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ASUNDER:
My friend is currently going through a divorce in the UK and having a hell of a time. His wife mounted as many allegations on him as possible during separation - domestic violence, marital rape, child abuse, drugs and alcohol use, adultery, forgery just to name a few. He had to leave the house. He has moved to a room in a shared house and now even struggling to pay the rent. He does not see his kids anymore (not by choice). He is very broke and in debt because of all that is going on. He can no longer afford a lawyer. He feels so powerless, helpless and hopeless that he cannot fight most of what his wife is putting him through in court. He represents himself these days.

He has stopped looking after himself and is always looking sad . He also lost his job due to his arrest and all the drama. He was arrested because he tried to go see his kids at his former home and his wife called the police that she was afraid of him and that he had come to harass her. Police arrested him even without any traces of any harassment. Note that he moved out of the family house voluntarily thinking that the period of separation would ease tension between him and his wife.

I always feel sad seeing him in this state and just wish that he could recover and bounce back. He is considering moving back to Nigeria.

Have you gone through divorce in the UK or do you know anyone who has? What was the experience and what advice would you give someone going through this?

Thank you.

FalseProphet1:
Grace doesn't need to be announced, it speaks on its own, when you start advertising yourself as a beneficiary of God's grace then it means that the dark forces are having a filled day with your life.

menabae:
Lol this is not a strange thing,mermaid are harmless I av experienced that severally

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You didn't hear him.well. He said shot ASIDE not shot AT SIGHT

CastingCrowns:
I'm from benue state but I absolutely love Chief Osita Osadebe to me he is the best, my all time favourites of his are:
1. Nwanem Ebezina
2. Yoba Chukwu
3. Osondi Owendi
4. Ozubulu Brothers.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
He's my new found love. For him I will Kill my whole family and won't regret it.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Please help me beg him..I love him with the whole of my being but I think he's scared. He has never been loved before and don't know how reciprocate my love.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
The thing tire me sef.
LOL

JidennaJason:
Be a man and conquer that pussy you secretly desire and stop acting like a coward.


MISSCONGENIALITY is waiting for you.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You have your sons attention and you have time to fiddle with my comment. We might need a DNA to confirm you donated the sperm for that son of yours.

JidennaJason:
Sorry, I have my son's attention. I don't need yours... Focus on JONSYN7154.


Thanks.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
LOL. You are not serious. You also came to get my attention. Talk true

JidennaJason:
I just gave you Free tips and you're asking me how to do it?

Oga is everything okay?

JidennaJason:
You've been pursuing this girl for a long time bro, just jump into her DM already and use your God given "Kayan Mata" to engage her in bed.


No time to waste.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You too Next.....

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You've been noticed Next...

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Brother Op, governor and president of igbo world-wide, I salute you sir.
May your daddy in Asorock dash you 10 shots of covid-19 vaccine let's see if your brain can ever function again.
Igbo kii you there.

Danzakidakura:
mast atimes, in ngoroje were you have topland tea, their official language there is Fulani and one of their cow is times three of our own here.

Catfishing:
Someone dial 911!!, Yabaleft patient on the loose!!!

Danzakidakura:
keep quiet where you don go. Come to Gembu town from yarimaro to Guroje the coldest place in West Africa.

AsomughaChuks05:
No town or city in Nigeria is as cold as Pankshin in Plateau state.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Their fate is in their hands. If they want to be use and dumped as it pleases their oppressors then let them enjoy. The Painful part of it is that our leaders from East to South and West are useless to us. They only care when It affects them and their family directly. All they do and talk and do nothing.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Thwu can't block anything going to the North because they are in an unbreakable and unreturned love with the north..that's why they will take shit from them and still say thank you.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Most of them are shareholders so they've sold out their people to their masters up North.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Thats the best. The government is not interested in our safety so we have to take it by force.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
If you want peace, prepare for war. The re are no two easy about it. When your enemy knows you are always prepared for war, he will think twice be attacking you. If you keep waiting and begging you enemy each time he attacks, he will never allow you have peace. But once he knows that that thing he knows how to do, you also know how to do it, he will have no choice than to respect boundaries.
Since the police are always investigating, let's be proactive I'm terms us security. The government is not our friend

Kyase:
see me see wahala oooo, in nigeria, fulanis get only one slave, which happens to be their wife too.... if na lie go ask una OBA