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Hiring a lawyer or san is just a waste of time & resources what precious need is an advocate like pocohantas with a chuchuchu mouth ...


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Magnoliaa:
This one that everybody is just hooking up left, right and center. The year is ending and I still haven't found a LOML or the OTCMO. Is it like this I'll be going?

God is dey.

Someone should come and do for me too na. Let's do ours on the stairs of the Great Wall of China; be like na TM Bridge dey reign now. It'll soon become mainstream.

Congrats to the lovebirds sha. I wish them happiness and everlasting joy.

what you need is not a nigerian man, ur dream is only feasible with a chinese man, makeup ur mind

so this old man finally got married is two years ago ... i remember patronizing his video club business in the early 20's even then he looked 39 ... benefit of being a man, HML to them

eldoradoxx:
In a country of law and order, the court would have made an interim order allowing her to see her kids, after all they are in court. But this is a lawless country where even the judges look the other way and allow bizarre things happen because they have been bribed. That a mother of four infants would not be allowed to see her kids shows what is wrong with your country.

In a country of law and order like UK & US abi where men are chase out of the house they bought just because a gurl feels like it, and men pay child support for kids they bearly see.
Lets just say in a lawful country women are given 1st class preferential treatment while in a lawless country men stand a chance

dominique:
Then she should submit herself for mental evaluation to declare her mentally fit to have the kids. When I saw bits of her interview, what came to my mind is what the hell was she thinking? [b]Whoever advised her [/b]to grant this kind of interview obviously does not mean well for her. After calling him all sorts of names, you're now crying for him to release your kids for you. She will still have access to the kids but ffk won't make it easy for her

Did you say whoever, who do married women take advice from if not there long time single female friends smh
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women have to come to terms with reality, the game of victim card is gradually fading off

brightfuture24:
"Getting a picture of my son in school with a scar on his face, and I got no explanation, I don't even know what was wrong with him..."


Nahhh, FFK is a demon with a heart of stone. Age is truly not a guarantee of maturity or wisdom. The fact that things didn't work out between you and your wife is no reason to deprive the children of their mother, or the mother of her babies. Those boys are so young, so vulnerable. What exactly is the rationale behind the wall he's putting up? Just to punish her?? If you love the boys so dearly as you claim, you'd realise how much they need their mother and not some over-bleached girlfriend playing stepmom.

So wicked[b]. This is the difference between Nigeria and saner climes[/b]. Try this in the US and social workers will seize those kids before you say Jack. Praying for this girl, may her pain come to an end in no distant time.

The difference between nigeria & western world, in nigeria the man(Father) owns the child, try feminist nonsense with a rich man nd you will lose from family meeting down to court naija feminist don't even deserve pity cos dey do worst.
nonetheless, her pain will come to an end the day she accepts this is nigeria.

Total due is not the same as current charge, and why did he cut off the net arrears part ... 663k + current charge = 1m baba big boyz wey dey owe

ishilove we no wan hear you lost count ...

isaiah4life:
I rather be the man on suit than a fine boy wearing packet long sleeve. E GET WHY.

Suites are uniform for errand boys ... the jagabans move around in simple native attire ... simple white attire comes to mind

braveheart77:
Those are management fees really and its normal to get normal charges.

This nigga paid 15k for his own management fee, will gtb charge up to that? Also he is without insurance and risks huge loss. There’s also opportunity cost being interest lost on investment.

Savings is good but investment is better.

If you believe he bought a common "kolo" for 15k then you might as well believe bail is free.

Lets tell ourselves the truth, banks are white collar thieves ... banks ask people to cumma open an account free, they trade/invest with people's money make profit and still charge people unwarranted fee, monkey dey work baaboon dey chop case
if token fee charged over deposit & withdrawal are management fee, then what is monthly maintainance fee for, nothing is normal in naija n thats the fact.

Hathor5:
Even though slapping him was wrong, the fact that you are scared of him tells me that you don't have a husband but live with your enemy.

You two need professional counseling. Your family is highly dysfunctional. He is verbally abusive and you have resorted to violence. Your kids deserve better.

When you hurt someone nd he/she refuses to retaliate, however you feel afterwards is not the victim fault ... that her conscience is poking her can't possibly be the man's fault ... how is he an enemy.
If he had retailated, the whole tin would av taken another twist saying;" he is a beast " now he didnt do anything "he is an Enemy" weytin women want gan gan

pocohantas:
Nothing dey happen.

Naija ladies are waking up. Creating their own happiness in the absence of a marriage.

No one really cares, except the gender that claims not to benefit from marriage.








No one said they don’t. For those that can’t have this beautiful marriage, they can as well have beautiful kids. Don’t worry about finding men. Men do not benefit from marriage, they shouldn’t be found.



Heya. But men don’t benefit from marriage na. Why are you guys pained?

waking up an adjective that qualifies gurls wana be olosho, walking braless, twerking on instagram 24/7, selective equality, sextape outsourcing and now shamelessly stealing men sperm.

Same gurlz that countered there biological clock is inconsequential & highly irrelevant, now stealing sperm @ age 49

Men are pained maybe because, their is nothing valuable to steal from women, how many of this children will be happy to be a product of stolen sperm, selfish morthafvckas

pocohantas:
Marketing, forget the fancy name they gave it.

The only business you would develop is trekking all around Lagos or wherever while sucking on N50 fanyogo. You can give it a shot. Maybe you would sell one property for 1b in Ikoyi. Calculate 10% of that. You are home and dry ba?

all this epistle wen you could have just put up a sign board that says ; if you do not have breast n yansh U-turn on right*

Marketing is not bad, men don't just have the requisite

Ishilove won't like this ...

Toks2008:
Please what exactly is the problem here cos I honestly can't find one.

Bro Marriage is all about tolerance and making compromises.

I think you are the problem here cis you are seeing issues where there is none.

Relax, love more, complain less, and be tolerant. Laslas your marriage go dey alright.

Maybe most of the things he complained about are trivial buh that does not mean their is no "Problem" ... moreover denying him sex is a problem as big as national threat,
what you need to know is that, every severe case or irreconcilable differences started as trivial
Kindly note, what you consider not an issue might be an issue to me, moreover tolerant shouldnt be one sided, apparently the woman is the one serving all the shit here, the needs to stop complaining, and act like a man in charge,

Ishilove:
Be careful whose counsel you listen to on this forum. The user you quoted is an inexperienced teenager, while 95% of those commenting are not even married, neither do they have steady relationships.

What I see here is a lack of submissiveness from your partner. Marriage counseling from professionals is the only way out.

[b]I also find the allegation of your wife calling your mum a witch hard to believe [/b]because no sane woman will openly say such before her husband. Either you are exaggerating or your wife is very disrespectful. Whichever, the ball is in your court.

Do marriage counsellors or "Professional" have a ishi-free marriage/r/ship, with the high rate of divorce abroad are the so called professionals really professionals.

Maybe american couples should stop going for therapy

ImaIma1:
They want us to believe that the odds are always in their favour because they are men.

Most of these guys that "know" everything are usually small boys that don't even know anything about life, or naive and unexploded guys that live in the rural areas.

May God save them from themselves.

Is it not obvious, one look @ the likes of ubi franklin, churchhill or even FFk where else could the odd be

Pls whats wrong with being a "small boy" is that suppose to carry some nuclear effect, i know an evening newspaper here that knows everything & she never wrong, maybe its a unisex thing

saphiere:
And you did not condemn the rapists? SHM

There mother must have done well, next time say something

saphiere:
Beautiful people. God do my own please.

yiimu ! if any light skin come your way naa albino or lebanese white

pocohantas:
No devil entered them. It is who they are. The signs are always there. Some people are not family oriented or accommodating.

I generally have a problem with people that do not respect my space or rules, given that I have chronic OCD. That is my problem with guests. But if you give me my way, mind your business and help in your own little way to take care of the home, we have no problem.

Truth is, Nigerians are very bad guests and they don’t know. The ones from the man’s side tend to be the worst. No disrespect intended.

So which makes nigerians bad guests ... is it because most time we jokingly ask if our host get BB mouth charger or just because we assume control n simply pick d remote to change the channel? ... how does dirt come in, exception to kids, only mads people will visit nd mess it up, you wey dey complain sef no gbadun, birds of a feather

Toks2008:
What due process? The one in your head?

GOD said go into the world and multiply so whichever way is cool as long as she is not hurting anyone.

Did you even give it a thought, lets assume women are such a dog to listen to you whats gonna keep DNA structure in check, are you aware of how high incest will go untraced ... you get this kind of advice you no marry single mother

Ruthymoon:
Omo, nothing sweet reach being pregnant ooo as a woman, that feelings hubby rubbing ur stomach is so so romantic

so you want a jobless man

Toks2008:
How i wish each of my threads are taken seriously.

Honestly this life no hard.

Now she has a child..her own child with her DNA, she still has her banging body, she is happy, she now has a child to call her mummy.

You may say she has the money for surrogacy but if you dont want surrogacy then get a sperm from one decent man and have a child then calm down to find a husband.

I am tired trying to make these ladies see things as they are.

lets say you are the decent man that obliged her, can you know you have a child somewhere and forever disassociate yourself from your own flesh & blood ... so many things are easier said than done

WELLINGTON01:
pls which app or site is that...urgent thanks

Aiscore app

Kingcalls:
I 8.2 tell u this but its still fresh in our memories cos it just happened last year

pikin wey dem born that year manU win 8-2 don dey toast woman ...

frankson1:
You skipped the 8-2 scoreline

how did i skip, you dey mention 8-2 of about 9 yrs ago, how that one take enter last 5games ... like i said just enjoy ur win

xynerise:
Chelsea fans make noise them manage to draw. Imagine Arsenal fans begin talk say them go teach Chelsea how to beat Man United. See Arsenal o

Just because they have been winning small small teams since they thought they have made it in life

seems someone watched the back of the tv .... weytin arsenal no take play pass manU .... consider the penalty a blessing, enjoy ur win ,

note ; ova 5 h2h games manU no see arsenal beat .

wunmi590:


Some of our men with this their shallow mentality, I guess Nigerian men should stop thinking all Nigerian women are gold diggers...

If I have the chance which I'm currently working on, I will take my wife along, infact, I can't travel out for long without letting my wife be beside me...

No be every nigerian woman bad

When you see car parked at owner risk, it doesnt mean the mgt don't want you to park ... you have choice buh just bear in mind it's at your own risk.
what you termed shallow mentality was deduced from various people experience, if your wife is difference naa just luck,pray it last

JovialJune:
1) If you want the Nigerian kind of marriage, don't travel abroad when married, stay here with your wife

2) If you strong headedly decide to marry then travel abroad leaving her here, accept the fact that as you're cheating on her, she's also cheating on you

3) You can't have a Nigerian kind of marriage abroad [b]where the system and laws is fair to all and sundry, [/b]a system that does not recognise the machoistic, ego driven, head of the family, respect-submissive type of mentality you are used to here, equality is their watchword over there, no gender is above the others.

Aunty their is something on your lips, try clean it.

Their is no equality in the world, therefore no system is balance, africa favors men just has western world favors women

pocohantas:
I am a ManU fan.

My sugar daddy is an Arsenal fan.


Today, it is either I win him or he wins me.

Yiimu !! kini age difference

if manU win me tonite i owe you a casket of fresh cucumber + free delivery

Loreettaa:
If men didn't exist, who will be lying to us?

snakes naw ..

funnily the only adage women propounded was "if you see a man and a snake, kill the man