₦airaland Forum

Tokskob2008:
This people should be left alone to do whatever they like to do within their country, if they like let them kill evey single citizen in their country na them sabi..

I just think American has a plan, and it's obviously working.

HASSANAASIA:
Why is everyone avoiding the part he said he has so many girlfriends?a girl can't be serious with such a guy

I think a lady should learn to keep herself. Worry less about anything a man does.

Why don't girl complain about their cheating boyfriends they way boys do?
Fact is, women cheat with men, I believe those men also have girlfriends so why Don't they complain much.
All I see on nairaland is, my girl cheated bla bla bla.

Amajerry83:
You should get married if it comes from your heart and make sure you marry your like. Study a lady before getting married to her because people don't change after marriage. Although, in some cases people drop old habits as they get older and wiser. Some married prostitutes who later became good housewives while some married devoted church goer who later became cheats. If you want to look at only the disadvantages of marriage i bet you would be scared of it. Free your mind, understand your partner. DO NOT be extremely jealous and possessive. You married her does not stop her from being friends with the opposite sex. Let her do her things but guide her to make sure she doesn't fall. Women think they are smart not knowing men are way smarter! You should trust a woman before you make her wife. My last advice is do not fall for the phone privacy rubbish. If there's nothing to hide both you and your partner's phones should be accessible to the both of you. My brother, marriage is sweet. I've been married for 13 years with 4 kids. I feel so happy everytime i see my beautiful wife and my cute kids.

Good. Congratulations.

Pls did u marry her a virgin?
Because I am in a situation, I fear cos my girl not a virgin when we met.
But, she's so nice.
When I think of that fact, I just feel like not getting married.

Fact that I can get fake and original...at different price.

SimplyFacts:
Niyi could be right about Emmanuel. I can't even survive a week in that kind of house? I hate it so badly when my movement is restricted. I nearly jailbroke in NYSC camp. While many PCMs were feeling lively, I was seeing myself outside the camp.

You are just not alone. I almost grew crazy in camp.
Like I asked myself, what's people happy about. If to say I pass four weeks, mehn..I fit don mad by now. Major reason, why I stay away from what will put me in prison.

Oh..I actually thought I will see somethings like I married my wife because she's a virgin.

It's strange, I did not see much or any here.

Does it mean , virginity does not really matter?

Rozcol:
I pity women who gives men like you a chance in their life and making them miserable all in the name of women bringing something to the table. Women are not providers,you men of this generation should go learn from your forefathers.

Truth is, women only make reference when if favours them.
Most of our forefathers married virgins.
Most of their wife's, know their place in marriage.
These days, a woman want equality and yet shy away from responsibility.

ubunja:
In Gut We Trust.

Gut feelings, and why you need to start paying attention when you have a bad feeling about your woman.

DREAMS.
If your girl has a dream and you are in that dream and in that dream you cheat on her, in the morning she will wake up fully convinced that somehow, somewhere you indeed cheated on her with someone.

As crazy as it sounds, there is a method to her madness.

MINDS.
Your mind is divided into two parts: the Conscious That you control. That you're using to read this writeup, which encompasses your IQ, your imagination and your thoughts. It's your cognitive mind. The Conscious gets tired, sleeps when you sleep and rises with you in the morning, refreshed. Its power varies with age, gender, race, level of education etc.

The second part is the Subconscious; many times faster, vaster, wider and deeper than your Conscious. From birth to death this marvelous processor never sleeps. Its power is out of reach from direct contact, meaning you cannot directly tap into its immensity, but it works for you. And it knows you better than you know yourself.

INTUITION.
Imagine this scenario: You're walking in the crowded CBD and it suddenly occurs to you that a man wearing a black trousers, a blue T-Shirt and dark glasses has been following you since several streets ago, although you did not notice him till now and there is no way you could have consistently tracked him among the hundreds of people you have passed.

How is that possible?

This way: As you walk in town you take in the World around you through your senses. An endless stream of sights, sounds and smells feeding to your Conscious mind. A lot of this information will not register with your Mind because it's "out of range" (the information is presented too fast, too faintly, too inconsistently etc). but your Subconscious, a superior processor, picks this information up and processes it: connecting dots, reading patterns, noting repetitions, comparing memories, matching colours faces and smells - all without your knowledge or effort.

After processing this information your Subconscious picks out that one man consistently featuring in all your recent memories, decodes his body language and flags him as a possible threat, giving you a tip-off in the form of a feeling. a gut feeling, a hunch: INTUITION. It is intuition that makes you aware you are being followed.

Intuition is intelligent advice from your Subconscious but that's given as a feeling because your Subconscious processes information your Mind has missed so your Subconscious can't engage with your Mind for lack of evidence to support its tip-offs, so instead it engages the one avenue in us that accepts anything regardless of evidence: feelings.

Now, intuition is not the only avenue your Subconscious uses to present it's tip-offs. The Subconscious also uses: dreams. And we all have, at one time or another, dreamed a dream that gave us an answer to a problem we had. Maybe it was a name, or a face, or a place that came to us in our sleep. That was our Subconscious being of service to us.

Which brings us to the dream your girlfriend had of you cheating which angered her and prevented the Morning Glory from happening. To her it wasn't just a random dream that came to her pillow. It was Intuition. A heads-up from the Universe.

Women are Creatures of Emotion and emotions are feelings and intuition is a feeling, so it is women who are more in tune with Intuition, even though both men and women have it. But lucky for you, like all good advice that's wasted on their pretty ears, women rarely follow their intuition. They just pride themselves in having it.

"THE VOICE OF GOD IN THE SOUL."
Because the Subconscious is the perfect logic engine unaffected by poor education, bad religion, feelings, bias, propaganda, bigotry and prejudice, the success rate of Intuition is so staggering its almost magic. Almost divine. Like the voice of God in the soul.

WHY YOUR GUT IS NEVER WRONG.
When it comes to relationships Why is your gut feeling almost always right?

Because your Subconscious picks up hints that your mind can't see that a girl's Subconscious gives without her mind realizing it.

In other words; as humans when we do something wrong we do the best we can to act like we've done nothing wrong. We act normal like nothing happened. But there are hints we put out unawares, subconsciously, that betray us. Policemen are trained to pick these up. eg when a person is making up a lie he looks up in the air to his right. Such things. We do them without even realizing it. And most of us are not trained to pick these clues up.

But here is the thing; all of us, our Subconscious is built to pick up such clues by default. So even if untrained to catch an offender through body language, our Subconscious mind does so automatically. And because our Subconscious can't then feed these hints to our mind because "we didn't see anything" it reroutes it's findings to the gut. And we get a gut feeling that something ain't right. We might not be able to explain why but we feel this deep discomfort about a particular thing.

That's your subconscious doing its best to let you know you're being fed BS. It's nature's Lie Detector. An inner compass that will forever guide you right.

IN GUT WE TRUST.
Listen to your gut. It will tell you when a girl likes you, when a girl is cheating on you and especially when a girl is about to dump you. Your gut always tells you. But you don't listen.

If you are honest before God you'll admit that just before your ex-GF left you there was this feeling of unease deep inside you that refused to go away. A feeling of impending doom that you couldn't quite understand that stayed with you for days. That was your gut giving you a tip off.

If something doesn't feel quite right, no matter how OK everything appears to the eye, but deep within you there's this feeling that somehow something is not as it should be NEVER EVER IGNORE THAT FEELING.

If there's this nagging thought at the back of your head that something is not quite right with your GF, even if her love appears unchanged and she still does all you ask and supplies all the sex you need, DON'T IGNORE THAT PERSISTENT THOUGHT. That's your sweet and ever-loyal Subconscious passing you a message. Dont try to look for proof and evidence of foulplay, you won't find any. If you could see it then your intuition wouldn't have been utilized.

Don't confide in a friend about your hunches and gut feelings because your friend will ask "What have you seen?" and you'll say "Nothing" then he'll convince you it's all in your head and you're imagining stuff.

But you'll have only yourself to blame when later, your gut feeling is proven correct in the most terrible and painful way to you.

Once your gut feelings start troubling you, start packing your bags.

IN TUNE WITH INTUITION.
How do you tune into your intuition?

Through Meditation - Those quiet times when you switch off the world to hear yourself. Not to sound like some New Age hippie, but Great Intelligence always speaks to us in our quiet moments. God Himself says, "BE STILL and know that I am God" (Psalm 46:10, emphasis mine). And great inventors have always been loners dwelling in solitude unmarried and undisturbed.

So find time to be quiet. To be still. And the still small voices will come through. It will take time to amplify that voice and to learn to trust it. But practice is everything. Start small. Learning to trust your gut in little things and escalate as it proves itself.
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Personally, I think I am facing a similar scenario. I am presently dating a girl with the intention of getting married to her, but sometimes I feel something is wrong or missing, Despite her love for me. I must say, she's the best I have dated, because of how she express her love towards me. However, I still feel strange. Sometimes, I feel its because she exposed her past to me. All I do is just console myself that she's a nice girl, then I try to get this feeling of her past behind me.
But I still feel something missing.


I feel this gut stuff, we actually experience it with lot of people, mostly new friends or relationship. The people that proves us wrong, we hold so dear. While the people that prove us right, we appreciate our guts for the hint.

When I gut feeling gets proven wrong..I think trust comes in.

I pray mine works for me, because I am marrying this year.

benqo01:
Tight pussy is bae.......the other fit sink u and your dick inside

Lol..after a year, your virgin wife go open. No worry.

Ikwerelastborn:
Everything u said is nonsense and the other way round
You sound less intelligent, how will something frequently used be more tighter than something not used or used just once, lets assume nature here,is it only those who frequently have sex that have the nature to have a tight pvssy.?
You're grossly unintelligent

Hmm..why the insult?

teebillz:
The funny thing is that some older ladies have even more tighter puzzies than the younger ones.

The size of a virgina does not depend on body count. Sometimes, it's just nature.
I've been with a virgin, I've been with non virgins.
Most cases , non virgins are usually tighter. Aside that first pain , a virgin gets, when u are in, its actually like any other.
I had, same thinking till I met a virgin.

myright:
Hello Jerry, I need your input concerning my civil engineering masters thesis. Thanks

How much u get?

iruocious:
Did the op watch the video well or he just rushed to create a topic? That's Tiwa telling Seyi Shay and not the other way round.

I was waiting for this. Nigerians are funny people..we really find it hard to do research or understand contents. We just jump into conclusions. Wrong headline.

sematec:
how can buhari say this
are there no competent hands in this country again

He no see hausa give.

Muna4real:
What do you think about this guys? How can a guy end a relationship ( he initiated the break up) but still sends money (without asking) and shows concern? It just looks like he's an elder brother, or still in a relationship without seeing each other. When asked why he still cares,he says" that how I am. I'm just naturally caring)

I don't understand. Is there a hidden motive? As I type, he's planning a Gift for my birthday. I no send am message oh!

I think he likes u, but know you two can't be and feel u not financially OK..so he try to help. Probably you a nice soul.

I do that sometimes, just to have peace

lekki1444:
naija has taken over the worlld. anthony joshua, israel adesanya, kamoru usman, and now apollo

This regime na so so fight war we they win. No wonder bandit full everywhere.

Have u ever wondered why companies ask for 5,6,7,8,9 years of experience?

I have dated the bad and good.

Good girls, want to be treasured and treated like a princess.
Bad girls will treat u like a kind when they do love u fir real.

Good girl always have this entitlement mentality.
Bad girls feels , they lot what's special to men and look for new ways to balance it all when they love u.

Hakeem66:
Chelsea always getting easier draw

No club is easy.

FalseProphet1:
I see Nigeria dividing because of this fuel issue. Northern and Southern Nigeria, I see southern Nigeria progressing and becoming like Europe, I see whites and other Nationals struggling to get southern Nigeria visas, I see fuel selling for N40 per liter in Southern Nigeria. This I have seen.

Legend of the seeker. Congratulations

Mabizeka:
Every celebrity is buying houses and cars this one is kneeling down to beg a woman to marry him

What profit is this if you not happy?
If what he is doing, gives him joy..who be u to judge?

This is deep!! I remember when my dad died, I was in js1 then. Every knock on our door reminds me of him. Sometimes when I go open the door, I really do wish it was him knocking.

Me I know I'll cry on my wedding if I get to marry my Ex. I really love her but her parents objected. If that dream of marrying her come true.. I definitely know ill cry on my wedding because its victory at last. But if na for another woman..no way.

Because Hausa Muslim just left the Aso rock.

Peacefullove:
She is tired, just used that format to discharge you.

Well not totally true. Prior to this time her parents dissagreed. we just used faith to continue. Till pastor matter came in. So it was not an easy battle for us two. So whatever she did, I had no problem with it.

debbydams:
I feel for u, its not easy but make it easy by letting her go, stop chatting, stop calling her, forget all the good memories u shared together, alot of girls wants u nd they are betta than your ex, what is yours will neva leave u, u dont know what God has done, every disappointment is a blessing, what if u marry her nd she leta kill u ?





.I had a breakup sometime ago, I cried asif the world � has end, I went for prayer I was told to leave the guy im dating nd I must not marry him, alot of warning, I got home nd I started thinking � God,, woman � plenty, man � plenty, if no do another one go do.. Move on jor she no deserve your time

Mehn. A girl did this to me. Called telling me a pastor said ill leave her after 3 years of marriage. I love this girl so much. But she left. Not easy moving on, but am trying.

tesolmake:
Was just thinking, between a guy and a lady, who moves on from a break-up faster?

Who heals faster?

#seun
#lalasticlala

Personally I feel it all depends.
The emotional one find it more difficult.
I don't feel it involves, who spends more. Some men have money, and can spend it just anyhow they want. But the day they get tired of the girl, they let her go without a blink.
So I feel it has to do with emotions.
Personally for me, I spend more on a woman I don't like because I feel I pay her for her services. And when I say its over, I hv no regrets.

Let me put it this way again.


We all have our dream partner, if I meet mine, I tend to love her more because she's all I ever dreamt of. I.e she has every quality I want in a woman.
The probability of that same girl seeing me as her dream man might just not be there. So I guess when we break up, I'll feel it more because she was the woman of my dream.
It happens both ways.

Delebams:
What about deeper life

Hi

Joysticks:
Some ladies are trying.I can't share my woman with any man.

I no understand u.

Fact is, its good in a way because this kind of girls hardly cheats. You have no fear of ex boyfriend disturbing. She can give u everything u ask.

But.

You really need to be patient, mostly when you have good intentions.
She will take you for granted time without numbers.. feeling she's doing right.
But in that, she will trust u.

Am presently with one now..sometimes I really wish she had that first hand break up experience before meeting me. Some other time , I really appreciate God for giving her to me.
I think I prefer the later than the former because she's so sweet.

Seriously its really worth it.

LudaChriz:
What's ydy Stop writing like a nuisance. You're supposed to be working in an academic environment

Does it mean everyone here works in a school environment?
Read the topic again.

yazga:
1. Build my house, career and live large
2. Bitter, arguments over sex and money
3 Marriage is not for kids but Adults, most men appear like boss and lie among their friends but can't do half the things they tell their friends
4. Divorce is a big option and being a single mom is a very good option
5. if he doesn't smoke or drink, please run really far away even if does check well ooo because alcohol goes with women
Avoid religious men, they amount to nothing, if he raises his hand that that recipe for domestic violence. If he gambes so sorry, NFA is your case even your kids may drop out

I no understand.
Why should u from someone that don't drink or smoke?