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Definitely not from nairaland

romeo:
Por Dios! ¿Que ois pasa chicos? Que haya paz. Todo el mundo necesita Jesus y no veo ningun problema si alguien encuentra amor en Nairaland

Just Good donde vives tu? Y Cayon tambien me puedes indicar donde vives ?

Quizá Nairaland es el único lugar la mayor parte de las mujeres aquí pueden encontrar amor. Ellos pueden encontrar amor en la vida diaria porque ellos son diablos.
Vivo en Gran Bretaña y yo soy un casado

If you can answer YES to these, please respond so we can discuss:

1. Are you a failure with regards to having relationships?
2. Are you frustrated with the fact that you are unable to achieve anything tangible since you moved abroad, including finding a husband?
3. Are men using you and not wanting to marry you for various made-up reasons?
4. Are you ashamed of admitting that you are a relationship failure?
5. Do you have child(ren) for a man and the man wants nothing to do with you?

It just could be that you are frustrated with life at this stage of your life.

Cayon:
usted necesita a Jesús

No sabe usted que usted también necesita a Jesus? especialmente para vida doméstica?

This site will definitely be of help.

This is nothing but stupidity. The man is abroad and has changed his ways to suit the society in which he lives. So some women looking for men to browbeat now think that every Nigerian man in Nigeria has to be that way.

And what makes his own experience more authoritative than what other people's experiences are? I cant believe that we are now expected to take a man view and expose as fact; and this coming from a woman who is searching for a man to control? If you want to control men, at least show that you have enough intelligence to do so!

If you can answer YES to these, please respond so we can discuss:

1. Are you a failure with regards to having relationships?
2. Are you frustrated with the fact that you are unable to achieve anything tangible since you moved abroad, including finding a husband?
3. Are men using you and not wanting to marry you for various made-up reasons?
4. Are you ashamed of admitting that you are a relationship failure?
5. Do you have child(ren) for a man and the man wants nothing to do with you?

It just could be that you are frustrated with life at this stage of your life.

KarmaMod:
You sef. You know VERY well that's what he's going to use as his excuse.

oh my gawd. the group is still intact. When will one of the group get a life?

Sisikill:
ROTFLMAO! Oh my God! She is right? What has she been saying all this time? If you had paid attentions, this thread won't be in page 14. She tried every which way to explain to you but you refused to listen, your word is law, all other be damned. From page 1 post 5 and 6, you started insulting. . . what was that about? My God man! Aren't you a wee bit embarrassed, that after you have cursed from here to high heavens, you come and tell her she's right? What happened. . . se oju la kayin mo ni? Are you going to apologise to the person you called Oloshi? Are you going to undo the epees?

And who said it doesn't happen all over the world But we are talking about NIGERIAN MEN HERE, so pointing fingers at other people's crime to justify anything was just immature. We have a problem, let's deal with it but noooo, other people are doing it too, so no need. ^{Shaking my head}

I'm still waiting for you on the other thread. . . if you DARE. I know you've already read it, hence the sudden change of mind and cool temper. Rotflmao, Typical!

One last thing, please, please don't insult our intelligence by saying it was the SOME not ALL, that changed your mind. . . we know better.

You are pathetic! As I said, it's that behavious that gets people like you to this stage of your lives. You did not follow the thread but you are quick to say that I did not read the thread.
My point here has been that it's not unique to nigeria but because morons that you support did not like that and insulted me, it took a new turn.

Perhaps you will go back and start reading and hopefully you will be able to understand what people write before jumping on bandwagons simply because women like you are being talked to!

If you are not stupid, you will be able to bring out anywhere that I stated that she is wrong in saying that Nigerians have one attribute or another. Stop being daft!

If I dare You know how many men you have dared in your life and where did it all get you?

What exactly is the big deal? Why is that so difficult to believe?

The weather is fine here. getting colder though. I'll be escaping it for a few days next week hoping that my trip will bring better weather my way. thanks

SimiBrasil:
Sisikill

I love naija men and their culture even if sometimes it shocked with my own believes, but is it that makes the life interesting, the life d be booring if everyone thinks the same. The opposite feels atracted, the love is irracional, etc,


My point is SOME (not generaliting) naija women spoil SOME naija men because their over tolerance.
I read here in nairaland a discussion betwen americans and naija, someone open a thread specif to men, and some naija start giving their own opinion, one american replied: share up, I don't want hear from you because y (naija women) are too tolerant and one naija replied: BUT WE ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT UNDERSTAND OUR MEN, oooooo so cute , lol. I couldnt find the thread again to copy here.

Today is Friday ooo, no fight please ! Let's eat fufu and dance guereuá , jejeje

You are right here!

But it is found all over the world; not just 9ja. It is human nature. I used to head a voluntary organisation here and the statistics will shock you when you read what some white men also do to their women and how much the women go through. It's an individual thing and it's not just about nationality

make una no talk to that girl. she no sabi anything o and she fit begin yab una now.

Na so her mama teach am. Her mama days for Ojuelegba don enter her blood

También le frustran.


Mi español no es demasiado bueno pero intento.

Es usted también una mujer frustrada? usted puede encontrar a un hombre en el nairaland?

No necesito a un idiota de marido

Usted puede ser el idiota si usted piensa que los otros es un idiota

Usted puede ser el idiota si usted piensa que los otros es un idiota

Laurnetta:
I know Nigerians are very close minded and one dimensional but please start to think outside the box. GAY PEOPLE ARE HERE TO STAY!!!!

Why dont you start to think outside your own box by saying GAY PEOPLE WILL NOT STAY?

what then will you call your mother?

WesleyanA:
then I should call you a big wesleyan because you're a big FOOL.

WesleyA snr

I just read someone call the guy a jerk. How daft can such a response be? A woman goes out of her way to use a guy for something and the guy is no longer interested then the guy becomes a jerk?

What if the guy just lost interest or decided that the girl is not the kind of girl he wants to date? Is he a jerk for having the mind to decide what kind of girl he wants? Would a girl be a jerk if she decided against having a guy?

My saying yes to him early enough wasn't because I was cheap o. But I had something I wanted to pursue in the media house which I knew I cud get through him. And which of course he did for me after agreeing to be his. At least he saved me when I needed it.

so you were using him

Hmmmm, I feel you man. I also thot as much. Such an Idiot. I really didn't love him though, I only wanted to catch my fun. So coming back for 4giveness is just bullshit and wasting of his useless God forsaken time. Chikena.

I really need to change my last post here. You now sound like one of those who disgrace women? Do you live in America by any chance? or maybe you have been influenced by some of the things some women post on here

From what you have written here, there's no reason for anyone to say you were cheap. You obviously thought you had a boyfriend and the guy seemd to have lost interest in you. these things happen in life so you should just dust yourself and move on.


You said the you never slept with the guy, so that's alright. Those who say the guy is a player don't really know what it is to be a player. Players like a bite of the cherry and if the guy was a player, he would have loved to have a bite of your cherry before ignoring you. It sounds like he just thought things over and decided not to date you. He probably did it wrong by not informing you properly.

Life goes on and you have your whole life before you. Chin up

If you can answer YES to these, please respond so we can discuss:

1. Are you a failure with regards to having relationships?
2. Are you frustrated with the fact that you are unable to achieve anything tangible since you moved abroad, including finding a husband?
3. Are men using you and not wanting to marry you for various made-up reasons?
4. Are you ashamed of admitting that you are a relationship failure?
5. Do you have child(ren) for a man and the man wants nothing to do with you?

It just could be that you are frustrated with life at this stage of your life.

MP007:
HA WERE OMO!!!

he he he. No be so?

sorry to hear your story.

Do you not need to examine yourself? Why is it that you always make the wrong choices when it comes to men? It's much better to look critically at ourselves and see what changes we can make than to always seek to think that the problem lies outside of us.

It could be that you are easily attracted to the wrong kind of guys or that there is something about you or that you do that makes the wrong kind of boys come after you. Examine yourself critically