stillwater:

I avoid anything that will bring hurt.

U can't avoid hurt all ur life, atimes the more protective u are of urself, the more vulnerable u become. Much more, hurt doesn't knock on the door, it comes when u are unguarded. That's why hurts.

Joey82:

@jk
dissa pointed? about what?
i didnt say all girls cheat, i said expect em 2 cheat, its a free world, anything can happen.

besides whats this signature u're using - "u know am bad"
its getting me scared o

It means stay off! . . .Lol Its not for u to get scared.

ROFLMAO to plenty replies here.

hmmmn! I've actually given out an easter gift attached to an easter card b4. Even soon after the exchanged xmas gifts. I don't think the problem is with the days. but the asking . As in, why shld she ask for the gift?. If it comes fine, if it doesn't cool. it doesn't have to be a big thing too. But she shouldn't ask. I suspect hungry tendencies in the girl.

Again, where u meet doesn't matter, there are criminals in church oh!

Any kind of hurt that could bring heartbreak.

Girl go home, the bed has been cold for too long.

Since its not working, bringing your hubby there, then get fund together get back to Nigeria & set up something.

All these distance romance/marriage sef

zheroes:

whoever hurts you is a bad guy!!! good guys go all the wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to the ALTAR, Unless it becomes unavoidably necessary.

Yeah and the truth is that the good guy might still want to go to the altar with u. But he hurt remains unpardonable. And u'll rather break up. Or are u saying good guys don't hurt?

Joey82:

@poster

Women, they say are like cloth in d market place, peeps (suitors, boyfriends etc) keep trying them on until someday d person (husband) that adores the cloth most or d person who d cloth best fits buys it. Even at that he at times have to share the cloth with other peeps (adulterers) who likes d cloth too.
Pity but expect women to cheat.
if u're lucky to meet the right 1s, good for you. Pity mayb u aint just lucky

Now i'm disappointed!

Yeah, once in a life time u love someone so hard like u'll never love another. But its not healthy cos they don't love u back close to that quantity of love.

@twinny why now? . Let whahala rest today now.


@efuah
its alright.

Old flame? hmmmn . . .

The tone and manner at which u state your opinion matters a lot. I'm sure both would have been offensive many times, for the people to make it that obvious to u.

Now, everybody loves to state their opinion & want their voice not only heard but respected & acknowledged. But i tell u, their times u know your opinion on a particular subject will be very correct. But u may need to keep quiet & listen to others, that way u give others a chance. If u give others a chance to speak their mind u will always tap ideas from them & add to urs.

U need to listen to others & keep your opinion to yourself atimes cause if u go on like this, t even when people know u have spoken the truth, they still wouldn't take it, which is worse. Be wise! & try to be respectful even when u have to still speak ur mind.

Why would people go & copy someone's email address without their permission. The quality Nairalanders won't do it. Its the yahoo yahoo boiz that pop in once in a while that do such. Na wa oh! Good reason why emails shldn't be displayed on profiles.

chukz4real:

JK. Are u sure of what u've just told us? Maybe it was a dream, thought we had it together and u came for a repeat of it!

U wish . . .

chukz4real:

Well, did u recieve any message from Efuah? I, I, Efuah will definitely tell I said,

Now i'm confused!

almondjoy:

@jkpretty.
When we first had issues. . . I thought you were an angel. . . we no longer have issues. . . .I still think you are an angel. All I can say is that your parents did a fantastic job. From your post you display such maturity and rationality. . .it is usually difficult to disagree with you. You and pahtahkee will make great friends. . . .no beef there at all. When two people with lovely hearts come together. . . only peace can come out of such a union. I give you both ma blessing in "twin siblingness"!


You will always be "malaika"! In fact from now on I nickname you "Malaika"!

Lol . . . Thanx so much, u are so sweet!

@Aj

This isn't about the person concerned. I think its a thing of expectations. Its not a matter of proving urself & or letting someone have power over u. The truth is when there's a break up someone must hurt. Now the hurt may vary. Two different guys commit the same offense and one can be easily pardoned & the other is unpardonable. This has nothing to do with ur person. I just notice this happens a lot. Some men can be forgiven over & over again while some won't.

almondjoy:

Let me tell you what I think.

I admire you because you are a clown! You are witty, intelligent and somewhat reserved. You will make a fine husband to a lucky lady someday. . . All I have seen is the back of your head with bald patches. . . .but I think you are cute. You are not mean-spirited and you tell it like it is. Whoever has you for a friend has a treasure. You make me smile.

You will make a terrible love though. . . you are in the "to cherish and to hold" department!

Yeah true, met my twin brother from another mother (patahkee)on this forum just some weeks back. And we have gotten real close. A great listener, confidant & friend. I don't have to say too much Aj has stated the headlines. Some of my other friends that i met here too are just too good to be true. Looks like i'm picking out the quality ones here. I think i owe nairaland.

@Aj haa! i openly admire u.

opokonwa:

What exactly do you mean by good guys?

Who is a good guy in this context

I'm sure u know the meaning of "good" & the meaning of "bad". This shouldn't give u a headache. Borrow from efuah.

When good guys hurt u, u find it hard to forgive cos the pain remains so intense and u might probably not forget. Or break up. But for a bad guy u can easily overlook the same offense. Does this fall under the category of the adage "Life isn't fair". Or a thing of choice?

My first kiss duh! i had to pull out, cos i was doing rubbish. I pretended i had enough.

i love the song gongo aso. its the bomb!

All this "from one end to another end of the universe" love sef. . . . anyways they say love is a risk, but i bow out of these types.

@Poster
hope for the best

gentledove:

jkpretty,

i now understand your point. checking through your profile i was able to see that the best thing IS HOW GOD SEES YOU AND WHAT HE SAYS ABOUT YOU.

na only you get sense here, jare. good point!

Thanx dearie, u got it 100% correct!

Check my profile, U'll have an idea of what i see

efuah:

lol JK . . . how u doing?

I'm good jare & u?

efuah:

AJ, this is an old thread love. . . the poster is long gone.

I'm sure she has caught him by now

Same with Men

ebony_x:

what really gets to me is the fact that whenever she or his ex calls it's like he doesnt want them to know about me .

It may not be that he's hiding u. I'm sure they (the two ladies) both should know ur boyfriend has a life which he's going on with. But at times guys might not see the essence broadcasting ur presence. Like, If any of them call when u are around i don't see it as necessity for him to say "My girlfriend is here o". Many ladies like to hear this whenever their boo picks up a call. To me its the heart that matters. Its only when u meet face to face & he can't give proper introduction of who i am to the ladies that the questions may arise.

U know his family, does he also hide u from his family? If he hides u from his family, then the relationship is a no no no no no no no all the way.

God bless u guys. I'm in love with plenty of these pics.

Are u people talking about the present pic on pmond's profile or i'm i seeing another pic altogether?

I must be confused

Be [b]firm [/b]with the fact that its over with her. Don't put pity into this by trying to be soft with her. Tell her to move on & be firm with it.

Nope its the reverse, white romance looks stupid.