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Orikinla:Exactly bro. but they will never admit it openly. they will always say that they are happy single and independent |
Zaria17: ![]() |
The point is that the women feel lucky to have been married as it is not a mere wish come true. It is an honor to a woman if she is married.Both parties will be happy to get married. I was over the moon when my wife agreed to marry me and I have had no regrets about it especially seeing that there seems to be an abundance of unruly women around these days. Any man who finds a real woman to marry should be happy to have found one; not the ones parading as women who would rather be men. |
[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=129430.msg2189917#msg2189917 date=1209060958]maybe because polygamy was more prevalent? what's with these idiotic questions nowadays?[/quote]Are these questions idiotic because they make some women feel uncomfortable? There are many questions where men, especially Nigerian, have been terribly presented. At least this does not say i9t is common with Nigerian women abroad ![]() |
Sammy,Many (NOT ALL)so-called westernised women dont have this and that's why men are sceptical about joining with them |
Naje,This just made me laugh ![]() |
The simple reason is that husbands are really scarce.The so-called unmaried career women envy women who have successful marriages.If they can turn back the hand of the clock they still want to get married.Quite true |
I beg to differ!I think you'll find out that deep down, many of those women wish they were married. even the real westerner women would rather be with some man. you wont believe what some of them go through in their quest to have a man with them But publicly, they always say that they are enjoying their independence. |
Hai Mees Yu |
When some said Nigeria is not ripe for DemoCRAZY, there was uproar. Is this out demoCRAZY? |
It is good to see that some responsible Nigerian women exist. Affee, God bless you and your family. The responsibly married women will never come and out to say that Nigerian men are over-indulged. It is a case of sour grapes for women who are unable to find decent men. I dont have problems with them for feeling aggrieved but I have problems when they try to generalise their own unique circumstances, relating such to majority of Nigerians. |
If you're desperate like that to be married, you're not alone. There are quite a few women here who have been unable to stay in families; they are divorced, some with kids, and are quite desperate. There also some who just have the wrong attitude and so have become absolutely repellent to decent men. There are also the very few who are just unfortunate and for one reason or the other have not been able to find decent men. Of course there are also some who know that they are hopeless with regards to finding any man because they know, after many attempts, that no man will ever agree to settle with them |
michelin89:I am not like you who is ashamed of her background. I am very proud to be a Nigerian man to the core. . . in fact, I am a Nigerian man to the coremost: did I say coremost |
If you can answer YES to these, please respond so we can discuss: 1. Are you a failure with regards to having relationships? 2. Are you frustrated with the fact that you are unable to achieve anything tangible since you moved abroad, including finding a husband? 3. Are men using you and not wanting to marry you for various made-up reasons? 4. Are you ashamed of admitting that you are a relationship failure? 5. Do you have child(ren) for a man and the man wants nothing to do with you? It just could be that you are frustrated with life at this stage of your life. |
How many Nigerian married ladies are up on facebook smiling on a happy family holiday?Obviously, face book is what makes your life go round and you think it has to be the same for every woman. No wonder your life is that way |
Oloshi Karmanod, you no go ever find any man to take care of your life. You have been in search since you were rejected. keep trying; someone on nairaland might just help you out but you have to help him get papers to live in yankee. Rejected woman wey no get life |
michelin89:Since when did it become an offence for someone not to like stigma attached to anything. You're daft. what stigma is attached to child adoption again? is that what your mother taught you? |
You wish you were in her position. We are actually having a renewal of marriage vows in church soon. Eat your heart out. . . it's something your mother never enjoyed and will never enjoy. . .neither will you with the way you're going |
I wont be adopting kids. I like helping to finance things for other children when I can but I don't think I'D like an official adoption. It will make me feel like a hypocrite pretending to be the father of someone who's not my child. I wont mind the child being adopted in the sense of living with us and all that but I don't like the idea of the child being legally mine. |
davidylan:Just like this simidog |
In all honesty I did not set out to insult anyone but michelin got on here and insulted me. As soon as I responded, in came droves of frustrated women who are probably leading her along the same paths they took and that has brought them to the position of nought where they currently hibernate. This Simirubbish just started using insulting words as if I am not able to respond. My impression of this forum is that some women have taken it upon themselves to scare anyone from having contrary opinion by using the woman case and postulating that a man should not disrespect a woman by insulting her in return |
JustGood:Queenisha, God bless. Please dont let those women hear what you just said because they dont like to hear such. |
SimiBrasil:How much more stupid can any human being get? You have been a failure in life and you are yet to make a success of something and you are talking about your life's experience giving you wisdom. Wisdom is always manifest in our lives; not in our internet posts . . . oh my bad, maybe you are referring to internet forum wisdom - wonderful |
SimiBrasil:if you are not insane, you will not be here. Where exactly are your people? |
I dont see any problem here. The guy spends his money and the woman spends hers the way she sees fit |
SimiBrasil:very typical |
If you can answer YES to these, please respond so we can discuss: 1. Are you a failure with regards to having relationships? 2. Are you frustrated with the fact that you are unable to achieve anything tangible since you moved abroad, including finding a husband? 3. Are men using you and not wanting to marry you for various made-up reasons? 4. Are you ashamed of admitting that you are a relationship failure? 5. Do you have child(ren) for a man and the man wants nothing to do with you? It just could be that you are frustrated with life at this stage of your life. |
@ JustBullThe very thing wey no dey ya mama head wey carry am reach as she be so, na the thing wey I get for head wey make God dey helep me always |
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