marvin906:




how does the two scenario correlate..
am confused

gnss:
. Any man that Kneels down to propose to a Lady is a Fool and Compound Baffoon the message is Clear ...Stop looking for unnecessary reasons to defend fools . .

marvin906:
don't know about others but I can't kneel down to propose to any girl in this life or the next no matter the love I have for her i can't it just feels somehow In my head thinking about it..
buh who ever likes it is free to kneel

Nn3muka:

Are you a woman ?

Nn3muka:
When she screams harder, harder that is when she's about to cum naa
why stop?

Riele:
Such a weakling of a man .



Oga controller , is she suppose to be making a daily list of places she wants to go ? . Does she need your permission ?

He's a cheat , so says the wife and he should be treated as one .

hybrid77:
Pls i need a sincere advice here.

Im 3 months old in marriage and im so unhappy about the set up (my wife too)

My wife is a student and she tried everything to shift the marriage until easter this year but i refused due to many projects for the year. so we got married 3 months ago.

I took care of her bills since she got admission and we dated for 5 years

But she is so disrespectful and want to make important decisions in marriage which ive refused to allow.

Now, she claims i forced her into marriage and she is not mentally ready because i asked her to change to my family's name.

She has been good then bad then worse..And i think her words about forcing her into marriage has irreparably hurt me.

I spent over 3m of my cash to give her the wedding she wanted (Without any support from her family) against my wish for a 1m wedding.

And despite getting the big wedding she wants before consenting to marry last year, she claims she is not mentally ready and was forced into marriage.

she has repeated this over and over and its making me go crazy..in fact im tired already

Right now she wants more time to be a wife..but im beginning to feel there is a love issue here..I feel she does not love me as she always claims

Though weve settled but we dont talk as usual..we dont even want to hear from each other...

it seems i nolonger love her like i used to..And worst still, continuing with the marriage when she claims she was forced is degrading and disreputable.

My question is, at what point should anyone seriously consider a divorce?

Kathleens:
I have to create another account for this reason, please i need all the advice I can get to save my marriage and sanity.

Recently I have been feeling so Hot after I stopped my baby from breastfeeding. My hubby tries his own possible way to satisfy me but after the sex I will still masturbate to pleasure myself cause I will be fantasizing about someone going down on me with their tongue (I have never experienced that in my entire life) my hubby doesn't do that.

This has made to fantasize about other guys giving me the pleasure I need, i went as far as searching the internet for gigolos and having this fantasy with them on my mind. This is crazy, I even contacted one and we fixed a date (he promised to go down on me really hot with his tongue) but I bluffed it cause I really don't have the courage to cheat on my hubby though I have cheated on him a million times on my head. I can't even imagine doing it physically but the thought is always on my head. I need to stop this and the frequent masturbation before it ruins me.

I need all the advices including insults, maybe the insults will reset my head. I am 32 years with four kids. Thank you

Humblezick:
So up till now, No Staff From Federal University has collected his or her minimum wage arrears?
Any news?

AFONJACOW:
Here is mine... Nearly a year it happened still dating same girl but when ever i remember the whole flashback it hit me like hurricane... I called her with different number on WhatsApp prentend to be another guy, I asked her if she had a boyfriend she said yes but out of the country, lol but I dey just few kilometers from her, to cut the whole story short, this particular girl gave gave me her full attention something she hardly do with me, she gave all her information out, even her home town how many they are in the family, I lied to her that am coming to see her on weekend that a friend of mine is wedding, therefore I will stay over night in a hotel and Would like us to meet there, she didn't object , but this is a girl I have never took to hotel or she slept in my house for the first time before the incident, I asked her what I will bring for her , she said anything and I asked her what she will bring for me, she replayed me, that I should mention one, I said OK. I want a warm kiss and some hugging she said that's not a problem, she was very friendly , open minded more than she was to me , a total stranger, we spent hours talking on WhatsApp, we have never talk so long like that before, I asked her if she will come she said yes but after market, am 100% convinced she will come if I didn't blow my cover , when I couldn't take it any more, i blowed my cover, this is a girl I have been dating for 3yrs and my intention is marriage, I have never date any girl so long in the pass , i proposed to her on December last year and we are planing our wedding middle this year, but each time I remember the incidents it hurt my feelings, I cant walk away because I love her so much and I cant forgive her because I have long memory of forgetting and highly emotional due to my Orthodox style , one man one woman

PointZerom:



The moment the girl knows that it's bn videoed her instinct will tell her something especially this era of social media where a lot of them hv watched things like this.

I CANNOT BE DECEIVED.


Don't pray to b faced with problem or issues..u won't even know who is filming u.. Because ur mind won't even be there.

hooha:
Have you noticed that when you are in the act of cheating, you receive phone call from your partner, or when a person is cheating his or her partner with you, such a person receives a phone call. And then you may hear words like "where are you now?", "who are you with?", and the atmosphere is a bit tensed. One reason for such calls may be soul tie or spirit connection with your partner.

myke92:
Aboi... If you are hell bent on letting her go, then what you have to do is quite simpl.

Just kill the "COMMUNICATION" totally..

Never call her.
Never answer her calls.
Don't message her.
Don't reply her messages
Don't stalk her.
Don't view her status
Don't like her photos
Don't comment on her posts

My point is.. Avoid her completely.

Do this assiduously for at least 6 months.. I can guarantee you that it will be quite difficult, But she will eventually get the memo.

The only problem here is that.. You still love her, thereby making it more difficult to let go.

All the best bro, whatever decision you take.

Apus:
From d foregoing, two things are bound to happen.

First it's either you man-up to prove yourself to her parents that you are worthy of her irrespective of what their stand maybe. She must also be with you spear-heading this fight if truly she loves you . Mind you, this path can be somehow tough and long...

or you raise a "white flag" and let her go now. Break all forms of contact with her.
Don't be surprised she sends you an invitation for her wedding even before she completes her youth service.

MrBrownJay1:


i can only advise you to stay with your babe and cherish the moment you have with her... instead of trying to destroy it.

natsuDragneel:
If you truly love her bro, then this is a truly complicated situation which might force the lady to choose between you and her parents...

It's nice of you to try to make it easier for her to choose by removing yourself as an option cos it's not not fair to have to put someone in that kinda position, but why not just leave the decision with the babe

If you both eventually get married, the babe's relationship with her parents might be strained or rocky but it's not unfixable (y'all might have a problem getting their blessings tho, for the marriage I mean)

Frankly, the babe should be able to stand her ground on what she wants as Tribal differences are not even as trivial as maybe religious differences or something else

ZiriMane:
All these tribal baskad talks in this century awes me.

buh both of you know that you won't work! so why are you people still deceiving yourselves?

femi4:
Change the topic, She "has" not She "have"

AfroKnight:
She rejected the break up? Omo this world is strange.

It’s like you want her to shatter your heart before you go. Better shut her out immediately.

MrBrownJay1:


you make no damn sense....1st you said you knew this issue all along and had no problem with it, 2nd you now say you want a break up because of that exact same issue and 3rd you now say you actually love the babe?!?!?!!

2papa:
Please I need your advise
My Girl friend had a Child, I love her so much and I want to marry her, as a matter of fact, have gone to see her parents to take list for her Bride Price

We are Both from Delta State and the same LGA. I was transferred to Lagos State March of this Year, Have been in Lagos State since March while she has been in Delta State with her 4 Years old Daughter.

She came to visit me in Lagos on Monday Last week 10th of December 2019 and it is just 1 week and she is telling me she can't wait to go back she is Missing her Daughter.

I wasn't happy with that Statement she Made and have told her when she return to Delta state she shouldn't bother visiting me anymore.

Now my Question and the Help I want from you guys is this.

1. Can her baby bring conflict in our relationship/Marriage.

2. Will she love my Children if we start having babies

3. Should I quit the relationship.

Note: My mum love her so much

Billsmith:
I fell in love with a Yoruba and my plans was to get mrried to her. The first day her dad saw her with me, she was beaten up and was forbidden from seeing me. Her elder sister saw her again with me and she was beaten up again mercilessly. Their reason was that, I am not from their tribe and they say nothing whenever they see her with a Yoruba boy.
I really love her and feels jealous whenever I see her with other Yoruba boys talking. I have tried to put her off my mind but no way. She still love me as she said and I realy need to settle down soon. I love her but her people are now our obstacle. What do I do? I can't even put her off my mind. I need your advice .

cococandy:
I just read the first paragraph and couldn’t go on.

You actually read this and posted it?

Ginaz:


Special adviser to God? All cos of woman matter chaiii. May God have mercy on you with this your blasphemy, kindly pray to God to forgive you.

stupidity:
Whoever made this comment, I’ll find you and appoint you chairman of occasion(high table), VVIP and best man at my wedding, coming up soon!!


After the wedding I’ll appoint you as God father, adviser and counselor of my home.


When you get old, I’ll erect a monument for you with the inscription “best comment in romance section 2019”

When you die I’ll write a letter to the Nigerian government to fix a special day in honor of your service to nairaland.



When you get to heaven I’ll pray to God to make you His special adviser. If Na hell you Dey go I’ll tell Devil to make you his PA.

I wish I can hug this guy right now. I lur you bro!!!

Peace!!!

*wipes tears*

JERRY1925

stevups:
If you need sex go for school girl, but if you need a wife, go for a graduate who has completed NYSC.

MiVida:
Dating students are a total waste of time and they are easy to yansh... They get wet so easily and can sleep over anytime... Total waste of time!