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Cheating

Disrespecting me and my family

MissTemi1:
Death shall take your soul. I see u being buried

Death is an inevitable end for all mortals! While I'll die and be buried at my ripe old age, I see you dying miserably in your youth before this year runs out!

#i see the spirit of death hovering all over you! It didn't just stop with you but your loved ones! Death is seriously knocking on your doors this year!

She's among the lucky ones who manage to live long in this our hellhole country where healthcare has been bastardized by the government!

If you go to the developed countries where healthcare is a top priority, they have a large population of old people! In such countries, living up to 120years is not uncommon, but here in Nigeria, life expectancy is abysmally low. Good thing is that even the political class is not spared. Check the number of serving senators and members of house of representatives that have died from 2023, you'll see that many of them were below the age of 65years. This is not a coincidence but a reflection of our failing healthcare system!

Go to our public hospitals in this country, many of them are more or less like slaughter houses due to gross shortage of health workers, lack of modern equipment and an increasing decline in standards!

It doesn't take much for government to fix these problems but they've shown little to no political will to revamp the system! We train healthcare professionals but fail to engage them upon graduation until they're poached by working nations such as the US, UK, Canada, Australia, Europe and even Saudi Arabia! It's a shame!

RIP to you, mama! You were lucky!

They're members of the Nigerian chapter of the world terrorists network!

I expect the US consulate in Nigeria and antiterrorism groups to take note of those guys involved in the protests and treat them like terrorists they are!

Say no to terrorism!

kiddaz:
You are always fond of defending these girls, be like you no get experience with them cos if you do you wouldn't be doing this superman thing always. See forget her story of the guy making a video without her consent, its all lies. That's even difficult to do because you can't predict the angles she would be in to get it clear. I met a girl and she came out of town to see me. This is a girl getting ready to marry someone in the next month oo... I did not know until she came over. We were playing before the match and I was doing something on my phone with one free hand when she asked "are you making a video" which I said no. then she suggested we do it and keep it recorded. Na she even set the phone for better angle, climb me, dey grind like prnst* and after the show she watched it and requested we do more. I had no issues. After she left I still deleted it. A girl getting married in a few weeks did all this oo so what about the ones who no even get serious guy? I don't even want to mention the video sex with different women some whom I later got to find out were married with kids and I had to run. You better stop defending them. Most women love nasty things but pretend otherwise to guys like you that they are pretty little princesses while in reality they are just the daughters of Lilith

Abi o. You might be right that some of them do those nasty things on their own volition.

Serves her right! Next she'll be careful with the kind of men she dates. Many of you ladies choose to date and marry some senseless douchbags for whatever reasons best known to you.

Sirchiboy:
I no get money.
Shishi.
Givee job so I fit hustle the money

Like I said before, you'll start receiving blessings from the universe when you have done what I told you to do. It'll not be potent if you do it with money someone dashed you. Hit the streets, go to construction sites and hustle the money.

Sirchiboy:
OK sir, send me money let me do it now

Do it from your little savings, even if it is your last money. That's how it works!

Sirchiboy:
How does this thread relate to me.
If actually you care about me then run 1 mm for me to take your words seriously

For you to start receiving blessings from both God and men, you have to first cultivate the habit of caring for your parents and loved ones!

From the little resources you have right now, buy a tangible gift (eg a wrapper )and take it to your mother, give it to her with your whole heart and receive her "thank you" and blessings. Extend same to your father and ensure to maintain that by giving them gifts from time to time. Completely erase that thought in your mind that your parents' not giving you heaven and earth is the reason for your financial misfortune. When you have done the above, you'll start receiving blessings from the universe!

Make you no go kpai your parents one day because you blame them for your life's predicaments.
Sirchiboy, I have told you severally that you can never make it in life by this continued blaming of your fair mother and your father!

Your parents owe you nothing from the moment you become an adult at 18yo. Many men from that age of adulthood don't even wait for hand outs from their parents anymore. They start hustling and even providing for the family!

One secret of successful men is that they take responsibility for providing for others especially for their parents and loved ones! That is why I keep warning you that your blaming your parents instead of taking responsibility for your life would rather keep you poor and stagnated. To think you're 50yo yet don't know all these things is pathetic!

ChilliPepper:
What of if the man come do DNA test and the pikin come be him own?

He'll be sure that the child belongs to him. He'll trust and love his wife more, a win-win for the man and his wife.

His days are numbered unless he's ready to toe the path of peace and shun terrorism.

P1PrinceKT:
Surah At-Tur (52:20)
“Reclining on thrones lined up, and We will marry them to fair women with large, [beautiful] eyes

Surah Ar-Rahman (55:56–58)
“In them are women limiting their glances, untouched before them by man or jinn —
So which of the favors of your Lord would you deny?
As if they were rubies and coral.”

Surah Ar-Rahman (55:72)
“Houris confined in pavilions.”


I believe in Hurul iyn.

Because it's mentioned in the Quran. And I am Muslim I Follow Quranic teachings....


What is your problem again?

Hmmmmm.....so this 72 virgins stuff is actually in the Quran? I used to think it was just fabricated to taunt Muslims! Wonders shall never end!

Y'all were bragging before now about how invincible Ayatollah was! The likes of madridguy, freestuffng and their cohorts were telling us how impossible it was for Israel and America to kill the grand terrorist! Alas, he has been eliminated and the world has gotten rid of an evil man!

boxypane:
War is scary. Whatever the crimes of the Daugter and other members of his family was.

Their crime is that terrorist ideologies run in their heads and bloods!

Kudos to the American and Israeli forces that carried out this operation to rid the world of the evil Ayatollahs!

Anything to remove terrorists from the surface of this earth is noble and commendable!

What's this one saying

Government should make DNA tests mandatory before birth certificate is given out to the child's parents.

This is a cheering news!

Kudos to the State of Israel!

Kudos to the USA!

Kudos to Benjamin Netanyahu!

Kudos to Donald Trump!


Finish all the terrorists!

Go Israel!

Go USA!

Finish them!!!

I honestly don't know what is wrong with ladies! They'll abandon the guy who truly loves them and ready to go the extra miles for them and literally force themselves on the men who care less about them. When they start seeing shege in their marriage that is when their brains reset.

President Trump, please look the way of Nigeria! We need your intervention to split Nigeria into 3 manageable nations so that that the people can be free and establish true democracy! We need to build a nation we can be proud to bequeath to our unborn generations!

Splitting Nigeria would help to stop the mass migration of Nigerians to the west and curb the desperation of Nigerian youths to acquire wealth through fraudulent and illegal means. When a better country that caters to the needs of the people is built, youths would no longer be desperate to acquire wealth through illegal means!

We need a new nation because Nigeria is gone!

Every Nigerian is a potential kidnap victim, so your last paragraph is one of the major reasons Nigerians are running away!

Also, there's a lot of uncertainties about Nigeria's political future! The southeast (Igbos) have been repeatedly denied the presidency of Nigeria and even told that they don't belong. Our youths are systematically marginalised and denied jobs and promotions in Nigeria. They have to work extra hard to even gain admission into public schools in a country that is supposedly theirs !

Given the foregoing, it is a smart move for Igbos to relocate their children and families abroad where they could have a level-playing field to thrive. Many of them have succeeded in making names for themselves in various walks of life abroad; from education to healthcare, entertainment, research, armed forces etc. They were able to achieve such feats abroad whilst they could not in Nigeria!

So you see? The gains of japa is far more than whatever disadvantages there is in it.

Reading through this epistle, several clues gave it out as a fake story but many nairalanders who responded earlier didn't even notice that it's a made up story.

You escorted your wife to the airport and saw her take off alone yet you said she confessed to traveling to Ghana with a lover!

When you claimed you called her friend, the tone you said her friend responded to you is not typical of a friend. If this story was true, I'm sure that immediately you called the friend and started asking about the wedding, a typical Nigerian friend would decode that something was amiss and tried to play along to cover up for her friend.

Etc

Peter Mbah of Enugu State


Alex Oti of Abia State

The federal government should rise to the challenge of fixing our healthcare sector to reverse this ugly trend. We have all it takes to provide the best healthcare services to our people and even earn forex by extending our services to people from all-over the world!

Government needs to be intentional about improving healthcare in Nigeria. They need to speed up some initiatives already on ground such as the MEDSERVE established to provide expert healthcare services for those with critical conditions like cancer and severe cardiovascular diseases. If this is done and people can readily access such high-powered services in the country, the bulk of the expenditures on forex would be reduced.

There's also the 'japa' syndrome which has seen many health workers leaving the country in search of better opportunities. Government has to put incentives in place to encourage our health workers to stay in the country. This can be done by ensuring that attractive pay packages are available for all cadres of health workers and that a system is put in place to ensure a continuous replacement of health workers who are retiring or resigning from our hospitals and other health institutions. Many of our public hospitals are currently suffering from a gross shortage of health workers and this places so much burdens on the few available hands since hospitals run 24-7.

Government also needs to ensure industrial harmony in our public hospitals by keeping to agreements it enters with any of the professional groups in our hospitals.

Nonsense!
This man must think that we are all f0,,,0*lz. You sent your cult colleagues to go and disrupt the lawful gathering of Peter Obi and other ADC members and now you think you can bamboozle us with this lie of internal dispute?

A known agbero that only benefited from the crude politics in APC to become governor via rigging!

Okpebholo has unleashed his cult colleagues!

When I said it that Okpebholo demolished NBM house in Benin because he belongs to a rival cult, some people doubted me!

That's the same man that claims he's fighting cultism!

This is why Nigeria has remained in perpetual state of underdevelopment and corruption. You can't claim to fight a perceived vice while on the other hand you're encouraging same because you want to benefit from it. It doesn't work that way!

Merry100:
You get. They can't stand successful women. You know what, they leave their environment, and run to the village to find a wife, or chase women selling fruits and peppers on the street. As long as she is successful, whether they are attracted to her or not, they take to their heels.

You just like spreading falsehood just to feel good! Men are not afraid of any so called successful women! They just go for what they find attractive! Before most ladies achieve success, they must have overgrown that age of youthfulness and sexiness. That is why most made men don't marry such ladies but would rather go for the younger girls with everything still intact.

Merry100:
Next time, don't justify ego with myths. Use data.

You are confusing "still capable of reproduction" with "fathering healthy children." Fertility isn't just about making a baby; it is about the probability of a healthy pregnancy and a healthy child.

Male fertility does decline with age. The idea that a man's fertility is unaffected until 70 is false. From 35-40 onward, sperm motility drops, DNA fragmentation rises, testosterone gradually declines, and time to conception lengthens. By the mid 40s and beyond, advanced paternal age is linked to higher risks of miscarriage and certain neurodevelopmental conditions in offspring, including autism and schizophrenia.

Yes, men can father children later in life; but that does not mean fertility is unchanged. A 25 year old and a 55 year old do not have equivalent sperm quality or reproductive risk profiles. Ability ≠ optimal reproductive health.

Biology is clear: aging affects reproduction in both sexes. Men produce sperm continuously, but continuous cell division increases mutation rates over decades. Yes, women experience earlier fertility decline because women are born with a finite number of eggs. The decline is gradual, not sudden, so most women conceive naturally well in their 30s.

Why not stop spreading weak sperm and putting innocent children at risk?

I'm sure that even you might have been given birth to when your dad was already above 50! My dad had 9 children and about 5 were given birth to when he was already 50! This is also obtainable in many homes! Some of our brightest siblings were born when our dads were in their late 50s to early 60s. In fact, it took the intervention of older siblings and other concerned relatives to prevail on many fathers to stop birthing children at their older ages. This fact disproves your claim that old age has significant effects on a man's fertility or on the health of his offsprings!

PappyRome:
The earliest people start seeing DNA test as something that is not real especially in a country as backward as Nigeria, the better for people to live in peace with their family.

It's surprising when you here some certain things about DNA results and people are just quick to accept it. How can you be with a woman that will give you 3 kids and later you say DNA test shows all are not your kids. Does it make sense? How can a woman live with you for so long as to give birth to 3 kids under your roof while these pregnancies are not yours.

Hospitals have been the biggest scam so far so if you still believe this DNA stuff is 100% accurate then you must be a total FOOL

You're making no sense!
Some ladies marry for convenience because the man is rich and can sort her financial needs. Such ladies might not even find the man attractive at all and for this reason, they decide to select genes from other men they consider as handsome and attractive. They make babies with the men they find attractive while relying on their husbands for finances!

It seems you have not yet come to terms with the fact that many women are cruel to the marrows. You still see all women as innocent and weaker vessels. You'll still learn!

Host78:
A man will go for beautiful.

Working class? It's except that man is in doubt of his ability to cater to the family alone.

If you put a very beautiful model who is jobless and an average working class woman, 90% of men would pick the pretty face with all things being equal.

Men would only consider a lady's job if he's convinced he can't take care of the new family alone.

You're very correct!

Men prefer beauty, sexiness and youthfulness than a lady's money, education and connections! Only men who are looking for a lady to upgrade them go for a lady's money! Most made men don't care about a girl's wealth, education or social status provided he considers her beautiful and sexually attractive

Merry100:
Social and cultural norms influenced marriage age patterns. Historically, men were expected to be older than their wives due to financial stability and inheritance norms, which reinforced the trend of men marrying younger women.

Many stereotypes about fertility and older wives are rooted in ignorance and outdated beliefs, rather than biological necessity. Recent research shows that fertility is a shared issue, with age affecting both men and women. Even a healthy 20 year old woman could face challenges if her husband is 40 or older, because male age can impact sperm quality and pregnancy outcomes.

In modern, urban, highly educated, and egalitarian societies, the age gap in marriage has shrunk and continues to shrink. For example, in Sweden and Norway, up to 20% of marriages feature wives older than their husbands.

Globally, about 60-75% of marriages have the husband older, 10–20% are about the same age, and 15-25% have the wife older.

In high-income Western countries, husband older marriages are 55-65%, with wife older marriages around 20-30%.

In regions like South Asia and Sub-Saharan Africa, husband-older marriages are more common (75-90%), while wife older marriages are usually under 10-15%.

Men marrying women older than them is far from rare especially in enlightened environments.

Stop spreading falsehood here just to make yourself feel better. Old age has little to no effects on a man's fertility! A man should have reached the age of 70 and above before the supposed effects of age on sperm manifests and this effect does not even stop him from impregnating a fertile woman!

This is different from women whose fertility starts declining as early as 30yo in some cases.

At a time we are trying to discourage men from birthing too much children, this fallacy you feminists are spreading will only end up encouraging men to continue birthing even at old age in order to prove virility and this would definitely have negative effects on population!