₦airaland Forum

YorceelinaBlaq:
1. Politics. Never ever.

2. Anything that involves money. If there’s an argument that involves money, I’d walk away Somehow, any money I lose in an unfair situation ends up coming back to me with the other party suffering a significant loss. It is not juju or anything…just what I’ve observed over time.

jjxxx:
Cost of governance will be drastically reduced. Do u know presently the benefits of 109 senators can raise workers salary to between 40k to 50k as minimum wage? And we also have 360 rep members. Imagine cutting down their bonuses and other agencies and ministries merged together so as to reduce cost. The money for governance alone can give civil servants better life.

Zonefree:
Always learn to express yourself how you deem fit. Nobody send anybody for this life.

Klass99:
I am glad you had the presence of mind to know that wasn't right, your hubby was wrong and you moved out with your girls until there was a resolution. If you don't mind my asking how old was your brother-in-law when this happened?

The bolded parts of your post are things I will never understand about most Nigerian men and Nigerian marriages. I have said it on a different thread, that a man's siblings (especially the lazy and entitled types) are the ones who do more harm than good to his financial health and overall well-being, not his wife and kids.

But some of you dey marry into wondaful families and households sha. My father is the first born child in a family of 8, what I saw growing up in his house, will not allow me marry men like him or your husband. Even if Angel Gabriel tells me that such a man is my ordained husband, I will jump and pass.

After reading your post I can't help thinking....... Singlehood is pure bliss fah.

FOOTSOLDIER1:
1. If you are a lady seeing this; please note, "am is not the same thing as I'm"

2. "Am" reduces your value irrespective of who you are, when you keep writing "am this, am that instead of "I'm this, I'm that"

3. "Am" is not a short form of I'm!.

3. I'm is the correct word to use, stop writing .

ariesbull:
this is an Igbo soup call it properly it is Egwusi and Nchuanwu


other tribes copies it from igbo ,just like oha and Nsala

ogbono is also a pure igbo soup derived from igbo words ogbo Onu.. meaning the area that draws or slimy

Alinna230:
I'm not a kid or youth.
I have female daughter and I just can't imagine it's my daughter.

If I like it, why am I asking how to handle it here

Teeroyzimma:
If you’re 20 years old or above then you should be ashamed of yourself, is there anywhere in the world where there’s no thieves? London for that matter, you’re funny.

You think London is heaven ba? London is not what you think it is, gangsters and criminals full London more than places like Abuja for example. You better wake up from your slumber.

Maysdevices:
Honestly?

Most women feel they are queens that deserve the best from life. Cars, diamonds and vacations.

Most women get into a regular marriage with the notion that some day the man will be rich and they will live the lives of rich men’s wives. No woman who agrees to marry a regular man believes that the man will be average forever.

When the scales fall from their eyes, they become bitter at the sight of rich men’s wives in their expensive cars. So no matter what you, you haven’t began even doing.

It’s like a man who married an ugly woman because of status, infatuation or love, after a while you will become bitter when the scales fall from your eyes and you can’t show off your wife like other men.

The average man will keep getting asked that question until you give your woman the last drop of blood in your body.



These rules apply to only shallow people, but then most people are shallow.

Crumbian:
Food section dey Nairaland? Chai, I don miss

gloryhomemaker:
Ohk, that's a good desire.
You can reach and even surpass our 'levels' ooooo.

Cooking is an art and skill, once mastered you can cook anything.

gloryhomemaker:
Depressed? Food gets you depressed?

mercy87:
I have a question...my guy doesn't call me but when I call him, he picks. He's not based in Nigeria. Do I continue calling him or I should stop?

Whitemagic:
You no wan talk say you Na you de spend on her steady abi … hehe

Negotiated desire is never genuine. Money can get you a woman but won’t keep her. Seek out for the one who respect you for who you are… recognize the fact I didn’t use “love”

mediclife1987:
I think they intentionally do that, and they do that when they feel you have nothing left to offer them.

They prolly don't want to make it look like they chop and clean mouth, so they just reverse it, and scatter everything by saying you never did anything for them.

Even my elder sister don do am for me too before.

Women are all like that.

Miyachi:
Children. I personally know of a case where the father is going through hell from his own children.
His daughter claiming independent business woman under his roof, even converting one of the rooms in his house to a chicken coop. But still she does not respect this man.

aimmoney9:
It is because Women only truly appreciate those who satisfy them in bed, as in back to back orgasms and making her cum and squirt.......

If you buy a woman many houses, cars, with huge cash gifts, and even give her the whole world without sexually satisfying her, she will ask u dat question......

If you are sexually satisfying her without giving her shi shi, plus even beating her and treating her bad, she will never ask u dat question...

Women don't use fvck to play......

A woman can't ask a guy sexually satisfying her dat question, sex is something else for women .........e.g the cheating wives on nairaland can never ask der side boyfriend's this question.......

mariahAngel:
I would never say that intentionally, especially to spite. (I'm not that ungrateful/insensitive.)

I just would never stop asking/expecting.

Miyachi:
It is more terrible when you hear it from your ward, someone you've nurtured and cared for.

mariahAngel:
You should've reminded her of all the ones you've done for her before.


@bolded, we're naturally entitled beings.

TheFacelessMan:


Tinubu won APC Primaries in a landslide despite President + Vice President + Senate President + Party Chairman opposing him...

That's the same way he will flog other aspirants.

Like him or hate him but the guy is a thorough bred politician. He's a Grandmaster that can beat you in several different ways.

El Rufai, Akeredolu, Fayemi and Amosun ALL publicly opposed and made humiliating remarks. What was his response now and then? SILENCE. Question is how exactly did he make them all fall in line ?

How much money will you offer a Governor who got 250 million naira monthly for 8 good years in security votes PLUS other billions?

Obviously, BAT made them offers they couldn't refuse.

Mark my words, Nigeria wouldn't become USA overnight but either Atiku or Tinubu will fix long running issues like ASUU, National ID card etc.

Why ? Both men are ruthless and crafty. They are both named crooks but give either a chance. After all, The Saint failed woefully.

Nigeria needs a Leader who's a "rugged crook" not a Saint because at least 150 million behave like animals.

Tinubu can be a diplomat or warrior as the situation demands.

Peter Obi didn't face 1/1 trillion of challenges Tinubu faced before Obi ran from PDP primaries.

jimyjames:
From what I read , from this report ,I can easily tell ,the woman was arrested cause the victim was her boss , and her husband knows everything about the victim through her , that's all , these two things can be agured in court

jimyjames:
There are many married men all over the world living double lives Even in developed first world countries , so it's possible for her not to know her husband is into kidnapping , and a killer , so if she's innocent she doesn't deserve any punishment whatsoever , been punishment for being the man's wife and giving the man information about her work place and boss , which every woman does , doesn't make sense

jimyjames:
Only if you have evidence of their marriage certificate which profiles the man as Mr kidnappers and former fraudster


Plus her husband having 30 million in his account doesn't mean she's aware of the money ,if the money was in her account then could have said so

jimyjames:
There is no where that says okereke was involved in the kidnapping, all we know is the husband got full information of the man she works for, from her , which is normal for a woman to tell her husband about the place she works and who she works for