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This Femi Adesina guy like yarning crap.. He should keep shut and keep enjoying his government money abeg... we don't care to know. 2023 is kuku around the corner..

You better walk so as to get government contracts in the future or position. In Nigeria, everyone is only fighting for what is going to benefit him or her immediately or in the long run.

And it's always women that come from poor backgrounds that have this mentality. They want to live overnight big girl life.. this is the sort of babe that will leave you or cheat on you with a married man for money. Don't forget that she is still in school, so she will tell you that she needed money for school runz. Major red flag if you ask me.

I don't know how this babe wants to escape this case mehn. All of this necessitated by the quest for money. I understand that it's very tough out here, but you should not have killed the man. You could still be collecting money from him. Killing him has complicated matters for you...

All these revenge on men by these women isn't necessary. For the fact that it didn't work out with all the men you've been with doesn't make all men bad. But I think you are also a reason why you attract who you attract.. Tonto should check herself. Her kid is still growing, he doesn't need all this drama.

You will see how the prayer will be intensified so that the man will fail. United needs to keep failing for others to keep rising. So I understand trolls...

Scam of life. Registration fee for a job. Baba you will not see three things again after you give him that money. You will not see the job, you will not see him, and you also won't see the 450k again.

See this man. I have seen an old mama struggling for takeaway pack of jollof rice inside church during the burial of a young man young enough to be her son oh. See you.. many go chop the rice and destroy the chicken bones to pieces.. Nigerians don't dull food parole at all especially party jollof.

I swear,the physical one never do you. I no do abeg

Xavier70s:
Pysical wahala full Nigeria , you won con add spiritual wahala . Nawa ohh

Imagine if you come fat like obembe, how you wan take pass through.

Facebook has become so strict these days. Not just them, even Twitter. They will block you for saying something that you might not even mean. I don't know who helps them to update their policies..

Many guys abusing this man are probably doing worse in their closets. But I don't get this obsession that Nigerians now suddenly have with married men and women. Now marriage is just for "show off that I have money", and "come and eat jollof rice and small chops". I've said it that people should stop getting married if you will marry and still cheat on your partner. Nowadays it is a deliberate something.

Hahahahahahahahahahaha. Guy you wicked oh...

Juliusmomoh:
When jesus was saying " It is finish " he was actually talking about your brain....

Sometime what i read on nairaland, makes me vomit.

I mean how can you be crushing on a married woman

Though some married woman are sex stave. But aleast na... Let some married men Bleep her, not a guyman like yourself.

You even went and mastubate using her image... You start imagine how you were ontop her shaking your potato head like standing fan ...

You sure say your G-wagon never bend ontop mastubation.

Am leaving nairaland for you people... Thank you

Fantastic write up. You said almost everything I usually tell ladies. But many ladies have coconut heads, they won't listen. They want the baby girl life. "Oh look at what my friend's boyfriend bought for my friend". They do copy copy and do follow follow. As a lady, if you know what you want, and you sef gallant, trust me, no man will mess you up.

Rosement:
Respect is very important in a relationship, how can a guy give gift to a lady in exchange for sex, he was passing out an information to the lady but she did not get the hint, is it not prostitutes that get paid for sex? This is why we ladies have to observe any guy that approach us before accepting to date them. Don't be blinded by money, some guys are not psychologically okay.

Some ladies are accepting nonsense from their guys now but after marriage they will become feminists and start demanding the respect they can never earn. If you want your guy to respect you, this is the time to earn the respect. If you allow him to treat you bad now because of what you want from him, he will treat you worse in the future and by then, it will be too late for you to correct it. If you feel your guy does not respect you, it is better for you broke up with him before it is too late, if you don't, you will regret it later because you will end up not enjoying your relationship and his money will later become worthless to you, by then you will prefer your peace of mind.

Some guys don't need a real relationship, what they need is a lady that we play the role of a prostitute. As a lady, you have to think properly before you accept some type of gifts from guys, it is better to live in a hut and eat what you have while you are waiting for God to bless you than to allow somebody belittle you.

I'm suspecting Rainbow tinz..... but what do I know..

See it's not worth the stress. Just reject it and look for something on the mainland. Because the moment you move in with her, trouble will begin. You wouldn't want to be enmeshed in the wahala of face-me-i-face-you house....

Shebi Uncle Lai Mohammed who obviously haven't read the report said that there was no provision made for the fallen men of the police? That man is not informed. If there wasn't a massacre like he claimed, who now killed the policemen? Lai Mohammed matter don tire me. Me I just want the panel to bring photos or family members of victims of the deceased or those missing and presumed dead to come out let the whole world see. And if anything happens to them, government should be help liable. Even those who came to testify are being harrassed and threatened..

Everyone knows all this you are talking about. Maybe you misunderstood me or you didn't get me. I'm talking based on this particular issue. I never said that you need to depend on people for survival. It's a normal trend that those who know you aren't the ones who will help you eventually, it is those that don't even know you that your help might come from. This is a known fact. Neither did I also say that Baba Fryo was right about what he said. You might have all that value you talked about and still need the help of one or two people to get to where you want to get to. Help here doesn't always mean monetary, it could be recommendation or endorsement. So you are not focussing on the topic of discussion, rather you are attacking the personality of Baba Fryo, and by extension me.

PeaceJoyLove:
Why must you attack others by saying "we Nigerians are accustomed to what you regard as evil?" Look at the highlighted. I told you that like baba fryo, like you. And you still continue proving me right. Do not hustle, and continue having the notion someone must help you to succeed. You will die in that your penury. Listen and listen carefully, no one helps a liability. Make yourself resources, and aid will come. But having this mentality is the highway to poverty. If that Fryo had used his head and had spoken like a sensible man, the probability Davido will send something to him is high. But when you have the mentality and audacity to talk like Fryo, and then you are even saying that some people must make it depending on others, then, I know you have not yet learned anything about life. You have no future. People like you learn when it's too late and are just some steps to their graves.

Leave all you are doing presently and reflect on your life. You can make it by making yourself resourceful. No one invests in a liability. Have you read the Bible where a master gave his servants talents to trade with? If you dont make yourself resourceful, no one will look at your side. You can develop a skill, get a knowledge, or get a certification which is hot cake at the time, and see how those who dont even look at your way start looking at your way.

The mentality that they assist when they know they can gain from you is wrong, but they did cos you make yourself resourceful. Some are looking for what to gain, while others assit you genuinely cos they know you will not return again.

Now, let's look at Fryo again. Between a young man who is just starting his career and loads good music on youtube which go viral (hes resourceful), and this Baba Fryo who had the whole world for him but blew it and he is not sick ooooo, still with two hands and legs to hustle, but smoking his life away with weed, who would not return to beg again?

Use your head.

Haaaaaa. Baba you wicked oh... Lool

OkuFaba:
Your own woman dey wait for your room, you left her and went to rape another..

Just insert a stick if broom at the mouth of his penïs and break it.

He needs to be thought a lesson

I swear. Some men are foolish.. Babe that will probably not marry. Some men will buy car, rent apartment. Meanwhile their mothers are suffering in penury in the village oh. They will buy latest iPhone just because the girl has big boobs and big bum bum.i would never under how Nigerian men think. That is why these girls have become so lazy and renting posh apartments in Lekki doing olosho work. Olosho work for Naija pay pass office work, all thanks to Nigerian men. Nigerian men will pay huge sums for premium subscription seeex contents. When the money now finish, you will be expecting the girl to stick by you Abi. Naija Girls that they see dating as poverty alleviation programme

Davash222:
I can't still fathom why a sane guy should send 200K to a Nigerian girl for doing nothing.

I support the girl's actions. Whatever it takes to restore sanity to these SIMPle guys is totally acceptable.


The future is femail.

I only made a comment, why are you attacking me now? Did I say I was looking for help? I only stated the obvious. And for your information, for the fact that some people make it in life on their own, doesn't mean that everyone must also make it in life on their own too.

PeaceJoyLove:
You are still poor because you are like Fryo looking up to people to help you. Continue and dont move out and hustle. So you think helping is giving out money? For those kids who sre in primary and secondary schools, it is the right thing. But for Fryo amd you.....not the case. I pray you understand on time that giving fish is not the way. You must work out your own resources.

Goodluck.

Well Baba Fryo sadly that is life for you. Those who you know won't be the ones that will help. In Nigeria, they help you only when there is something to be gained from it. Even though it's a bad mentality, but we Nigerians have become accustomed to it.

It could be parental pressure. Besides she is 26. Ripe age for marriage. But my problem is why didn't she discuss the issue with you to gauge your own opinion on when you would be ready to marry her. She shouldn't have made that decision hastily. You don't rush into marriage hastily oh.. It could also be because of money.. Dude is richer than her bf. You know how money changes people.

Exactly, but some men they have washed their head inside Ogi water. Men will be paying rent, be furnishing apartment, be buying car and iPhone for babe wey e no dey sure say she go marry you.

Exactly. When a girl isn't really feeling you, she will not call you. Girls don't know how to hide their feelings, no matter how hard they try. She is probably calling someone else she likes. Just bone her abeg. This is a major red flag.. from experience I'm talking..

She either isn't feeling you, or she doesn't want to look cheap in your eyes, or she has some other guy asking her out that she will say yes to.

Exactly. women by nature are not wired to carry responsibilities. It's the man's burden. Not to even now talk of a Nigerian woman. She will nag and make your life a living head until you get back on your feet and perform your duties as a man. Women are built to be supportive not to be the bearer of responsibility. Every man should know this and know peace.

The thing is when it comes to sex in a relationship. Women are the ones I'll blame. They think a relationship is all about making demands from a guy, and giving him sex in return. That is why relationships crumble the moment you have sex with a girl. You both will not have issues until you finally sleep with her. Why is that. We date for the wrong reasons. Naija women date to alleviate poverty.. and when you do that, you have opened the door for a guy to demand for sex in return. It's a win-win situation. Just kuku turn to the so called relationship into a friend's with benefits arrangement so that no one is emotionally committed.

When you have eaten dodo, there cannot be idodo in your talk. Orji Uzo Kalu has joined the bandwagon. So I don't expect less from him.

You're right. Some just did so that it won't be like they didn't or so they won't look like they are broke. Meanwhile if you ask them privately for money that you genuinely need it, they won't give because no one will see that they give. We love show off in Nigeria. It's a shame Sha. But David deserved it...

See what Davido has that WizKid does not have is that connection to his fans. David is social. He rolls with everyone. He doesn't form. You hardly see WizKid. Always out of Naija doing shows.. Even Burna still connects to his fans more than WizKid. People like David gaaan. I really don't feel WizKid like that...

Me I know Naija is full of madaru people. You will see the way they will discredit this report. The FG will pay some lawyers to come and discredit this report and scatter the whole thing so that it will remain inconclusive. When a typical Nigerian does not want to accept an outcome, he will set up machineries in place to make everything scatter and then we sweep the case under the carpet and move on to the next agenda.