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Lawlahdey:
I have not seen a day pass by on Nairaland without some guy or man opening a thread where he condemns Ladies and their love for money and all things money. It has become so frequent to see the guys on this forum criticizing and analysing the reasons why they think most ladies can't do without money, makeup and all these stuffs. Some of these guys take it to a whole new level by cussing ladies who indulge in the practice of asking their BFs for money, using too much makeup to attract men and all whatnots.

The aim of this thread is to tell these guys to stop being hypocrites!!

You come on Nairaland to tell girls to stop applying makeups, you say natural beauty is the best, you say brazillian hairs are the remnant of one dead oyinbo woman in one foreign country. You say all whatnots, YET, you never see a shabbily dressed girl with little or no makeup on your street and ask her out?? I ask you why... isn't such a girl the perfect ideal of your dream girl that you propagate on Nairaland??

You say that girls shouldn't ask their boyfriends for money, that money is not the basis of a relationship but you wanna date a woman who looks good ahbi?
You want your babe to be hot, classy and chic. You want to be able to show her off in your circle, you want other guys to drool over your girl and wonder how lucky you are to have such a fine specimen of the human race as your own, YET, you do not wanna spend money! I need to ask this, my brothers. ... Are you high??
Yes, I know that some girls can overdo this business of asking their boyfriends or fiances for money and take it to another whole level of absurdness but that doesn't give guys the guts to come here and spill whatever trash they can about girls and their love for money. .. Who doesn't love money??

You also condemn it when girls upload their nudes on instagram and facebook, you call them all sorta names and surnames YET, you are the same set of people that go on IG and facebook to hunt for cleavage-revealing pictures to like and self-service off. You never go on a deeper life girl's wall to like her pictures oh.. . Smh

You all came out to criticize chidinma okeke and her sexually explicit video, you say it's not morally right, you say it is against the law of nature and all whatnots, YET, you are the same set of people that watched the video, got a hard-on and pleasured yourselves with the video content. . Some of you are still dying to watch it seff!

You say lalasticlala only moves boobs-related topics to Frontpage, you say it is frustrating and all whatnots, YET, you are the same set of people who gives boobs thread the traffic it deserves because you can't get enough of Women and their er0tic endowments bestowed on them by God Almighty!

It is high time Men stop being hypocrites and accept themselves for who they really are :-
"Passionate Lovers Of All Things Women"

I have two or more points here.
1. I met my girl in her natural look and I fell for her beauty, as time went by she started applying excessive make up which I disagreed with, the worst hair do I'd seen on her was one Brazilian hair (I don't know where she got that one from sha)I tell her don't try to impress me or people with your looks.
2. I tell my guys and any lady who cares to hear that I can never give you money for your cream, hair, make up, soap. the reason is simple those things are the basic things every human should be able to provide for him or herself, you are at least responsible for your basics in life.if a lady can't cater for herself by getting these simple needs how then can she ever buy a phone of maybe 50k or do some other valuable things in her life.
the only reason I would give you money for all these basic things is if I as the "husband" asked her not to work. don't you think it's crazy and stupid for a lady to depend on a guy for all these basic things?

BeautyBaebee:
foooool. it's tradition. stop insulting ur parents rada take tym to go through some books or go browse to see y sm gurls are being circumcised..
Linda Ikeji is circumcised, does dat mean her parents are barbarians? u soo foolish n displaying ur height of foolishness won't help ur life.

what exactly are you pained about, my words or the fact that your parents were barbaric in that act of your circumcision? f*ck girl, how does your stinking virgin vagina help your miserable life?

[/email][quote author=frubben post=50865386]Father king of glory!!!!!!!!!! Lord of God!!! Dis wickedness

Lord of who?

BeautyBaebee:
see dis 1 o. yes, I know a lot abh sex, am not an illiterate. av read alot so it's not until I do it dat I will know abt it. u mean to say wen u were a virgin, u Neva knew a tin abh sex? mtcheeew.
n yes, I was circumcised. I dint just wake up to form story. u are not my parents so shut d f*uck up

it's your life, if you like stay a virgin till you die.
your parents are barbarians displaying their barbaric behaviour for having circumcised you.

Almost everyday does a colleague of mine talk and disturb me with this USA election, for my mind, I'm like wetin concern me? why should I be concerned about America when naija needs to be fixed?

donshady:
Either you lose your virginity now or latter does it change any thing??

I wonder oo

skywalker240:
How can a virgin fake moan,..dat kid contradicted herself

Gbayii. you saw too?

BeautyBaebee:
I don't know how to start buh lemme start anywhere sha.
Am 19 years old, a virgin. I started dating @ d age of 17. I left my first BF cos of sex issues.
I decided to stay single until am ready for sex buh I met anoda guy last year around August, he asked me out, i fell in love with him n we started dating. all through our relationship, we did every thing except sex. He doesn't complain actually lyk dat, he told me he loves me not becos of Sex, he can b patient with me till am ready.
So yesterday, I went to his place n after a while, he asked me "How long are we going to continue lyk this" (talking abt romance without sex). He told me all sort of things ranging from how much he loves me to how he might cheat on me n look elsewhere if I continue treating him lyk dis since "he sef b human being". I actually broke up yesterday cos of dat statement cos I cnt share my Man with anybody. Buh he later begged n said it was a joke, even @dat, I still broke up.
Seriously, I understand him, I feel for him, I would love to give him my virginity buh am scared of Sex. am circumcised n scared I won't enjoy it n he won't enjoy me too. I don't want to b used n dumped. (truth is, I don't always enjoy pre-intimacy, most times, I fake my Moans anytime we did it cos I don't want him to feel less of a man or see me as a stick)
Now,
Since yesterday, I cnt stop thinking abh him.
I love dis guy soo much n he has become a part of me. Dunno if I should just let him go or call him n tell him am sorry.
I always come here as a guest buh today, I joined dis forum cos of this issue.
Plz nairalanders, wat do u advise I do

This your write-up shows you know a lot about sex, and stop lying, you were not circumcised.

dollyjoy:
I am pretty sure your response to her chats at the initial stage of the affair were immediate, one wonders why you decided to be engrossed in some stvpid games all in the name of "addiction" whatever happens to excusing her first?

c'mon it ain't that deep.

Khrisfame:
av posted dis thing here...before...

we didn't see it then.


give the op small thing naa, for the redo.

Oshikoyafrank:
Helen is sleeping with Bayo after her husband practically pushed her into adultery. But now, she can't get out of the adulterous affair.

thanks man, I don't have to click that link. you told us the end of the story.

Kgdavid:
Mr man, you better park well or you will soon know that your benin king whom you worship is no power compared to the power of the Almighty.

i am from Edo but there are some aspects of culture that belong solely in the history books. A people should not continue to practice a culture just for the sake of it!

Which of your Benin kings has ever defeated death? Which one can come out today and spread his wings and fly?

When the white man came, why did the Oba not defeat him? Was it not the same Oba who later ran to greet the Queen of England, who was the very person who sacked his kingdom?

Come out of bondage and be free!

thank God I found one that thinks differently.

having read some comments here, I can now see that benins carry their culture on their heads like their hair. Yorubas say; bi a se bi eru, la bi oba.
what's good for the goose is good for the gander. rubbish monarchy!
the most painful thing is that these people don't like change, they'll tell you it's been like that for so long. how can these people keep accepting a wrong thing all because of culture?

I will keep saying it until I see it happen: monarchial rules will soon go extinct.
it's crazy how some people believe a certain family has to keep ruling. what's special about that family that others don't have?

Laveda:
If there's any need to tell him all these, I. Definitely will.

I clap for you babe, but are you going to tell every of your boyfriends that deserved any of those lines? if you do, pls. don't use any of those lines on your husband when you EVENTUALLY get married.

Laveda:
If there's any need to tell him all these, I. Definitely will.

I clap for you babe, but are you going to tell every of your boyfriends that deserved any of those lines? if you do, pls. don't use any of those lines on your husband when you EVENTUALITY get narried.

9niceguy:
such a lucky lady... despite that she doesn't have eyes..
that's love for real

who said the lady is blind?

I saved hers as "one&only" and the other line as "Temi glow" because that's her Glo line
she saved mine as "evolym" which is my love spelt backwards, and "Indispensable"

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the truth is it smells, most times when a lady had gone through stress, it's not because they don't wash it. so always ask your lady to use the bathroom before you have sex simple.

OP you should have read about it online instead of asking here, and that seems like you're trying to ridicule ladies.

exactly what I tell my friends, you see a girl with nice features and you want to go for her. I can't go for a girl who cannot challenge me mentally, I want to argue or converse with a lady and at the end I learn from her. not all these boobs and hips without brains ladies. some don't even know what it means to think logically, even the so called virgins what do they have to offer after that tear and blood? emotional blackmail sets in afterwards since they no longer interest the guy.
*this doesn't apply to all ladies though*
but to all those pwettyposhbossladychick girls.

AfroMighty:
I think this is about people who make our world today by not giving up(Abraham Lincoln, ford) not people who became what they are today by not giving up(jayz, Oprah, jordan), am expecting the likes of Martin Luther king, Charles Darwin, Isaac Newton, Albert Einstein, John F Kennedy, Tim Berners Lee (Credited with founding World Wide Web), Mother Theresa, Thomas Edison, Eleanor Roosevelt (helped to draft UN declaration of human rights), Alexander Fleming, Vasili Arkhipov and Stanislav Petrov (Preventers of Nuclear War) to mention a few.

so true and correct point you have
THE PEOPLE WHO MAKE OUR WORLD TODAY FOR NOT GIVING UP, not the people who became what they are by not giving up

the sneakers no fine sef, who is watching the movie, me or the people opposite me?

Clerverley2:
Aisha Buhari looks pumped up like a pig.
The model of course.

just because you hate APC no fit make you talk truth, I don't support APC either but our First Lady killed it.

at the end of all the advice and suggestions you get here follow your heart. watch the outcome of your thereafter action.
I cannot forget what I went through for the months I didn't pay my tithe.
I even tried starting a business but it failed, the phone bought got spoilt after a few weeks and that happened like three times. don't mind these folks saying pastors eat tithes. follow scriptural instructions. your tithe is from your income and it is a specific amount from your income unlike alms or helps that you render to people.

MinorityTribe:
This is too big. Ukwu is good but not when it is too big na. I wonder what men see in the likes of cossy and and those women with extra large front and behind. It looks scary. Am i the only one who likes an average small round boobs and ukwu? . As long as it is visible not like Dija own o .

I concur

Cessa0:
lie!! these are two different pictures. .. ts jst a coincidence dt they r both putting on white... the whiteness arent d same sef.. d classrooms are sooo different. ..

op, try again


check deir hair sef.. deir haircuts are different. ..

are you sure you really wanted to comment on this thread or something else?

AbuMikey:
You just dey confuse Me.

the guy dey comment for something else

Zceesneh:
u have friendzoned all ur male friends, and u are still looking for another one to friendzone

I could have liked this your comment a hundred times but that ain't possible. lol