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It’s really an hard pill to swallow.. it’s also make i you ask the question do women really love? The earlier a man understand they are only with you for some reason the better ,

adeola1097:
One word - Hypergamy But nobody is ready for this argument.
I honestly don’t blame them for wanting to date someone they feel is above them in all aspects. That’s the way they were wired and it has become part of societal norms.
Just understand them and how they work and change the narrative to suit yourself.

It causes liver damage over a long period of time..

Binladin2020:
Please does it have side effects, and can the effect be permanent solution ? Thanks

I believe one day yorubas will take over the world through their culture, movies, language, religion, tradition and music.. Omoluabis should Keep on doing the good work of promoting out culture

Portable attention seeking pass woman own.. like he always say.. woto woto dey bring money.. I’m sure he planned it for people to talk about him

Lol kini Tinubu gba lowo iyalaye gan gan..iru eta inu wo leleyi bayi

G00DHardDick:
When will the drug bastard be adopted by the US police anti drug law forces?

The fool called tehifnubu needs to be tied up and thrown in jail by now. I don't know why he is still working around freely in Nigeria. Idiots like Tinubu have absolutely nothing to offer Nigerians other than insult. The idiot doesn't know what he has put his hands into. Nigerians Heard him loud and clear and we'll respond come Feb 25th

As Yoruba we no get religion and we no carry ahm for head like that.. but we just mostly choose to practise one of the two..

People can easily deconstruct statement.. he is only saying is presidency will favour south east more than any other region or past government .. you can already see what he has done for the Igbo community in Lagos.. that is why they feel Lagos is their second home.. you have Igbo commissioners in Lagos, Igbo local government chairman, Igbo house of rep member.. I’m sure in few years after Tinubu becomes president we will see Igbo deputy governor in southwest

Why didn’t igbos bring us brilliant soludo for president instead of a crying Pandora pass graduate thief

The Toxic IGBO woman Megan is having an effect on him.. His all this necessary.. the first born is the heir to the thrown.. it’s as simple as that.. all this trash is not necessary playing victim.. You are already born into privilege

A lot of people here wasn’t born or were children when last a Yoruba man ruled Nigeria.. if you ask your elders at home.. your only prayer should be Tinubu to win the election.. The level of prosperity you will enjoy in the. Ext 8 years will be second to None.. trust me your relatives will relocate back to Nigeria in no time

Take him for deliverance session and counselling.. you will be surprised if he makes it big on Gambling he will want to still spend the money on you and the kids.. the reason he felt he needs to gamble in the first place is to make more money to look after you and the kids.. but unfortunately that might not be the right strategy and gambling is very very addictive..

He might be seeing his fellow friend making it big from gambling and feel it will be his turn one day.. No be head wey A get B get.. some people their head even forbid gambling and will end up getting ruined by it... he needs help and prayers.. He will surely hit a turning point either by great win from gambling or hit a rock bottom from losing in gambling and end up facing reality..

He probably spend money on you during dating and when he had it.. You should have also looked at his spending habit, how he manage money and how he saves.. but you while you were dating but may be you wasn’t concerned about that and carried away by how waste money on you..

Divorce is not the solution at all.. he is your husband and people go through different face in life.. I’m sure he wouldn’t be happy about the gambling himself.. just do your best to support him and don’t keep quiet on the matter

People still don’t understand that Nigeria is a branch of UK.. they will always protect the interest of the Nigerian State and their own selfish interest

Justice Delayed most time is justice denied

A lot of us want an Igbo man as president because we see it as injustice however yoruba don’t see Peter obi as competent . If you brought us Okonjo Iwela or soludo.. or some brilliant ibo man.. trust me non of us will vote for Tinubu.. we no like Tinubu anyway.. ( it doesn’t make sense to vote another Fulani after 8 years of Fulani ruling Nigeria ) but you brought a stingy, conny,Pandora,political olosho, Pass graduate.. it’s won’t work..

crowther15:
That should tell you that Yoruba won't vote base on ur ethnicity but rather your competency. Obi would get reasonable vote not because He is a Yoruba but because he is competent.

It’s is 1000% percent certain that a lot of Nigerian will return home within 5 years of Tinubu presidency ..a lot of people don’t even know the level of progress and development that his coming.. I’m also certain the gdp will increase from 450 billion to 1 trillion within 8 years.. Lagos gdp alone is 100billion.. which is more than entire Ghana economy.. I’m very sure Tinubu will help develop other part of Nigeria.. the east will see development they have never imagined, same as the north.. Lagos is a case study with no natural resources.. just Brian’s and internally generated revenue.. abeg follow people that know road to progress.. not 3rd class graduate Wey stingy..

If you take all this gebrish he is saying seriously then you don’t understand Yoruba people.. the man is just catching a bit of cruise to make people laugh.. it doesn’t in any way depreciate is intellectual capital.. the question is what is the level of development in Lagos compared to other state? What is security compared to other state? What igr compared to other state? What is employment rate compared to other state ? This are important issues that will make people life better not been emotional and sentimental talk or been pessimistic about our bright future.. I personally don’t like Tinubu but the fact remain he is the best of the 3 candidate and he will do a good job in restoring nigerias lost glory.. also either you like it or not he going to be the president.. the least you can do is to pray for him, pray for health and wisdom for him to lead us right

tonididdy:
Dude why Una be like this na ?
I’m really beginning to dislike you lots.
You really think a man like this can perform ? On the international scene he’s a joke.
What image are we creating for Nigerians and our children’s future.
That life starts at 80?
Wetin dey worry Una na
This is not funny anymore.

… somepoeople here are even saying he’s speaking a Yoruba adage.
Why na , when clearly this man is suffering from old age that is impeding his speech and reasoning.

Test the mic and he literarily licked the mic.

What na dude !
M almost tearing up in sadness because of this Una persistent asslicking of this old man. Nigerian just suffered 8 years, we are at the peak of the hardships and this is who una want to win ?

oyibo say once beaten, twice shy !
Don’t make this country any harder for yourself because you want to prove a tribal point.

Based on past result.. he is still the best among the 3 candidate to create job, increase igr and bring investment for the entire country.. I’m 1000% sure within 5 years of Tinubu presidency a lot of Nigerian will relocate back to Nigeria..

Shalashaska:
Lol. He is not fit to rule us ...simple. Let's assume the shoe was on the other foot. Let's assume Obi said this BS would he still be taken seriously

Ask yourself has he not become more popular ?after after viral video upon viral video.. he know how to appeal to voters.. he target audience( yahoo boy and drug takers) in edo.. understand his message and he made it fun.. Any kind of publicity is good publicity

Acidosis:
Your sanity is questionable though.

He said he give yahoo boys work in manufacturing, factory work and clearing garbage lol

Even as a Yoruba man.. I’m warry about ogun people.. that why some men prefer not to
Marry women from ogun state..

Women are good at disgracing men… he no see any other man for dem country na still Yoruba man hin won follow..after asake May be na Seyi vibez remain

You speak truth.. even has a Yoruba guy i believe every tribe should stick with each other .. to avoid incident of partner killing each other which happens mostly when Yoruba mix with other tribe..

Aguiyi1020:
IGBO marry IGBO is the way to go. Mixing IGBO name with another tribal name is an abomination and an insult to our IGBO names. I get mad when I see abominable names such as Ngozi Adekunle or Hassan Chioma Abdullahi or Bankole Nnamdi or IFEANYI ADELEKE. What abomination. I always ask myself who is this thing called a person because such a person is not a human being. All igbos should answer pure IGBO names no more corrupting of our names

I doubt you are Yoruba.. Yorubas don’t understand the difference between religion and do not discriminate based on religion based on our upbringing and culture..we all grew up together

Coolsperm:
Is ok, but we Yoruba Christian's will never vote for Muslim Muslim ticket, we are not foolish

If you want a car will you choose a Brand New car or you will choose a Nigerian used bartered car.. well the brand new car might still give you issues but it’s better than dented Nigerian used car

Jennyclay:
Why do men have this mindset that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men? Please I need answer o.

You should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity. A lady who is a virgin can still cheat on you or even make your life more miserable.

Motorolla Razor

Skit or no skit.. acting or no acting.. that thing is not fit to be called a women.. she should be locked up with harden criminal in jail.. she has no manner of training, culture or respect.. I blame her parent and her ex boyfriend because I’m sure she can’t be married with such behavior

The lady needs to be taught a lesson..I understand if the guy didn’t want to be beat the lady up but the guy is a pure bastard if he doesn’t get her arrested.. ignorance is not an excuse in law

You will be surprised the number of girl that do hook up sometimes because they are lonely and not because they are necessarily too broke.. some hope they can find a man to marry them by doing hook up…. Some message you for hook up.. even if you say you don’t have money.. they still want to come

What I will suggest it.. make it clear to her why you decided to dumb her and how much you loved her.. and how she was cheating with the reverend father and her ex.. don’t let her know where you leave.. if you have extra money try and arrange it for her and give her.. if you are getting married don’t let her know oo.. if you are already married don’t let her know.. find a way to calm her spirit down as fast as possible.. there is nothing more dangerous that a woman’s scorn .. pls don’t take the threat as joke.. they are very emotional people and they can really do a lot of damage when they can’t have you.. there mins said is .. if I can’t have you I would rather make you useless.. don’t every think of smAshing her or eating her food again oo..May God protect you

Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

Yoruba and conny brain

They should change it to yahoo remittance.. edo and Ibadan have the highest number of yahoo boys.. it’s no surprise they too the list