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[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]No, we don't have lives outside of NL. . . Only the Moderators too. . .Smh! If you cannot be online 24/7, how about other moderators taking over when you are not there? Perhaps people in another time zone?[/color][/quote]You can always take this up with seun

[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]How are you supposed to know? Was that question directed at me? But you say i make people's stay unbearable, how did you know that? Because they complain? So complaining to Jaybee, the God father, is final? Do you know if the complains were valid? Did you care to know? And when people complain to you about killz, do you investigate? Or do you just ban anyone i complain to you about, without knowing what caused the problem? What kind of government do you guy's run here BTW?
I report Mr A to you, and you never asked MR what warranted his response or his attack on me, but you go ahead and Ban MR A? Don't you see how laughable that sounds?
Those threads that the titles are majorly about scamming other's, how come you delete them, but when it's a thread about Killz this or Killz that, you let it stay? Because i did not complain? Seriously? Who complained to you before you deleted the scam threads, especially the sugar mummy threads? Smh[/color][/quote]I know for a fact that i have on countless occassions removed threads opened solely to mock you or any other users but then again if these things aren't brought to our attention then how are we suppose to know and in turn act?

Why compare a clear case of scamming to posts that the user being mocked my not necessariky object to?

[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]Nice try, but you refused to answer the questions and that's not acceptable MR. If you are not the moderator, i don't think i'll have time chatting with you, but hey, you are the Mod, so you have to answer. . .
What of threads where i post on that is generally unacceptable? Threads against forum rules? Threads, Where majority of users complain about the thread? You come and blame killz too, right? And then you ban him because you can? How about those threads that make my stay unbearable too? Do you delete them, or ban the posters too? Or you just wait for killz to show face, comment, before you ban killz? Because he's making your voluntary Job difficult?

Threads about Nigerian Girls are very annoying. What do you do about such threads, since they normally cause an uproar? You wait until i report to you first before you know the right thing to do?
Look, whether your job is voluntary or not is not my, or any body's business. You took he job, so do your job. After banning killz, has it stopped me from opening another ID? That is why i told you earlier that banning me won't stop the problem. Do the right thing abeg and stop making excuses. if the job is too much for you, why not pass it up to someone who will do it effectually? After all, it's voluntary. . .[/color][/quote]You got banned because your actions were in contrary to furm rules.
You can't expect me to to go through each and every post
Does it occur to you that your name/posts might appear too often on the romance first page because you are overly active and thus making your actions easily noticeable throughout the board.

[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]What caused the ban?
Seriously, do i have to report a thread to you before you take action? Are you a push to start moderator?
So i did not report to you, then you eventually see the thread, what do you do except seeing my fonts and banning me?
Have you ever seen me use large fonts on any thread except thread's that were started simply to discuss killz?
What do you do to those that start such threads, cos you'll only delete my comments when i eventually do, but nothing is done to the threads or the other comments.
What the hell do you mean by "you are killz and supposedly above rules?" What rules? The rules are JOKES! You say one thing, you do the other.[/color][/quote]Yes it helps by making me more effective if i'm reactive rather than witch hunting people to ban or better still policing the board like it's mine.
I have pleaded with you on several occasions to always report users when they are doing things pertaining to you and offcourse in contrary to nl rules.
I can't go through each and every post in the romance section and neither can i babysit all the kids roaming around the romance section.
If my actions which are always justified appears to be one sided then i definitely aint gonna apologise as it shows i'm doing my job


NL is privately owned and we all signed to abide by the rules when we registered. If you find the rules as annoying jokes then you sure know where to direct the anger.
I'm only voluntarily helping to uphold the rules seun set for his baby.

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[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]That's not the only pointless rule. . .

Now speaking of Jaybee, do you see him online? Is he responding to the complaints? NO NO NO!

All he knows is to log on in the spur of the moment, look for complains against Killz, and then bans Killz, after which he logs off, feeling cool with himself as a moderator. At least he has banned Killz. Well guess what? You CANNOT ban a user! Usernames maybe, but users? Hell fcck NO! You can ban me as a particular user, but can you ban the way i express myself? SMH!

Gosh, where are the Moderators when you need to vent on their lackadaisical attitudes?[/color][/quote]Are you seriously asking me to be online 24/7? I do have a life outside of NL ya know

[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]Jaybee, while you are at it, your forum rules also says that a male user cannot front as a female user. Now, not too long ago, a vocal female member was banned for fronting as male, therefore, what is the rationale used in measuring who get's banned for what, cos male users now front as females, open threads as females, make comments as females and Jaybee of course would expect Killz to report to him first, before he does his Job. Smh![/color][/quote]How am i suppose to know if a user is using multiple id's uhn? I don't have access to user ip addresses as well as you not expecting me to sit on nl all day to analyse those doing so by going through their respective posts.

Once again, have you or any other person complained to me and i failed to action your complaints

I accept critcism but surely they have to be fair.

[quote author=Killz.][color=#000030]^^^
Leave them first. . .
Jaybee, Being a MOD doesn't make you my God. I cannot worship you. Your bullshit doesn't have to make sense to me. I won't tolerate your nonsense simply because you can ban me. You suck at your Job as a moderator. . . Ban me for saying that, and see if i care. You said i make everyone's stay unbearable? that's bullshit! What of threads where i post on that is generally unacceptable? Against forum rules? Where majority complain about the thread? You come and blame killz too, right? And then you ban him because you can? How about those threads that make my stay unbearable too? Do you delete them, or ban the posters too? Or you just wait for killz to show face, before you ban killz?
Now, i'm waiting for the reply to my earlier questions, and subsequent ones. This is gonna be a long talk!



Let the banning begin! [/color][/quote]I am not asking to be worshipped. I'm only doing my voluntary job and every member of this section have the responsibility to make this job easy for me.

xkillz: [color=#000030]Helloooooooo.
How many people complained before you decided to go on your banning spree? Now, when a stupid thread is opened about killz, do you wait for me to report to the almighty Moderator, Jaybee, before he knows that it is against the forum laws he's so asking to be kept, for him to delete such threads?
When comments are thrown at me first, and i reply, do you ban me for replying, and not delete the comment that made me reply? Do you delete my comments, and then leave the other comments?

Why is this the case, cos i don't understand how you are only active as a mod, when Killz is involved. . .

If you like, delete this comment too, and ofcourse BAN me again! [/color]

Let me get this right, are you basically saying your ban isn't justified because i simply haven't gone ahead to ban every single member of the romance secion?
Has their ever been a time that you reported a thread/post to me and i decided not tomtake any action?
If anything, i have been accused to be biased towards you for looking the other way most times when you engage in your numerous e-fights.
You know the annoying increased fonts was abolutely not necessary but yet you go ahead and do it because you are killz and supposedly above the rules.

You know the right channel for complaints. You can't take NL laws into your own hands

And what's the right thing Mr? Why must you make everyone's stay on NL unbearable? If you don't like a thread then surely you don't have to post on it.

JeSoul: I'm going to differ a bit here...I don't think this is necessarily a problem of culture but rather a basic misunderstanding of what marriage is or should be about.

In the institution of marriage - two become one - in every aspect including financial. Women shouldn't be looking at it as "a man being able to take care of you", this is very selfish. She should equally be thinking about how she can also contribute financially rather than keeping her cake and eating from someone else's. You should both be able to take care of each other. It shouldn't be looked at as "his money" and then "my money" but instead how will combine our efforts and how will we spend "our money together". Before I married my husband we combined our accounts and spent money together. No such thing as his or my account, everything is joint including properties & assets. This is someone I'm going to trust with my heart & life, you need to search yourself if you're not ready to trust him/her with your money as well.

@OP, its good you're having this discussion now. I will caution you about the hopes of "changing" someone once you're married. Any changing or compromising or agreements should be done before you tie the knot or else end up like many stories we see everyday. I wish you all the best brother.

God will continue to bless you.

queensmith: Woo i advise you to leave your wife in nigeria to marry a man that will deliver all her dreams and desires while she sits at home like a slowpoke! mshew!
Does she think shes marrying a millionaire? She must have never been to school ,does she believe because you live in the uk you are a millionaire? She should hold on to that thought!
For your peace of mind i advise you to marry a woman that understands marriage is an equal partnership and everyone must pull their weight about and not be dependant for anything! mshew
Many nigerian women work very hard for their families, even more than their husbands! You better drop that village girl like shes hot immediately!

GBAM

room for one more Akogun?

dyt babe: I nid reasons y I wz banned, n lyk ryt now?
WTF

Spambot @ work

Tgirl4real: Is dis Jaybee for real

eku ojo meta o

Yeah na JB oh, how u dey?

ifyalways: @jaybee, would you shout at your boss or client just so you could let out steam?

My professional demeanour can't be compared with how I will deal with someone I'm intimate with.

Mrs.Chima <<<= Forever coc/k-blocking

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abeg give me the names of such threads. This section needs serious cleansing

Sadly it's not. It's more of a business venture whereby each party are in it for their own respective gains.

Yes it is. either party are allowed to let off steam once in a while so long it's restricted to just shouting.

Are you leaning towards the lure of employment offer because of the money it offers or the love of IT?
If it's because of the latter then please do suspend the MSc program and focus on the getting yourself started in the world of IT where you had be able to gain adequate/sufficient certifications to move up the ladder in no time.

However, if your main goal/ambition is to work as an electrical engineer then I will strictly advise you to finish the MSc because:
1)You have age on your side and if you don't do it now you will never go back to finishing it once you start earning money
2)If you want to compete with foreign engineering degrees then you will probably need to have a MSc to back your first degree

Above all, the decision is really yours and only you can make it. Think about what you want out of life, what's important to you in life and use them as the determinant factors when making your decision.

Off-course you will have priority.
The woman is the one getting married therefore she gets preferential treatment all the way
whatever you want is a given
you want a boat, i provide you with a yacht bla bla bla

Both if tradition is equally important to them.
If not, then the woman should have the priority

Following

Thought Ipad3 uses the 4G comms, No

It is well

Ashley young <=waste man

If money ain't the issue then it's advisable to pop that tag on ya wedding day

So u a cougar

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