she needs your support.
like if you appreciate goodness..


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RELIGION AND JOKES SECTION

chiover: . The good old days! When Agidi and moi moi were on top. U remb dis song? D day is bright is bright and fair o happy day the day of joy!

MAMA JELLOF RICE..
HEHEHEHEHEHEHEHHE

see as you come make water comot for my eyes..
those days we de try play God.... creating human with sand.(lol)
i will not forget numerous letters i composed.
even inherited Slate... lol
life sweet then..
those of us that grew in Ph.. i really missed WILLy WILLy aired on RSTV...

this better be a joke BabaTee
please reconsider

deSika: u no wat. just as uv done here, u can also do likwise in real life offline. start an enlightment campaign, take it to ALL the mosques and media houses including international ones.
yor focal points should be on the clerics, let them know the importance of letting thier congregation know this. and u will begin to see changes

people act on the information they have until a different information is given to them they will continue to act in the same way

True words,
Insha Allah I'll do.

deols:

She can then deal with the consequences. One or two slaps and she'd already know.

and God may just give u ur type. U slap her,she retaliates and ur God given position becomes dragged in the mod..whatever

Alhamdulahi you are revealing yourself.

tbaba1234:

So you would disobey the messenger instead, read the thread

Can you please respect my choice?
Thank you

deols: @tbaba, on the other thread when I was talking about understanding people..I doubt that people can totally hide their personality. A word or two and you'd be able to tell.

words like- My children are my utmost priority, calling someone else ugly, etc should already be red flags to any woman even if d statements are not directed at them.

It should be known that such people have no iota of respect for others. It doesnt require a ten years courtship-well for someone who is intuitive.

Someone is already feeling hurt, lol
So if i say someone is ugly its a turn off for me abi.
Matchmaker deols.
There are over 2 billion women in the world, your turn off might be another lady's turn on

tbaba1234:

The point is your top priority should not be beauty, not every relationship will turn out like your dad's own. The over emphasis is a problem.

A good character does not fade with time. Beauty does.... The truth is after a few years, you would not even be looking at the beauty but a woman with the right attitude would always gladden a man's heart. You can only change the attitude if you treat her badly.

There are many people who marry non-muslims and change their religion instead of the other way round. Do not think that because it worked for your father, it will work for you.



Striking your wife on the face is completely haram...

Hadith - Tirmidhi, Narrated Amr ibn al-Ahwas al-Jushami
I said: Apostle of Allah, how should we approach our wives and how should we leave them? He replied: Approach your tilth when or how you will*, give her (your wife) food when you take food, clothe when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her.

This topic was made for people like you : https://www.nairaland.com/1227184/couple-relations-roles-conflict-resolution

Its useless trying to fill an already filled cup.
If after several admonition i said. Why should i condone lawlessness from my wife?
Seriously your preference might be my trash.

TO ALL MISUNDERSTANDING ME.
BEAUTY CANT BE BOUGHT, IT IS INBUILT.
CHARACTERS, MANNERS AND MORALS CAN BE MANEUVERED.

I GUESS YOU GUYS READ THE STORY OF CHINESE MAN SUING HIS WIFE FOR DECEPTION..(LOL)

@ DEOLS I AM SORRY IF MY POST OFFENDS YOU.
IT WAS A JOKE......

tbaba1234:

Your comments many times show a lack of manners. Did you read your comment before posting? You should really make better jokes...

calm down big bro, anyway glad you saw the joke

tbaba1234:
As regards your preference for beauty, I would say that is shallow to say the least. What if you marry a beautiful woman that does not pray,a woman that misguides your beautiful kids.

no man can claim monopoly of knowledge... read my post again, beauty being a priority does not mean i'd overlook other attributes.besides my Mom was not born a muslim, she was convinced Islam is best for her.my dad worked it out.

tbaba1234:
No matter how beautiful your wife is, that beauty will fade.... We have to set the right priorities when it comes to marriage, Religion should be number one.

and you think manners does not fade too? please read my posts again.....

Like the messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

It was narrated on the authority of Abu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased with him, that the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “A woman is married for four (reasons): her wealth, noble ancestry, beauty and religion. Choose the religious woman lest your hand is stuck to dust” [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim]

The messenger has already given us the number one priority.

tbaba1234:
Do you really think, you can change a person's character?

YES

tbaba1234:
Many times couples just have to cope with the things they can't change. Do you not go into a marriage thinking you can make the woman pray or you can change her attitude otherwise you will enter 'one chance'.

LOL
I AM A LIVING TESTIMONY.... MY DAD NO ENTER ONE CHANCE.

tbaba1234:
Remember you can't strike/beat your wife. I read somewhere when you talked about slapping your wife and i was disgusted to say the least.. Where did you get that from?

I WONT BEAT MY WIFE, BUT I WONT HESITATE TO SLAP WHEN AFTER SEVERAL ADMONITION SHE STILL MISBEHAVES...

AbdH:
Seriously? Bro, this isn't fair on a lady - a Muslimah for that matter. I hope you apologize to her or modify your post to a more suitable one. Assalamu alaykum.

NOTED

deols: the last thing I will take offence over is what someone thinks of me...If uv seen my posts well, ud realise I dont care.


It doesnt matter if I am ugly to u either. I wld care NOT for what someone hoping to TAME a woman thinks of my looks.

btw, I ddnt mean to be offensive wv my post.You are entitled to Your choice

lol.
no offense.

deols:

Interesting. Beauty is all a woman needs to raise your children of utmost priority...wetun pessin no go hear

That quality alone cannot be camouflaged or cloned. It's in d gene.
Other qualities like character, etc can be learned.
I can tame an abusive woman, etc.
I admire beautiful kids,
I wanna give my kids d same.
I can imagine ur anger, maybe u re just so war-gly (war-war + ugly) lol
No offense. Though.
Dnt question my preferences.
Thank you

deols:

TEAM ISLAM.

UNDISPUTED

tchidi: *screaming*
Buy ya cold Zobo!!!! Buy Zobo!!
*turns to Goshen*
Coachee, u no go buy ya boiz zobo?!

Lwkmd,
Never knew Nigeria had so much comedian.
OYA COACH BUY ZOBO FOR YA BOYS NA.
TCHIDI BRING 13 GALLON FOR TEAM ISLAM, MIXAM WIYH PEAK OOOO.
HOPE SAY U DE SALE CREDIT?
HEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE

deols: disheartening.

rightly put

Table Leg :

Imperative ...

its on us

oiseworld: The Islam incredible team got tears rolling down my cheek.
I've never laughed like dis on Nairaland.

lwkmd..
this used to be my coach's tactics. fielding less players and eventually winning.lol
I LOVE TEAM ISLAM

btw i am not trading blames, i am advocating for change in some Muslims radical way of life

Lanrefahm: Blame the media, not muslims

thats not entirely true.
what happened in Cairo is real not hyped.

musawisdom: Allah knows best. There is mayhem all over the world rightly.

The Quran is there to guide us.
Allah knows best

watching Aljazeera yesterday left me in tears.
seeing how ideology is bringing humanity to its kneels, cant we all live in harmony?
why is it so hard to practice what is enshrined in our holy scriptures? why kill over issues that could be easily overlooked,ignored?
my tone is harsh, cos my heart is heavy.
i am directing my anger to Muslims.
i am short of words. my Eyes are filled with tears,my heart is Heavy.
Prophet Muhammad is a perfect example worthy of emulation,he only wielded sword in self defence,not in rage.
he maintained cool in time of mockery,rejection and persecution.even when he had the strongest army in the world he never ignited war.
he thrived in harmony with non-Muslims.
why would a graffiti,cartoon,mockery stir irreplaceable lost and destruction?
we cannot fight for Allah. he is the all Mighty.
what went wrong?
MAY ALLAH HELP US ALL

Haba , why field half team when we ve got more than enough players?
Tbaba is a prolific defensive midfielder not a left back,
Hmmmmm
I just can't stop laughing.
You made my day Mr stk.
Ermmm where is Deols na?

Can't stop laughing.
This will definitely ease today's stress.

Mcfemad: There is nothing as delicious as this especially when you have well pounded yam / fufu to back it up. The interesting part is that you can't enjoy the meat on its first day of cooking (except its well soaked in hot water b4 cooking)...wait until the second day and then you testify that the Lord is good .

Its my late Dad favourite and I also like it so much.

you need help.
heheehheheehehhehehehe

if NNPC like make them acquiram.......
how e take conzein me. mstchewww

maclatunji:

You can break the cycle if it irks you so much. #LOL Seriously, why should anyone lie? You think if I am ready today and there is someone here I want she no go hear am?

People get married every weekend now. Not every Nairalander will come and announce it.

Lol.
Big Mac want me to break down jinx lol.
Ok
Qualities I want (thinking)
So long you are beautiful we can work on other exceptional qualities.
(my kids are my utmost priority)

Everyone is a passive seeker,
Nobody is searching.
Epic Deception

ooman: all muslim behaviors are gotten from the koran. the book says women must cover all their body and muslims must fight and kill all non muslims according to sura 4-the cow, and another sura-the women. so stop pretending that islam means peace when all it means is jihad-war.

Too many anti Islamic articles has clouded your sense of justice.
Pick up a copy of the quran and be balanced