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@Poster take heart

Sooo u live at my base Festac

I love sports altho i don't do them, i envy ladies who do sports. So far it keeps the body fit & dosn't bring out muscles uncalled for. Its a good thing.

@Topic
The guy dosn't have a point.

babygirlfl:
Being TOO jealous or possesive is bad. From my own experience, [b]my ex would go as far as reading my texts [/b]and was always uncomfortable when i was out no matter where i have gone to.The thing is most jealous or possesive people are also very insecure and in to avoid being heartbroken they actually end up cheating first leaving you heartbroken.I might also be as a result of their past reationship- maybe he has been cheated on before.

Now that struck me, my baby wouldn't even check my inbox. He'd go all round my phone, music, pics but never enter into the messages. I wonder what i can call dat But me o, i check evry checkable.

If all these comes in No. 1 , i wonder what enlists in No.2

@Topic
We are not bothered

skyone:
it depends if the person is boy or a man.

Wondering if there's actually a difference

The day a mad man held my hand & asked me where i was going.

Can u believe i had to answer him back.

People had ran away laughing at me from a distance. Can i ever forget the fear that gripped me the whole day?

The grass can certainly be greener at the other side when u make the best out of what u've got.

@joice
thanx that was quite thotful/helpful.

I hate egocentric guys. Isn't this funny, after admitting cheating he can't say sorry. Those types don't get anywhere i tell u. So what does he expect u to do? Welcome him back with a hug . . . so that next time he'll tell u "i thot its now allowed"

Girl abeg just vamoose. He's name is pride & he'll continue to be.

I actually believe their are men & their are men 3/4 of the men in Nigeria will raise an eyebrow to father a child such as the poster's case. Many men who actually had an affair run away from responsibilities talk more of a one minute thingy. . . I can only say the poster's runaway guy in question will only find it amusing being called to take responsibilities of that child. I'm sure he would have considered that the poster is matured enough to take the risks she took that nite. 1. Putting up with a stranger
2. having sex with a stranger
3. Allowing him to go all the way unprotected.
Wouldn't a normal guy believe she knows what she's doing? Except its a rape case & i don't remember the poster saying she was raped

Its takes a man with an extra-heart to take responsibility of such a child and i tell u under this circumstance its very very rare. He might even think its not his child. I just see this as a lesson to ladies.

@Adeboo
i'm glad u pulled thru.

Mine is when u are faced with challenges don't wail & cry, just look for a way thru.

No calls no love . . . end of story

Rushing into another relationship is never a cure, especially if u still have deep feelings for someone. Get back to her & tell her how u feel. Perhaps u both need the break.

i like guys that admit their fault. . . big loud mouth . . . interesting

@beejazzy Abeg spare us the sermon jo. If na toasting u wan toast, toast make we here.

@ Simstar
lol, a stingy guy is heartache to the soul

Tall it is for me, Its got to be tall, altho reasonably tall not lankily tall.

@Poster u'll hardly find girls that would tell u they prefer a short guy. . . except well erm . . . erm . . ._{they gat no choice} they got hooked in love

@Almond Joy u have two thumbs up for this reply.

@Poster
But why? Why did u have to put urself into this mess? It could have been controlled/prevented. U can't force the guy to come to aid, he simply wouldn't expecially over a one night thingy, except God touches his heart. All i can say is don't wallow in self pity, get out of school & get a job. Even prior service yr u'll get jobs. Try thinking of the good life u would build for urself & ur child. Promise urself u are going to give ur child the best. Look when i'm faced with some trying times i speak positively to myself & it works greatly. Be determined & focused. Don't allow the terrible winds of life to sway u. Hold on firm to ur desires, ur goals & aspirations u'll surely achieve it. Take care girl.

Cute cute baby, & congratulations mother

snazzydawn:
men this is funny! I cannot stop laughing. But your own even better sha o! what of my boyfriend who does not even have my name stored on his phone? Reason: there is no point because he knows it off hand. Hmmmm. nothing we will not see in this world o! but my guy, wise up.

He's knowing ur number by heart is reasonable enough. I have a friend that doesn't keep numbers he knows by heart on his phone. He says "since he can type it in by heart there's no reason to store it". But if he were my guy, i can't fit take it.

@topic
Tell ur friend to wake up . . . he's been sleeping for too long

Giving gifts to ur man is really cool, i like surprises & so i like to give surprises. There's equally nothing wrong in giving money, but don't over do it. A real man won't even allow it.

U guys that felt it sorry o. I'm glad nothing bad happened

Abeggi enough of "do u want him or his money" epele saints of nairaland.

both r important. The guy & his money . . .

ROFLMFPAO
Chai . . .Looking for change
@poster sorry for laughing but i can't stand a stingy person?

Actually this thread wasn't really funny to me, that's why i've often skipped replying. Altho the ladies r to blame, but i simply don't see ur punishment as an ideal one. Punishing them with the food they actually wanted? Naaaaaaaaah I'm sure there r plenty other punishment u would have devised. Aisha's friends's punishment was cooooooooool & couldn't have been better. But urs @poster Do u think the girls have actually learnt their lesson? Don't be surprised if they hold u for another round of Nkwobi. That wasn't a tough lesson but a risky one (to me) . As they are really the for food only (FFO) type. . . they could say the food cleared their system & hold u for more

Hogwash! . . .

@ Topic

We know ur type . . . get a life!

Now many people say they want a moderate/small wedding, Now is ur moderate/small the same thing as others?

Mine is, do it as u want to big or small, but mind ur pocket. Any marriage that makes u go borrowing & getting loans has out-passed ur pocket. No over-dooooooo

Say one word to her & u will not only loose her, u will loose the friendship altogether.

I can trust she'll be so disappointed in u. She's driving u crazy ko . . .she's driving u bonkaz ni

Don't get ur mind bugged on why he's calling u back.

That he is calling u at all shows he values u & has maybe seen ur worth.

The kind of relationship u had previously will tell, what he actually wants back.

lamidebaby:
lmao
They've actually stepped up in recent times o. i hear more of "sorry, what's d name of d perf u're wearing?" or "do u work/ live around here?" much improvement i must say. [b]Some actually make u feel it's really hard work. [/b]lol

U could almost get a tissue to wipe the sweats on their forehead

I hate that statement "i'll think about it"---------- it is sickening

Do some ladies still answer the same way our mothers did --- so pathetic.

There r ways this things r done, its not even in what u say. A guy will always know a lady's worth from the personality.

@Poster
U too please please please, stop using the the phrase "U look kind of familiar" its outdated _{*actually its been long i heard that*} and don't think the question "Did u finish from Ife?" or "Did u finish from U.I?" is any better. We prefer guys that r upfront, guys with guts.

sillyboy:
@ Jkpretty

Believe me, material gifts are so tempting. . . . . most especially from older women. . . . lol. Not that one can't afford it, its just that it polishes ones ego. . . lol

Opari! So that means if u have a lady giving u all the gift u cld ever imagine & sleeps with ur best friend & others around, u'll overlook that all in the name of gifts Let me imagine u have something better to say.

Yes true, mostly ladies prefer something big while the guy would prefer to cut his coat according to his cloth.

It also depends on the tribe like if the lady is yoruba, its expected that the bride's family funds her wedding. But If she's Igbo every expense i guess drops from the man's pocket. Who ever is doing the majority funding _{(be it the bride's family or the groom)}, has the right to choose the type of wedding to have.

Whoever wants the big ceremony should do more funding.

But most times funding is not even the issue. Its the fact that they want people to be aware they are throwing a big party.

It depends on both parties. On one side, it might be their first wedding in the family and would want something big while the other side might be holding records of weddings & are convenient with anything. U've just got to reach a balance. Most times the balance usually ends up big all the same.

@ Silly

Are u saying the greatest gift a woman can give to u, is a material gift