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I'm unlovable.


Sholly? As in shollypops?

Those shoes need to be burnt!

Lol.. I'm blue. You know when you are sooo dark, you look almost blue?

Warfibabe: okay.... maybe she is, but the husband is definitely not mixed.. And i really admire him for taking such steps for the sake of his wife. They both look so good in their outfits... even more than some of our folks here.

Yes, we know the husband isn't mixed that's why noone mentioned anything about the husband race.

I don't see what the hoo-haa is about. I hope when I wear a traditional english wedding dress, I will get such hoo-haa too.
Sellouts.. Just because a white man wore african attire we must celebrate and say they wear it best.

FYI, they are HUMANS!

Lol... The fact that they date the ugliest, come to Africa to show off makes it worst. To them as long as it has 'white' skin, it's a god.

y me: just oredered this online waiting for them to deliver it so I can play around and be creative with it
Tho I have little time to spare ATM but erhmmmm I am excited (funny and childish) lol

Where did you order it from? And how much?

ogugua88: Lol this your memory. He's a Labrador shepherd, but looks golden lol.

Lool ohh. My bad.

Ask ogugua, I think she's got a golden retriever.

Nothing new here.

Blyss: I disagree with your claim. That's like saying that all blacks period look the same, in which case would make your prior picture posts useless.

It doesn't.

Mother is overly protective. Calling me every single minute. If I miss two calls that's a big overblown fight.
Always getting sent to do everything. If I had a younger sibling I could just pass the order on.
One thing I hated is when people say my mother spoilt me. Come on!! I never got those toys I use to see on tv when I was small.

All in all, I think it was great because you get more attention from your parents growing up so you won't have the excuse of saying 'my mother was never there for me'

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Have you always been natural?

Nah, I'm a flat iron master lol. It used to take me forever (2-3 hours). I started doing it very frequently and it became a breeze. I'm trying to stop using my flat iron though.

You're lucky.
1. I don't think I have a nice enough head for short hair lol.
2. Natural hair and I don't mix. I just relaxed again after like 32 weeks of transitioning. I'm sure washing and going is the easiest way, especially when you have a shorter cut. Relaxed hair is what I know best *sighs* lol.[/size]

No, I went natural about 2years ago or so but I'm so use to shaving it off now, any chance I get I'll cut it off. I guess it's just better to look after a shaved head than that with hair.

When I was younger I use to have loads of hair, but after I used some perming cream called 'touch', it just damaged my whole hair. I don't think the western perm suited my hair well. So, decided to go natural, hopefully I won't shave it off again.

jennann: Nice post. So, how do you make the shea butter lighter in consistency for easy spreadability over the skin since it' s quite hard in the raw form?

Heat it in a pot until it melts and all the dirt and black bits rise up to the top then sieve it. Leave it to cool down and it's ready to use.

I doubt he's 22.. Looks like an aged scrotum.

Tbh, I've actually been thinking about the no-sex before marriage thing. Not because I'm reserved but more to do with my own spiritual enlightenment/personal journey etc.


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Attraction always and generally comes by what is seen physically first before any other thing. Usually those who this doesn't apply to maybe two friends who have know eachother well, although not physically attracted to each other at first but personalities lead them to get close and turn it to a more intimate relationship.

You see, I don't believe in this nice guys finish last bullshyt. It's just a stereotype. Woman won't go for someone with a horrible attitude or some who slaps them about if they knew from the onset. Men pretend to be the nicest things on earth when they want a woman and majority of woman fall for it. It becomes too late when the man starts showing his true colours and the woman has fallen in love. This is what happens in majority of cases.

Every woman wants a man who they feel like can guide, protect and lead them. Someone tough, strong blah di blah who is able to support a woman etc etc. This does not equate to wanting 'bad boys'

I personally find the concept of hood, bush talk(slang), ghetto dressing irritating.

Now, there are the so-called 'good' girls who say they are not getting men. Well, reason being that they are very stuck up their own azzes. They are worst because they think that they are 'good girls' because they don't have sex, they don't drink, they don't smoke, they go to church, they don't have fun, therefore, better than everyone else and all good things should come to them. Being celibate and wanting to know someone's 'inside' doesn't mean you are 'good girl'. We all get to know a person whether we have sex or refrain from it.

Plus, men find all these 'goody goody 2 shoes' people very boring. Always spoiling fun, always wanting to be accepted by everybody. Very NEEDY. Me, me, me! I deserve it because I am a 'good girl'

What's a 'good girl'?


I'm a good woman. What's the difference? Oh, yes! Good girls are the ones who have their noses so far up their azz, always looking down on others because they are 'celibate' (f!nger!ng included).

smallmoney: i noticed you took the picture down. put it back up, i Promise i would upload mine so you know the real deal

I see you're the type of dude who likes to flash a few £50 notes and designer labels from the bottom of the pyramid...

Who are you fooling? Can you even afford to take your woman to a michelin star restaurant? Hotel, not holiday inn? Dubai trip this weekend? Fake fake things!

I remember when my hair grew after I shaved it for the second time. I dyed it blonde and it took me over 3hours to flat iron. It was crazzzzy! I was always afraid to get it wet. It's harder straightening hair when it's curly than when it's an afro. I guess yours didn't take too long because it's permed.


Shaved off my hair, I just do wash and go in the shower. Less than 2mins to wash. Just put a leave conditioner and I'm done.

debosky: ROTFLMAO!

2013 - the year of using phrases senselessly where they don't apply.

Happy New Year Kandii

Lol.

Happy new year to you too.

xcuggs_m: .
No pun intended but older men appreciate women better that the so called younger men whose whole existence is centered on the tip of their dic.k! its not all about se.x!

I'm sorry, maybe it's because I just woke up but how does this require a "no pun intended"?

MacLovington: From the way she looks, it was probaably pre-eclampsia/eclampsia. Especially if first pregnancy.

Perhaps she was being monitored as an in-patient for pre-eclampsia and things got worse.

We don't know if she told doctors she wanted to keep the baby by all means. If she did, maybe they were trying to make baby viable enough (I learnt it's 28 weeks in Naija)before delivery. Delivery of placenta (not just baby)is the only cure for eclampsia BUT even after delivery, a woman is still at risk for some time.

MYTH: people do not die abroad of pregnancy-related problems

TRUTH: People do die but in much much fewer numbers. A woman died a few months ago of a cornual ectopic in a hospital in one of the most popular foreign countries with Naija people. Colleagues were lamenting that it is inexcusable in the 21st century. One doc who was supposed to go and work the said hospital next changed his mind.

Oh, a pregnant Naija tourist had a lucky escape as she literally collapsed just outside our offices. Luckily one of the best places to be if you're eclamptic! All the pre-eclampsia symptoms were already there in Naija but nobody thought of it! That's a middle class lady able to afford treatment in Naija, what of Mama Nkechi and Iya Lukman, the Epa ati Bole.

LOL @ "From the way she looks, it's probably pre-eclampsia/eclampsia."

Now, tell me doctor, what in her face gave it away? And how far gone was she?

CFCfan: Your post dey too hilarious

@ Kandiikane: u might only get to wear that native attire if u marry a man from Edo State, Nigeria.

Which ethnicity is it?

Idowuogbo: Yea... Dats y i dig trad wedding better dan d white wedding.

Find naija hubby for me.
I wan wear this as one of my trads, so nice.
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babyosisi: That is a teaching hospital ,one of the best in Nigeria
Supposedly where all the specialties that could save her are under one roof
I wonder what she died of
Most deaths in Nigeria are man made and preventable

I told someone that I have been the USA donkey years I have never heard of a woman that died in childbirth or from pregnancy complications
Not a single one I know,co worker o,church member o,friends o,neighbor o
I neither know one or ever heard of one from anyone I know
Yet it is everyday news in Nigeria

It may have been an ectopic pregnancy. Her fallopian tube probably ruptured hence the need to remove the foetus. It's can be very fatal.

Usually, abroad you never really hear about women dying from it because the foetus is removed very early.

[quote author=sweettweet][/quote]From what I've read, I think she may have had an ectopic pregnancy, which can be very fatal.

Ohh, ok.

They are beautiful especially the more traditional looking ones.

CFCfan: Kandii, why now? See as u finish the guy

The guy is a hypocrite jorh! In this modern world and economy Who doesn't want a life filled with luxury whether it's via a partnership or your very own money? Anyone who denies this should go live in a cave.

Can someone please name the ethnicity for each traditional wear. From the first to the last, please.

Happy new year!

Hope you had fun.

It's 2013 meaning tis the year for kandii to nyash idowu with sticks.