₦airaland Forum

Well said mate. Believe what ever you want to O. We have the power of freewill

I'm very happy that CAF do not have Nigerians in sensitive positions in the organisation. Then CAF should be given kudos as they have really marketed this competition to brands who have willingly partnered with them to make this Africa Cup of Nations a memorable one. Even SkySports of all broadcasters for the first time in their history bought the rights to show all the games live. Fantastic job from CAF's marketing team. And back to the reasons I said I'm happy no Nigerian is in a sensitive position. Well I guess we all know the reason why. Need I say more?

No responsible, legitimate money making husband or boyfriend would do this, unless to prove that the phone is water or liquid proof. If not, then it means that he didn't get his money legally.

It is so sad that Sylvester died, and I can feel the pain and grief his parents and family members are facing. It is not easy to lose a child. However, let us put sentiments asides, if the two autopsies carried out are saying the same thing, then maybe it is true. I don't want to believe that they manipulated the report. But medically, it has been established that Sylvester died as a result of a bacterial infection on this ankle.
And in law, if there is no evidence, then there is no case. I pray this serves as a wake-up call to Dowen College and even other private secondary schools running boarding houses to be very careful and monitor these children well and report any suspicion immediately.
May Sylvester's soul rest in perfect peace... And God grant his parents and family the fortitude to bear this painful loss.

Two options I can give to the Federal Government. Kuku instruct the Central Bank to ask commercial banks to tax our savings. Then the second option is to capture oxygen and start selling it to Nigerians at a premium. This is most daftest government I've seen in a long time. How is it Nigeria's fault now that oil prices have crashed in the international market? Na make FG begin dey do bambiala for Nigerians remain na. Police sef should start taxing for every arrest made. fRSC and Lastma too should start taxing for every traffic offences na. I dey give FG more ideas on how to milk Nigerians dry till nothing is left. Even to watch DStv or Gotv now or renew subscription, let us pay tax. To collect loan, let us pay tax. To buy biscuit, let us pay tax. Even to trek sef, we go pay tax.. trekking tax. Fools..

Loool. Wo Nigerians don't listen jare. Shebi Las las na to apply for PR and run away to Canada. Loool. let all of us kukuma run away to other countries. Maybe the other countries can accommodate over 300million Nigerians. Lool

I hope we are tactically ready. Coton Sport might not be a good opposition to test our mights with, but let's see how it goes Sha.

Maybe the next Jay Jay. We also need to work on set piece deliveries. You see teams like Algeria have mad set piece takers. Just look at that Mahrez freekicks in 2019. Absolutely brilliant. We don't seem to have any freekicks takers in this team. We have to play with a lot of intelligence O. Not agidi football.

The one Ghana did for us in 2008 nations cup nko. Whey Agogo score winning goal

Hahahahahahahahahahahaha. The beating serious O. You sure say this man go survive am as I dey see am so?

Just do and be going Sir. You have tried. It was such an experience being a Nigerian during your tenure.

This case get as ee be. I knew the police would act based on the report of the autopsy. Me I don't know for this case again oh. It's so sad Sylvester died. Only God knows exactly what happened and why he died. Even medicine isn't 100 Percent accurate atimes. At the moment, the police has not been able to establish that Sylvester was given a poisonous substance to drink. No evidence to back that allegation up.

You see we all thought the government of former president Goodluck Jonathan was clueless. I really sincerely apologize to Jonathan. You see this government of Muhammadu Buhari is the worst government we've ever witnessed in a long time. Even Obasanjo's government wasn't this bad. The Federal government is so clueless and desperately looking for money at all cost, by whatever means possible to keep on funding the ever expensive and lavish lifestyles of our useless politicians by adding more pain and more sorrow to the already impoverished citizens. Oil is no more selling, the government is absolutely clueless. Now it's to tax anything and everything taxable. Very soon, they will be taxing the ground we walk on and the beds we sleep on. Even the water we drink will be taxed. Yet you don't want people to steal. You don't want people to do fraud. How can someone survive on a salary of 100k in this Nigeria. You pay rent, you pay nepa, pay gas, pay for food. Like this country is going from bad to worse. Yet to see the 100k job be like you looking for a needle in a haystack. I regret being born a Nigerian.

They say no dey bleep before marriage... Loool. Bleeping is not good for your mental health.. . If to say you no bleep now, there won't be need for curse even if una break up.

I wonder how Nigerians will turn themselves to devil incarnates almost instantly when they see an opportunity to make money. Money has now been a god to many Nigerians. What we cannot do for money doesn't exist..

It is some foolish people who claim to be loan recovery officers that go to this extreme to embarrass their own customers to harrass them to repay the loan. And their companies bosses don't mind as long as the loan gets recovered. In many structured loan companies, you dare not, if you do, you are fired instantly. We Nigerians have issues.. How can a Nigerian sit down to compose a very embarrassing message like that. It is wrong in all honesty.

Omo the kain strength wey this baba go get in the other room go be on another level..

I'm sure most men will blame the woman instead. Men stop sleeping with other men's wives. You know this woman is married, leave her alone. There are many women out there. I don't know why men love doing this, but they later now accuse the woman.

It is so sad that every Nigerian thinks that if he or she leaves the shores of this country, then automatically his life has become better. True is some instance if you have a plan. But false in many instances. It is so sad how desperate we have become to run away from Nigeria. How are Indians, Lebanese doing so well in Nigeria. Having businesses. Is it not the same Nigeria we complain about they are living in too? Truth is no country is perfect. Even the so called Canada is not perfect. I know friends in the UK who are not doing well at all and wish to relocate back to Nigeria. Life is not about running helther skelther for pastures new. It's about making he best use of the opportunities you have. Once you have money, and live comfortably, you will not feel like leaving Nigeria. Also we also spoilt our own country with our own hands. Now everyone is chickening out. We can make Nigeria work if we put aside religious, tribal sentiments. If we put aside corruption and greed, Nigeria will work. But Nigerians are the reasons why Nigeria will never work because everyone is pursuing one personal agenda or the other. It's so sad..

Please why are we so backward in Africa. So drawing tattoo means she is a hoe Abi? Why do we judge a lot in this part of the world. Meanwhile if a white person does it, it is cool. But if a black does it, he or she is affiliated to the devil Abi. Culture and religion is our main problem in Nigeria.

On your part, you left lapses. You should have tried to personally monitored her meals. What was doing your wife was laziness to cook a seperate meal for your mother. Not deliberate. But it was gross negligence. Thank God the house help was not around, if not she would have been accused of being the one. So there was no one to lie on. Too much salt intake is bad. But for some people it doesnt affect them. But just scold her and punish her if you must.

What will you tell Baba God now when you get to heaven. You wanted to satisfy babe, you decided to send yourself to the great beyond. Men sef we overdo things.

This thing has become a normal occurrence for Naija babes now. You start talking to them. The first day like this, they will ask for credit or they want to eat shawarma and drink ice cream. Or then need financial assistance.. It's like every Naija babe does this. Meanwhile if a guy asks them for sex on the first day of talking, they will block him and say he is disrespectful blah blah blah.

Fantastic questions. Try and divorce her legally and settle the custody of the children. Because if you've not divorced her legally, then she can lay claims oh..

Kobojunkie:
Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife?

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours?

It's so simple. There is another guy secretly she is seeing.. who probably has more money than you and trying to woo her.. When a woman's heart is no longer with a man, she begins to show him attitude. Dude just free the babe. Let her go.. Accept that what you did, you did it for love and for God. Forcing her to be yours will backfire. Her heart is no more with you.

FG dey use scam to collect loan. Projects that they are not doing wholeheartedly. These monies are used to run the expensive government Nigeria is operating on. The monies we generate from oil and non-oil sectors is not enough. The government keeps wasting money paying salaries of government workers who do practically nothing and our senators who also do nothing. I pity Nigeria Sha.

I just knew it had to be this particular race...

And that's how life works. These bad bad girls are the ones who will end up with good men. While the good girls will end up with bad men. Life is so ironic sometimes.

gift0123:
You were dealing with a professional ashawo.. me shaaa know some of them back then in school, and their always meet good men.

Thank God you caught her, God loves you and he wanted it to happen like that.
This my gender shaa will not stop disgracing us

I don't know what is wrong with the female gender. Only them can explain the technical configuration that goes on inside their brain. Even if you want to run that kind of parole, not when your guy was around? Like what sort of disrespect is that? Guy you just met today. I prefer to remain single and I have been for a long time now, and my sanity is intact. Relationship with a Naija babe is so hard. These babes don't know what they want. They allow their emotions to get the better of them. Even if the guy was hot looking, the fact that your bf is around, should even make you comport yourself.

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

What are these recycled politicians still looking for? The one you don chop never do? Habaaaa is it a do or die affair?

"Highest Standards of living"? Did I read that clearly or is Garba Shehu smoking Loud?

Kindly message me please

dollynnn:
The employer is not yet ready. How will the employer know if the prospective employees possess 4,7,8?
4,7,8 are not necessary