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dominique:
About N23,000. kingolaola will clarify better once he comes online.

I sent you a pm, do you get nairaland pm?

Replied

That's reasonable

I will wait for him to clarify

What hospital is she @ and where?

How much is each chemo session?

Matthewbriggs:
You guys hired AKPMD I guess their services was for free abi. Swerve Jo.

So you are telling me APC does not have a PR team. Are you telling me that this PR team are not been paid for their services. It seems you lot do not get the point.

Your PR team made a stupid mistake to even allow him beg in the first place that is if he did in the first place.

Rule of thumb for any organization is to recruit and poach top talent when ever you see them.

You guys were really stupid. That's just the point. All this he begged for money BS is very lame.

Wake up to the reality that you all made a bad HR decision.

Oga, what percentage of the electorate will make their decisions based on what they read on nairaland?
Why would any serious politician waste his/her efforts to garner votes that will be inconsequential in the wider scheme of things?
The best they could have done is paid adverts on NL which they've already done, not sit around all they typing rebuttals.

I absolutely do not believe anyone is being paid to post on Nairaland.

GenBloodykilIer:
Then STFU from this thread or Thunder will fire your ancestors there

Why are you so abusive?
Na wa oooo

Phew

You really need to relax bro...

where do you even get the time to be associating and disassociating willy nilly. Most of you folks really need to get busy in ya real lives.

Anyone with hope for Nigerian should know our common enemies are the politicians irrespective of their political party

make i begin start to dey save so i can get me one

I think it's worth pursuing considering the fact that engineering graduates are always in demand.
However, i wouldn't spend all the 6M to acquire an education when there really isn't a guaranteed ROI.

Dude A
1) There is nothing wrong with him being unsure about taking that big step with you but there is everything wrong in him continuing the relationship when there is an element of doubt on his own part
2) There is a very high possibility that he already has an alternative hence the reason why some sort of doubt has suddenly manifested in him
3) The fact that he is certain about wanting to marry this year but yet unsure on commitment suggests he may never commit to you. When exactly does he now plan to engage you and probably court you?


Dude B
1) He is just an admirer who fancies you but doesn't really know you
2) He is almost certainly clouded by his infatuation cos how else does one think about marrying someone they barely know


The key question here is why are you in a haste to get married?

Fucking ridiculous really!

This exactly the reason why these politicians are able to become demigods when most electorates stand for NOTHING and are usually far more concerned about what's in it for them rather than the entity itself.

Zero integrity and selfishness that stinks to high heavens

Is that his primary responsibility?

Dyt:
Oh well there are lots with those badass feature
Infact it makes me shiver

Oya carry me go there sharpish

Dyt:
U know they have km kissable and grabable lips

I'm only interested in ikebes and bobby

Dyt:
Pronking n beennkumar even if the pic is blury
Oh my days

Ashawo ni ehhhhhh

voltron:
Childish but there is some truth there.. why make a life-changing decision on the basis of a possibly 2-month relationship after a 1 year dumping.. Planned Parenting is not illegal in the UK.. it can be done up to 52-weeks of pregnancy.

He goofed by not settling differences before jumping into bed with her again
It also doesn't make any sense for him to play idiotic tests when he could express how he truly feels to the lady in question then gauge her reaction.
At the end of the day we could easily conclude her decision at the time was down to peer pressure or better still immaturity.

cocolacec:
op i will advise you to test her again with the news that your Company might retrench some workers because of global meltdown .After some months pretend as if you lost your job and see how her attitude will be, to be sure she wants you and not your Money .Please never allow the innocent unborn Child suffer no matter what happens.

Childish and plain idiotic

This is the reason why most people have issues in their relationship

The OP should just discuss his worries with the girl.
He should ensure she contributes to the upkeep of the household as that will make her feel involved and in turn appreciate him the more

He loves her and we simply can't help who we fall in love with

He is also potentially going to have a baby in a few months time so it's not the time to make irrational decisions

Chuksgeo:
Guy except the money doesn't stop flowing she will treat you same way someday except she has truly repented as in given her life to christ. By the way why have sex before marriage now you are thinking it's because she's preggy for you that you should marry her, you too need to repent seriously.

She now has a job. That counts ya know

Besides, would you want your own sister to marry a struggling dude?

We need to be sincere abegi

OliverQuinny:
Thank u so much. The truth is dat she hasnt been demandg at all. She behaves so well...like an angel...too good to be true... I wish she behaved dis way when we first met.. She works in Niferia, shez actually a career and focused lady.

What she did previously was wrong but it won't necessarily determine how your relationship with her will play out.

I suggest you open up to her. Let her know how her action at the time made you feel resentful towards her.
If she is truly sorry then absolutely nothing to worry about

She works now so make sure you don't act like dangote. Try and ensure she contributes to the family purse so she will have a sense of self belonging

Goodluck

Has she been demanding since you guys got back together?

Truth of the matter is most women desire safety net and there is nothing wrong in a woman pursuing her ultimate ambition so long as she makes it crystal clear.

You need to be sure she is who you want to be with simply because us men usually get stuck in the games we play when there is the need to get laid.

You are probably more matured now and thus a little more confident in speaking your mind as well as having a positive realistic outlook to life.

Does she work or she plans to be a housewife?

I honestly don't think you should have a negative mindset that things might turn around for you in the nearest future

Adufetohposh:
who re you and how Dare u quote me

Why are you always fighting....

Sexy yoloba Yoruba gyal

Anikkytohposh:
really all this yoruba girls seff

You look delicious

Caracta:
Oh...this section has moderators? Wow.

Where are the mods?

searching4love:
You are a disgrace to career women. Career women sound bright and are filled with intellect. All i see in you is a painec commercial sex worker.i pity the mumu wey go marry you. Biatch

Dude, you need to stop digging yourself further into the hole

Creamish:
Its actually shocking how much time he invests on the women he hates so much...

He is just a lil insecure hence the need for love

It's aiiiiiii

searching4love:
Are nairaland females aliens or ghost Are they not the fakers out there in the streets of every city I sure have friends but wary of these thieves called Nigerian girls

Maybe just maybe you've been attracting the wrong Nigerian girls.

The people you meet online especially on NL where people just come to unwind ain't necessarily the true reflection of Nigerian girls in a wider context.

Stop taking online ish seriously so you can have a good quality of life

relax bro

@OP

Oya let's talk


Why do you feel NL is the best place to search for love?

Don't you think your username and your relentless effort to get noticed is somewhat desperate?

Do you not have friends in real life?

What exactly is stopping you from meeting people in familiar surroundings?

UjSizzle:
Dude I know it's hard to "move on" but you have to get a grip of yourself and do that.
I sympathize with you on this heartbreak journey of yours, but you need to stop grieving the women so they stop being rude.


Take a time out. Drink beer. Watch a movie. Go self-service if you want sef. Just stop hopping around hoping to find magical healing while you call women devils.

I want to be your book

A very worthy book