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pahtahkee:
Me sef for attach handsome to my name then. I must not hear you call yourself by that name Pataki oh. Except Or else no more coming to naija again. So JK, wassup?

what's up? the horizons

Sooo for ur mind now, u wan claim pretty guy, who dash. To give u ur passmark make ur pic clearer in ur profile

Don't worry i won't call myself pataki, but for my mind just like u pataki with ur homies same with me.

@Sam

Oh! my signature, sorry, i have to use that kind in a place like nairaland. I'm a softie myself, its a sort of defence mechanics . Once I see it, i make myself tougher. lol. (wondering if it works )

I just want to see u get over this & be good to yourself.

pahtahkee:
Yeah believe it. Thats me in my profile. But you are hilarious. Denzel pics for where, when I fine pass him Make I come demean my person.

Pataki is a legendary name. Given and ordained by my people for naija the big bruva house. Please remove your profile pic, as I must not share it with no one. Not even you. Whats with your JKPretty name sef? Are you as your name implicitly imply?

Ah! Soo pataki has been attached to u from birth . Me sef i pataki lol. JkPretty is not the name i originally wanted to use jare. the one i used, i dint get the confirmation in my box so i had to change my user name. Peeps call me Jk so i just added pretty. Many times i wish i didn't add pretty. Its has made me handicapped in hitting some replies. But then i'm glad i'm not an Atutupoyoyo. God made me on a sunday morning

pahtahkee:
No worries I say. Sooner than later, your testimony go change. All this shakara go stop. Ok, seeing that you are not the caring type, I will leave you. I ask for correct yam, you are giving me isho.

Yeah my profile picture, that was in former life though. You can view it here Now tell me why the copy copy?

So you think that was me in that pics? Then you can believe anything then.

Oh sorry, i never knew u as pataki, i only got to know u as pahtakee. I couldn't have stolen that from u. lai-lai. I got the stuff form the internet i like it & copied it. Never even knew someone shared it with me. What's with ur pataki name sef.

Oh! on ur recent profile, yes o i have to believe what i see, this is nairaland so even if u put Denzel's pic (who dash) i have to believe. Who i'm i to say no

@almond Joy
soo mr. otherwise ban has threatened u. I prolly just wondered the silence. Me i try not to fight with people, i avoid fight. If them like let people get annoid at my posts & change my name to jkugly as many times as possible. it only shows that i've hit a nerve & i'm happy with that. I don't go fighting. I hate insults.

@Pataki
Me product of overseas gini? my head would not allow it. I just tell them the moment u wanna go its bye-bye, no matter the sweet talks. They are too plenty here to give myself headache over some person over there. I've learnt to love myself first.

I'm not exporting nada, manage the food u find over there too And the make believe pounded yam flour.

Ur profile picture? Which pic did i steal? Leave me jare i dey admire myself for mirror. By the way i went checking urs, were u trying to ride a bike or the bike was gonna ride u

pahtahkee:
True love waits for whom it is meant for. There is no where like home, and that also includes our naija babes oh. Why must you always direct your sledge hammer towards guys abroad? Haba Are you saying the guys in naija are all that perfect? The guy you are seeing everyday is busy playing away match right infront of your goalpost. Any man that leaves his woman for over two years in naija is not worth waiting for again though.

Life is a risk my dear, if you don't venture out into, you have everything to lose, and nothing to gain. Even coming to Nigeria to get a wife na risky business but wetin man go do? I must not shame my people. I must keep up with the real African tradition.

Me get the food burnt or overspiced? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!^{(Apologies almondjoy)} Seeing is believing. I am an excellent cook, and I can proudly say that. In fact I too overtalk sef.

I dey come home to get my wife.

Come home & get her now, the girl u have in mind i'm sure knows better.

And not like i'm being on the sides of guys back home here. Its just that at least "seeing is believing" no matter how u try to create a life of make believe we will still know what's up about u. If he likes he shld play foreign match sef the dey God go catch am is nigh. U have many spectators & important gbeboruns that will get gists across to u willingly. And u as a girl will know when to reverse, takeover, plunge ahead or quit. They r here soo we can still scrutinize wella . But having someone there, u've just got to take what u see & accept what u hear, dream & dream & dream until he still never shows up.

Since u still believe to urself that u are a good cook, make urself the recipe & enjoy the food. even me sef in naija, i miss some food i have to just rush to prepare it & wet my appetite (i'm too native) talk more of if i'm there. U must surely cope sha! I don't beef u guys ooo. Infact i bin dey envy ur grammar

@Presido
Yeah pal, i'll try

Who has the voice to make such an order

@Busta

Girl i'm good, nothing pretty exciting for now. Looking forward 2 NYSC camp in 2-3 week's time.

@Presido
I got ur point and i got hanen's point also. U both just strongly worded it with annoyance. Not as bad as that, kiss & make up.

@hanen & presido
please take things easy. okay? please no name calling.

We still love our men whether in naija or abroad.

@AJ
word up? this ur silence hen? Despirado chics, guys can sense that from a distance & they surely know how to take a hike.

@busta word up, hope u r good now

@Pataki
Soo u are going to dwell on some phone loving. Doing lots of promises. telling her how u'll soon concluded ur castle. And i pretty wonder the chic that listens smiling, like "i'm soon expecting my mr. pataki" lol. I still insist that u find her where u are.

seriously too, i prefer someone i can succinctly watch, someone close by me, the only constant thing is change, & me o i can't manage to live a life of regret. Hoping i'll still meet a man that left two-ten years ago the same way, only to find a monster. Its a risky business. A guy going abroad freaks me out seriously. i always always prefer that we go round the world together. getit

And saying u are a good cook . . . they all say that only to get the food burnt or over spiced while trying to impress lol.

@pataki

i didn't generalize that's why is said many men have spoilt the chances for the few that might be true. But don't think i'm even putting u on the list of them good ones.

Wetin u go find there? Green pastures wey u nor fit get for here? So u get what u get. U've got to swap ur 'sooo good life' which i'm sure to be ur answer, for the wife u'll get there. Don't come & break the hearts of the few good ones we have here.

And i simply just wonder why our ladies jump at it. Still baffles me. Its gonna be me & my man here & then we can travel to wherever but i won't lust after an imaginary hubby. Once u fly out without me, that's is just as cool as saying we've had enough of each other.

I wish to carry on my true African culture and pride not this silly westernized culture where women sit infront of the tv all day and expect the man to do all the house chores because she is on her period every second.

Sooo, u want to cross ur own legs & order from the kitchen? "Amala & ewedu please" Simply put, u r looking for a cook, U nor try at all.

pahtahkee:
I can count the number of black women in my city not even female Nigerians oh. Are you still telling me to find my wifey here? I will rather jump on the plane and go back home to get me a good well mannered and brought up woman than settle for all this westernized naija babes.

If naija ladies at home are a lot wiser now, that makes them more suitable. I do not want a zombie for wife.

Yes o, marry the ones there & teach them how to cook.

Now the truth is that many of u peeps over there have actually spoilt genuine intentions of a tiny-winny-few of u. I personnally refer to any of my friends dating a guy over there (Uk/US) as dating an oko-orun (Invisible husband). Because its either the guys are busy married to a white chic (for greeny) & looking for a black offspring, only for them to get married & keep them in naija, waiting for their hubby to come back home & take them over there. Many have waited tire & hubby only come home when he feels she's due for another kid. (conjugal visit once in three years).

Or even later take them over there & she realizes that his personality which she knows is totally different from the one he has over there. (Job, friends e.t.c)

So u peeps marry that shawty u've been chasing there. Teach her all the dishes & make her un-westernized ---lol. Polish her to ur taste. Find ur wife within ur vicinity.

@Chi-chi
I can't but marvel at ur replies. U've really got a heart girl. I've been reading on the replies and quite happy u've been of good help to the poster.

@sam.
I really really hate it when ladies are taken for granted all because of this thing called love & i also hate it when ladies hold on a relationship in which they are taken as trash.

I mean why shld u have stayed this long? How about ur parents and sibblings? Do they also see all u went thru and kept mute? Ur dad, did he know all this things about ur fiancee. The reason why i'm asking u this question is that in matters such as love, i prefer to get my family involved so that in case my eyes are getting shut to some valid things, they can help in getting my eyes clear & wide. Personally i'lld advice u stay off someone u don't love anymore, altho i also agree its not easy but u simply can't continue patching a relationship simply becos u want to save a name for ur child.

Ur "him" is a good man, such quite rare. His honesty has been proved by his decision. People like that think well before they come out with their decision. I'm afraid to say his decision might not be shakened no matter how u tell him that u love him. I'll d say that u appreciate his truthfulness, cos i tell u many men would have led u on.

The man that might even treat u right might not even be "him". That man might still be somewhere waiting. I'lld say get ut mind off the two, take time off & give urself a good treat. Try in the best way to forget about the two of them, who knows something awesome might be waiting somewhere. Take time off, u really need this, cos u've tortured urself for too long.

Who goes digging old topics, for sure the girl concerned is now married to her boo

hollandis:
It depends, agric or local hen,though i prefer bush fowl

ROFL

almondjoy:
Laff wan kill me oooooooooooooooooh!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

_{Looking into the bush for a change. . . . pretending I did not see a post!}

U can't but make me laugh. but Nah lie u saw the post & i'm twisting ur head to re-read

@Topic
Find ur wives where u are, & at ur own very location. Guys shouldn't bother coming home to pick wives. Ladies at home are lots wiser now.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Can't blame them. . .they learnt from the best [/color]

donmayor:
Can one get a honest guy these days? We reap what we sow

Exactly, i mean why shld u expect to get an angel when u are a demon

buzzgonz:
Sorry re you with us?

i don't see any sense u've written

There's no solution to this topic, no matter how u try to tackle it. I see it as a natural thing, a natural law which might very from human to human.

Its just like when we have it in mind to get a thing (e.g a costly hand set) u've admired so much. U labour to get the money, stress urself to get to where to buy it. But the moment u are in possession of it, it no longer trips u, Just because it has become urs, or because u've realised the functions are not exactly what u want, or because u've seen a better phone which u think could have better functions, or because u r just tired of using the phone.

But not every body looses interest after they've got what they've anticipated. Some actually get what they chase after and cherish it till the value and content of the chased is finished. Even when the object bought has out grown its usefulness we often remember when we had it. "Wonder why we wish some of our clothes we love so much never get faded?

And who ever says when the lady says yes, the chase has ended? many of our ladies need tutorials. To me i believe chasing never ends. Even when u get married it still doesn't end. Get thrills in ur relationship & spice it up. U will end up chasing each other till the end of time. I always tell ladies this, if u've dated & u have an ex and he hasn't at one time or the other wanted u back strongly, then there's something about u that isn't ticking correctly

tRoOE:
Men speaks out their true feeling when drunk

Some r still able to keep secrets even after 12 bottles

NaJa HaJe:
ofcourse na.

u no know nbu onye ibo. actually onye delta.

whatever, i can't decode the shit. I'm getting out & dragging u along

@Naje

R u Igbo?

Why don't u tackle the issue with ur girlfriend & correct her of her dirty habits. Instead of coming here to spread ur dirty laundry.

Yeah sure, the only person i can fantasize about is my man. If even i decide to fantasize about another person, its going to be another man

in other wards u'd end a good relationship because the guy keeps his money to himself? r u serious?

Naa i wouldn't end a good relationship because of an act of stinginess, altho i hate stingy people. I sure as hell know how to correct such act, that the other will gladly open wide the clenched fist.

jkpretty, lets keep in mind what the thread wrote. he was a lovely guy, ladies man and all that jibber jibber but she ended the relationship because he keeps his money to himself. there's no mention of the bolded in the thread starters post.

The talk about him being a ladies' man is what rings. What precisely is a lady's man. What occurs to me most is a guy loved & adored by women. Meaning he might even be too preoccupied with the attention his getting from other women to be thinking about a girl that left him. I'lld rather run from a lady's man than get superglued to that type, better let us be like parallel lines. I'll rather have a man of my own who's simple (witout daughters of eve clustering) than have a lady's man only for him to make me just another priceless work of art in his gallery.

OMO IBO:
come on now jkpretty,
if i read correctly, she ended the relationship.

Now u come on, Aren't u the same guys that say, the end of every relationship usually comes from a guy.

The guy initiates the reason for breakup the lady breaks it. Unknown to her that's what the guy pretty wanted. . .

or did i get it wrong?

Since he allowed u go, he sure wanted u gone

Nautillus:
Hab JK, . . , Na quarell?? You now cut the guy some slack now.

Naa no fight. Its just that the girl didn't decide to leave on her own. He told her to go. So why does he want to assume the position of a remote control. Go, stop, pause, for eight years abeggi, and how productive will her coming back be. He should just let her be.