₦airaland Forum

smitez:
Its not a crime, And there is nothing wrong with it.. But it just sounds as stupid as a man saying he hates to work... his wife should work and fend for the family.. Both are not a crime, But both only depict stupid people..

JustSayin

Cheers!

Buh sheybi u know when a man decides to abandon his responsibilities, his wife usually takes it up. After all many women are breadwinners. U me can as well di same if ur woman decides she hates cooking

cyprus000:
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Ooh my gawd!

Another western zombie on the loose. Your assertion unequivocally slough all doubt that; not only do you wallow in the paradise of western hegemon, you have been irredeemably inebriated by infectious brainwashing, which is why a full grown african lyk you, will opine that your existance began when westerner's came to the shores of africa. That's acute mental slavery i must say.
I mean, its sickening that a nigerian will opine that we started wearing cloths during colonialism,when we had civilized kingdom lyk benin kingdom then.

Now, i want you to understand something. thats if you will allow the wave of common sense to abode.

Human civilization and survival works with tool that aide it interest and create or enhance an already existing idealogy or technology.

This principle was adopted by your almighty west for her dominance.

the gun technology with which it used to pillage africa, was gotten from china. An asian country.

the first scientists came from middle east, even the first periodic table was created by a middle eastern scientist, persian to be precise.

70% of your almighty english was borrowed from other langauges.

Even the civilization which you give credit to your almighty west, was imported from egypt

how about you direct you vapid question to the west?, since it is the main hypocrite.

For the fact that i use english or other vices, which i wouldn't have given a fvck about, if our forefathers hadn't allowed western hegemon to infest on our socio-cultural life, an opposite of what china and india did. Doesn't mean i should tolerate wastern miasma or ingest hogwash from them.

For the fact that engine oil is good for some purpose, doesn't mean i should use it to bath.

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Yimu! Go throw ur device in the bush. Then I'd take u and ur rantings seriously

smitez:
Wow! You think it is hypocritical to accept the good part of a culture and reject the bad.. u need help.

What is bad to you may be good to others. When the western culture favours u, it's good. When it doesn't favour you, it's bad. That's what makes u a hypocrite

vickylala239:
Unfortunately we have women who don't depend on guys for their up keep Jst like some of you.

Now women want to go out and mke their own money,Rather than sit at home and worry ha husbi for change...women are now going to skool so as not to end up with nothing according to some traditions.


I advice you to Also key in Rather than wait for a man....u become a beating bag,especially wen u Dnt Hv anywhere to go to..


Also be advice that relationship is not Neva the same as marriage.... Wat u get in relationship is times 5 of Wat u get in marriage..... more money in relationship than marriage.... so don't wait for men....


As for cooking stuff.if you feel it shuld not b a woman's thing..then women shuld Try and marry men....buy the cloths,pay for traditional /wedding expenses,build your house..then get a man in...then he can cook n wash for you.....

Worry her husby for change? Why should it be a worry? Sheybi u wanna do gender roles na? Men are to provide 100 percent. Any man who can't do that is an indomie man. Whether ur woman is working or not, if u can't provide for her needs 100 percent, ur half a man.
And what's the meaning of try and marry men? Are men the only one that says 'I DO' on their wedding day? They marry each other abeg. I dnt knw how u people reason. Besides, in my place, the brides family bear the traditional marriage expenses. So my dear, that argument is invalid

smitez:
You Deserve a medal!!

All Africans should realize that adopting a foreign culture and way of life over your own wouldn't be a good thing in the long run.

But you had no problem adopting their technology, clothes etc ba. Hypocritical much?

vickylala239:
Then don't discourage other girls.


Cooking shuld b hobbie for all girls....

Infact the rich this days push maid sometime away to give their daughters full kitchen tips..

This is very important... u cn be rich today wit maids and poor 2mr alone..

Evn dey so called celebrities don't Evn allow maid to prepare their husband food..

Some pictured in kitchen...

Cooking should be a hobby for all girls? Aite. Making money and lavishing money on ur women should be a hobby for all guys. Instead what we have are little babies who call themselves men coming online to whine about spending for their women. Well we cant have it all right?

vickylala239:
Then don't discourage other girls.


Cooking shuld b hobbie for all girls....

Infact the rich this days push maid sometime away to give their daughters full kitchen tips..

This is very important... u cn be rich today wit maids and poor 2mr alone..

Evn dey so called celebrities don't Evn allow maid to prepare their husband food..

Some pictured in kitchen...

Cooking should be a hobby for all girls? Aite. Making money and lavishing money on ur women should be a hobby for all guys. Instead what we have are little babies who call themselves men coming online to whine about spending for their women. Well we cant have it all right?

Kirinwa:
E be like say you go tey for your Papa house.

And so? At least our papa house dey comfortable

cyprus000:
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Yes, its her duty to cook,just lyk I don't have right over the kitchen except she is not oppurtuned to handle the kitchen, lyk when she is nursing a baby or sick etc.

Anything aside from that is total hogwash which a true african ought to resist.

I will be glad if that makes me a chauvinistic or a cave man, tho cooking is not the yardstick which I will use to marry,but she will be ready to learn. Anything contrary to that,can not be tolarated by me. I have zero tolerance for western bullshitt.
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Zero tolerance for western bullshitt? Pray tell, why are you using a device made by westerners. Why wear clothes, drive a car etc. Bloody hypocrite

Ofatfoed:
cooking is stressful?. even, as a guy i still cook luscious meal. hot stew and oil has splashed on me so many times that i have even lost count. let me tell u, cooking is interesting. if u can't cook, i can't marry u. who will feed the kids. what will u teach the kids. it's only lazy people that say cooking is stressful.

Are you planning to become crippled once you get married? You can as well feed your kids na

The above subject matter refers. Or pls refer me to someone. Thanks

johnson232:
the bold prayer is belated, as i already have one showering me with more than all the love and support any other woman can ever offer. so this automatically makes all other prayers invalid...

Yimu! I thought u said if ur hoping on a woman for happiness, ur on a long thing? Who are u trying to deceive? It's only a matter of time before she will leave u sha. You know that's how we women areare

khiaa:
Lmao You tell them girl

Lol. Yes o

leke12:
see u! Women suffer most when there is no peace in d home! If it is food or sex, there Are plenty ladies luking for husband and they do anyting to satify him. Infact most men hanging out, the woman can hold d hus to herself and if she too dumb to knw her boundaries I will let her knw dat am d owner of dat hus. She can kip eating her food and sleeping on d bed alone.

U see there are some women who do not mind cutting of the nose to spite the head. U say I will not have peace? I will return the favor back to you a hundred fold. If you like run away from ur house, na u sabi. It's even better sef

Joromi1:
Then where is the forgiveness if you have to cheat like he did?


The house he pays for or another one?


I take it that you don't understand what it means to forgive, no pun intended

Its possible I could fall into the temptation of cheating. It doesn't mean it was intentional. Women are no immune to cheating you know.
2) Doesn't matter if he pays for it. Once we're married, it becomes OUR house.
3) what does it mean to forgive? Abi are u saying forgiveness comes easy?

He's wrong abeg. Take the majority of nigerian women for instance. They are weak as fork. They let their husbands walk all over them. Their husbands cheat constantly on them, verbally, emotionally and physically abuse them, yet they do nada. And he's there talking about strong black women. Most Nigerian women are weak and pathetic abeg. If anything, it's the white women who are strong enough to not tolerate such rubbish. Ok bye

If he cheats and I forgive him. He had better be ready to forgive me when I cheat. Or if he can't forgive, he can leave d house 4 me, cos I won't move an inch from that house. Let him do his worst! Last last I make sure none of us lives in that house. Don't ask me how.
Forgiveness is not supposed to be sweet or easy. If I can do it, he can too.

tommychow:
In Nigeria woman are way too dependent on their husbands. Look around you. What can women do without men in this country? Take developed countries like US and UK, you don't mess with your woman, she'll kick you outta the house. In UK, it was hilarious seeing how Nigerian husbands who ordinarily would be controlling are gentle and passive with their wives. So, cheating on your wife is SERIOUS TROUBLE abroad.

In Nigeria, a woman's husband will boink all her housemaids, all she can do is cry and pray. If she fights him or casts him out, it'll be at her own risk because he owns everything. If She's caught cheating, it's automatic "GTFO of my house" with some black-eyes takeaway for free, lol. So, it's more shocking to Nigerians because she's worth little without her man. It's like "She had the liver cheat? She's finished"

So all you lazy, dependent, undereducated, unambitious "babes" with no value except your clothes, shoes, 1-karat gold jewelry and counterfeit makeup looking for a made man...get ready to be his eternal b1tch.

Will u shut up. Maybe ur blind. What's the meaning of 'what can women do without men?' You haven't seen female doctors,lawyers,bankers,lecturers,engineers,accountants,business women? Mstchewwww.

leke12:
the day my wife try dat nonsense with me, I will ask her maybe she was d one dat paid my bride price or me. Nevertheless, I will simply forget and move on but will certainly not only cheat on her but will surely marry a second wife. That will be her punishment, if she isn't satisfied she can opt out.

When there will be no peace in ur house, come back and tell who is actually suffering. Punishment ko

leke12:
the day my wife try dat nonsense with me, I will ask her maybe she was d one dat paid my bride price or me. Nevertheless, I will simply forget and move on but will certainly not only cheat on her but will surely marry a second wife. That will be her punishment, if she isn't satisfied she can opt out.

4 naira bride price? Abeg swerve. You both married each other. Which one is I paid her bride price

johnson232:
Hahahahaha....
@bold, which woman?
The one u created, or the one God created that ended up disobeying God just few days of her existence as human?

Don't make me laugh abeg....

If u are hoping on a woman for happiness and being a better person, then u are on a long thing.....

As you've said it, so shall it be for you in Jesus name. No woman shall ever bring you joy but perpetual sorrow. Amen. You shall never find peace or fulfilment with any woman. Amen. Women shall constantly be a thorn in your flesh. Amen. You will never find a woman who shall love you, support you or encourage you. Join me and say AMEN.
From your lips to God's ears, as you have said, 'if ur hoping on a woman for happiness and being a better person, ur on a long thing'....... I concur and say a big AMEN

I guess I'm wired like a man cos I can't forgive a cheating husband o. Lai lai

Eminentsaint:
That has changed. Finding a loyal girl or woman these days is like looking for a small bolt in the ocean.

Are you guys loyal yourselves? Abeg swerve

searchiing4love:
Ugly thing

Worwor thing

So this little bitcch is still whining about women upandan on NL like a baby. Oya sorry! Come and suck breast

obamasbabe:
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EXCUSE ME PLEASE IT IS NOT TRUE. I FOR ONE NEVER CHEATED WHILE I WAS DATING YET MY HUBBY IS READY TO SLEEP WITH ANYTHING AS LONG AS IT HAS HOLE. IT'S SO BAD THAT HIS CHEATING NATURE HAS TURNED ME TO A SAD WOMAN COMPARED TO WHAT I USED TO BE BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED. MARRIED MEN, THE TRUTH IS THAT YOU MAYBE HAVING UR FUN BUT TRUST ME YOU ARE DESTROYING YOUR WIFE'S JOY. I FEEL THEY CHEAT BECOS EVERY OTHER 'COOL GUY' IS DOING IT. GOD HELP ME

U want to be sad na? Did they chain u to his body? Do the needful abeg

cococandy:
Tenk you.

I see those women as really courageous and brave to hand over their entire lives to a husband like that knowing that any money he makes is 'his money' the house is 'his house' and you are tenant who can't be kicked out as if you were picked from the gutter. See people say "kick her out of your house" as if a grown woman isn't supposed to have something that belongs to her.
One can have a little peace of mind to be a SAHM here because you're protected to an extent if he starts behaving anyhow.

That is eh. Everywhere you hear 'not in MY house', will throw her out of MY house'. Nigerian women don hear ween i swear. I can't take that risk o. I have to have my own thing going for me.

MORNDEW:
Third world achaich- mindset? Na that mindset make our mothers stay till old age with theri hubby o. Unlike ur self acclaimed first-world modern mindset that has splashed out several divorce cases which is becoming a menace that can best be compared to terrorism. Truth is there women that is made but still retain what can best be described as anacceptable standard of character worthy for marriage and thats the objective of the article.
We had feminist like mizmycoli who championed what u are doing here on NL but i bet u by now she knows its meaningless u can ask her.

They stayed with wireless husbands till old age? YES. We're they happy in their marriages? NO. We modern women have decided that our happiness matters too. So you men either sit up or..........

MORNDEW:
Third world achaich- mindset? Na that mindset make our mothers stay till old age with theri hubby o. Unlike ur self acclaimed first-world modern mindset that has splashed out several divorce cases which is becoming a menace that can best be compared to terrorism. Truth is there women that is made but still retain what can best be described as anacceptable standard of character worthy for marriage and thats the objective of the article.
We had feminist like mizmycoli who championed what u are doing here on NL but i bet u by now she knows its meaningless u can ask her.

They stayed with wireless husbands till old age? YES. We're they happy in their marriages? NO. We modern women have decided that our happiness matters too. So you me either sit up or..........

poweredcom:
bitch eat a dick n die slow....ok....biaatch d same possay u de take do stingy i de get am like meat pie....haha...dats why u never marry

See this fool. Ur mates are married with kids and are making good money. Ur there bragging of chopping poohsie. Hahahahahaha! Chai! The madness that runs in ur family has finally caught you. Hehehehehehe! YOU ARE PATHETIC!! Seems u don join ur mama in the ashewo business. Male whorre. GTFOH you bastarrd

johnson232:
What are u saying....
Must u exhibit how senseless and foolish u are?
What has this got to do with the topic?

A woman is about heading on the part of self destruction by cheating on her husband, instead of advising her, u are busy posting rubbish....

Senseless house wife...

Are u done ranting? Mstchewww! Senseless house husband. If na man now, cheating would be the solution

BluStreak:
Madam goody-two-shoes, if cheating is the only way you know to solve your marital issues, then go ahead and cheat. For you to even think of cheating on him constantly is an indication you already have a ready collaborator in the waiting. I pity some of the marriages of today - nothing but just marriages of convenience. I gotta marry because all my friends are married. Mcheeeeeeeeeew

Lol so now u know cheating is not the way to solve issues. Meanwhile u NL guys, ur wife does not cook all the time, u threaten to cheat. She does not say yes every time u want sex, u threaten to cheat. She is not totally submissive, u threaten to cheat. She wants a maid to help her in the house, u threaten to cheat WITH the maid. Mstchewww. I thought cheating was the solution to marital issues