fergieboy:
Mane soppose collect red o

Na big name. Even CAF President no go gree make Dem give am red.

For this life, try be big name

Ekong-Troost is every inch a captain and leader. He reminds me a lot about Sergio Ramos...Sergio Ramos without his usual madness

StrongAlphMale:


Which one is she definitely has? You're just assuming? 😆

Dude, have you seen her using that phrase for you online or offline towards her friends before? She no go try am and You already know why!

Why you dey repeat question? I say my girl don call me "my man" in front of her friends. Oya wetin you go do na? You go cry because no girl don call you "my man" before?

Maybe you're not a high-value male, that's why no one is attempting to personalize you.

StrongAlphMale:


Na simple question I asked you.

Has she ever called you my guy outside or online or in the presence of her friends the way you always call her my girl my girl everywhere?

She no go try am because she's keeping her options open to other guys.

She definitely has. But you...since you have not experienced the love of a woman that is not your relation, you believe it's the same for everyone. Na why your matter tire me, and I have given up arguing with you

StrongAlphMale:


Using the phrase my girl my girl isn't deception dude, to a girl it means you're either too clingy or desperate to have her. Which one is my girl my girl everywhere? Not as if you're married to her? Dey play!

I can bet my balls she can't even call you my guy my guy outside or online or in the presence of her friends. Na hide she dey hide dey call am, so people won't hear her or know about it, why? Dude that's because they're keeping their options open! Dey play shaa

From the look of things, you really want to convince me that ALL women are wh0res. I get the point now. Thanks for the message. Adieu!

StrongAlphMale:


How can a Dude address dozens of girls as "my girl" ?

You can only say my wife because you're both married, not using the phrase "my" for a mere girl who isn't really yours.

Words means everything to a girl bro. A girl can easily be deceived with words, so it means a lot

Na why we dey deceive them with the words. Abeg park one side, you no Sabi game

dhiqson:
Wise Man dey let una know say women keep their. Options open
Hence they don't personalize nobody!! Even if he's always in her gut

But you people, blinded by love and wet hole just want to argue
Fr tho, I've never read a lady here saying "my guy"
She'll rather say the guy I'm seeing

I just want to believe that you're talking out of your own personal experience. Women are very territorial, unless she's just managing you

StrongAlphMale:


You're not entitled to her Dude, and hence the phrase "my" is irrelevant.

You can use "my" or "mine" for possession such as your house, your car, your money etc, not for a human being let alone a girl who isn't even your wife. U dey whine me?

This isn't a matter of redpiller or not, how can you ascribed her as yours even though multiple dudes are also chopping her back to back? Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland abeg?

Girls hardly Use that phrase for a guy physically let alone using it online. They're of course keeping their options open as stated above. Make una stop am! All these my girl my girl on nairaland is becoming increasingly worrisome, you hard see a girl using that phrase for her boyfriend here on nairaland, dey know exactly what they're doing. Always keeping their options open. But guys all over nairaland go dey halla my girl my girl everywhere. How is she your girl? Are you her father? Abi na your wife she be? Dude you don't owe her and she's not your girl. Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland?

What if the dude in question addresses dozens of other girls as "my girl" too? Words mean nothing, my brother. Na action be the main koko

StrongAlphMale:



You'll hardly see a girl using that phrase for a guy. Like I said wether she invest in that relationship or not Dude she's keeping her options open.

No be today girls start to ask guys for advice. And how does that makes her your girl? Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland? Is she your wife yet or what exactly?

When was the last time we see a girl using the phrase "my guy my guy or my man my man? They don't even use the word "my" na guys dey always dey excited to use that word. It's Simpson in nature Dude. Make Una stop am! Worst of all, she isn't your wife yet. If she mistakenly becomes your wife that means you'll start screaming my mama my mama everywhere.

Oga, e be like say you dey new to this game. How would you address a babe who's your love interest, and who's also romantically interested in you? Do you have to act cold and bland so that you'd be seen as the ultimate redpiller? To achieve what na?

The "My" is a possessive pronoun showing that you're entitled to this person in a way. I have also heard my own girlfriend address me as "my man" when I was trying to reassure her that I'm not flirting with her friend. I wonder if you expected him to address his girlfriend as "one of dem girls"...or "the girl wey I dey f##k".

The principle still remains: don't fall HOPELESSLY in love. No cross bridge for who no fit cross gutter for you. If she starts acting funny, show her who the chief clown is. Till then, I don't mind making my girlfriend feel special

Juliearth:




By the way, my standard rule of thumb to you men is that do not start a largesse that you cannot sustain. Most of you woo and win women over using gifts and money. Such relationships would thrive on the aforementioned and that explains why you will continue to be billed by my gender. I'm not saying you shouldn't be generous to your love interests, but tune it down so women can love you for who you are and not what you are or could be.

You've said it all. In addition, avoid girls from poor homes, unless they have been thoroughly verified as good people. And even at that, it is still a risk. Poverty has a way of making its victims look virtuous.

DND069:
How you start with a woman is how you gonna end with her.

Most Nigerian men buy women.

While this is true, there are still some exceptions. I have a girlfriend who I started on a "bestie" level with. She was my next door neighbor during my university days. At a point in time, she started demanding full commitment from me. I succumbed, and we started a full-fledged serious relationship.

I noticed that during the "bestie days", she wasn't asking for even a pin. The only thing she wanted then was compliments, time and attention. But now, I dey collect billings like never before. She once told me that her people are having issues financially, so she isn't as buoyant as before. I understand, and I have trying my best. But mehn... it's starting to choke me. I don't mind giving up on the relationship. I value my money abeg.

So Bro, no be must say the relationship started on a "commercial" note. My own is just I also desire someone who's financially stable too

Juliearth:




Perhaps you should set up a business for her. This may financially enable her to foot her bills and ameliorate the bane on your pocket(s).

But why una dey talk like this sef? Open business for who? Has she run a business before? Abi na to lavish the little wey Op get using another format?

Me sef dey this Op shoes, though my own billings never too much. But I wonder why person go graduate from school and she no go find even menial work to keep body and soul together. Dey tell me say she go start to work once she don collect NYSC posting. In the meantime, na my pocket go dey support her for now.

I dey think of whether to serve her breakfast now, or maybe new year if she never still get the job. But the breakfast dey mandatory shaa. Because Dem no dey use wasteful spending become rich man

Israel07:


How would you know she's a hooka? She's just like every other girl out there, u wouldn't know till u meet her in person

You wey Sabi wetin she dey do, wetin motivate you to carry her go business meeting? What role is she supposed to play there?

Ike gwuru

Israel07:
This is making no sense.
I recently met one lady, I might her in a super market in the night, it was late and dark. The lady was very jovial from the get go, I was a bit surprised cos she was so free like she knew me before, I didn't take any interest in her until she turned to leave an I saw a gigantic ass. Oh boy, I followed her ASAP, talked to her letting her know my intentions ASAP but babe legit told me she's willing to Bleep but i must give her some cash. I didn't mind but at that moment I knew she's for the streets. We met few days later and I saw tattoos on her. She look really good and I just can't resist that ass. She's more like my best friend now, she's always with me as I don't really have a serious relationship. She knows it's just vibes and I don't care about who she fcuks asides me. I just like the vibe with her, she drinks and smokes too. So I don't care. Sometimes I wish she wasn't damaged already before we met. She's very beautiful that even her fellow girls look at her non stop. I took her to one business meeting one time, Omo this men were just agreeing to all my terms during negotiations, I knew it was because of her. She chose to leave her life like that, nobody influenced her.

You took a hooker to a business meeting WTF are you saying?

Nawa for some guys o

lordnkem000:
That's not true, though u guys might have a point. I once dated the Futo sometime in 2016, I stayed in ph but she was from Owerri and schooled in Futo 400l. I went for a visit one time and ended up staying for 4months in her house at ihiagwa. Omo that was one of my best times and I disvirgined her at 24ys during that time. The girl been legit I swear but las las things no work out for us and she con japa go Texas

My brother, I don sleep tire. The last one....she was my neighbor when we were in school. Same lodge...Same series. The normal mantra was that neighbors don't date, but I guess we were abnormal, because from being friendly neighbors, we graduated to besties ...and finally to full "campus marriage" mode. What's more...we sustained that relationship for the next three years, and she's still my babe till this day. And no matter how we packaged the whole affair, everyone knew. At a point we stopped caring about their opinions.

I also remember that before this current one, I had a babe I used to visit back then in ABSU. She stays alone too. I don't spend less than five days at her place, and I also enjoyed every second of my vacation there. No harassment from anybody.

In all, it depends on the girl. I'm not gonna swear on my life that these girls haven't cheated on me with someone else, but at least, when I'm around, they make me feel like an undisputed king and that I also enjoy the moments while they last

mariahAngel:


Waka!🤣🤣
Do am if e easy.

Do wetin? Shebi I get womb?

This is something natural to every woman...the ability to get pregnant and reproduce. If you place that one on the table, I'd place my shaft and testicles that would produce the $perm too. Afterall, the woman can't get pregnant by herself.

If you see lazy people hiding under "wokeism", you'd know

One say childbirth and pregnancy na wetin she dey bring come table, I tell am say no be my table you go bring that one come. Even goats and pigs get pregnant too.

Na so war start. For my mind, I laugh my wicked laugh. Because for this spot wey I stand for the matter, even hurricane no fit move me

cococandy:


Well your self awareness is top notch.👌🏾

I personally prefer to know what I’m dealing with than those who “don’t hate women” but day in day out everything they say indicates otherwise

Don't mind them. They want to control the other gender, but some of them are not in control of their own lives . All the same, I have my own convictions, and one of them is that I can't marry a girl of lower social class. I'm too much of a blessing for that kind of person

cococandy:
When Chimamanda said it they almost came for her head. But she was right. They want women to be successful but not too successful. Always threading a thin line below which you’re a liability and beyond which your success starts to piss people off because now you can’t be “controlled”. It’s exhausting

That's their problem. Truth be told, I'm a misogynist too, but not this insecure type. If I'm better than a woman, I have to prove it with "hard evidence", not unnecessary explanations , nor with unnecessary envy.

If as a man, money is the only tangible thing you can offer, then a richer woman should intimidate you

Ferrous:
My girlfriend now is contesting for the office of SUG VP in one of Nigerian universities which I'm also a student of the university, but, I don't delve into students politics. The thing now is, she hardly have time for me. And the relationship now is becoming shaky because of her ambition.

If you sense a competition, embrace it. Develop your own ambitions and follow it through and through. Madness only understand madness

cococandy:
Women if you are in a position to improve yourself, don’t do it so that you don’t mistakenly surpass your man. That would be too woke and unnatural. It goes against nature.

If you’re already married and an opportunity comes your way that will make you more money but unfortunately it means your income will now be higher than your husbands income, reject the opportunity. Or get divorced. either way it will ensure you are not in a marriage where your income can exceed your man’s.

Carefully curate your life so that you can have money but never more than him. If you’re getting paid for something and it turns out it’s going to be a bigger check than what’s he’s getting on his end, refund some of the money. God forbid you earn more than him.

If you have a business and get a chance to expand your operations, don’t take the chance. How are we going to explain it? That you defied the natural order of things and sort to grow yourself and your career?

Y’all are so mind numbingly xtupid with these threads and responses. May God protect women from marrying their enemies. Enemies of progress

I'm with you on this one. See how people are subtly encouraging women not to make progress in life. For what That is the very height of insecurity.

This is part of the reason why I must marry a rich lady, Inshallah. Someone who can take care of herself with her OWN resources. If you're a mad woman, I would love to see the madness on time. I don't want to be with a pretender "humbled" by poverty.

Exceed15:
I do not have issue with my wife richer than me. We are not in a competition. What I have problem with is when she's trying to be the man in the marriage.

For me, whether the woman is rich or not is not an issue. So far as I can take care of my own bills and sh!t, I don't give a f##k. For me, I'd rather marry a promiscuous richer woman than a "decent" leech. My money is my life. I don't play with it at all .

The mistake some men make is to kill their own career in order to join hands to push their richer and seemingly brighter wife's ambitions. It is from that day that the man loses his footing as the head. Even if your hustle no too bright, keep grinding. If anything like a misunderstanding should occur, you'd still have your own business to mind.

On a final note, when you're sure that as a man, you bring much more to the table than just money, you won't be insecure with a richer woman, as you have other things to offer

malvisguy212:
tell your friend to call his ex , and see how the wife will react.....or plan with a friend pretending to be your ex and tell your wife " my ex want to speak to you" just see how she will react.

Na only you get sense. Others just dey yan dust for here.

I'd call my ex too and ask my wife to speak with her. If my wife acts funny, that's when I can start my madness. In fact, I'd allow devil to use me anyhow he wishes to scatter that marriage. But if she talks to my own ex wella and acts cool afterwards, then we are good...just that me sef go dey use my brain 100% for the relationship, because it's obvious that I'm under the same roof with a madwoman

ahnie:

I beg to disagree with you....when a woman gets married she changes her simcards,I did and it was not some big deal.all I did was copied the numbers of those that are important.

A wise wife knows the best thing to do if you wanna stay long in her marriage is to change her simcard as soon as she gets married.

Change your simcard because of what? You bin dey do hookup with the old sim

advanceDNA:
Everybody should make their own money and live alone in peace...all these noise of adultery and polygamy, and take care of me, i will not bring anything to the table, will not be needed

My brother, you have said it all

grandstar:


The man is in trouble both ways.

That is it my brother

grandstar:
I would like Yevgeny Prigozhin to tell us the difference between Russia and Belarus where he sought shelter? I am very confused!

Putin is a man with very long memories and people who have done a tenth of this are dead. Never stab Putin in the back.

He can't step outside the two countries. If he seek asylum elsewhere, he'd be picked up by Interpol and sent to the Hague for war crimes. So even if he is no longer wanted by Putin at home, he cannot stay far away from the motherland for his own good

chronique:


Think. They are in the middle of a war and they need a lot of diplomacy in handling this. It would have been a totally different scenario if the war in Ukraine is not happening right now.

Putin showed them he was too smart for them. So they now try to manipulate him with words like "coward"... exactly how greedy girls would call a guy "stingy" because he refused to part with his money foolishly

There's something about Putin that gives him the edge over Hitler, Napoleon, Stalin...and any other one-man army who has troubled Europe- He's cunning and smart. The others depend more on brute force...the instances of ingenuity are very small. Stalin was the only one among the three who came closest to Putin in the art of smartness and deception, and he still doesn't come close enough to give Putin a run for his money.

As for Hitler and Napoleon, even Stalin...if the Wagner drama happened during their regime, they would have organized their usual purges of both the military and the politicians, which definitely would affect both the manpower and morale of the soldiers at the Frontline in Ukraine. But Putin played a different game and kept everyone united, at least till he's done with Zelensky and NATO. In the meantime, I'm sure he'd conduct his own purge, but in a very low-key way