₦airaland Forum

A mother's love is not necessarily an investment for the future. It is rather a natural instinct to protect her own. Have you ever gone close to a hen in the company of her newly hatched chicks? If you have, you would have witnessed the aggressiveness with which such hen fights off anyone who as much as comes closer to her chicks. Same instinct is what leads mothers to love their children and look out for them.

Thank God that Trump and the rest of the world can now see what many of us have been crying out about here and on other platforms! Christians are an endangered species in Nigeria! Everything in Nigeria is tilted to work against Christians and Christianity to the benefit of Islam.

An agenda is being pursued to make Nigeria an all-muslim nation! It's unfortunate that the political class in the Christian south are too selfish and greedy to read the handwriting on the wall. They only care about their immediate selfish interests, not thinking about the future of their children and generations unborn.

The person who gave the order would be readily fished out if he/she happened to be of the Igbo tribe, but unfortunately the culprit can never be found because he obviously is from the untouchable tribe. That is the reality of Nigeria today!

Jazzman01:
It is just normal instinct that all living things carry and exhibit When faced with death/termination. You can observe it in animals and even down to unicellular organisms.

Also the pain that comes when death is about to happen is unbearable and the maximum an individual can ever experience. There's no death that doesn't come with pain, even those that die in their sleep is usually due to organ failure and it is accompanied with excruciating pain and struggle.

Even when the dying person is too weak to show signs of struggle visible to an external observer, the dying person is fighting it internally.

Death doesn't always come with pains , especially if the person had been sick for long. Before that final struggle, most people would have partially lost consciousness and might even be oblivious of what was happening at the time they took the last breath unless they observed from the spirit world

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FreeStuffsNG:
This is absolutely insensitive!

The court pronouncement has legally established that real victims of the convict's terrorist actions exist and are mostly security agents and innocent people murdered by actions incited by the convicted terrorist.

For a Federal Minster and member of the executive arm of government to ignore the sensitivities of the grieving relatives of his victims and further undermine the judiciary in this manner is preposterous and unacceptable!

You mustn't be f^^lish all the time Mr man. There's nothing wrong in the message released by Bianca. She only called for political solution which we all know would be the end game of this whole Kanu saga.

It's really unfortunate that a country where terrorists who have killed thousands of Nigerians are granted amnesty simply because they are Muslim northerners would sentence Kanu who has never been found with any weapons to life imprisonment. Honestly, as a so called Nigerian, I see no reason to be patriotic to this nation. The best thing is to leave this country! I can't birth my offsprings in a country like Nigeria. God forbid!

Richsteemit:
Yes bro, make I gain experience

Don't give all your heart ooo because anything can happen. That girl that's 'sweeting' you now can break your heart anytime sha

Enjoy it while it lasts. You obviously haven't had much of experience with women.

It's unfortunate that people hardly live to old age in Nigeria today. Living up to the age of 70years is now a big deal. Too baɗ



RIP to the dead

This is exactly why our women shy away from expressing themselves sexually. People like the op who shame women for the slightest expression of their sexual thoughts need to stop that rubbish. It makes no sense! Men cannot be expressing their sexuality freely whilst trying to suppress women from doing same.

But on a more serious note, she's right. With the way marriage is done here, men who can do all those things our culture expect married women to do for their men might have no need to marry. Except the man loves to have children, nothing else would attract him about marriage.

HelenaWills:
He has made the pronouncement.
He is going to rot in perpetual incarceration.
No peace for the wicked.
We are all happy for the sentencing, although I would have preferred death sentence. No need wasting our tax feeding his criminal ass.

What exactly did Nnamdi Kanu do to deserve the inhuman sentence He's only fighting for creation of Biafra!

In this same country, we have the likes of Gumi and other terrorists up north enjoying government protection whilst unleashing deaths and terror in the north.

Same fate would soon befall southern Nigeria and northern Nigeria would gain from it.
Drawbacks of western civilisation!

Congratulations to him!
This is the faction of PDP every sensible Nigerian recognises! The other faction constitutes a set of disgruntled elements bent on killing opposition politics in Nigeria.
Since labour party seems to be losing relevance, the Turaki-led PDP must work hard to get things right before the 2027 elections so that Nigerians who're desirous of change can have a good platform to vote during the next general elections.

I believe Regina because I know how deadly and evil an average Nigerian politician can be. Ned had better avoid all the media war and let the young girl be.

I thought they said that one reason to marry many wives is so if any of them gives trouble you ignore her and focus on others. Why is he finding it hard to move on? Nawao

debbydams:
Na gurl Bleep up, how you allow man do literally everything for you.. I'm sure he paid the house rent too..this one of the reason why I do my things myself.. I no want see finish
Remember when I got a new apartment, a friend offered to do the painting for me, i declined
Yes, I'm not bouyant.. I go buy paint buy brush
I paint and even do nice wallpaper sef.. I no want situation where someone somewhere will now say 'after everything I did for her'.. Or situation like dx.. Some men are pure monster.. Everything in my room is my hard earned money..i no want whala

Pure monster you say? What would you then call the lady that crushed his heart despite all the care and love he had shown her? Ladies turn to something else when they want to dump a guy! Their words and actions suddenly turns to hatred. You as the guy would be left wondering what you did to offend her to the extent of being so mean to you. Her words and actions at the time of the break up is enough to infuriate some guys to the point of wanting to take everything they invested in her.

Don't mind them! They'll not keep shut and avoid spoiling other people's chances of getting Visas. Those who genuinely desire to emigrate to these countries now have to face tighter scrutiny and some vicious policies. Nigerians are too loud-mouthed for my liking

Kobojunkie:
You are still not making any sense! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

I never expected to make sense to YOU. No be you again? You have a reputation here for never giving up an argument nor seeing sense in other people's thoughts.

Kobojunkie:
None of this makes any sense to me, nor do I find any correlation between this nonsense and what I posted.

A woman obtaining her financial independence does not free any man from the responsibility of catering to her needs( as determined by her) while he is dating her and possibly married to her. Her financial independence does not erase or impact this responsibility that her potential suitors should know they submit to should they engage her.

Yet when guys choose to go for younger girls feminists like yourself would start talking trash about his choice. If a so-called financially independent lady still makes herself a liability that a man has to cater for just like a broke younger girl with her beauty and fertility still top notch, then every sensible man would go for the later. If this is the case, why do you feminists start seeing it like the man is looking for a young girl he can control?

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

Can you now see that it makes no sense for women to delay marriage on account of trying to build her financial capacity because on the long run she still expects her man taking care of her just the same way younger girls do?

chariisGRACE:
While it is true that some '30+' ladies are single because of their promiscuity, we should look at a reason that is not much talked about.

The truth is, some of these women are victims of the 'wickedness' of a man whom they invested all their love and affection into.

What do I mean?

A man would approach a lady in her mid 20s, ignite a relationship. Not only igniting a relationship but, giving the said lady an "I will marry you" vibe, and because women are very emotional, they'll stick with this said man and before you know it... Boom!! 💥 The lady has clocked 30+.

Oga no like her again. There is this fresh 20+ lady that oga is laying ambush for. The 20+ lady has a firmer skin, perky breasts, outward innocence etc but to get this new girl, oga has to get rid of the already 30+ lady.

Once the now 30+ lady has been evicted from oga's heart, with her hope of oga marrying her smashed to the ground. Already devastated and sad, not knowing that , there is more devastation and sadness lurking around the corner.

Time passes, oga is now with a 20+ lady, and 30+ is now on her own.

She grabs her phone and opens an Internet app only to see that, she and her ilks are now labelled as Evening Newspaper (ENP), wh*re, h0e, etc by men. That is a severe case of devastation.

She was only a victim of a man's bosheit. A victim of hit and run by a man's vehicle.

You all need to stop generalizing. Not every 30+ was promiscuous.

This boils down to wrong choices! A girl would reject all the responsible men asking for their hands in marriage and then accept one playboy who has no intention of marrying them. They usually do this for mundane reasons and when they get dumped they'll expect me to pity them. I don't pity such ladies. In fact I usually applaud the playboys when they break their selfish hearts!

Lalami3232:
You're right in some points!!! Not every unmarried lady in their 30s were bad.

The majority of them were bad with decision making and thinking that they can just marry at any age

They overestimate their Worth! Even the fugly ones among them would be desiring handsomeness, wealth, character etc in one man despite having nothing to offer.

I usually laugh when I read them talking about choosing a man when they're ready as if they can just pluck the man like a fruit whenever they want.

Honestly, I don't pity any 30s plus ladies who is not married because in most cases they wasted opportunities nature presented to them when they were younger. You'll see a girl having different men asking for their hands in marriage while they suffer these men. Then once they turn 30s they start going to Shilo and disturbing God. However, at such older age, women are highly undesirable to men and any man who marries such ladies is at risk of inheriting the burdens of infertility and having to go from place to place in search of children. He might even be wrongly accused of being responsible for the infertility!

Many of these ladies don't know that ladies as they age they become less desirable to men. Smart ladies understand this fact and capitalise on their beauty to hook up their men latest in their 25s while the unthinking ones would be busy dating and comparing different men until time is no longer on their sides. Then when they discover that they're no longer desirable to men they start getting bitter and trying to get younger girls to delay marriage so that they can become as miserable as they are. You know the saying that misery loves company.

MrEgghead:
so you are telling us that you know the management of a patient more than the person who took the history of the patient and must have even done Examinations and investigations??
Everyone makes mistakes. Don't think you know their job more than them.

I know the aspects of drugs far more than them ! And mind you, I'm not talking about one off mistakes but gross errors that shows a clear lack of drug knowledge. It is more common among graduates of private universities!

Stuffyj:
And the pharmacists they churn out from this university won't be half-baked right? Must u make ur hatred against doctors glaring in ur comment? Haba! It's evident u don't know doctors don't generalise treatment but individualize it. Instead of u to seek for clarification if u see any prescription that appears incorrect, u prefer to show ur hatred like u did in ur comment. What u hv failed to realize is that, d same prescription u presumed erroneous may be the correct one for the patient depending on what the patient is being treated for. Guidelines for treatment of various ailments differ and even change at intervals in some cases. A pharmacist once called my attention to clarify a prescription and had to visit the pharmacy to explain to him and even showed him guidelines to justify what he presumed was incorrect and we both appreciated ourselves rather than creating unhealthy rivalry. Nobody is immune to mistakes and don't assume everything ends on ur table because u know it all about drugs. I have good relationship with pharmacists/Technicians and we engage ourselves well on how to make patients care safe, efficient and better for everyone. Error can come from anyone whether u r a doctor, MLS, Pharmacist, nurses and others even in the developed nations due to many factors (including exhaustion from work, fatigue, e.t.c) and not due to incompetence.

My friend, what I encounter mostly are prescription errors and it is becoming too much hence my concerns! When we see correct prescriptions, we know!

Very soon they'll start churning out half-baked medical doctors who'll be giving us extra works in hospital pharmacies due to their lack of knowledge of drugs.

NUC and MDCN should be very careful with the way they dish out accreditations for medicine and other healthcare courses. My eyes have seen it all with the gross lack of drug knowledge our resident doctors and even 'consultants' display in my facility. It's too mind boggling!

I can imagine the sort of terror this man must have felt for being wrongly accused of such offence. He would be trying all he could to explain his innocence but judgemental Nigerians wouldn't listen to him. All the aproko feminist groups would be on his case and calling for his head!

Thank God for coming through for him and making the evil woman to confess. The man would probably have been sentenced to jail for an offence he never committed!

This is why many guys believe that women are evil! Imagine! This is a man I'm sure must have done so much good to the woman and even her family!

Our mothers and foremothers marry early in their teens and still enjoyed their marriages. This generation of women would rather deceive young girls to remain unmarried until they are too old to attract decent men.

This problem is common among Christians in southern Nigeria. Muslims in the north are far better than us in the sense that they instill in their daughters the need to marry early. With the way Nigeria is structured, the south would continue to decline in population while the north thrives.

Girls should learn to set their priorities right and marry early. It doesn't stop them from achieving whatever they want to achieve. They should stop setting unrealistic standards for their choices of men. They should rather look out for guys who have potentials and work together to make wealth.

That officer was very professional in his conduct during the whole altercation. He deserves commendations.

This is a very big lie! If the writer said that they no longer love their husbands, I may agree. Implying they married whom they never "loved" is a fallacy because these days, ladies mostly choose whom they marry. The problem here is knowing what "love" really is! Getting infatuated with a man who tickles her fancy in terms of physical attraction or wealth is NOT love! Any lady who married for the above two reasons will definitely get tired in the long run and people like the poster of this thread would start saying that she was forced to marry whom she never loved.