₦airaland Forum

tantita: ....pls change dt lady tin cus no real lady wld trade her worth for free food,: anyhow sha i c nw hw most girls wk post menopause single...thy,ve traded al their wld b husband for rice!

razznaija: Yeah, if he asks me out to lunch or dinner, of course that will save me from cooking.

sleekch1c: Voice of a frustrated broke-a55 nukka

lol, and the somalians aka goose berries who invaded his privacy are?

kimberluge: Actually,I do it all the time. Smart guys get the hang of it eventually but magas are usually very slow!

andyanders: Thank your God that you did bleep her. She is demon.Forget what you are looking at.She is gone and let it be for good.If you love yourself, stay off.

Bertila1: U never went wrong. Just that she wanted to know how sincere you were,but on doing that she lost control. And in other for you not to call her a cheap girl,she snub u so dat u wil tink u went wrong jus to cover her shameful attitude. But Guy ur type dey very rare to see,for you overcoming dat strong temptation.

christygenius: @ Op, U didnt do anything wrong my dear. i really admire dis rare quality in men cos its not easy. Hold unto ur virtue as a self controlled man.
Am not suprised dt she acted that way, cos its obvious she's a loose girl, who'll jump at anything between d trousers. How can a well mannered lady open up her unclothedness to a man she met on a first date? Only God knows how many men she has slept wit on a first date and she wanted to count u on her list , bt didnt succeed. U shuld be grateful to God dt u controlled urself and didnt give in to her lustful desires cos who knows wat wud've happened after dt, may she's one of d numerous agents of darkness sent destroy ur life and destiny or she wud've even u given a veneral disease and i guess that's why she's not happy with u cos her mission in ur life wasn't accomplished. Be wise & careful cos a lot of men has been destroyed and rendered useless thru dis kind of situation. Besides, if she's a good girl and was really testing u, she shuld've admired and compliment u on being a man of ur words. I really thank God dt men like u still exist cos ur kind is very very rare to come by these days.

Shakslayer: Hello Nairalanders, what am about to relate here just happened over the weekend and it got me so confused, i told a friend of mine, who then asked me to join this forum and narrate my ordeal, i might get useful answers. So here i go.

A few months back, i met a lady on a social networking site, she is a Pharmaceutical student in one of the Universities in the South-South. We got talking, trying to psych up each other's intellectual prowess. i discovered she is a very good communicator, well read and highly versatile in almost every topic (politics, sports, social events, religion etc). She knew a bit about almost everything, and i too, am also an all rounder. So we took a liking to each other.

With each passing day, as expected, the issue of s*ex came up, i told her that i can never put pressure on a woman for s*ex on a first date, no matter how much pressed i am. I'd rather suffer in silence than do that. She said it's a lie, all men are the same, they appear nice and cute on the outside, but the moment a woman come into their life, the demon in them come out. I told her, am different, that the moment am focused on something, am focused, and unless the lady makes me believe she wants s*ex, i'll never ask her for it (on a first date). We both laughed and forgot the issue.

Just last week, i was sent on a strategic training session in her State, and i called her on Friday evening, after classes. She came to my hotel, we hugged, laughed, and said all sorts of nice things to each other (being the first time we're meeting), and we decided to spend the cool evening in a romantic resort. At about 8pm, when it was time to go, i called a cab to take her to her hostel and then take me back to my hotel. She told the cab driver to take us to my hotel first, that she'll pick a cab from there back to her hostel. I agreed. We got to the hotel and she changed her mind, said she would spend the night and go back early Saturday. I was curious, but didnt argue, we both watched SkyNews till about 10pm and decided it was time to sleep, she went to take her bath while i went downstairs to get a recharge card. When i came back, i saw her wearing one of the sexiest, silky pacific-blue lingerie, she was arranging her hair in the bed mirror, immediately, i knew i was in for a huge test, so i complimented her outfit, got my blanket out and made to sleep on the couch. She looked at me with the side of her eyes, mumbled some incoherent words and got into the bed. My mind was heavy and i couldn't sleep. After a while, i heard her faint snoring and immediately knew she has slept, so i forced myself to sleep too.

Early the next morning, she woke up with a chip on her shoulders, i greeted her, she brushed it aside, she made to the bathroom, brushed, took her bath, and in less than 15mins, she was on the elevator going back to her hostel. I was shocked, dumbfounded and too scared to even follow her, i tried to BB her, she has deleted me, i called, she wouldnt take my calls. I came back to Lagos yesterday, still tried calling with the office line, as soon as she hears my voice, she'll drop the call.

So guys, thats my story. Where did i go wrong? I think am attracted to her as much as she is to me. Matured responses would be highly appreciated.

Many thanks

luluosas: This is the spirit of a true patriot. This is why is also prefer Aba made shoes to foreign ones. Glo, the only indigenous telecoms service provider in Nigeria today. We Nigerians should truly embrace and support them to succeed.

mjconcept: It pains me when Nigerians insult Nigeria,now let me ask a question, what have you done for Nigeria? We choose to compare Nigeria with the USA, BRITAIN RUSSIA, those countries are way too developed even before we got independence, and we keep dreaming and refuse to bring it in reality, I am ashamed of the level of stup!dity some empty brian display here.

kokoA: It is only in Nigeria that a man who performed poorly as a governor of the smallest state (with lots of monies as oil royalty) in the country is voted in as a president.. Our leaders have their problem, but the citizens are worse.

bubadaniel13: OP just a question for the confused Mr Joel Brinkley,Is GEJ the first leader of Nigeria?how many years has he spent on power so far?Nigeria has been ruled by bad leaders for decades and u expect GEJ to turn bad things around within three years,the writer of the article must be dreaming.

lovemychild: Am 27 weeks pregnant and i cant afford to take care of myself fianancialy cos i dont have anything doing yet.

my boyfriend who is the father of my child walk away cos he said he's not ready to be a father yet, that he has his career to pursue.

i actually never wanted to keep this pregnancy, but he convinced me to keep it, but just of a recent, he said he's scared that we should remove it. which i agree with him. we went to the hospital and met a doctor who adviced us to keep it. that i may die in the process.

since then, he stop calling me, visiting and even stop picking my calls. I've been so depressed and scared. i don't have money to even go for antenatal not to talk of what to use and take care of my baby when i give birth.

i've really disappointed my mom and my two younger brothers and don't know what to do. since last week i started thinking of giving out my baby for adoption, but i don't know how to go about it.

my question is:
1. does the thought of given out my child for adoption makes me a terrible mom to be?

pls if u know of any legal organization or foundation in abuja that can adopt my child for a year so that i can come back and get my baby, pls let me know and if u have any advice or help, pls advice me.

pls dont judge me nor condemn me. i already know i did wrong by not been careful, believing in promises that easily failed me and given out my trust to love . thank u

Grendel: I love this topic it remind me of my wife when we were still dating, there was a guy in her office that used to disturbed her. The mugu used to pay for her lunch and take her out without toucHing ... One day the guy followed her to my house, I was not surprise because my Babe has told him dat she can't date him but this guy Was sturborn.
Finally the guy gave up when I pumped up my wife and she gave me this beautiful baby

cricifixo: I've not really had time 2 notice rivals, but immediately I find out my girl is interested in d rival, I always drop d babe and pick another one. ;DI've not really had time 2 notice rivals, but immediately I find out my girl is interested in d rival, I always drop d babe and pick another one.

djeezy: Having a rival to the point of thinking you'll loose your partner can be so disconcerting and can put you in an apprehension of fear especially when you love the person. So my question is this, how do you deal with a relationship rival whether or not it poses a threat to you? Mature responses pls, this thread may be useful to many people here, no knowledge is a waste, even the bad ones.lol

bblacky: Now wat is the authenticity of this news? I refuse to beliv this......

BlackPikiN: You dumbf0rk will put Bayelsa as an eastern state when you want to perform your satellite jargons!

musiwa19: how was she a thief. goodluck was only victimize people..

if goodluck had destroy their business what did goodluck expect.. this is why we need to leave that country.. if you had your own country, you will help her out.

you have the worst president in nigeria history. he lack knowledge to lead a country.. look, he has destroy nearly all area of nigeria. aero contractor.. o my God, goodluck govt most really be very very bad.

you see before the all problem i warn you people.. when you see on coming problem you react. it is not by prayer... it is about doing the right thing. goodluck have destroy everything nigeria. i have said return back to pre independent.. before this. that way you dont have problem.. that way, they can fix their problem in the north before all of this..

i once live in the north, so i know how they react to thing, they are nor believe, dont expect them to value human life.. this why why to save human life.. i said just remove us.. you see if we had done that.. you would save what ever adenuga and other had, even oceanic bank etc would still be alive.. at least they would be running within their own area.. that why i said at that time go for benin republic at that time.. you will not have ben feeling the effect like you feel now.. just a little effect.. but you people did not listen to me..

if you had gone for pre independent.. they will be dealing with their problem.

luli4life: Dis is pathetic, becos I saw it on nairal and today dat aer o contractor is recruiting whereas dey are just trying to fill in d space of d sacked staffs
In conclusion , av come to realized dat most of nigerian companies dat are doing well are owned directly or indirectly by corrupt politicians e.g banks, telecom,aviation (arik, aero e.t.c),oil and gas, power plants, cement coyies,private universities,broadcasting stations: AIT,TVC, lekki tollgate concession coy,alpha betta, obasanjo farms, abdulsalam farms, mikano; all in the name of PRIVATIZATION(dis I call political shenanigans)
NIGERIANS WHICH WAY FORWARD

Tolexander: Wao!
Very nice seeing nigerians representing and flying the flag of the nation.

Fhemmmy: Any inspection done before sending the sons and daughters of Nigerians, the future leaders into such environment?

naptu2: I still don't understand why people will excuse wrong doing or incompetence with a "let's look at another case" argument. Where ever there's mediocrity, incompetence, crime, etc it should be exposed and punished. Remember, it was social media that brought the Aluu case to light and ensured that the police began prosecution of the suspects.