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You know the right channel for complaints. You can't take NL laws into your own hands

And what's the right thing Mr? Why must you make everyone's stay on NL unbearable? If you don't like a thread then surely you don't have to post on it.

JeSoul: I'm going to differ a bit here...I don't think this is necessarily a problem of culture but rather a basic misunderstanding of what marriage is or should be about.

In the institution of marriage - two become one - in every aspect including financial. Women shouldn't be looking at it as "a man being able to take care of you", this is very selfish. She should equally be thinking about how she can also contribute financially rather than keeping her cake and eating from someone else's. You should both be able to take care of each other. It shouldn't be looked at as "his money" and then "my money" but instead how will combine our efforts and how will we spend "our money together". Before I married my husband we combined our accounts and spent money together. No such thing as his or my account, everything is joint including properties & assets. This is someone I'm going to trust with my heart & life, you need to search yourself if you're not ready to trust him/her with your money as well.

@OP, its good you're having this discussion now. I will caution you about the hopes of "changing" someone once you're married. Any changing or compromising or agreements should be done before you tie the knot or else end up like many stories we see everyday. I wish you all the best brother.

God will continue to bless you.

queensmith: Woo i advise you to leave your wife in nigeria to marry a man that will deliver all her dreams and desires while she sits at home like a slowpoke! mshew!
Does she think shes marrying a millionaire? She must have never been to school ,does she believe because you live in the uk you are a millionaire? She should hold on to that thought!
For your peace of mind i advise you to marry a woman that understands marriage is an equal partnership and everyone must pull their weight about and not be dependant for anything! mshew
Many nigerian women work very hard for their families, even more than their husbands! You better drop that village girl like shes hot immediately!

GBAM

room for one more Akogun?

dyt babe: I nid reasons y I wz banned, n lyk ryt now?
WTF

Spambot @ work

Tgirl4real: Is dis Jaybee for real

eku ojo meta o

Yeah na JB oh, how u dey?

ifyalways: @jaybee, would you shout at your boss or client just so you could let out steam?

My professional demeanour can't be compared with how I will deal with someone I'm intimate with.

Mrs.Chima <<<= Forever coc/k-blocking

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abeg give me the names of such threads. This section needs serious cleansing

Sadly it's not. It's more of a business venture whereby each party are in it for their own respective gains.

Yes it is. either party are allowed to let off steam once in a while so long it's restricted to just shouting.

Are you leaning towards the lure of employment offer because of the money it offers or the love of IT?
If it's because of the latter then please do suspend the MSc program and focus on the getting yourself started in the world of IT where you had be able to gain adequate/sufficient certifications to move up the ladder in no time.

However, if your main goal/ambition is to work as an electrical engineer then I will strictly advise you to finish the MSc because:
1)You have age on your side and if you don't do it now you will never go back to finishing it once you start earning money
2)If you want to compete with foreign engineering degrees then you will probably need to have a MSc to back your first degree

Above all, the decision is really yours and only you can make it. Think about what you want out of life, what's important to you in life and use them as the determinant factors when making your decision.

Off-course you will have priority.
The woman is the one getting married therefore she gets preferential treatment all the way
whatever you want is a given
you want a boat, i provide you with a yacht bla bla bla

Both if tradition is equally important to them.
If not, then the woman should have the priority

Following

Thought Ipad3 uses the 4G comms, No

It is well

Ashley young <=waste man

If money ain't the issue then it's advisable to pop that tag on ya wedding day

So u a cougar

Clap Clap Clap

So what's the problem here, the fact that the date was at his house or she only got offered a mere yoghurt?
Your friend could have suggested other avenues if his house wasn't an ideal location for first date
Absolutely no rule whatsoever that states a first date should involve expensive meals or whatever.

^^^
bug in the code I suppose.

Why don't you try posting then amending our post with the emoticons afterwards

@papatosibe
wetin naijasexy do you now?
Lasinoh don miss you tire

Scash: WTF! Jaybeee! So cos we dont pay to be members, NL can just change looks without askin if its ok wt us? Ehn? Okay o o o, me I dont like it o! Kai... Damburoba!

NL is privately owned and One man businesses are known to . . . . . . . . .

Not sure if Law is one of the career to return to in Nigeria as a graduate looking for employment.

justwise:
Some of you should stop rambling and be reasonable for once, a British citizen was kidnapped in Nigeria and a rescure operation was carried out in agreement with Nigerian govt and minitary, the British govt did not carry out the operation without Nigerian govt knowledge, they did not do it alone, it was joint operation and some of you are here banging on about all sorts of nonsense.

How many of you were shouting about sovereignty when iran imported truck load or arms into Nigerian without Nigerian govt approval?

David Cameron is all over the news saying things along the line of him authorising the rescue attempt though. The Italian senators are angry because they weren't briefed until the failed attempt was in motion. Even mario monti was telephoned by David whilst he was on a plane.

Yes our Security Forces might be inept but the clown shouldn't be authorising things willy nilly like we are still under the british empire