₦airaland Forum

I swear this was exactly what was on my mind. He should remove his slippers, dust it and run. I can never even have anything to do with a Cele girl. I have my serious reservations about them.

slickycee:
If you love your life, just run from her and never look back.

Thank God for the break up and focus on yourself

Omo but that Anita Joseph's backyard is very massive. Kai guy man dey enjoy oh...

What is wrong with people? Are you the one who is going to dictate to another person how to live his or her life? He decided to celebrate Christmas. So because he is a Muslim, he shouldn't? Are we competing religion with each other now? People should just mind their business.

Nigerian women are so funny... Women are funny. But Nigerian women are funnier.

Everyone dey find money like no man's business in this Nigeria. Our love for money is on another level. We can do and undo for money.

Chai Africans are messed up I swear.... You ordered for a "Fresh human head" like say na online vendor you dey patronise on IG Abi. You got someone to decapitate another human being and use his head to make your life better. Money that will never last. Money that you can never even be as rich as Dangote or Otedola. The problem of we the African race is in our thinking...

If I say I understand the margins I just read, I'll only be lying. Every avenue to make money, Nigerians will just wake up one day and bring one policy day by day

I love the Supreme court... The only problem is the time it took the matter to progress from court to court. Since 2016... Our judicial process in Nigeria is so slow..

No be "Gandu-dollar" be this? Buhari's best friend.... Just know the right people in this country, and you can do and undo..

Lovely attire... See the Jagaban styled cap... nice one

Honestly Nigeria is blessed with very beautiful women... We are actually blessed with everything. Just that the country makes us behave anyhow....

It's just a pity. This guy tried too hard to remain relevant by living a fake life.. I don't know how some people are comfortable living a life that's not theirs. Can never be me Sha.

Baba let's not kid ourselves, we would not have won anything... Our performances have been pretty poor for the quality of players we have. We should be doing better. Look at the home draw to Liberia from 4-0 to 4-4. Look at how CAR came to our house and beat us 0-1 in Lagos. The team is not been tactically coached well. We just gather the boys to enter pitch and play and hope they do magic. We don't play like a team. Glad he left...

Loool in Naija, the babes are all looking for something. Almost every Naija babe has been served breakfast. So it's so hard to fall in love. They won't just wanna be committed...

The Otedola children are so beautiful... gosh....

And This was the launch that President Buhari came for in Lagos. These politicians are too told. They should retire jare...

Nigerians like to manage everything. A car will be giving you signs, but you will ignore it because you want to cut cost. Use it to carry innocent people and kill them just like that. We ignore so many things in this Nigeria..

You couldn't have said it any better sir. Please can you share the link to the Ibukun Awosika's video on Don't marry a fool, I'd really love to watch it. Thanks sir.

bamid2:
First and foremost, i sympathize with you wife because she has a big problem in her hands and that is not the newborn. My mummy, my mummy, my mummy... Bros, you are a married man and that stark reality should sink deep into your head.

She is your wife and the mother of your kids for crying out loud. At your age, nobody should tell you that you should never beat your wife like you are playing video games. It is despicable,ungodly and terrible.

That is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Your wife is in a vulnerable state and she will naturally decline lovemaking from a man that beats her with reckless abandon.

Just imagine your son-in-law beating your daughter. Not cool right? .

No.1: Set healthy boundaries and respectfully let your mom know that you are a "married man" and there is a limit to how she can control you without making it seem like your wife is putting words into mouth.
2. STOP BEATING YOUR WIFE AGAIN. You are not Sugar Shane Mosley. STOP IT PLEASE.
3. Communicate your needs with your wife and listen carefully to what she also needs (understand her love language(s))
4. You both should seek a marriage counselor/therapist urgently (not your mummy) to help you panel-beat your relationship .

PS: This is for the unmarried ladies out there...Don't always discuss your relationship/marriage especially when there is a problem with female friends but an elder who has been married and whose marriage is sweet. Be careful who you get married to. Don't be carried away by money alone. Don't just marry someone who is ready because time is going so you don't marry wrong. I understand that financial security is important but marrying someone who will help you fulfill your destiny/life goals is more important. Is he OK mentally/psychologically. Does he have bad habits?. Kindness, generosity, humility, selflessness, God loving attitude, how he treats his family, his close friends, his resourcefulness, how hardworking he is, his hunger to succeed within the ambit of what is legit, his life goals and ambitions, how he handles crisis, his drive to make you succeed in your career etc should be the things you should look out for because the superficial qualities you want while dating is miles apart from what you need when married.

Also listen to Mrs Ibukun Awosika's video titled "Don't marry a fool" on youtube for more clarity as per what i am saying.

Baba keep slapping oh. I hope a day will not come and you will slap her and she won't stand up from the floor again. Stop physically abusing your wives. I know women are very stubborn. It's their nature. But there are other ways to deal with this. I can't be happy beating or slapping my wife oh. It makes no sense.. and it doesn't make me a p.uuussy..

When we thought the government of former president Goodluck Jonathan was the clueless of all, this current administration has beat that record. President Buhari has refused, because of political reasons, reduce the astronomical cost of governance. We have too many MDAs doing absolutely nothing, yet salaries are being allocated to them every month. They add no value to the economy. Now the government is lazy and don't want to do the same thing they asked Jonathan to do; which is to diversify the economy. Now no one buys our crude oil anymore, money from crude oil has gone down.. The government has been borrowing money to finance projects. Yet they keep lavishing millions of Naira on senators and politicians. The reason why we have the wrong people in government is simply because politics in Nigeria is "chop your own, make I come chop my own".. It is too attractive financially. Many are only there for money and status, nothing else. You're further impoverishing the lives of the already impoverished citizens by slamming taxes and VAT ok anything and everything. if the air we breathe in was taxable, the Nigerian government will tax it. It's not fair what you people are doing. Yet you lot will have the guts to mess up the country, and now run away abroad to safe haven... God is just looking at Nigerians and shaking His head...

Okay but what have they used the recovered funds to do? Why in earth are we still borrowing money? I remember vividly in 2014 when Buhari was campaigning. Part of his manifesto was that he was going to reduce the high cost of governance in Nigeria. But rather than cut down on costs, the costs keep rising and our budget keeps rising. And the funny thing is that a large part of our budget goes on recurrent expenditures.. i.e payment of salaries and the likes. The reason we have riff-rafs in government is because the politics in Nigeria is too attractive. Everyone entering politics in Nigeria is going there with the sole aim of stealing money by being corrupt. The day politics in Nigeria becomes less attractive, that is when we will see the right people in government..

This country na jungle walahi. Say you go out and come back alive is a miracle..

This is what happens when you date for money. You see young man, you no go for am. Because FFK get money, you run go marry am. Now you see yourself. No one has it all perfect in this life. No matter the amount of money you have, there must be one comma about you. Not all that glitters is gold.

No nah Alhaji Layiwola Mohammed, it's actually "fake news" or "tales by moonlight"

My friend sit down somewhere. He didn't like Igbo and he got married to an Igbo woman and have kids with her Abi... just confess. You were caught cheating...

You see your life now. You no get training,yet you carry gun and decided to do test with police wey get training. Now you have been gunned down to go and be with your maker... What will you tell your maker now?

Misfortunes happen in life. It's life's Principles. Have you ever seen someone that hasn't experienced one form of misfortune or the other in his or her life? If it persists or if it has a pattern, then maybe you could link it to spirituality. It's actually possible for evil forces to be behind you especially in this part of the world where we are so wicked towards one another.

You've actually started something, and you have to finish it. What I'll advice you to do is to set her up. Let her have her own business. Her parents might be actually really poor, but now that she is a grown girl, it's time to take on some responsibilities and help you too. Sit her down and have a heart to heart discussion with her. Tell her that things cannot continue like this. She has to be responsible..

It's so sad what is happening. Some incompetent staff members needs to be sacked. Starting from the house master... Had they handled this matter with caution, it would not have degenerated into this. It is so sad that Sylvester died. I wish he didn't die

Loool. Nigerians sef. You dey inside churchto pray and thank God oh, yet you bring political matter enter inside church.

Mr Nsofor only went to Europe to marry and get better life. Lool...

So Baba didn't know what was going on sef. Justice for Sylvester, eight kids found dead inside car, and many other sad stories emanating from Nigeria. Baba no send anyone oh. Make 2023 reach make baba retire to Daura..