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Romance › Re: Lady Sends Shout Out To Her Boyfriend's Side Chicks On Facebook by jimcaddy(m): 1:15pm On Oct 05, 2017
Yoruba girls can shell for Africa. They also put on heavy make-up and it makes them look really razz.
Business › Re: A Nairalander Explains Phonenumber Update Using ATMs For All Firstbank Customers by jimcaddy(m): 6:04pm On Sep 18, 2017
GTB does same as well..
Romance › Re: Man Insults A Lady For Snubbing Him On Facebook, See What He Got by jimcaddy(m): 3:47pm On Jul 25, 2017
Abeg Amadioha should not strike out that hairy pendulum ooo... Na to render my guy useless be that oo..
Romance › Re: This Lady Can't Keep Calm After Being Engaged By Her Boyfriend Of 5-months. PICS by jimcaddy(m): 10:12am On Jul 04, 2017
Girls love proposal, they love engagement.. They equally love wedding, but how many of them can cope with marriage? any little disagreement like this, they will always want out. Wedding is for maximum of three days, while marriage is for eternity.
Education › Re: Hot Cake Courses Every Student Wants To Study In Nigeria Universities by jimcaddy(m): 7:30pm On Jun 30, 2017
What of IT? Isnt it hot cake too?
Career › Re: Chinese Company In Ogun Compensates Worker Crippled By His Boss’ Kung-fu Kicks by jimcaddy(m): 10:33am On Jun 30, 2017
Only in Nigeria will a foreigner come and ride us in our own country.. this should be filed under the "OnlyInNigera" Archive.
Romance › Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by jimcaddy(m): 11:50am On Jun 29, 2017
Story for the gods ooo. No Nigerian babe will stay with a guy who does not have money, but has good sense of humour. Gone are those days.Babes of nowadays dont care. You must have cash for a babe to stay with you.
SPEEDEPITOME:
So I went to stay at some big brothers' place last weekend and they talked about their relationship issues. One common point in all of their stories was they spent money on their girlfriends and they still left. One of them started dating a girl when she was in 200l, saw her through school, he even got her a laptop for her final year project and after graduation, he spent over 500k on helping her move to a city and start up her business and that was the end of them. He tried with another girl, same thing happened. All of these guys have similar stories.

When I pointed out that they were probably victims of scam, one of them said ' spending on my girlfriend is normal coz she's my responsibility and that does not make me a 'mugun'.

I then came to the conclusion that these girls probably never liked them but chose to stay with them because they were their 'source of livelihood'.

My advice to the ladies, please if you will not stay with a guy, just let him go. Most guys except few like these guys will punish another random lady for your own sin.

My main advice is to the guys: when chasing a girl, stop putting money first. Try to establish friendship and not the I-can-take-care-of-your-needs attitude if not, you'll keep attracting scammers. Reason being that, you lured them with money and that's all they'll be after. These ladies will go as far as marrying you and leave when they are done with you.

Now, I'm not saying you shouldn't take care of your girlfriend but let money not be the reason ladies fall for you. Show them some other side of you. It could be your sense of humour, your level of intelligence or anything.

Every guy has that one thing that's gonna keep people attracted to them. What I'm asking is that guys should bring something other than money to the table else your partners will keep cheating on you with guys who are 'poor' coz contrary to what you think, money is not everything.

PS: I know there are no straightjacket rules as to how a relationship should be run .
My conclusion is based on personal experience, observation, talk with guys and my recent discussion with these 4 friends.
Politics › Re: Wike Reacts To Amaechi's Award Rejection by jimcaddy(m): 8:59pm On May 27, 2017
Wike and Amaechi have made this their battle very personal. It is below the belt.. Attack and counter attack here and there. They should kuku fight in a ring, lets see who will win.
Culture › Re: Eyo Festival Ends With A Serious Fight Between Eyo Masquerades In Lagos (Video) by jimcaddy(m): 12:03pm On May 21, 2017
Illiteracy is a disease.... Yorubas can like to fall hand..
Romance › Re: Groom Kisses His Bride At Their Traditional Wedding & Left Guests Surprised by jimcaddy(m): 12:00pm On May 21, 2017
Yoruba demons!!!
Celebrities › Re: Lara Olubo, Mercy Aigbe's Friend "Beaten By Mercy's Hubby", Breaks Her Silence by jimcaddy(m): 9:27pm On May 06, 2017
Mr Gentle abi Gentry.. Wehdone Sir.. I throway salute for u sir for beating this woman to stupor. Mercy Aigbe Wehdone ma for living a flamboyant life and going out with different men. This case is a clear case of "when push turns to shove".
Celebrities › Re: Fans Go Gaga As Regina Daniels Shares New Photos by jimcaddy(m): 9:08pm On May 06, 2017
Wait oo.. Hasnt this girl been 16 since God knows when? Shez nearing adulthood.. Besides why are we all sexualising the dress a minor puts on? Whats your business with her pant? Is it your pant? She is a fantastic actress.. She will definitely go far in Nollywood...
Education › Re: Nigerian Universities With Most Employable Graduates - Stutern by jimcaddy(m): 2:38pm On May 04, 2017
I doubt the credibility of this report... How can UNAAB have more employable graduates that the Premier University of Ibadan where their standard is so high?? Redeemer's University nko mbok??
Celebrities › Re: Davido Mourns His Uncle, Isiaka Adeleke's Death (photo) by jimcaddy(m): 12:35pm On Apr 24, 2017
Politics › Re: EFCC Discovers Hidden Money In Ikoyi Lagos Home (Photos, Video) by jimcaddy(m): 9:52pm On Apr 12, 2017
Me sef want to be blowing whistle. EFCC abeg reduce the target to 10m or less
Romance › Re: Plus Size Bride & Her Slim Husband At Their Traditional Marriage (Photo) by jimcaddy(m): 10:54am On Apr 03, 2017
Yoruba men who are small in stature love big women that their arms cannot go round their waist.. How can this one cope with this woman on the bed now? Its just like ant trying to carry a cube of sugar.
Romance › Re: Man And His Fiancee's Bum In Doggie Pre-Wedding Photos by jimcaddy(m): 3:53pm On Mar 17, 2017
According to a revered Man of God, the Ass is also called a Sewage disposal Unit... So he must be insane for loving Sewage. LOOOL grin grin grin
Travel › Re: Peace Mass Bus Involved In Accident In Irete, Owerri Road (Graphic Video) by jimcaddy(m): 2:30pm On Mar 01, 2017
The issue in Nigeria is that we love to cut corners a lot. No one has come out to sanction the Management of PMT. No regulatory body to monitor these moving coffins called buses.. We can not all always blame it on bad roads all the time. Human error. actions and inactions of the Management, the drivers all contribute to massive loss of lives. Investigations need to carried out on the state and road worthiness of the buses in their fleet. The need to purchase newer buses. Train their pilots on how to drive carefully. Overspeeding kills.. Trying to overtake without assessing the situation well will lead to accident. Defensive driving lessons should be taken. This incessant road crashes in really damaging the name of their company. I for one, will never board PMT for whatever reason.
Education › Re: Am Having An Extra Year In School I Feel Like A Failure Now. by jimcaddy(m): 4:15pm On Feb 22, 2017
Bro I can relate absolutely.. That feeling you get when you find out you are having an extra year.. Most especially after forming for the babes on campus. Well.. Im guessing you attended a private Uni. Nothing is more painful than that. Knowing that your parents have to pay extra tuition and more so, after you must have bragged and lied to them that your GP was fantastic. Also realising that you are most likely to still graduate with a poor grade after everything. It feels bad.. But I want you to stay focused. Tell your parents about it. Beg them.. When you resume school for the new extra year, try to pick courses from 100 level or 200 level from a department outside yours. So it will add up to the number of units required in addition to your carry overs.
Stay focused... Be prayerful... Before you know it, you will be done and these sad thoughts will be history. Then you can proceed to do a Post graduate Diploma.. Apply for jobs.. Best bet places are schools.. start from there.
I had an extra year as well from a private Uni. It was tough.. I graduated eventually with a Third Class.. I didn't get a job until 4 years after. Went for my PGD to boost my poor grade.. Looking to save some money for my Masters.. Two years ago, i would never have had the guts to reveal all of this.. But we thank God for everything now..
Politics › Re: FG Declares Monday Public Holiday To Mark Eid-El-Maulud by jimcaddy(m): 5:16pm On Dec 08, 2016
A meaningless public holiday if you ask me, but I am fine by it, nonetheless
Politics › Re: Man Mentions Buhari, Jumps In River In Lagos (Photo) by jimcaddy(m): 1:25pm On Aug 30, 2016
Buhari is not Nigeria's savior even though he scammed us to get into power. We are only suffering from the repercussions of our past cluelesness and recklessness.
NYSC › Re: Abia Corper Removes Teeth Of Female Corper With Hammer (Photo) by jimcaddy(m): 4:43pm On Aug 23, 2016
Its destiny that has made them to even be posted from school to the same State, same PPA.. The babe for pity the guy na..
Celebrities › Re: If Not For Money Or Sperm, Women Really Have No Need For Men - Charly Boy by jimcaddy(m): 11:58am On May 10, 2016
This is not right for Charly Boy to say.. So in essence women can treat their husbands anyhow. Why then are women always the one interested in marriage. The rate at which women marry in Nigeria is so alarming. Women need men, need security, need love, need children, need money. Men need women, but they can always get that love, sex, care outside his matrimonial home if need be. Women cant get money and children outside their matrimonial home, because there will be backlash from the public.
Conclusion- Women need to keep their homes and their men.
Education › Re: First Year GP Of 0.7, Am I Worthless? by jimcaddy(m): 11:48am On May 10, 2016
Bros.. you better change course. With that CGPA, you cant avoid a Third Class eventually, thats if you arent even advised to withdraw sef.
Crime › Re: Police Escort Shot To Death In Port-Harcourt, Rivers State. Very Graphic Photos by jimcaddy(m): 12:07pm On Apr 22, 2016
Seems the Rivers people love this incessant violence going on. Because if they didn't, they would have found a way to impeach Wike. The primary responsibility of any government is to provide security for it's citizens. It's only in Nigeria people get away with everything. A state where there are cultists in government circles, what do you expect
Sports › Re: Why Keeping John Obi Mikel Is Chelsea’s Best Transfer Move So Far This Summer by jimcaddy(m): 8:14pm On Jul 19, 2015
That jazz man that is mixing that concussion for Mikel is international oo. Each season, Mikel keeps escaping sale.
Webmasters › Re: How To Get Adsense Approval Fast by jimcaddy(m): 12:57pm On Jun 27, 2015
Please check out my blog and tell me what I need to do to get approved on Ad sense. www.jimcaddy.com
Video Games And Gadgets For Sale › Playstation 3 320gb Console For Sale by jimcaddy(op): 6:10pm On Jun 25, 2015
Playstation 3 320gb Console with two wireless pads and four game discs (GTA 4, Fifa 15, Grand Turismo 5, PES 13) for sale all at N70,000. Call me on 08032273922.

Politics › Re: Jonathan Beats Buhari In Rivers With Over 1.4 Million Votes- PUNCH by jimcaddy(m): 8:32pm On Mar 30, 2015
massive rigging thanks to Mama Peace and Wike
Romance › Re: OMG: Pictures Of A Nigerian Girl Proposing To Her Boyfriend by jimcaddy(m): 6:11pm On Feb 18, 2015
Im sure some ladies here wont like this

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