Nadingo:
Mtcheww

Lol..we self they wait for am. I bin wan just frustrate u. I even disbursed my salary thinking the palliative go enter. Na by grace I they survive.

ashafson:
Hello everyone.
Pls any update on wage award?

Which one?
Who owe u?
Shey u never collect salary?
Which exam you write wey u they find award for excellence.

Rinoxy:
NBTI alerted, Gtbank.

Was palliative added?

Teeyoo:


Thanks for your input. However, both of us are best of friends. We are age mate and few days older than each other. Let me talk in that level now, she's very close to 40 and likewise myself. There's sense of maturity between the two parties. If it's between two young opposite gender, it can be a different ball game. Before both of us depart, we do as if we've been friends from heaven. You won't know who's older than each other. Our spirit is far away from sex. We advise each other, give moral and financial support and even ask for each other's husband and wife. So, having sex is the last thing on our mind. Thank you.

They play. If u so sure of yourselves tell her to inform her husband before leaving.

Medianna:

Ideally Payslip comes out before payments sir.

U are very correct. But corruption no allow people do the right thing.

adem30:
It's just because the Cotonou Tomato journalist Babajide hates Yahaya Bello till heavens, so he can never support anything Yahaya Bello support. He even denounce his kogi citizenship because of Yahaya Bello and adopted Ekiti

How can somebody normal support bello?

ahnie:
The church I ran away from with my full chest.



Happy anniversary to them

As u run..the church close?

Abeg rest, nobody ask u.

sarkinbauchi:

I hereby call on all Muslims faithfuls nationwide to as a matter of urgency boycott and stop using Infinix Phones as long as Davido is their brand Ambassador

We have also banned all Davido and Wizkid songs from our communitiee. Any youth or DJs caught playing their songs at any occasion will be flogged and charged to Sharia court for prosecution.
If you don't like our decision, go to court

Which one them fit buy?
Iphone?
Goan sleep

Jazmine10:
Why is infidelity among both sexes on the rise in Nigeria and what can be done to mitigate it?

Lol. have u seen the price of fuel lately?
Everybody they hustle.

Jovialjune1:



At your age this is your thinking, so marriage is all about food and sex, Truly age is not maturity, no wonder we have many married women cheating these days, because you brag as if it's your right that's why they do same

Was Banky blind that he didn't know he want to marry a popular actress? Why didn't he go for a random normal person?

Marriage na food and sex o. Its part of what makes Marriage.

Wait make ur husband no gree sleep with u or provide for the house.

Babysuccess02:

I don't understand.... What you're trying to say is that all men that cheat is as a result of what their wife did?

Not really. But in most cases women are funny.

That kind adesewa..when she go get time give her husband better sex?
Or cook his favourite dish. Wow..leave banky to cheat abeg

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randymirrors:


"You go just laugh"🤣🤣

My question is, why didn't he just marry Niyola, afterall, she's beautiful and he met her first. What do you think might be the reason he didn't marry her?

I felt from the beginning, the said niyola was more ambitious than is wife.

His wife was much a wife material. Things changed.

Banky wife, was calm and homely . But now..she's way more ambitious than niyola

randymirrors:


I don't know the kind of self esteem some women have. Very weak. How can you lower yourself to side chick level? A fine girl like that. This person dated you and left you for another woman and you're still fuckiing him. Na WA.

When my ex cheated, that was the end of the relationship. God is my witness, it's going to 3 years now, he's still begging.

My dear

Be happy life favoured u.
There is a level a man will carry u to, recovering becomes really hard.

For instance, u dated a minister for several years. Then u guys broke up.
Seriously, u will find it really hard to date another man less than him.

Maybe that your ex...u met who is more gamed that him.

randymirrors:


This is another perspective. The celebrities I mentioned married non celebrity wives. Though RMD's wife was a very popular TV host with lots of admirers in her time, both young and old. As soon as RMD wifed her, he took her off the spotlight.

Any marriage that works..cut cap give the wife. Not every woman can achieve that.
Men wants loyalty.
When a woman is wealthy..they can't give that.
Mehn..the day my wife start to drag power with me...I go wear my cheating boots.
The day..I travel on business trip and my wife calls to say she's in UK too for a business trip.
I go start to cheat.
If I come home.. I no see my wife for days.
I go cheat.

Well, for me..I no fit marry celebrity or any woman that intend to be.

I can take care of my home and my wife needs.

No be say my wife no go work o. My wife is even a nurse. But all this running up and down she no go do am.
The day she starts..I go just laugh.


Don't be surprised the said Adesewa, do not want kids anymore for fame.

randymirrors:


But if a man as handsome as Ramsey Noah the hottest celebrity actor in his time can be faithful to his wife, if RMD the hottest celebrity actor in his time can be faithful to Jumobi his wife, then what's the big deal in being faithful?

Banky has no excuse.

Those wife played a great role.
Personally, I really do not know those celebrity wife's u mentioned except I Google.
If u are married u will know what give most men joy is coming back to see his wife, children all happy. Food served and more.
Adeswwa could not give that.

Baba need to cheat.
I am married.. and I know why.

poshestmina:



You're pathetic and silly.

I really do not think he is silly.

A woman must try to keep her marriage.

However, in the case of Adesewa.. it's really difficult combining such fame with marriage.

Marriage is hard work.

It's simple..Ill advise, if as a woman, u want to be so popular.
U want to be on every movie set...and more.
You really do not have business getting married.

If a woman want to hustle hard like a man..I really do no feel she should get married.

I have been married for 2years now... But believe me, if in a month I see my wife like 10 days out of 30..ill cheat..infact ill cheat very well.

Marriage no be play. When u fight in marriage, what makes it go easily, is seeing ur husband or wife everyday. However, if u have an issue with ur wife and the next day..u both are in London..I wonder when u guy will settle.
Banky should cheat..if is wife is not aways available.

Pls, who can explain this.

Clear copy

Who can explain this to me please. Does it mean reduction in salary?

Jossyfine:
All the comments above have not actually hit the nail in the right place. The major issue is that African marriages are not laced with romance and affection.
How do I mean?
* Most couple stop showing affection to each other once they start bearing kids and over see finish has crawled into their marriage.
* African couples rarely make out for themselves alone in terms of going on dates ( at least once in a while)
* Marriage is what you put in it ,that’s what you get, you should learn to do things together ie weekends both man and wife can create time to put the huz in order( not by force) but with love cuz it creates bond between couples.
*You can create low budget vacation for just you both without the kids.
*Once in a while try having sex outside the huz, look for an affordable hotel around ur area and maybe do just one night.
* Marriage shouldn’t be about the kids, cuz have noticed what most couple talk about the kids, bills and family issues.Spice it up a little and gist about ur selves, probably the sex you had the previous night😜
* Let there be stewardship ( you guys should always review ur attitude towards each other by asking if each is meeting up expectations etc)*

*Most African couple rarely send romantic messages unlike when they were dating when most times you wake up to see sweet soul piercing messages from ur lover. But in marriage all the messages are for purchases of huz hold items.

Marriage is sweet but not in Africa. Africa marriages are very boring😭

Am just wondering how I survived 10 freaking years 😳😳😳and it’s still counting 😔

The white do all this..but most of them are still unhappy. Infact..there's high rate of divorce.
Marriage no get Manual.

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats. One was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come.

I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more.

I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....

This is isn't the type of woman i want.

That wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.

I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September.

Initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......

I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or, concentrate on money making for another 5yr? And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

Oga..go marry o. Na 50/50.
No time woman go change..since Adam.
No disturb urself.
Girls tend to be a little faithful when married sha.
Marry enjoy ur wahala. No time

Ermm:
Hmmmm

Did they add the allowance?

Pls, who can help with transfer?

jeromestarks:
If you didn't marry a virgin woman you're doomed and you know it.
Divorce her now before you you lose your peace.

Marry ur own first. Jobless man.

CommonSense1967:
I'm yet to see , visit or hear of any country where people don't have access to cash if they want it.
In all the countries that I have been to including the US, UK, most of Europe, Asia and Middle east, there is not once single country where they make you go cashless by force. NONE.
There are ATMs on every corner in the US and all countries that I know. You can get cash anytime you want as long as you have the funds in your account.
This is an asinine policy supported by Obi and his mumu crew only because they told them that it will stop Tinubu.
Well, when Tinubu wins next weekend, I wonder what they will blame it on.

Well have u ever wondered how they all started?

You can't find a country because, most country you've visited do of cashless.

Fact is, u hardly see them flaunting cash around like we do here.

When we get comfortable doing cashless. There will be money in the ATMs begging to be withdrawn.

We have to experience this,just to reset our brain.

Holybaddo:
They should look for another way of solving this economy issue
This plan of theirs isn't favoring in anyway

Some people accept only cash no cash no business
This will affect business men both those in higher chain down to those on low of the lowest in a negative way.

Besides this gives a higher chance for hackers and thieves to cart away people hard earned money

Eg me prefer cash to cash transactions I hardly do transfer nor accept it

Nigeria is to risky for all this online transactions.

Fact is ..we can't get it right by sticking to old traditions.
Lets go cashless bro

jeromestarks:

If she get sense, you go meet her as a virgin.

Lol, marry first bro. U will understand best.
Your prayer will be to find a woman that can support u.

jeromestarks:
To have a peaceful marriage, marry a virgin woman.
Do otherwise and suffer torments in your marriage.

Lol, oga find woman wey get sense o. Hmm, talking from experience. And make sure as a man u can provide o. Because virgin or no virgin women no like hunger.

freddaboh:


That's your own part of the story, we will need to hear from the guy to know what exactly happened.
Probably the guy was just saved from an early grave.

I swear women are manipulative. Sometimes, I wish I could rewind time.

Tracypacy:
Marriage is not something you manage If you are already walking on egg shells when you are with him, don't marry o. I have been there and its not a good experience. He constantly reminded me that his mother had over 8 children and suffered alone to train them and do house chores
just because i told him we will require a house help since I won't be doing domestic chores everyday whenever I have a full production week. He lacked communication skills and instead of telling me when I offend him. He will rather carry grudges like satan and punish me emotionally. I will beg for my sins and the sins of the world.Which man in love ignores 39 missed calls from a woman he claims to love ? . He had a 9 year old daughter and hid it from me.I found out in the most casual and painful way.I would have treated that child like my daughter,but why hide it from me?. I talked about him running a genotype test because I am AS and since he claims AA when he said he used to be AS ,ain't it better,we redo a test in another hospital?.

He preferred to call off the wedding plans. No matter how you try to make up excuses with love. An abuser is an abuser. I was engaged, my friends were happy but I was miserable.I lacked peace of mind. Should marriage be this way ? I never enter and e be like this?. I didn't have a dime.I was dependent on him and the little money I got from sewing for people. I thought about starting all over again and it affected my self esteem. I was a depressed bitter woman. When he left,I was bitter, little did I know that It was God who saved me from an impending doom. Not everyone will be lucky. Maybe I would have been a single mother with a child and no penny in her account.

Single woman, Hear me!...Never settle for less .... I may not have a man now to call my own but I am happy!..very happy!
My parents do not lack,even though daddy is retired ....I take care of them and I ensure everyone is catered for. .. I once asked him if he will ever relocate to my location if I had a good job that fetches money more than he does,he said NEVER!. Most men in their quest for headship lose out.
You earn 30k in Abuja and wifey earns 500k in Lagos, so wife will resign to join you and your miserable 30k because you are the HUSBAND and HEAD. Arth thou not a FOOL?.

Now the EX is regretting,he said he hasn't found a woman like me and I assured him he will never find. My type is LIMITED EDITION. We are scarce and not just for any man. I AM A GOOD WOMAN, AN ASSET TO ANY MAN provided he treats me right, yes,ask GOD, he knows this too.So ladies,love with sense,peace of mind is what money can never buy. Na me talk am. If he is rich and treats you like shit, he is not worthy to be called a husband. If he is poor and doesn't treat you well, I pity your condition because even when he makes the money, you won't be treated well. If his family doesn't like you, don't marry him,you will be miserable. There is a lot I wanna say but this pos
Wait,let the biological clock tick.
Wait for a good man to come ...don't marry a wicked person to pepper your friends.
Don't marry a selfish man who thinks about his family only. If my husband cannot care for my family the same way I will care for his own family ,then he doesn't deserve me. Note that there is no perfect man. but at least be sure he falls into what you desire in a man.
Don't ever make a mistake of thinking he will change when you marry him ..You are not the holy spirit..
MARITAL MISTAKE CAN LEAD ONE TO AN EARLY GRAVE

Just remember it goes both ways.
I got married not long. But anytime I try to b happy my wife come of with things I cannot handle.
I've pleaded, there was a day I even knelt down.
She lie for no reason, that really breaKs my heart.
She's stubborn and when i react, she feels I am overreacting. I really don't know what to do.
Its frustrating. Its annoying.
I do virtually everything at home. Seriously, marriage is frustrating.

EMXTAN1:
All these re results of bad leadership, that's why we have to vote wisely, leaders with vision

Who is that leader?