what does the profile pic got to do with it?

The most important thing is to make sense on Nairaland.

None,

I feel u stillwater.

If the devil has really proved its worst as being the devil. I don't mind trying out the angel.

Every one has bad sides tho but i'll give an angel a try. That statement has moved so many people to hang to people they truly don't deserve simply because some people have cooed it in their ears that the devil is better. Why not try out the angel, u'll be surprised they are totally worth it.

It depends on the lover, & depends on the time.

whatever, good or bad, we must sha do something!

@Blacklion
Thank you!

pahtahkee:

At least my children won't be like me if they school abroad.

Yeah they may not be like u, but trust they might be like the kids u never imagined.

pahtahkee:

After reading your epistle, I still maintain, Education abroad, but holidays in naija.

Olodo

3 for me

A set of twins & another kid

Even tho i have felt, tasted and witnessed life in Nigeria as a student going thru all the hazzles that could ever be felt. I will still stand and say i prefer my kids to go thru Primary & Secondary in Naija. I want my children not only to have a feel of their culture from childhood but able to speak their language correctly. I want my kids to get used to the morals/food here in Nigeria. I want the true African blood to flow in their veins. That is one.

Now aside that, i can't bring up kids in another man's land, only for them to start quoting laws for me & telling me what they are old enough to do & what not. Cos no matter how well u raise ur kids, the tradition of the place u stay influence the child in way or the other. I stand to be corrected.

Now talking about schools, I don't regret the schools i went to here in Nigeria. If i were to pick schools again i might still pick those school i went to over again. And to think that Naija kids are always/usually more brainy than the kids that went thru primary/secondary schools over there. Now thinking of it when we were young and some of our cousins come around from the likes of US/UK. Their spoken English is the only thing i give kudos to, (that's because their Ist language did not take effect) but to write na whahala, to solve easy maths becomes headache. So what's the point. University could then be taken abroad simply because of what Nigeria has caused for herself, Since some company in Nigeria would simply state that they would prefer Universities off Nigeria.

I've also noticed that once a child moves abroad for education after the secondary school levels in Nigeria they go topping their classes , why, because the reading culture is already there. The foundation is solid. If marriage changes my plan, i won't even forgive myself.

@Poster So University in UK
Primary & Secondary here.

NiyiRocks!:

Still doesn't beat a tastefully furnished 3-bedroom flat with all the privacy a girl can desire.

ki lanso ki lon so

Stupid reply, who cares if u stay in a mansion We know ur type.

wow this pics are lovely, i'll simply try to get more.

I tried to upload some, it says its too large.

Why should he dictate. Let her choose whatever she wants/likes. Lest she holds the guy responsible for her failed future.

iceblue:

i have a friend who got married on the phone, more than 10 years ago sef. even the proposal was on phone (BTW, she proposed )

Interesting, I hope they lived on the phone too.

The funny thing about that day was. I was feeling unnecessarily great & walking with heads high like i won a gold medal. _{feeling like a woman} I remember writing my mum a letter from school. Only to get home (after term ended) to see the letter on my mum's table. Oh! gosh i can't explain how furious i was knowing that everyone in my house had read it.

Busta:

Those doing overseas love are the ones that carry to the extreme oh.

funny enough . . . a collegue of mine got proposed to this weekend . . . 18,000ft above the ground.
She is so excited, it was taped and that is what we've been hearing all day at work

imagine what if, after all that wahala she said no to the guy?

ROFLMFAO yyyyeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Will she be able to play the tape if the guy calls back to break the engagement. Hmmmn this phone thingy sef.

Physical talk is more serious to me. All this phone confession of love get as e be o.

Busta:

It really depends but every/ most women would love to see a man go down on one knee and propose to them and yeah . . . . with a ring!

no ring . . .no proposal

Nooo, the knees doesn't even have to go bending. The question is why shld the proposal be on phone. Why not face to face. Maybe those doing overseas love don't mind sha

I don't get the reason why a proposal shld be on phone. Is he sooo excited he can't wait till they see. Phone talk, phone toasting, phone fight, phone kiss, phone Duh! Phone proposal again? Soon enough we'll have phone marriage.

Mercy is upcoming & she's tight. Her acting is what spurred me. She's a good actress. Altho on the average as per beauty. When she just newly started acting, her wears get as e be o. I wondered if it was her or just the costumes they wanted her to put on. Later on i realized she had improved. So i guess it's her. I think the movie industry shld do something about the costumes of new intakes, cos many of them don't have money just yet, to match the taste the respected nollywood outfits.

Altho i agree that Ini is prettier. I stil prefer Mercy to her, don't know why.

iice:

Probably the energy she puts into her concerts is what i like. . .
Some of her songs are great. . .others are just passable
And she cannot act. . .great bod though

Why won't she have such energy. Oversabi attitude at work. Some of her dance moves looks like "i have to do it by force".

I like her good body sha

Kelly has a prettier face, but i must admit dat beyonce has a nicer body. I'll still go for kelly. Can someone tell beyonce that her gragra (over sabi) is too darm!! much? Thanx in advance.

Gamine:

If the guy cannot trust that i am a complete package.
He is not worth having around!

Seems i've been hearing that phrase of late. On a second note, if he doesn't see me as one, well good riddance to bad rubbish.

I don't get this, u offered her money for transport. Not like she asked u or begged u for it. Why on earth will she not collect it. Are u trying to say u were testing her to see if she'll collect it or not . Since when did accepting of money at the giver's free will become a measure to finding a good wife?

People like this love pretenders. may u get the pretender u seek.

Wow! absolutely romantic. Especially the short cute boxers, It looks sexy when it hugs a girl's butt firmly._{that's if the girl has got booty} It fits more than the owner sef

pahtahkee:

You are right. Thou hast well said. Would you advocate for couples having a unified account for bill payment thens?

That may not be necessary.

mishooo:

@JK, that pix is 195 - - what??

See the Volks Beetle as they plenty for ground


You can't see such cars again now. Take that from me !!

So because the pic has a beetle car, it isn't Nigeria Abi? U want me to post the pics of Nigeria with Bentleys and hummers abi. Why do we like deceiving ourselves? Abeg nor be evrybody rich for Naija abeg. And yes i still see cars like that & even worse ones.

pahtahkee:

@ Nwando,
I am in total support of your stand, however my question is: If it is the woman who earns more, should the bills payment fall more on her side or the man?

Whoever earns more spends more. It would work perfectly only if the marriage has a strong foundation. They would personally know how to split the bills. But yes, the bills will have to fall more on the woman. And a responsible man will help in doing more work around the house and less of crossing legs & flipping channels.

iice:

Wetin be face me i face you apartment?

A big house, with many rooms facing each other. Each room is usually/often rented by different people. So u have different families in a building.

@Poster
Lets hear

@ Busta
I feel u on that one, Can't date my juniour and someone more than 5yrs older is also rather too old for me.

@twinny

I got a helmet.

Broad-Street Marina Lagos

lmao ;d ;d

i would love to slap & in fact for get my slap sef on the faces of these people

Ramsey Noah: For thinking he can still be playing lover boy with his becoming round shape & bald head. I want to slap the fake accent out of him & tell him to get off stage.

Genevieve: For thinking she's the queen of Nollywood. I'm going to slap the fake accent too out of her mouth as if we didn't how she spoke when she initially started.

Britany Spears: For being soo gullible.

Kilint d drunk: For becoming dryer by the second, slap him harder cos the drunken style sucks!!!

Desmond Elliot: For getting fat, I'll slap the puffy face out of him.

beyonce: for thinking her booty is so darm big!

I'll slap Omotola for allowing Genevieve's childish attitude get to her.

Rita Dominic: For feeling sexy.

Eedris: For being a nuisance & bringing shame to niaja when 50cents came around.

Joe: For singing love songs that get to me

Times without number i've heard this. The question is can it actually be gone?