hot n cold: Bros if u think the thread is fake,why waste your time on it.

Entertainment twerp entertainment.

Richvkunt: @Johndoe,
Brother,always enjoy readimg your posts.
However this your advise will only work on a docile and submissive female. When you try it with the hardened specie of the female she might crack a bottle on your head.

Even madman de fear koboko. Females will only attack with bottle when they know that the bottle will NOT BE TAKEN FROM THEM AND STUFFED UP THEIR Arrow. Escalation is only an option when they know that retaliation will not be forth coming. How many have retaliated when army man slap them for road?

Sagamite:

You are a person!

Being African is beating up women!

Product of a failed education system!

These are the kinds of cretins that have a right to vote?

Well well the internet warrior speaks. Look foool, I have said it many times if you pseudo white men don't like us Nigerians, why the fvck are you on Nairaland? Shouldn't you be on poundland, dollarland or euroland? Look at the people who agree with you, Internet Nigerians everywhere other than the real Nigerians. Anyway you are known person (you love that phrase don't you).

Kobojunkie: The FG has been telling us these lies for a while now. We don't want no more lies . . . show us the million houses per year make we seem am.

Kobo the minister, showed us the houses during the ministerial chats to mark the 1st year of this administration. But it was for Nigerians on Nigerian tv, so it did or does not exist for nairaland? I watched the presentation. The houses are clustered into estates spread across Nigeria, Alot of them are FG partnerships with private investors.

Abagworo:

PDP slaughtered the corpers. If not why has there not been open trial for those arrested as called by the opposition? Henry Okah confessed of PDP planting the October 1 bomb during an open trial because he is being tried in South Africa. Let us try Kabiru Sokoto and others in open, so that Nigerians will know the truth.

The people's houses were burnt because they were seen as anti-people. Imagine if Ohakim was declared winner of the Imo State elections when 90% of Imolites knew they did not cast their votes for him. It is always good to let the will of majority prevail. Especially if the majority is overwhelming.

I never knew you were insane. So sad, how do your family take it?

engrtee: Wetin u wan du b4? James bond? U wan beat d man? No try am oo?

D mata no concern u at all.just maintain. Dey ur own

if u form actor u go go cel

He knows this, he just needs attention from the people here. Do these people get a rush from these fake threads?

"Two days ago,I was in my street(just returning from work)when I saw my neighbours whom we know each other well(A man and his wife)living two houses away from mine were at each others throats shamelessly (come see people),to top it,their two year old baby was somewhere crying his eyes"

rokiatu:

Are you cracking a big joke or what?

No jokes dear. Live and direct dear. live and direct.

Efemena_xy:

Meaning? She should be treated like a punch bag to vent out his frustrations whenever he feels like it? Or you mean treat her like a doormat to be trampled upon because she now bears the title "Mrs"? Or you mean it's all about him, Him, HIM as his wife doesn't count?

Well what's wrong with that?

Efemena_xy:
Oh yeah? Pray do tell, what makes you think that? And puuuuuuuullleassseeeeeee cut out the inferiority complex attitude. I'd like to believe that beneath all that gra-gra you've got a few working braincells.

Actually it is you wannabe white people, who we all know are second or even third class citizens in the west and come here to try and "civilize us" that have an inferiority complex. You will never understand how annoying it is for us.

Efemena_xy:
Speak for yourself. Not every male here has got caveman antics like you. Anyway, why the hostility Jonny??

Well this family board is mostly the wannabe whites (even the males), cus most of the Nigerians don't have time for the BS here. Why don't you come to the politics board and try and sell your "you should be like us" rantings?

Sisi_Kill: Sigh!

JD is in one of his moods again!

SMH!

You mean I am real as usual? Yes I am. Proudly African.

This is what I recommend for those young men that are having a hard time controlling their women.

Level 1. Try and smile with her and make a joke of the issue ( this is hard but with practice you get to do it with ease).
level 2. This is for when the issue is real serious and the biatch needs to understand that you are the boss - warn her, tell her what she is playing with and walk out. When you come back totally ignore her.
level 3. As she is opening that mouth, give her a hot slap. The slap should have as much force as possible. The objective here is the shock effect. Then you leave her to think about thinks when her eyes clear. This almost always produces a calming effect on the woman. You can then at your leisure point out the error of her ways to her.

Sometimes you will need to administer more than one slap, use your judgement.

Tgirl4real:

Putting the tone of the post in perspective, it is disgraceful to someone like the poster.

Sadly the poster is just another fake female. If you were to investigate her life, you will find that she is in it with the best of them. Women are so hypocritical it's unbelievable. That's why every woman in Nigeria is a virgin, even the ones in the maternity wards.

Tgirl4real: What you mentioned is now the order of the day. In the real sense of it, they are not our daughters. They are our colleagues, neighbors, and sometimes friends.

We mothers should endeavour to train our daughters up in a manner that will not bring disgrace to us in the future.

What makes you think that women think this is a disgrace?

@OP
What is your business? You de craze? You want to go to another person's house and fight them? It sounds good to those fools who live abroad. We here in Nigeria understand what nonsense you are talking. Please go and see what happens to you, when you get there injure the owner of the house. Nonsense.

Efemena_xy:

Don't get emotional on me Jonny.

Besides, was a gun held to his head to spend money the way he did? Did his wife dip her hands into his pockets?

In life, mistakes must be made otherwise we as humans would never learn. I'm not saying the poster made a mistake in spending money on the items / activities, far from it. The mistake here was HOW he spent it. This would be a lesson to both of them to plan a budget and cut their coats according to their family's size.

Now tell me something: How does the violence you've just advocated, re: him beating up his wife, help solve their financial / matrimonial issues?

I never advocated violence. I put that there to show that there should not be ANY LIMITATION on what he wants. You are young and a fake white person, so you carry the white-man's crap on your head. We Africans understand that women love you more when you keep them in their place once in a while.

Efemena_xy:

Playing devil's advocate again with your shock tatics?

So now you encourage lies, deceit and violence in a young marriage as this eh? @poster, please for the sake of your home, exercise caution when viewing responses such as these on a public forum. Only a f[i]oo[/i]lish man would use his hands to destroy his home.

Right, your husband is always truthful. Tell that to your baby. Do you know what it feels like to spend that kind of money?

@OP
I really sympathize with you. Don't mind all these expired puzzies giving you lecture, they are the enemy.

No one can describe the feeling a man gets when he learns the difference between "income" and "disposable income". It is a shock to the system and really rocks a guy. Most men go through this, my brother the truth is you have just started. No amount of planning can help you. Life for men is a constant struggle to stay ahead of the curb, as you get more money, they (these women ) think up more things to hammer you with. Let me give you a small example, you spent =N=300,000 on a naming ceremony, what do we say; it costs =N+6,000,000 per year paid up front for a child to do "A" level in the UK in a private school, secondary schools here are charging =N=1,000,000 per term.

So what is the answer? I can only tell you that you need to be on the road looking for money, when you find it pretend you didn't and look for some more. If (and when ) you need to De-stress find something you like to do - even if it is beating your wife for putting you in this position - and do it.

Long live men we are the salt of the earth.

It is really sad, when you meet an obviously insane person. O ma she Oh!

Afamdman: So let me ask you as a woman and you see the kind of friend that your husband follows, let me paint a picture,your husbands best friend in which they are alsways together is a womaniser, beer palour dude a cheat and liar, so you tell me you will not voice ur concern to your husband about such a friend and infact not put ur foot down that he doesn't move with such a friend again or even go as far as telling him its either you quit your friend or I leave this marriage.

Is it Kobojunkie you are asking question like this? You for go Yaba left go de ask question.

I have never had a female house help. My wife has always insisted on us having male help. I have found it a drag, but she prefers it. We do though have female relatives stay with us.

Tgirl4real: Chei! Johndoe ti de o

Always at your service madam.

Sisi_Kill:
HAhahahahaha!!

Jinijini catches us when JD steps to the plate, abi?

You lost me there??

Kobojunkie:


And Our religious leaders will spend more time training people on the essence of the many beliefs out there. If I don't know any other religion, I know that Christianity requires that every Christian have a giving spirit.It is not good enough to read the Bible and pick and choose what you want and say you are a Christian at the end of the day. Giving is an essential part of the belief and giving without expecting something in return since the Book says the reward is in Heaven.

You see Kobo that is the thing. If you were here, you would realize that in today's Nigeria Christian giving means almost exclusively giving to the church. That the members are dying like flies only means that their faith is not strong enough or as they said in a church I was invited to; they did not give enough to the church.

dayokanu:

The housewife In that scenario that doesnt contribute. Where does she get the shelter she lives in? If the housewife was living alone, I am sure she would also pay rent somehow, buy furnitures somehow, Pay bills somehow. So these expenses that she should have been making are now taken away from her

Regarding the pregnancy, She wasnt forced to get pregnant and if she didnt want to have babies, she could have told the husband I dont want babies. You cant have what you so desired and still expect you to be given concession on it.

In Nigeria we all know most housewifes minus being baby producers are useless in everything. They are 1000% dependent on the man. Even to buy their own menstrual pads they cant. They wait every morning and ask for money to every basic need like beggars. The moment the man kicks them out, they become so useless to themselves and the society. The inherent laziness now comes to the fore.

Abeg spare housewives. They have provided me with innumerable hours of pleasure over the years. I like them the way they are.

This is the kind of thing men say before they loose their virginity. Also men who don't have regular access to kitty. Respect? Women? Hahahahahahahahha.

andyanders:


I think there is something beyond your explanation. Maybe you are a lesbian hence your action to chose your friend to your husband. There must be something beyond this because your husband must have noticed something in between you and these your so called friends. You are not clean at all. ou have something hidden

This is very obvious to anyone. I wonder why the women glossed over it.

ferhyntorlah:

Guy, are you just new Jenny's choice of vocabulary? Whether na guy, baby, boy or man as long as the poster gets the koko of the message.

I've come to associate that word "husband" with dictator, slave master, autocrat, despot.

When are you taking JAMB. Next year or the year after?

@OP
You have been given good advice here. Most of it will eventually lead to a divorce. Why not cut out the delay and go straight to the divorce? Let's see:
Jenny says no kids, yes that will ensure a long marriage will it not. I could go on, but you get the drift. Remember : get some self esteem and get a divorce. Most of your advisers are on their third or fifth husbands and have kids for them and some about to be husbands as well, so why not you?

cotton101:

me i wonder o!

people need to stop this western thing - if ur thinking everyone brings up their kids as if they are some family from the tv show shameless than a lot of people are mistaken - people go on as if the people that commit kidnapping, armed robbery, prostitution in nigeria did not have those najia values instilled in them.

Don't mind them. There is no difference between Nigerian culture and the white peoples culture. We should all be like the white man you. By the way how many kids do you have now and from how many fathers?

Why mothers only? Isn't that sexism? I am sure that there are many male members who can give good advice.

I de fear those kine men sha