.2m ... if you wish to go further away from town, like 1 hour drive away. it drops to 500k-800k

With your budget of 2.5m you can afford many places in town except Maitama. Look out for Utako and Wuye. These places are closer to wuse 2 and has better route to the airport.

African mom will not reject the gift. She will rather scold him later.

Blacklion3:
Blord is a reaper

He rips people of both giftcards and bitcoin

They don't know

If you don't see a future with gal, it's a waste of money taking her out. Lol.

Relationship is a two way traffic. It should be what are you giving your lover this Christmas? Girl frnd give , boyfriend gives. Not one sided.

Poorverty go make you think say flight nah achievement...

whysquare4real:
This your statement just summed all the reason why one should japa. I own a car and 3 houses before I lost my job but now I can't pay my bills. I have 2 Degrees but to finish an MSc now is a big problem because of financial issues. I think with this your assertion, I have made up my mind to sell my properties and japa. It's better to be a slave in another man's country than to be useless in your own country.

You own 3 houses and a car.
Sorry to say, Japa is not for you.
Except you are not going to sell those houses
What is your age?
Can you do menial jobs abroad?
What is your career prospects?
Can't you lease your 3 houses and rent a small one or lease atlest 2 houses.
You're way better than many ppl abroad.
Think about this before you travel.
The ppl I'm who should be thinking of japa are those who don't earn much and have no asset.
You can convert your 3 houses to asset. Don't rush to sell your house, you might never have the money to buy it back in future. Think. Abroad mostly favours young adults building your thier life from scratch not established adults.

If someone is proud enough to cheat on you. You should move on Asap

Free2Fly:
Just shut up, these annoying underage GenZ kids.

You obviously don't know what marriage is all about.

If the man is already around/above 45yrs, he should keep being patient, right?

Then, when he reaches 50 or above, the yeye wife will become ready, and the man will be suffering in his old age to train his kids?

Or is it woman that will train them??

You lack wisdom, knowledge and empathy. Between the two who should be more worried about age? What if she dies trying to bear the new child? If her mind isn't made up, thier might be complications or even death.

Nicepoker:
Run DNA for the first 2 kids

Hahaha u are bad Shild😆 🤣 😂 😹

Be patient, it's her body. Untill she's ready

Skywise group has one of the best brand new cars in Abuja. Thier cars are super clean. You need to visit them at Garki or Maitama

Your life Your way. But, from what I have learnt about life. Don't wait untill you figure everything out. Planners never get as much done like doers

Sadly A 200k salary cannot give you a good family life, except you live alone. Transportation and feeding alone will take 100k if you eat mama put and enter along along.

Barrywilly:
This is not a bad salary considering the fact that Assistant Lecturership is meant for a fresh graduate with good grade like first class or 2.1. Are you saying 125k is too small for a fresh graduate to start life with? It is not too bad if not renewed shege induced inflation

So, the fresh graduate won't pay for house rent?

This demolition is affecting houses for rent. Imagine self con now 500k in many places in Abj

The rich keeps marrying the rich. And this makes them retain wealth. Daddy Freeze get point ohh.

Survival is a personal race. If you have passed 30 years, I'm sure you must have had some sort of depression. Blaming someone else for your death is your loss. Fight for your happiness, get money, find a good partner, get a good job or business, fight, don't end your life because of someone else. Who die nah e loose. Fight, stay strong. 💪

Adi eji anya oma aga uka white ( Them no dey use clear eyes go white garment church) lol

Luckysbab:
This is the core of the matter. Many of the modern day emergency "feminists" are just toxic fellows with the mentality of "men are the problem".


Point them to organizations that are truly about empowering women and looking out for their wellbeing, they will rather focus on online squabbles and drama that barely does anything to help the cause of women.

Even to the men, feminism is a confusing word. Ppl only make remarks to it, when it is to their benefit.

They don't. That's why it's called smart money

Nigerian Feminists don't even understand feminism untill it's time to share equal responsibility.... Feminism was brought up to end women molestation and abuse. But, many ppl don't understand it

This laws should target politicians

9/10 ofe mmanu youths are into fraud. Argue with your key pad

brain54:
Bro the model might not be bad...


Maybe a batch!

Tesla just recalled almost all its sedan in US
BMW has one of tge highest recall
07 Camry had major recall over oil burn due to bad o ring in the engine Combusion system
There lots of recalls.