₦airaland Forum

Yuri141:
https://punchng.com/dont-ruin-your-future-with-hard-drugs-buhari-tells-youths/

Enemyofpeace:
I don't know why this Genevieve dey always hungry me. The babe Auntie go sweet die for bed.

HisSexcellency:
Kate Henshaw, the Nollywood veteran actress, has spoken up about her relationship with colleague, Genevieve Nnaji.

In an interview with media personality Chude, Kate was quizzed about the status of her longstanding friendship with Genevieve.

Kate Henshaw revealed in her response that she and Genevieve have had small disagreements in previous years.

She, however, expressed her concerns about Genevieve’s tendency to pull away from her and their colleagues.

Kate concluded by saying she respected Genevieve and her choices, likening her to American actress Angelina Jolie.

She said, “We’ve had our issues, but not big issues. I have loved her, but sometimes, she pulls away, she pulls away from everybody, and you are like ‘ah, am I smelling?, What have I done, and you wonder. What is happening?

“Then we met to shoot a commercial, and before then, we haven’t seen, we haven’t spoken for years. And she was so nice to me. And then she left the set before us and said, ‘Kate I have gone, just want to say goodbye.’ But then, I respect her because despite the fact that she pulls away, I think she is like an Angelina Jolie. She just wants to be on your [her] own.”

Watch video below
https://nigerianstreet.com/2023/12/31/genevieve-nnaji-likes-to-be-on-her-own-pulls-away-from-everyone-kate-henshaw-video/

gr8child:
Do you look under your car to see if someone is sleeping there before driving out?

SharingIsLife:
So bad!


No. Not sympathy but JUSTICE is what we want for the dead motor boy and his family. Though no amount of money is enough to pay for the life of the child, the driver should pay all that has been spent on the child until this age.

If not because of the bad Governance of Buhari and Tinubu, this child would have been in school instead of doing this kind of odd job.

FineUsername:

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Make wuna get money oooo. So that dem no go tell you say to dye hair na sin.

Jatii:
Most Nigerian presidents since 1999 have been major disappointments.

Regurgitating the same new year speeches every year without tangible progress.

Anyway, he's only been in office for less than a year. Still quite early to judge his performance.

MrWondah:
Phone wey I charge since last year never still full 😔

Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though

Unclebayo:
Make we restart 2023 , I don make small mistake

Odewaleadesoye:
Dearest Members of Nairaland Forum, kindly define year 2023 using just a 'word'.

Mine;


Kindly supply your own definition using just a 'word'.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

GuruboiNaija:
President Bola Tinubu says the federal government is determined to use its available resources to establish peace in the South-East geopolitical zone of the country.

Tinubu stated this on Friday, during the unveiling of the Peace in South-East Project (PISE-P) and the Thanksgiving Service/Homecoming ceremony organised in honour of the Deputy Speaker of the House of Representatives, Chief Benjamin Kalu.

The well-attended event took place at the Sports Arena of Bende Local Government Area.

.ng reports that PISE-P is a five-year programme, initiated by the deputy speaker to tackle the intricate socio-economic challenges and security threats prevalent in the South-East.

The president, who was represented by the Vice President, Kashim Shettima, described the zone as “an industrial hub, which plays a vital role in boosting the nation’s economic development”.

He expressed the concern of the Federal Government over the extensive economic devastation inflicted on the region by non-state actors.

According to the President, the Federal Government would not allow any sinister operations by economic saboteurs, “who masquerade as advocates of Ndigbo, to continue in the region.

“We know that the South-East has weathered too many storms but the current economic stagnation has shaken the foundation of the region.

“We are not going to sit back and watch the fire go beyond what we can handle.

“We are here to extinguish the fire permanently,” He said.

https://.ng/2023/12/30/were-determined-to-establish-peace-in-south-east-tinubu/

HarryGleb:
Apapa and Tinubu are threat to our democracy

Morbeta11:
https://punchng.com/constabulary-tarnishing-police-image-needs-separate-uniform-arase/

Thonyboy:
https://.ng/2023/12/29/we-must-deliver-quality-education-jobs-for-nigerians-tinubu/

DrAkpamudehe:
You are naive. illnesses including cancer can be invoked on someone via occultic spriitual attacks. My late mother fell ill 1997 and almost died of a terminal ailment just immediately after she resumed as a principal of a Lagos government college around that same year. We had given up after trying all forms of medical solutions until the floor underneath her office chair was dugged and all sorts of sacrifice with her name and pictures were unearthed. Fear south West people. The Alhaji that occupied that sit before her didn't want to let go, so decided to get rid of her so he would be recalled to that same school as they were making a lot of money from the students and government in that school . She was saved through massive prayers from a Catholic charismatic renewal fellowship centre in lagos

LegendHero:
Omo see how Betty dey look like make she gun Aiyedatiwa down.

Only God know what is going through both of their minds.

RIP to Akeredolu.

TemplarLandry:
I don't trust that man.
Aketi's demise wasn't natural.

DDIA:
You should have proposed to her while fvcking With dick in her cunt. You would have paused stroking and the stared in her eyes and popped the question, then immediately continue stroking gently while waiting for her answer.

Now you can get another chance do this in your lifetime if you want to marry another wife.

If you are not a polygamist, you will have to divorce her or wait if at all she dies before you to be able to use this method to propose.

Lordburna2:
I climbed ontop my ceiling propose to her...but she said no.

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

Grab my weed to read how simpletons knelt down to beg a woman

Solsix:
Mid Jan??

Aaaaarghmed:
yes,a good update and info.Especially if you are from Nigeria.i deleted my history and some photos in my mobile when I wanted to travel.like,I even exited some groups on whatsapp.when I landed the country,they checked my passport dem see say I be Nigerian..dem carry me go one side to sit for like 1hour, doing checks and verifications.the asked for my phone too,also checked the Imei.To come from Naija no easy mehn.las las dem free me as everywhere good.

Naijaplos:
Our yemolee, black bonz and Almighty Asake's humble throwback just calm down u sef go make money

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

Bobloco:
https://dailypost.ng/2023/12/26/even-if-you-give-tinubu-30-years-nothing-will-work-daniel-bwala/

FreeStuffsNG:
https://punchng.com/technician-nabbed-for-stealing-four-solar-panels-in-lagos/

Kasdat5:
Me I leave my ignition on & watch as the bar rises , those fuel attendants are criminals . I don't even greet them or return their pleasantries until after business . Make dem no use gist confuse person . Guide well abeg .