rotimioluwamuyi: I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her..... How can I handle this matter?
Just control yourself and think you never know whether your wife wants to put you for a test be careful.
Nothing special about the airport. I would have been impressed if Anambra State government got the FGN to use its own money to build a classy airport not this cowshed. Akwa Ibom is quietly building a proper airport without taking half of the their politicians to see it unlike the boastful Obiano.
See Victor Attah International Airport and MMA2 below. This is what airport is supposed to look like.
I'm not from Anambra but what Obiano has done with the airport have never been done in Nigeria 'I stand to be corrected" But he has succeeded in building an airport from start to finish under 18 months I know it's not yet finished, but the way the project is going he will do it under 18 months. As Victor Attah International Airport, Akwa Ibom state is not building an airport they are building an airport terminial on an already built airport, and as for the federal government direct them to Enugu airport to finish the project that was started in October 22, 1976 LOL.
Ofodirinwa: Hopefully they demolish that 'hero's park' as soon as possible. If Uzodinmma can do it, he'll have my faith for that alone, if not him I'm anticipating the next governor. If we are to have a hero's park, lets have a real hero's park, not a collection of money laundering allies for Rochas Okorocha. We are celebrating Jacob Zuma and Buhari with a statue next to Ojukwu, Azikiwe, and other titans of our history.
Destroying taxpayer's money is uncalled for, I understand Rochas' vision when he put up that project and many others like it. What I will like to see is for the government of the day to improve on it make that place world-class, and remove people like Buhari, Zuma, and anyone that is not an Igbo I want that place to be for Igbo Heros. Owerri as a city is taking shape as a tourist and entertainment city and as such needs a lot of attractions things to visit when in the city that was Rochas vision just that he makes a caricature of his visions by being a substandard governor. Another thing I will suggest for Uzodinma to do with a matter of urgency build a world-class recreational park with the empty land where the Akachi is situated Owerri need it with all the hotels and nowhere to visit will make the city boring.
Bogus001: I pray and hope it's completed and commission ending April biko..
No, let them not rush for commissioning, please I'm not from Anambra but I am an Igbo man who believes and supports any infrastructural projects in any part of our Igboland, I don't want it to be like any other Nigeria projects where they will rush and commission and six months down the line it will not put in use because work will still be going on. Let them take their time cross their t's and dot there i's whatever worth doing is worth doing well.
Ammishaddai: How did the South-east become like this?
It is a rusted bomb from the civil war, southeastern have been living with it from the end of the war till date just that Nigerians don't care people have been losing their life and body parts from the unexploded bomb from the war. The news of the bomb is the consequences of the Nigerian government abandoning the agreement after the war (The three Rs). Any news from the southeast nowadays is always amplified without investigation.
Orubebe01: Let's assume that you were made the president of this country, how would tackle the insecurity that is plaguing the nation at the moment.
There will be short term and long term plan Short term 1-Allow all communities in the country to form volunteer vigilante groups to protect themselves and make sure that they work with the police. Policing is local for effective policing communities must be involved. 2-Decentralize the police force and allow all the states to manage policing according to their need. 3-Transfer all the police personals to their respective states then if the number of personals is small the states can recruit the numbers they need. 4-Increase the law enforcement pay and give every state 10 billion Naira for equipment. The morale of our law enforcement is low so a little pay increase will go a long way. 5-Combine the Army, Airforce, Custom, and the Navy to take over our borders. 6-Make sure there is a synergy between all the law enforcement agencies from the Army, Airforce, Navy, Police, DSS, Custom, Civil defense, and the vigilantes.
Long Term 1-Reviving the economy 2-Tackling unemployment 3-Digitalizing the vital records in the country 4-Restructure Nigeria 5-Conduct Censuses
British named them Burma. They rejected it, restructured & renamed themselves Myanmar.
-British named them Upper Volta, but they rejected it, restructured and renamed themselves Burkina Faso - Land of Incorruptible People.
-British named them Gold Coast, they rejected it, restructured and renamed themselves Ghana.
-British named them Southern Rhodesia. They rejected it, restructured and renamed themselves Zimbabwe.
-British named them Northern Rhodesia. They rejected it, restructured and renamed themselves Zambia.
-British named them Tanganyika. They rejected it, restructured & renamed themselves Tanzania.
-Germans named them colony of South West Africa. They rejected it, restructured and renamed themselves Namibia.
-France named them Dahomey. They rejected it, restructured and renamed themselves Benin.
-Belgium named them Zaire. However, they rejected it, restructured & renamed themselves Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC).
-Britain named a bunch of people - Nigeria. They rather kill to preserve it than restructure and give themselves a befitting new name.
"It is only an animal that bears the name that is given to it by his enemy"* (Proverb).
THE FUTILITY OF PRESERVING NIGERIA
My angry reaction earlier today on APC UK platform:
Most of the Diasporans here living in Europe. Can you show me one multi-ethnic state in Europe where one group is positioned to dominate the rest that hasn't broken up?
For those who do not know, what you call ethnic groups in Nigeria are called nations in Europe.
There's nowhere in the world where the white man accepts domination from another white man in perpetuity.
It used to be so under the Roman empire and the like. Not anymore. The Communists tried it, dividing society into capitalists and proletariats, deluding themselves that ethnicity is effectively swept under the carpet, but what followed? The Communist edifices in Czechoslovakia, Yugoslavia, and the big brother, USSR, all collapsed, while the two Germans that are ethnically the same but split by communism vs capitalism were reunited. Such is the power of ethnic nationalism.
Czechoslovakia was made up of two ethnic groups, the Czech and the Slovakians. Both separated peacefully on 1st January 1993. The former is today 10.6 million people and the latter 5.4 million. Added together, they're not up to Lagos. Yet, they split for peace. Two masters can't be in the same house.
Yugoslavia in 1991 was 23.2 million, barely more than Lagos population. It broke into six countries same year - all along ethnic lines, namely: Bosnia and Herzegovina, Croatia, Macedonia, Montenegro, Serbia, and Slovenia.
Then the big brother, USSR. It had, at least, the following ethnic groups identified by their languages:
Regional languages:
Ukrainian
Belarusian
Uzbek
Kazakh
Georgian
Azerbaijani
Lithuanian
Moldavian
Latvian
Kyrgyz
Tajik
Armenian
Turkmen
Estonian
Minority languages:
Abkhaz
Bashkir
Buryat
Chechen
Finnish
Volga German
Korean
Ossetian
Tatar
& various others.
Today, your fingers will not be enough to count the number of countries that have emerged from the USSR.
Sit down there and be preaching unity in Nigeria as if you're the kindest gentleman on earth while you have no solution to the genocide in Southern Kaduna, the illegal but officially condoned arms in the hands of killer herdsmen roaming the country, and be condemning those better informed about the fact that the country is undergoing the strains of a forced union and should be peacefully restructured or let people go their separate ways.
In Europe, the two best examples of fairly stable multi-ethnic states are the UK and Switzerland. The former is led by reasonable men who permitted regional autonomy to the Irish, the Scots and the Welsh, while the English dominate Westminster. That's something some of us are asking for, but you're fighting against it in your own country wracked by ethnic crisis. Your own people are better off under oppression of fellow black men because your people have bad leaders who can't do better than their new internal colonisers.
The latter country, Switzerland, has four ethnic groups. Each of them rotates the presidency annually through seven cantons that constitute the federation units. All the four languages of the four ethnic groups are recognized as official languages and school languages to boot, namely: German, French, Italian, and Romansch that has just a few thousand speakers!
There's nowhere in the world where the Caucasians allow the domination of their group by another.
In Canada, Quebec is the only full French-speaking province, aside from a little section of New Brunswick. The other seven provinces are English-speaking. Yet, Canada is bilingual for the sake of Quebec! And each of the provinces is largely self-governing.
Here we are in Nigeria, you have people arguing vehemently that a decrepit, structurally flawed, and crisis-prone artificial contraption badly configured by the British only needs good people to survive. Why not centralize the powers of the British regions to London and see what happens?
My Conclusion:
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Nice one lecture, but Nigerians are deaf and Nigeria is full of educated illiterates who are in love with their oppressors.
kettykin: The federal Government should just disband the present police force , which is actually the most useless police in the world and constitute another police force, while the Soldiers particularly the non commissioned soldiers would all be retired and given their retirement benefits depending on the Number of years they have served , a new Police and Military should be constituted and the present milita that has produced stupid useless rogues should be disbanded
The federal government have refused to decentralize the police force because they want to control the architecture of policing in Nigeria my solution is that let the federal government continue until we can get an administration that will have the political will to decentralize the police but till then let every police officers be transferred to their state of origin in that way at least the officers will police their own. Look I know my suggestion will not in any way eliminate the problems of policing in the country but it will solve some of the problems because achieving effective policing, familiarity is the key when you understand the area, the people, language, and culture it makes it easy in policing.
Aconomist: With a GDP per capita of $5,000 (according to the Financial Times) Lagos is almost as wealthy as South Africa on a per person basis. But foreign visitors to the city are often stunned by the subhuman conditions in the sprawling metropolis. The private sector is doing its part to remedy the situation -- pushing the cities skyline higher with multi-million dollar skyscrapers such as the Famfa Oil Tower, the Cuddle and Number 4 Bourdillon.
But even the most prestigious districts of Lagos -- Ikoyi, Lekki, and Victoria Island -- still looks like underdeveloped. Why?
The streets are simply too narrow for this level of density. This gives these elite areas a sense claustrophobia that no number of beautiful skyscrapers can improve. The first image is Bourdillon in Ikoyi. The second image is a similar street in Shanghai, China The wide streets in the Asian city allow for a smooth flow of traffic and make the area look wealthier and more developed -- even if you removed the skyscrapers.
It looks like a slum because 70% of Lagos are slum sentiment apart.
Omooba77: Chief Timipre Sylva, Minister of State for Petroleum Resources, says that President Muhammadu Buhari has the political will to ensure that over 120million Nigerians are dragged out of energy poverty.
Sylva disclosed this at the Pre-summit conference of the Decade of Gas, in Abuja, on Monday.
He said that President Muhammadu Buhari’s administration would ensure that the country‘s vast natural gas resources are taken advantage of to encourage industrialisation.
“if you remember, the economic plan of this administration revolves around the utilisation of natural gas.
“The four key areas are Energy Security, Transportation, Manufacturing and Industrialisation.
” The common denominator is the natural gas, as it is the major fuel to power generation, transportation and key ingredients for manufacturing fertilizer for agriculture.
“I can assure you that President Muhammadu Buhari has the political will to surmount the challenges to continue on the pursuit to transform Nigeria as a gas nation,” he said
According to him, natural gas is also needed in the petrochemicals for manufacturing, adding that it is no longer acceptable that in spite of the huge deposit of gas, the gap in power supply and demand is still huge in the country.
“We must deal with energy poverty in this country.
“We must find a way to unlock the natural gas potential of this nation and drag over 120 million of our people out of energy poverty,” he added.
He said that the aim of the summit was to achieve a robust roadmap that would drive the utilisation of gas in the country, using it for economic growth and development.
In his remarks, the Group Managing Director of the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporations ( NNPC) Malam Mele Kyari, said the Pre-Summit Conference is coming at the most crucial time, as the world transits to cleaner energy.
He said that Nigeria was set to play a strategic role in this New World Energy Order.
“Technology and Innovation is facilitating a new energy transition aimed at de-carbonising the world and safeguarding the climate.
“But renewable energy sources of solar and wind, a key component of the new energy mix are influenced by seasons and are non-transportable to demand centres that are short of wind or sun.
“A transition fuel is therefore necessary and clearly unavoidable,” he said.
Also read: FG sets below $10pb production cost target for oil industry He added that Nigeria under the visionary leadership of President Buhari had committed huge resources to ensure that domestic gas infrastructure reaches every corner of the country, to deepen natural gas utilisation.
This, he said would also spur investment in power and gas-based industries, grow the economy and generate employment for millions of our young people.
“All this is at the backdrop of the fact we are a gas nation with over 203 tcf of proven gas reserves and potentially over 600tcf.
“Our effort at monetising the huge gas resources has been modest but clearly spurred to a higher level by numerous policy and industry interventions since 2016 culminating in the declaration of the year 2020 as the year of gas and now progressing with the decade of gas from the year 2021,” he added
Kyari said that several strategic projects had been delivered by NNPC and her partners to deepen the delivery of gas into the domestic market and elevate the build-up of greater potentials for export.
“The completion of the ELPS II, commission of the OB3 Lot 2, the NPDC Oredo gas handling facility, the SEEPCO gas processing plant can be easily cited even without the mention of the ongoing strategic backbone infrastructure delivery projects as the AKK pipeline.
“Others are the OB3 final hook-up, the Nigeria-Morroco pipeline and several other gas-based industries initiatives.
“All this will herald the sunset of gas revolution in our country within the Decade of Gas,” he added.
The News Agency of Nigeria ( NAN) reports that President Buhari, who declared the summit open virtually, urged stakeholders to join efforts to ensure full utilisation of huge gas deposit in the country for economic development.
Please if I may ask how many years has Buhari been in office, in 6 years he did not lift even one million Nigerians out of poverty is it in two years he lifts 120 million how with a magic wand? A president who for six years couldn't equip or built a hospital that he and his families can go and have a routine check-up, please are we missing something why is that a failed administration continued to promise what they can never achieve.
CobraAnambra: A certain man from the east did too much of a damage to the entire country for destroying regionalism which gave each region a sense of identity. His name, Aguiyi Ironsi.
-cobra
People like you always believed Aguiyi Ironsi destroyed regionalism in Nigeria but in reality that was not true, yes the aim of the coup was to do so, but he did not successfully accomplish that because the regions were fully in place and functioning before he was killed. Gowon as a matter of fact has 2000% power through a decree to continue with regionalism after the counter-coup and Emeka Odumegwu-Ojukwu gave Gowon another alternative to do so through the Aburi Accord in 1967 but he went and created states instead, thereby dismantling regional government. Immediately Yakubu Gowon created the 12 states that when the regions were buried.
cjrane: Completion of the Terminal building is being pursued vigorously!
Looks like the exterior of the building will be finished with both glass claddings and the same type of marble tiles used on the exterior of the control tower.
All the laudable projects by some of our eastern governors are really making me happy, but I wish our people and leaders will take trees, grasses, and flower planting as a priority and policy and stop building open drainages. Believe me, the east would have been the best region in Nigeria in terms of beauty we have fine houses. Just take Onitsha for instance, close your eyes and imagine if it is clean with trees and flowers lined all over the streets tell me why it will not compete with Abuja or even better.
Why is it that these people think we are fools, why will people make an allegation that is laughable, 322 cows they are now needles, It is in failed Nation that criminals will have the audacity to write the law enforcement for protection. Trespassing someone else property without permission is a criminal offense in Nigeria and destruction of other people's properties is also a criminal offense and I don't know why or how some people are allowed to go free. 100% of herdsmen who are not ranching have committed a crime of trespass or destruction of property (farmland) that is the truth.
Let them continue to deceive themselves. Na their families go suffer.
If Nigerian abroad truelly send 29 billion dollars, we wont be in any dollars crises even if the price of oil falls.
In 2019, Nigeria oil revenue was $64.9 billion, so this people abroad are telling us that they send almost half of the country's oil revenue. What a joke.
Infact oil and agriculture are the bulk of Nigeria's revenue, not diaspora remittance.
Ignorance they say is a disease don't be the joke because you lack the knowledge.
Rossikk: Shut up and research before typing ignorant garbage.
Japan and the other nations I posted above have narrow gauge rail as their standard, meaning they build the railways to the narrow gauge specifications till today.
So your point is utterly baseless, Mr Tribalistic spear chucker.
And no, the FG is NOT ''replacing narrow gauges in NW & SW with standard gauges''.
That's just something you pulled out of your stinky bum.
They are building standard gauge lines ONLY on new railroads - where there were no lines before. Where there were narrow gauge lines, those lines are being rehabilitated.
Always calling people illiterates and tribalistic is it necessary, you think you are educated? Japan you are using as your example have been using highspeed rail for almost 60 years and now want to switch airborne Maglev trains that can reach speeds of up to 603 kilometers and we are here arguing about 16th-century technology
OreMI22: The Unity Park is a fantastic and exclusive idea of developing world class relaxation areas in Enugu to boost tourism.
No matter how we feel about the Governor, he must be commended for putting this great idea to reality. I hope they find a way to add children swing area and a good way to fill up those artificial ponds to add the added beauty of boat sailing in the park for children. I hope the government will finally contract the management of the park out to a private firm who will make sure the toilets are washed and clean, will probably sink a bore hole or a well there to ensure toilets are flushed and water is always in the artificial lake. Also, if they air-condition the conference room inside the roaring lion, it could easily be rented out for meetings or even small parties etc.
I hope they contract out the management of the park to a private company that pays a fixed rate every month to the state government similar to the management of the Port Harcourt pleasure park. The company will maintain the park in a pristine state, and improve the facilities specific facilities named in the contract in the park. A gate fee of N500 naira for adults and free for children less than 10 years will be reasonable if they install those fun outdoor activities for children.
If the unity park is carefully developed and fun activities especially for children are introduced in a secluded part of the park, it has a huge potential of becoming a major tourist attraction and huge source of revenue for the state.
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Nigerians watch the lawsuit will be swept under the carpet when the evidence and names involved start coming out, there is something in the cupboard and the lawsuit is just a front.
Rossikk: You are a lying DEVIL. They are NOT replacing any narrow gauge with standard gauge anywhere in Nigeria.
All the new standard gauge lines are being built where there were no lines before.
Where there were old narrow gauge lines before, those lines are being rehabilitated.
That's how it's being done - Rehabilitating all the narrow gauge lines, while building new, standard gauge where no lines existed prior.
But a satanic mindset like yours that is bent on hate and prejudice will never seek to learn the truth.
After all the truth means you cannot hate, and what is your life without hate? It's meaningless.
Nothing like hate, but please I can be corrected but please can you name the old narrow-gauge line that has been rehabilitated don't mention the Apapa wharf because it is from Mobolaji Johnson Station, Ebute Metta, to Apapa Port.
Or11: Mumu tenant, nothing wrong with this. What do you want Nairalanders to do? Give you a free house?
Sorry but there was something wrong with it the date of the vacation, you cannot have lessees that will end on August the 31st, and wanting a tenant to vacate on the 8th no court will allow that the only way will be if the landlord refunds the 23 days rent.
sagitariusbaby: but it does connect all the Eastern State capitals, you guys can never be satisfied nor pleased. I still don't like Buhari though
Satisfied you said, They are replacing the old narrow gauge in other regions with standard gauge rail and they are rehabilitating old outdated narrow gauge for the east, and we all will be paying the loan borrowed from China one Nigeria my foot. (Lagos--Ibadan--Kano standard gauge/Abuja--Kaduna standard gauge/Katsina--Niger Republic standard gauge/Itakpe-Ajaokuta-Warri standard gauge) Please who is fooling who?
Resurrection212: My name is ifeanyi Jonathan. I was born and raised in orlu imo state...Before I go forward let me warn those Anambra internet rats that always talking trash on every issues that not matter to them.And again your inferiority complex is drastically affecting the rest of igbo.
An Anambra man think he more igbo than Abian man or Abaliki man.This mentality continue dominating among Anambra man which is very wrong.And that's why our region lack leadership.
Yesterday on my way to work the bus I entered have some Yoruba people on board I met these guys discussion national issues they said many things about Tinubu presidential ambition this is Where i know Yoruba people love Tinubu and if the man decided to contest in 2023 he might win the election. Upon talking many things I just maintain my silent.
It got to a stage where one among them started talking about shahasa riot the guy started praising his fellow Yoruba people for stood against Hausa impunity in Yoruba land. Another guy started talking that they don't need Hausa people again that Hausa and fulani should vacate the region the other one said including igbo too as well.
The guy started talking that he was surprised to see igbo people Laughing at Yoruba for fulani laid siege on the region and igbo Mocking them because Hausa people stopped supply foods to the region.
That statement got my attention i told him igbo can't support Hausa over Yoruba people I asked him to tell me where he see igbo support Hausa. The guy said i should go to. Nairaland and see what igbo spewing there...I just keep quite pretending as if I don't know Nairaland because truly I am seeing what my fellow igbo are doing here. But I was able to Convinced the guy that he shouldn't use what he seen on Nairaland to justify igbo hatred against Yoruba people.
Today I want to appeal to Yoruba's people to continue their good deeds irrespective of what is going on Yoruba people are the most tolerant and accommodator in Nigeria. The most uunique, intelligent and dynamic tribe.
Ifeanyi Jonathan where in Orlu do you come from? we will also want to know your kindred too.
Is it his money? Why will he prove to you otherwise, right now this project is the only road project in the whole of Nigeria that the Federal Government is building or built that will be tolled in other words the money will be paid back by the majority of southeastern that is the honest truth. Bridges like the third mainland and the Benue river bridge that will connect Benue and Nassarawa that is near completion have no tolls but we cannot hear words about the second Niger bridge.
Bornu1stSon: One nigaria my son "Ola" Tell your brothers to be good boys and never bite the hand that feed and rule them.
Next time we are going to starve you people to your bones. I hope I made sense.
Please I will love to see it continue when the north think they are teaching the south a lesson not knowing they are about to kill their regional economy, Farmers of onion are already caring that a bag of onion the used to sale in the south for 35K is now 7K you ask yourself who is really losing. Acting without think is called stupidity
Iegendhero: Why is it being broadcasted on Lagos air is the main issue here Ojuku.
I’m not as dumb as Kanu so yes I understand what I’m saying.
For God's sake, why are some Nigerians so dumb. It is a radio signal people are debating as if their lives depend on it, the signal is not taking any resources from nobody if you don't want to listen don't tune in, Nnamdi Kanu doesn't know whether you tuned in or not.
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