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It’s show she did very self-centred/ individualistic… there is absolutely nothing wrong in buying a land together with your husband.. the guy to nice for begging her.. I can’t even date a selfish lady not to talk of marrying one.. if na me.. na me go assist you pack your load from my house..

emorse:
I was thinking of a nice way to say this. If na me ehn, we no go even reach the stage to pay for anything. If there's ever a need for "I", "My" or "Mine" in a home, it should not be for something as big as a house.

Had this same argument with some colleagues recently. The moment I hear that my wife owns a personal house, she leaves mine! I mean, is she playing safe while I'm giving my all?

We can both own 20 houses if the means is available (regardless of if I paid 100% or not). They will be all OURS.

If your marriage is for better for worse.. why wouldn’t you want to buy a land together with your husband anyway..it’s your husband not a boyfriend.. the land will obviously be in both of your name so what’s the fuss about.. you should have let the matter go after the family meeting…. If that the only thing your husband did it not worth divorcing over.. imagine you meet someone new and he ask you what lead to your divorce.. you will say your husband took your 200k… ? I would have said you are still young, divorce and move on but how easy will it be for a divorced single mum with two kids to find some amazing perfect young man to marry.. it’s will only lead to unnecessary complication for you and the kids.. it’s a risk to go back to him ( what if he keep scamming you till you grow old) .. it’s another risk to not to go back ( what if you meet ap perfect angel to marry again or what if the next guy is a womaniser + scam+ woman beater) well you wouldn’t know the answer until you choose your risk..

With this top… we don’t want chioma again as our bride.. make she no disgrace us after we marry ahm.. davido mission abort and return list... find Tinuke or Omolara marry

I can see respecting your elders is not part of your culture ..

Truthdeypain:
You are very foolish in a very funny way sir. But maybe you are correct, Agberoism is an inherent and deep rooted part of the yoruba culture. No wonder it's Emi lo kan or nothing. More power to your culture sire!

Keep deceiving yourself.. we both know Yoruba don’t like hardwork..

teeytimi:
I don't know your own part of Yoruba who believes in thuggery, laziness, area boys, stealing and other vices but the part of Yoruba where I come from, we believe only in hard work to earn a living no other way around it.
Maybe you are not a real Yoruba person. Ise logun ise nile tiwa

I believe yorubas understand this and other vistors should understand that Omo ita , agbero , area boy, omo adugbo etc is a part of Yoruba culture.. this is what make crime rate reduce in south west.. Alaba is not the only market in Lagos and other people pay this money as well..in Yoruba land.. we believe it a work not to Work and be paid.. as long as you don’t steal.. you can still create job for yourself( by greeting/hailing people, by showing people direction, by making sure a community is safe)

Visitors should understand this part of Yoruba culture , it has been for century and it will remain the same for a long time.. even as Yoruba we are happy and willing to pay this people money as any opportunity to discourage them from going into robbery or stealing

Even though i like Jonathan but Jonathan is not a real politician and doesn’t like violence.. a lot of Hausa and Yoruba didn’t support him... Aside that he was tired of the sit.. he couldn’t wait leave..

Masterito:
PDP wrote and marked the exam in 2015, who won?

Na Yoruba get packaging and they will package Tinubu as best as possible.. the only reason Tinubu can loose is if apc northern Elite betray him.. if not.. it’s a sure win for him..

Aside that think about this.. APC wants to write an exam and apc will be the one to mark the result.. do you really think they will fail themselves?

Where did you hear that quote from.. alaafin of oyo married more wife’s and he died close to 100years.. your forefathers married multiple wife and they all lived longer than the men that marry one wife this days

Okealaaye:
Royal foolishness, if you ask me. A man who lives amongst many women will have Death summon him sooner than later. To think that I used to swear by this man's name as an Omoluabi Yoruba!

He is youruba man and this makes him polygamous as every yoruba.. religion doesn’t change our culture…

GOFRONT:
Na wa...

Is Ooni a muslim man??......why is he this polygamous?

Is he even conducting a Genotype on these women before marrying them or he handpick anyone and marry??

Is he even marrying them just for sex or for Companionship??

His deeq must be a functional one.

4 prime minister within 4 year,, how can they move forward.. when people see strangers as enemy and chase them out.. after they get rid of the stranger they will start turning against themselves.. they haven’t gotten themself since brexit

Come on Boris

If oga didn’t bring him to come and learn work at that particular place and help him with some
Money .. he wouldn’t have won the money.. time and chance by God through people.. he should be grateful..

Tokskob2008:
Lol, I agree he needs to give Oga small change but saying he has to do it because it's the oga's money he used is funny. You think if Oga knew the boy uses his money to play bet9ja he wouldn't have sent him packing But now wey luck don shine on the boy Oga wan dey claim, honestly if I was the boy I won't give him more than 200k.

The guy looks gay.. may be he is atiku sms boyfriend

LonelyLucifer:
Who is that guy in Beret?.... I've seen pictures of him recently, all in his cool head wear.


His fashion sense is outstanding.

Sure you have hope.. don’t focus your thought and energy on negative thought.. you should believe you will find your own man and have a happy marriage..forget say woman plenty.. I’m sure you know there are thousand of people getting married every weekend.. the ladies are not more better or beautiful than you.. just be approachable, don’t deceive yourself by using work or money to compensate for not getting married, most especially pray, God answers prayer.. Yes marriage is a necessity for a happy and fruitful life…

Stargurl20:
As if I get hope after sch sef. Women don plenty pass men. Honestly, I wonder why marriage is a necessity. I for no stress myself. A these stories of couples pretending to be happy while going through a hell gan is enough. Me I no just get strength for wahala

What is wrong with starting from
Somewhere with a guy graduating at the same time with her and build together with him ….I’m sure a lot of student in her class will be getting married soon?

VTJN:
Lol

She should marry a student who still get money from his parents?

U no try o

So you have given up on finding husband while you are still in school.. shey na when you finish school you wan get your on husband.. you better find husband in school before you graduate.. the pressure is necessary.. you are no more a kid

Don’t listen to people saying you should mind your business, they are mostly frustrated women, divorce or women that have given up on men and want people to be like them..She is your sister and will always be.. also you mean well for her that is why you are concerned.. we have heard of some women committing sucide because no husband and no kids and they are close to 50years.. Everyone deserve love and a partner to build a family with.. forget about the fact that she is helping you with money.. that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t tell her the truth.. you don’t have to go physical with her .. that’s a disrespectful, childish and unwise way to go about it.. i suggest you sit are down and talk to her about it.. acknowledge she has done well in seeking money but money is not everything….women get to menopause early, also there are more complication if a woman start giving birth late, also number of toasters will reduce as she get older because men always prefer younger women and the competition is high among women, also advise her not to travel abroad without husband at her age.. they is no husband abroad..you should also try and understand her concern, her heart break and what’s preventing her, listen to her ..As you are a Broda in church.. also see if there is a good Broda you can link her up with.. there is nothing wrong with giving her a bit of pressure but not my insulting her.. it’s by supporting her.. your mum might be intimidated because she helps with money but you shouldn’t.. may God lead us right

IntelChief:
My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.

But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).

As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.

Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.

What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.

Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.

Thank God for some bitter truth Tayo Bello said some few weeks Ago

I lost my grandad sculpture some years back.. Look where I found it.. London museum lol

Great new.. Hopefully some innocent people will also get there freedom

I’m John, Single Yoruba Man, 34years old and reside in Lagos.

I’m tall, dark in completion and athletic.. I’m a practising Christian but don’t discriminate religion

My genotype is AA.

I’m interested in a lady between the age of 22 to 28 years for a serious relationship

My preference is : she should be single, no kids, educated and based in south west region

Physical preference: Not to light skin, not to slim and not to big, Yoruba lady

I believe everyone deserve their own partner, confidant and soulmate to share this beautiful journey of life with


My WhatsApp is : 08115030609

I’m John, Single Yoruba Man, 34years old and reside in Lagos.

I’m tall, dark in completion and athletic.. I’m a practising Christian but don’t discriminate religion

My genotype is AA.

I’m interested in a lady between the age of 21 to 28 years for a serious relationship

My preference is : she should be single, no kids, educated and based in south west region

Physical preference: Not to light skin, not to slim and not to big, Yoruba lady

I believe everyone deserve their own partner, confidant and soulmate to share this beautiful journey of life with


My WhatsApp is : 08115030609

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Even as Yoruba.. I’m beginning to think anything ogun state is to be abstained from.. walk like a duck, sounds like a duck.. it’s probably a duck

Well.. I hope you don break up with her not still allowing her deceive you

Abyounghammed:
That girl lie for me gan o, imagine denying me as her boyfriend wey her whole family know cuz she wan beg 2k from guy on whatsapp, now I dey understand girls wey no dey post there boyfriend on social media,

Imagine that level of confidence

Abyounghammed:
Naso my ex lie say she is 22 while she b 26 and baba dey celebrate birthday for her every year with false birthday age

Chai imagine unnecessary set back

GeneralPula:
Back then when i wanted to do jamb, we were 6. We arrived at location, then this my friend met this girl and they had sex that same day. Next day we went for jamb and only him failed out of we 6 and he couldn’t get admission until after 3 years..

It was later after sometime he got to know the girl he slept with a day before jamb was a pregnant girl..

we are not talking about married women Broda

yusufmurry:
A girl that's married will hardly tell her age but once she gets married. She can tell.

A turn off question is asking a girl her age and what she does for a living

I swear.. he is only looking to bring setback to his life based on a used up left over.. total ignorance

GeneralPula:
Having sex with a pregnant woman that’s not yours isn’t spiritually wise. If you’re not lucky enough, it might cause set backs. You should stop it!

Well I don’t think it happens in Nigeria alone .. but the women don’t need to lie.. if you are 34.. why not just tell a new guy you meet that you are 34year rather than after he is in love

Kajaard:
Because of the societal stigma that comes with a lady being over 30 years old in a useless society like ours.

Wetyn you do no make sense for your own good.. you for wait make she born first..having sex with pregnant woman who doesn’t carry your child is calling bad luck for yourself… quote author=Baronthecelebri post=117308106]Lies, I met a fine girl, I approach her and ask her for friendship she says no, I met her again she said that she'll think about it, I travel for a job that Last 7 month, when I came back she's pregnant for one stupid Iceland guy that is in prison for murder. She call me for urgent 2k, I gave her condition
1-when she come we'll have sex before she eat.
2- we'll have 2 rounds of sex before she go.
So guys she agreed, anytime she need 2k, I invite her we have 3 rounds of sex with the pregnancy. Did I do anything wrong.[/quote]