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All these unnecessarily long relationship sef , na wa o

Why do u want her back, when u've already allowed her go? Some second thots abi? just realizing what u are loosing.

Please u guys should just stop thinking u can dictate to a woman when to start, when to stop & restart a relationship.

LEAVE HER WHERE SHE IS.

Bolarge:
You didn't offer me any.

I needed a blanket to wipe urs

OMO IBO:
well, they happen in my presence or while im there. i don't go looking for girls and guys kissing or making out.

but y do u choose to be ignorant of a rife lifestyle? im sure u know these things happen but u choose not to acknowledge.

I admit things happen, I'm speaking as a whole. but that we admire a fellow lady don't mean that we trip.

bawomolo:
nope, real homosexuals are repulsed by the opposite sex. come on ladies, fess up

we won't give in. The truth has been spelt.

bawomolo:
the close proximity can lead to some action at times. we are talking about bi curiousity not homosexuality

One leads to the other.

OMO IBO:
nwando, forget your innocent years.
fast forward a couple of years and speak of what u see and notice around u.

What u are interested in catches the eye. One's u are not interested the mind don't go there. U don't look out for it.

that women are softies & way too easy in letting out their emotions does not make them have bi-tendencies. abi which ones na

the things is there's a boundary around everybody varying from man to man. its very easy to break the boundry from girl to girl. A girl can meet a girl now & next minute she can place her head on her shoulders

But u guys the aura around u is stronger. No matter how u gist with each other u can never find yourself placing your head on another guy's shoulder.

We ladies can easily break that boundary between us but u guys,---- men i don't know what God made u with. Wouldn't i frown if i see a guy tickling another. But its common with ladies. That's how God made us. It don't mean we cld be gay

nwando:
Is there any girl who hasn't had complete strangers walk up to them and compliment their outfit,hairstyle,nails ?
And yet she didn't walk out saying,"that girl wants me"

The truth is that when compliments comes from fellow girls we know its really true.

OMO IBO:
jkpretty, trust me when i say i have seen it with my 2 korokoro eyes. i mean staright girls kissing. their boy friends dey corner dey watch them

U need to be truthful here, i'm sure there was no tonging. And their boyfriends smiled at them with no questions?

@Omoibo Girls don't french kiss or go tonging except they are gays/dating.

@Nwando
i just just going to tell u to clarify before they start quoting u ROFL

OMO IBO:
so u've chosen to dismiss the hugging bit. i kind of agree with u. how about the kissing bit. plz explain that one for me

Kissing? How do u feel kissing a guy

I guess the best a girl can give to a girl is a close hug, at most a peck on the cheek but then u must have done something outrageously awesome. (hardly found in naija tho).

I've also heard guys talk about other guys as fineeeee. Dosn't that sound irky to the ears.

I believe its not a crime to appreciate another woman, that's if she's beautiful. . . If u think hugging another girl so close, strikes gay tendencies, then u r missing it.

Meen that proposal is wacked. And soo ambigious. . .

After i've checked amongst my numerous . . .

After all the whahala u've given me . . .

After all the stress at home and by friends to get married . . .

Since i don't have any other choice . . .

and so on . . . but well since the people in question have settled. No wahala

Its better u don't tell me anything sef. Just say i'm bringing my people to see your people. Soo that we'll know that we r going back to the dayzzz.

To my mum always always hugs or 'mummy good morning'

But my Dad loves courtesy sooo Not only will ur mouth utter 'good morning' ur legs must prove it too. The knees will definitely go bending. I think i like the fact that i got used to that tho 'cos it has really helped me.

Guess she showed u the kind of bitch she is

@Almondjoy girl u've really tried o, pretty interesting

Just wondering how to begin

Sure these things happen but we grow goose bumps at the thot. Thinking/hoping its not our portion.

A friend of mine went to one of this redemption camp retreat with Pastor Adeboye. She told me he asked the men sleeping with their daughters to come out and if not they'll die within a specified period (can't remember now). She said to her utmost surprise she saw men running out. Yet the man in question that God spoke to him about refused to come out, because he was beside the wife and one of these highly positioned. Pastor Adeboye repeated that "the man is yet to come out" and restated the consequences. The man finally owned up (after such a long time) and came out. . . . . well people cheered him being in the congregation of christains, knowing fully well his chains of bondage is broken. But aren't these people going to return to their families/friends with shame

Now this is as a result of being randy, it starts from when u are unable to curtail ur insatiable urge for sex, which leads to clutching everything in skirt and then having a daughter seems like a blessing to continue the demonic act. Funny thing people like this are too trusted by their spouses. . .pity!

@Topic
The Lady needs deliverance. Even at that age 30, she's still as confused as she were a teenager

It GTB all the way

1st is GT bank and every other bank can drag for 2nd

tommyex:
JK
aint that generalising?because If man talk am BUSTA go say men on Nairaland dey generalise

there is a way u guys do it, it just differs from men to men

@topic
Why becos they don't want their friends to see them as not being in control. Some like to act like they don't care to their friends. But that's being immature. I've realized even to any age they do it, the gravity just differs.

Tell u something, my self & my boo recently just got back together after a little separation. His mum called me to ask me what happened. I explained to her. She called her son and asked him he said "she wasn't calling me so i decided not to call back". His mum called me back to confirm this & i told her straight that he has begged me & told me it was ego & pride. His mum just laughed. See how our men can be.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]And i just got out of the jealousy/possessiveness thread lol
The base of his argument is just wack. . .because volleyball players jump alot and she's a lady. . .all i could come up with was huh? He's lucky she's his girlfriend. . .he should meet some of us here, we'll arrange his brain well [/color]

it just beats me. what a lame excuse

Busta:
@jk

I am not supporting the fact that the girl is insisting marriage, from what he wrote . . it seems to me that she is really in-love with him . . .well . . .maybe i am wrong. Then again, weddings seems to be the new [b]Trend now in nigeria
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doin ok . . .was down with a very bad flu but feeling a bit better down now. Had to come to work, so here I am . . maybe i'll spread the germs . . .lol

Weddings trend in Nigeria? I don't know about that. lol

Get off the flu jo. sorry dear.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]@Topic. . .huh? [/color]

Exactly huh? The guy is suffering from the spirit of possessivity. I guess he shld get his name tagged on her shirt when she's going to play

4 Play:
You are making it sound like a woman is doing you a favor asking for marriage.

Exactly my sentiments.

Its really really good for a woman to stand by a guy especially when the guy is upcoming. Even if u went the hell & dark tunnels for him. Don't make it like your reward has to be marriage by force. Well of course that's your aim if not, why the sweat, but at least leave that part to him. Don't drag him in.

Busta word up

[quote author=R-Dynamite link=topic=116870.msg2017553#msg2017553 date=1204556259]Seems you want to change the topic [/quote]Not really. When a guy is not ready. He's simply not. I simply don't like it when girls force marriage on guys. I prefer him to pester me. . . got it now

Just like we have it in men like wise women

But the truth is, if its in u to lie. It always comes rolling.

Why do i always believe when the guy is not ready, u are not having nothing. And that's simply the truth. Even when a girl is ready, if the guy is not moved, nothing will shake him.

two boys & a girl, any arrangement is fine

Eudora:
shez a lady, rilly he doesnt like the whole jumping tin, ,

I had to re-read, especially when i didn't get the reason why the guy so much hates his girl playing volley ball. Perhaps the lady in question is busty? Well if she is, she should get firm undies. If we can't stop men from getting eye glued to sport channels i wonder she a lady interested in sports should be turned down. @Poster did i hit the spot?

[quote author=R-Dynamite link=topic=116916.msg2017070#msg2017070 date=1204550445]He can be jealous for as long as "don't" and "no" aren't heard often [/quote]Lol.

michelin89:
Why you dey check but you nor want make another person check?

i own him, so i gast to check

But seriously who's not sure of his stand usually does the possessive thingy

OMO IBO:
lets cut the chase. u fancy your sisters husband. if thats the case then its cool. no wahala to fancy person.
ud be a tart if u took it any further than just fancying him.

Its still ok if its attraction. Definitely, No letting the cat out of the bag.