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21cents:
that's if you're certain you're marrying her.

God has serious punishments for that person that bursted a lady's hymen without wifing her up. most men are taking gullible ladies virginity upandan and feeling fly like a Superman.

aanu yin shemi!

Kingsteve:
FACT: there are more females than males worldwide.
Logically, the OP is correct.
Men are scarce!

21cents:
no mind them..

preserve your virginity till you marry to avoid something like this Dem no go hear. dey will say is it your virginity and that it's overrated.

truth is when you don't know what sex feels like, you'd only keep speculating and not immerse yourself in dirty premarital sexcapades. but the moment you've tasted prick before marrying, it'll be difficult to stay loyal to one person as you'd keep yearning for more which breeds ugly situations like this.

virgins are gold! no to premarital sexcapades.

Admissionclass:
Good morning NLI have a little problem at hand there is this lady I started dating recently the relationship is just two months old.At first it was all love and bliss she promised to be with me forever but it's no longer like that.at first when we started dating she always comes to my workplace everyday then I will see her off when she leaves but two days ago it's changed immediately after work she went home without even calling me to let me know she wouldn't come I called her to know why she told me it was an emergency that she had to go home early I overlooked but yesterday she did the same thing again I called her she didn't pick I whatssaped her she took hour to reply after reading it.
She later replied the chat begging me she is sorry this time around I was a bit harsh on her I told her pump and play that if she doesn't love me again that she should just say it rather than playing mind games on me she replied me harshly telling me that am overreacting but I still stood my ground then she went offline .

after some minutes I updated my whatssap status posting one of my beautiful female friends with a catchy caption she saw it and messaged me immediately that I am trying to make her jealous I ignored the messaged without replying.

my question is this a red flag that she is no longer interested in the relationship? because she hardly does this before or should I be a bit patient with her because I want to end the relationship before she dumps me please help.

Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now

Dalby:
I did, years down the road it turned out to be a very big mistake...

eedimo:
Why do poeple even get married?

raquel97:
Just curious cos two guys have told me the exact statement

Rahym001:
Ño salary oooo, this is serious

marvin906:
how does the two scenario correlate..
am confused

gnss:
. Any man that Kneels down to propose to a Lady is a Fool and Compound Baffoon the message is Clear ...Stop looking for unnecessary reasons to defend fools . .

marvin906:
don't know about others but I can't kneel down to propose to any girl in this life or the next no matter the love I have for her i can't it just feels somehow In my head thinking about it..
buh who ever likes it is free to kneel

Nn3muka:
Are you a woman ?

Nn3muka:
When she screams harder, harder that is when she's about to cum naa
why stop?

Riele:
Such a weakling of a man .



Oga controller , is she suppose to be making a daily list of places she wants to go ? . Does she need your permission ?

He's a cheat , so says the wife and he should be treated as one .

hybrid77:
Pls i need a sincere advice here.

Im 3 months old in marriage and im so unhappy about the set up (my wife too)

My wife is a student and she tried everything to shift the marriage until easter this year but i refused due to many projects for the year. so we got married 3 months ago.

I took care of her bills since she got admission and we dated for 5 years

But she is so disrespectful and want to make important decisions in marriage which ive refused to allow.

Now, she claims i forced her into marriage and she is not mentally ready because i asked her to change to my family's name.

She has been good then bad then worse..And i think her words about forcing her into marriage has irreparably hurt me.

I spent over 3m of my cash to give her the wedding she wanted (Without any support from her family) against my wish for a 1m wedding.

And despite getting the big wedding she wants before consenting to marry last year, she claims she is not mentally ready and was forced into marriage.

she has repeated this over and over and its making me go crazy..in fact im tired already

Right now she wants more time to be a wife..but im beginning to feel there is a love issue here..I feel she does not love me as she always claims

Though weve settled but we dont talk as usual..we dont even want to hear from each other...

it seems i nolonger love her like i used to..And worst still, continuing with the marriage when she claims she was forced is degrading and disreputable.

My question is, at what point should anyone seriously consider a divorce?

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

Humblezick:
So up till now, No Staff From Federal University has collected his or her minimum wage arrears?
Any news?

AFONJACOW:
Here is mine... Nearly a year it happened still dating same girl but when ever i remember the whole flashback it hit me like hurricane... I called her with different number on WhatsApp prentend to be another guy, I asked her if she had a boyfriend she said yes but out of the country, lol but I dey just few kilometers from her, to cut the whole story short, this particular girl gave gave me her full attention something she hardly do with me, she gave all her information out, even her home town how many they are in the family, I lied to her that am coming to see her on weekend that a friend of mine is wedding, therefore I will stay over night in a hotel and Would like us to meet there, she didn't object , but this is a girl I have never took to hotel or she slept in my house for the first time before the incident, I asked her what I will bring for her , she said anything and I asked her what she will bring for me, she replayed me, that I should mention one, I said OK. I want a warm kiss and some hugging she said that's not a problem, she was very friendly , open minded more than she was to me , a total stranger, we spent hours talking on WhatsApp, we have never talk so long like that before, I asked her if she will come she said yes but after market, am 100% convinced she will come if I didn't blow my cover , when I couldn't take it any more, i blowed my cover, this is a girl I have been dating for 3yrs and my intention is marriage, I have never date any girl so long in the pass , i proposed to her on December last year and we are planing our wedding middle this year, but each time I remember the incidents it hurt my feelings, I cant walk away because I love her so much and I cant forgive her because I have long memory of forgetting and highly emotional due to my Orthodox style , one man one woman

PointZerom:
The moment the girl knows that it's bn videoed her instinct will tell her something especially this era of social media where a lot of them hv watched things like this.

I CANNOT BE DECEIVED.


Don't pray to b faced with problem or issues..u won't even know who is filming u.. Because ur mind won't even be there.

hooha:
Have you noticed that when you are in the act of cheating, you receive phone call from your partner, or when a person is cheating his or her partner with you, such a person receives a phone call. And then you may hear words like "where are you now?", "who are you with?", and the atmosphere is a bit tensed. One reason for such calls may be soul tie or spirit connection with your partner.

myke92:
Aboi... If you are hell bent on letting her go, then what you have to do is quite simpl.

Just kill the "COMMUNICATION" totally..

Never call her.
Never answer her calls.
Don't message her.
Don't reply her messages
Don't stalk her.
Don't view her status
Don't like her photos
Don't comment on her posts

My point is.. Avoid her completely.

Do this assiduously for at least 6 months.. I can guarantee you that it will be quite difficult, But she will eventually get the memo.

The only problem here is that.. You still love her, thereby making it more difficult to let go.

All the best bro, whatever decision you take.

Apus:
From d foregoing, two things are bound to happen.

First it's either you man-up to prove yourself to her parents that you are worthy of her irrespective of what their stand maybe. She must also be with you spear-heading this fight if truly she loves you . Mind you, this path can be somehow tough and long...

or you raise a "white flag" and let her go now. Break all forms of contact with her.
Don't be surprised she sends you an invitation for her wedding even before she completes her youth service.

MrBrownJay1:
i can only advise you to stay with your babe and cherish the moment you have with her... instead of trying to destroy it.

natsuDragneel:
If you truly love her bro, then this is a truly complicated situation which might force the lady to choose between you and her parents...

It's nice of you to try to make it easier for her to choose by removing yourself as an option cos it's not not fair to have to put someone in that kinda position, but why not just leave the decision with the babe

If you both eventually get married, the babe's relationship with her parents might be strained or rocky but it's not unfixable (y'all might have a problem getting their blessings tho, for the marriage I mean)

Frankly, the babe should be able to stand her ground on what she wants as Tribal differences are not even as trivial as maybe religious differences or something else

ZiriMane:
All these tribal baskad talks in this century awes me.

buh both of you know that you won't work! so why are you people still deceiving yourselves?

femi4:
Change the topic, She "has" not She "have"

AfroKnight:
She rejected the break up? Omo this world is strange.

It’s like you want her to shatter your heart before you go. Better shut her out immediately.