debrief08:
Seriously dear, why bother? This is the only attention some people get in real life, they will go as far as making up IDs holding a conversation with themselves and liking their own comments. .
Abeg allow them to have their own fun jor, insulting me makes their lives complete, am glad to be off service

debrief08:
Thankfully, we are begining to remove our head from the sand and speak out. Thank God people are actually living to tell the story, baby steps but Thank God.
https://www.nairaland.com/1055951/domestic-violence-video-how-frank
The Walk Against Molestation in Lagos which encouraged Molestation victims to speak out; and the Peace Prayer Outreach in Kwara State which enriched the lives of those in need and advocated for understanding between religions. These efforts all served to promote peace, non-violence and solidarity within Nigeria and more importantly advanced the vision of Peace One Day.

Obiang who was once married to the 'Who Wants To Be A Millionaire' host, Frank Edoho said, "Just to dare to argue with your husband is like a challenge in your home. The woman is challenging the man and tempers flay and then you snap, then there is a slap. He says 'I am sorry it is a mistake' then says 'sorry I won't do it again,' then he does it again, again and again.

Narrating a particular incident, Hadiza, estranged wife of musician Zaki Adzay, said, "he slapped me on the face so (and said) 'get up you must abort this pregnancy today. Now that I am married to you, you want to hook me with pregnancy because I am a celebrity.' Then there was a wardrobe in our room so I put my tummy in there and then he continued beating me. He had some folic acid in his hand and said I should swallow it and abort the pregnancy. When he gave me I said he should allow me take water, thank God the door was open so I ran away."

Billyonaire: Very simple. Very very simple. You people need to make your brother to channel his energies into something else. Put salt in his car engine, he will have a week to battle with mechanics. After that week, put salt in his generator, he will battle to buy new generator. After that week, throw his ATM into toilet, let him find time to apply for another with his bank, then flush down his checkbook down the toilet. In the height of it all, he will complain to his wife about his problems that's when the game begins. Recommend a pastor for him to see for counseling and make sure you inform the pastor before hand to tell him the problems come because he abuses his wife. That's how nature plays us, you don't have to wait for nature. Take Charge of your life, by hook or by crook.

Desola:


Lesson 101 from page 1, the spineless effeminate sissy!

Honestly, i'm sorry to have ripped you n.aked in the village square like this but you gave me no choice. I do hope that at some point today, you would thank me and apologise for being the sorry mess you have become. How would your minions ever look at you the same now? Being bi.t.ch slapped on NL by a mere female is not a good look, you know. And you keep coming back for more!

Are you into leather and whips? Seems to me that you like being dominated by a woman. Well...i'm a part-time dominitrix so come here and let me whip that black charcoal backside of yours with pleasure.

Haggard ke? Boya lo mo!

1 shortblackboy: please the following should be scrapped:

road saftey
civil defence
VIO

Ivynwa: Some outgrow those childhood sucking while some don't.
The one that needs to be stopped fast is the putting hands in another person's armpit, I am sure if his hands are removed whenever he does that with a look of disapproval that he may realize that "mummy doesn't like it when I do that". You didn't really state whether it is his thumbs he sucks or just sucking his tongue but then some children stop that if great efforts were made to stop them by their parents and some don't.

Eko Atlantic: Damn, not again
Our biafuran brothers why now?
This is the third topic dedicated to una for una crime
This is serious
This is too much.
Mods no even dey ban/delete post again, dem don tire

greatgod2012: why are u just watching ur dirty linen in public, why dont u just sit her down and say out ur mind instead of exhibiting dis............hhhmmm,or are u not man enough for dis?

maclatunji:

There are universal topics that unite people irrespective of religion. Going by your logic, I would never have become Moderator there. We can continue this discussion here https://www.nairaland.com/Islam. Don't derail further.

#Silly

aryzgreat:
MACLATUNJI IS JUST A BOKO HARAM MOD! RELIGIOUS FANATIC! NOT WORTHY TO BE A MOD!

omiobo:
Very correct! Religious fanatic no be small.

Kobojunkie:
You talk am finish . . .na real sharia law these things dey recite!

maclatunji:

Now, this is a more balanced post than your previous one. About my comments on this thread as a Muslim. Know ye sir that under Islamic law in an Islamic state, the penalty for having a MARRIED man admitting or caught having sex with a woman whom he is not married to is Death!

Yes, Islam permits a man to have up to 4 wives at the same time provided he can meet all of their needs without them lifting a finger and will do his utmost to treat them the same way at any point in time. This is practically impossible but he must try to achieve it at all times. Plus, he must not have sex with them until after the wedding which is a ceremony where her guardians, the both of you, at least 2 male witnesses and her bridal gift which is practically anything she requires of you, even the moon is presented to and accepted by her if she says yes to marrying you.

You see, I am even not applying Islamic rules here. That means the man's a goner. Lucky him? He is not in an Islamic State. Maybe, you can now understand why I should feel for the lady, her husband has done something really bad. She can only hope to limit the damage done.

As for your your friends, we keep saying it, Islamic rules are not always followed by many Muslims. Don't mistake some Muslims' actions for Islamic rules and stipulations.

maclatunji:

I understand what you're saying. However, I know from first hand experience in this our Naija that it isn't every woman that tolerates and takes cheating with docility. You should know that there are many ADULTS who have a problem with adultery just as there are many others who accept it.

The person in this case has been trying to cope with it since June and from all indications can live very comfortably without her husband. She is a strong woman yet she's finding it a tough challenge to cope with.

You sir, need to change your reality from the position that everybody is like you, that's a great fallacy that I am sure smart kids have figured-out talkless of you grandpa.

maclatunji:

Not always, OP is suffering severe emotional trauma, if she is strong enough to cope with it by herself, no problem, she may decide not to tell anybody.

BluStreak: No too much rambling so I'm going straight to the point.
Question: is it possible for a young woman whose husband has been away seeking for greener pasture for upwards of 3yrs to still remain faithful to the husband bearing in mind her age group? She is between 27 & 30 years.

cotton101: looking after one's mental health is very important

TheMadame: @cotton101,


i really pity you if you think the Man J thread was written by debriefsd ex husband. Are people so gullible?
That thread was written,scripted and acted out from debriefs immagination.
You see she has never gotten over that divorce but comes on NL to seek internet sympathy. She loves to recieve sympathy and that is why she lashes out at anyone against divorce.
I really think she needs counselling becauser the wound from that divorce ios so raw in her mind that ity m,ade her concoct the fase thrad abouty her ex husband being sorry.
Sher is very siock and I think she needs seriopusd help.