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GoodIsGod:
Stay in your village and be assuming things.

If you have travelled out of Nigeria, you would be proud to be a Nigerian. They tell you to your face that you are smart and brilliant people.
More reasons most African countries are envious of us. It is true some are crooks among us but Nigerians are smart and strong will people.

I have not travelled outside of Africa but I have travelled wide in Africa and I know what I am saying.

I took a Taxi drop in Gambia (Drop is called Town Trip in Gambia) The Driver said to me.
"Are you a Nigerian?"
"Yes," I said.
"You guys are smart and intelligent," he said.
"Why did you say so?" I asked.
"It shows all over you guys. Even in the way you walk. You are always in a hurry, You are never sluggish and you are mostly successful," He said.
"Wait I will show you a Nigerian in the crowd," he added.
We got to one of their busiest and biggest markets. Serekunda Market. As he drove he said, "look, look at that guy. He is a Nigerian. You see the way he moves among the crowd?"
I laughed so hard because he was right. The guy is a Nigerian. We know ourselves in the country. While other people in crowd were slow and sluggish, that guy was moving left and right, walking as if he was about to be late for an interview.

Several other instances I can't type here.

Young guy, be proud of your Nation. Naija is great. You won't appreciate until you leave the shores of Nigeria.

With good leaders, we will be a great Nation the Europeans and Americans will envy.

That's my piece of cake for you.

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I'm sure if this very Fast and Furious Nigerian were to be your cab driver, you would have gotten to your destination in record time - while breaking every traffic law in the book just to be seen as the "sharp", fast guy way Nigerians be .

Nigerians being hardworking is not news. And I couldn't give two fuccksss whether a Ghanaian or any other national find us hardworking or not.

What would be news was if he had discovered a Nigerian tend to be the most HONEST person in a room comprising of several nationals. That would be some NEWS.

Some of the supposedly hard working Nigerians are actually working against the overall betterment of the system, at least here in Nigeria. Work can be negative too, or too selfish to have any positive impact on the society.

TastyFriedPussy:
I pray he ends up like ifeanyi

Omo. See pesin prayer

I wonder the name of your god that you expect to answer this payer.

At last, something refreshingly different on Nairaland.com

Alexia Putellas is really very good.

But Aitana Bonmati is my favorite female player at the moment. Watching her is like watching Andreas Ineista. She's an absolute baller, that girl.

Badgers14:
I am not a Messi fan but I am happy for him.

One thing that is really crazy is, Messi had a good supporting cast that helped him achieve this feat.

Messi wasn't even the best Argentina player in the squad in this world cup. Their goalkeeper (which I am not his fan either), did make many crucial saves to get them the cup but all we hear is Messi Messi.

In my opinion, Messi was not even the best player of the tournament but they still gave him the award.. although FIfa and whomever their team sponsors are gotta sell some shirts and all but again, life's not fair..

Best Argentine player...
Best player of the tournament...

All that is small talk.

We out here talking about the Greatest Player of All Time.

Nobody actually gives a flying fuccck about the best player in a 7-game mini tournament.

I just realized, I don't think I've ever bought peak milk can before with my money. That's mad.

We talkin the Greatest of All Time you talkin MOTM awards. You have a thing for small talk bruh?

I see not just one but TWO crooks. You've met your match. You may be done with her she's not done with you.

Like Argentina yesterday, you thought it was going to be an easy game after going two goals up. But France made a comeback. You've made your first move, you can't quit now until she's responded.

Unlike Argentina, you don't deserve to win ultimately. You both deserve to lose in fairness.

adeyemik:
She met another guy in her church and fell in love with him.

Her aunt invited me to her wedding 4 years ago (2018) but declined the invite because i felt it was not a good idea and I explained to her. She got married 16 years after we pathed ways.

Perhaps, she double-dated then. Which is always a recipe for unnecessary distraction.

Wow. 16 years is a really long time.

Hope they are safe? But anything to give Argentina the slightest advantage is welcome

Messi has to win this for football.

sharone21:
More women have feelings of guilt when they cheat than men.....

Maybe that was the only way she could help both of them.

That she opened up about cheating doesn't mean the man didn't start cheating before her.... Men can be cheating under a woman's nose and still be lying about it, not even this chronic liar of a man she found herself with.

That women don't come out like cry babies to talk about how Nigerian men deal with them doesn't mean Nigerian men are the good ones while Nigerian women should be feared.

Let Op pray well about her marriage.... Marriages are going through a lot these days..... A family who prays together and do many things in common ( as if they were of the same team) will stand alot of trials..... She should pray about her travelling too.... I understand her well, " why be with a man and also be taking care of him( when he seemingly is like not being grateful with the attitudes he is giving her despite all her efforts) when I can just take care of myself and kids"?....And this kind of man may not even try to be romantic a bit and pamper her so she feels less stressed.....

A self-admitted poor girl from a poor home, and was selflessly sponsored in school by her lover/benefactor, started reasoning like the above towards her lover/benefactor after she had cheated her way into a good paying job by fuccckinnnnn a rich guy. isn't that convenient?

This is either the story of a liar or the devil herself.

The story of a liar or the devil herself.

adeyemik:
I faced the similar situation years ago. I dated a lady for 4 years, it was at the fourth year, she told me, she was not interested again without any reason, and that I would be wasting my time sending people to appeal to her, referring to her mum and aunty.

Just curious bro...

looking back now, what did you deduce made her leave you the first time?

Nazgul:
Built a federal university in Ebonyi state, started the 2nd Niger bridge even though he didn't complete it.

He appointed two Igbos at the same time to head the army and the Navy. Rear Admiral D.J. Ezeoba was CNS, and General Ihejirika was the COAS.

He introduced Innoson technology into the realms of the Nigerian military apparatchik, Air force included.

What a massive achievement

In essence, the only reason why he thinks this beautiful goddess deserves better than a stinky Aboki tailor is because she's a "beautiful goddess". Nothing else.

If this girl was too beautiful for the Aboki, why didn't you go for her instead of your present girlfriend?

The amount of greedy persons in countries like Nigeria is far above what's obtainable elsewhere. That's why the country is exactly why it's like this. GREED. You can't be greedy and have honour - it's impossible.

A greedy person can't be loyal to you forever. Once a bigger offer comes along, they sell to that bidder.
Their loyalty is to the highest bidder.


Make the guy take heart. The chances of such an arrangement succeeding as planned is very low because people are just greedy in this part of the world. He may look like a fool now because he's been done the wrong way. But the potential biggest fool is the other guy marrying into such family. Like, after witnessing such ingratitude in display, you'd marry this girl still?

All from one belly? Amazing.

Omo. The parenting for 9 kids would be bonkers! Like babies crying for attention everywhere.

Imagine you're a family planning advocate only to get blessed with such a number of children. Feeding alone would be war.

Then comes education! 9 kids in the same acedemic levels. Like nine in the university. Crazy.

Even the blessing can be too much

Pretty hurts.

"Once An Accident, Twice A Coincidence, Three Times A Pattern."

In any union, the party with the most to lose if things go sideways should ordinarily come into it with the most "sense". Should be the most pragmatic.

Baby daddy can see one sweet chickitos and wake up one morning say he no do again, sighting "irreconcilable differences".

Perhaps, I'm overreacting. Perhaps, I'm taking panadol for another person's headache. Perhaps, the woman is actually okay with this and prefer this sort of arrangement.

It takes two to tango, they say.

ParrotGirls360:
In a very gory video.

Such a weird gory niche you blog about .

It's like watching a horror movie but only this is real. I've seen enough.

JDGirl:
Am not supporting anyone but before you guys judge the househelp try to find out her reasons for trying to steal the money at the first place.
secondly ask if her boss was kind and good to her while working with the boss

I'm also not supporting brutalising the househelp but a thief is a thief - whatever reasons they may have doesn't negate the fact that anyone caught in the act of stealing is a thief.

Also try and think for a second how it will feel to lose all your savings and hardwork to a thief you employed as househelp. The life is hard and e no balance, so everybody suppose cut cloth according to him size.

As long as her madam is paying for her services, kindness is a bonus, not an obligation. We all know most Nigerians are uncouth and only show respect to people they wish to benefit from, make househelp bear am. Madam they bear her own too because every body get boss one way or the other.

Besides, this thief stole more than 80% of the amount in the safe. Not like a $20 bill or something small to solve a pressing issue. This is a thief because of greed, most thives are.

MandelaLives:
If so, how many times has Chatham House invited US Presidential candidates to examine them?

I've already said as a matter of national pride, and because the topic revolves around local elections to select our president, our aspirants shouldn't go to foreign media and circles and start telling the world what they'll do for us. Elections are about us and not anybody else - so every politics should be kept local. When we elect them as leaders, they can project their leadership or governance style to a global audience, which is what Chatham House offers as a platform.

Invitations was sent, it is left for the presidential aspirants to honour them or not. Whether that's the UK, U.S, Ghana or Nigeria. We have always had unprincipled leaders here who only see value in their interests and nothing else.

Chatham will examine the elections, with or without the aspirants. They're not doing an analysis of the candidates but the 2023 elections. They examine the US elections, and the governments of Biden, Trump, Obama and all their predecessors.

Learn to direct your vitriol to the appropriate channel or party. Them no put gun to their heads to attend.

GodHimself:
"So when you fully understand how Dread works and when to use it, you’re going to do you and her both a favor and enjoy a more sexual relationship."

When you’re dating someone who has no fear of losing you, that no matter what she does you’re going to stay just because you’ve promised, then she’s not going to genuinely respect you.

And when there’s no respect, there’s no attraction.

When there’s no attraction, there’s no loyalty.

Therefore, when there’s no fear of loss, there is no value in staying with you.

If she doesn’t value you and instead takes you for granted, she won’t look up to you, listen to you, desire you, and help you with your mission and goals in life.

At that point, it’s going to be a matter of time before she grows to be unhappy and sexually frustrated enough to wonder why she into a relationship with you in the first place.

https://www.bunchofwisdom.com/dread-game/

This is also more logic than artsy. This is more or less same sides of the same coin as what you quoted above.

The only difference here is this is meant to be unspoken, and for a (frustrated) man patient enough to play the long game. But it takes two to tango. Less hope the woman is even paying enough attention to notice something is cooking.

fakum:
you are right about preferring masturbation but about touching her clit, she doesnt do that, its even war when i try to touch her there during love making, strangely. It is well sha.
I'm not regrecting marrying her, aside this, she is perfect for me, she is a good woman ooo just that non is 100%.

From all what you've said, you've painted your wife to be a mostly reasonable person, which is always a good thing.

Why don't you try more talking? This time, lay down the full picture and connect all the dots during your discussions. It seems she prefers masturbating, and that's reducing are desire to want to have traditional sex with you. And you, you CAN'T do without sex with your wife.

Seems all your diplomatic approaches have failed, time to be pragmatic. Let her understand you're now very unhappy with the situation, especially when it appears she's not THINKING DEEPLY about how her preferences is affecting you.

You've tried your best by being open-minded and and not judging. Now is HER time to come up with some PRACTICAL solutions. The point is to get her to start seeing things from a pragmatic angle where every actions or inactions might trigger unwanted chain of events. Especially when one partner in the union has already expressed dissatisfaction like you have.

You don't have to raise voice, quarrel or argue with her. But be firm and maintain focus. No go let her "honey" and "sugar" talk make you loseguard during such discussions oh . Otherwise, na only that one night you go enjoy the fruit of ya labour .

As for looking outside and paying 3K or whatever to get BJs, abeg die that matter. Na you talk if only say this matter no dey, your wife and marriage go be 100%. You may get your BJs, but you'll lose the trust in your marriage if your wife finds out. Even if she never finds out, you'll wake up every morning to the fact you're now a dishonest man.

mariahAngel:
And not adultery itself?
So, when does it become adultery?

Eya . I even missed this point self without realising

Make we wait for am to answer your question . Apparently, there're levels to this adultery.

I actually agree and share the sentiments that Nigeria's presidential candidates shouldn't have any business going to Chatham House to "campaign" and explain why they want to rule us. We may not be where we want to be as a nation, but we should never lose our pride as an independent country.


That being said, the writer's vituperations about Chatham House being a mere research institute, so shouldn't have the audacity to "examine" our presidential aspirants is quite laughable.

I mean, Chatham House is a leadership think-tank. They "examine" or "study" events and people. In fact, the House actually talked about "examining" Nigeria's 2023 elections itself, more than anything else. The United Nations and EU also "examine" our elections. There's nothing wrong with that.

This is actually a very deep topic and nothing is ever black or white, especially when it comes to life.

The importance of having raw, hard cash somewhere cannot be over emphasized. If you can save any little, please save. The money may not increase in value but at least, it will be there until you can think of something 'thoughtful' to do with it.

Life is so unpredictable but with money, you can maintain some degree of stability.

toujurs:
Don't mind the fool, . Very dumb being. I could remember when i told my ex, i just saved 2m, this was 2019. I thought this babe would plan with me, on how i can establish my self, come and see billing, from left, right and centre coming from her.

The discipline that made me, save that much. Wouldn't let me lavish the money. She broke up with me, when she noticed she couldn't eat from the savings..

I'm sure she go dey one side they label you "stingy man." .

Actually, these are the kind of signs that are really important and what men should watch out for when courting, instead of disturbing themselves about irrelevancies.

It will take someone with more than average stupidity to want to spend another person's savings on frivolities. For those people who like to 'test' their partners, this are the kind of "honest" situations to put them through and see how they handle it.

If oshiomole wants Edo North Senatorial seat, Oshiomole will get it. I don't think he needs to campaign.

I happened to really travel the length and breadth of Edo North around 2013 to 2014, his works as governor of the state is evident.

I know a senator's job is different from that of a governor, but Oshiomole is very vibrant as well. As senators go in Nigeria, he'll do well.

Duchessree:
I can't involve myself in argument on which anime characters is stronger. In my own opinion let just watch it and enjoy it. Imagine someone comparing the five hokages to the captains in black clover like if they were to fight who will solo who?, I'm like such disrespect ,
Lemme just stop here..
Argument like this bring unnecessary drama and what i like to avoid is unnecessary drama.
Or between marvel and DC which one is better, who has the strongest superhero (when its obviously clear who the strongest super hero is)
Wizkid and Davido which one is better
CR7 and messi who is the Goat ..
Omo i dey run from argument like these o, especially with a dumb person

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How's this obvious? Let's start there