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Family / Re: Words Of Advice From A Mother To Her Daughter by kandiikane(m): 11:13pm On Jul 09, 2015
imbless:
is this sarcasm or are u for real?.
Although I don't endorse that her bastards comment she made, she was way too far from the topic there.
I am for real


I do not understand the second line.
Family / Re: Words Of Advice From A Mother To Her Daughter by kandiikane(m): 11:10pm On Jul 09, 2015
neocortex:


There is no need denigrating others just to shore up your self image.
Whether a woman decide to take to all , some or none of the advice above
is their private business and that of the husband.
Enough of women shaming other women because they don't conform to a "standard"
as set by some control freaks.
If you want to be a good servant wife please do.
Live and let live.

Gbam!

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Family / Re: Words Of Advice From A Mother To Her Daughter by kandiikane(m): 9:45pm On Jul 09, 2015
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histemple:
Absolutely on point. One of the major causes of our problems is the misplaced aggression to emulate the western culture. The nascent gender equality drive has subjected us to unfounded mendacious sentiments and has virtually made almost all our women to become feminists. And most of us are trying so hard to live an European life in Africa.
Every society operate based on their value system and cultural inclination. For instance, western countries encourage single mothers and so they are indirectly increasing the number of bastards and marriage breakups. In Africa, a woman is more dignified and respected by the society based on her ability to build an enviable home. In Africa, a respectful woman has more power and influence over a man and can get anything she wants.
To justify my point, a true african woman will appreciate this advice from a mother but it's a complete trash to a Western lady.
My fellow women, we must be truly African to live peacefully and happily in Africa as trying to be Western in Africa will result to increased frustration.
Woman submit and respect your husband and the Man should love his Wife.
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You are right, complete trash! See your mouth like truly African to live peacefully. You can't have your cake and eat it, love!

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Celebrities / Re: OMG! Yetunde Bustline Oduwole Breaks Down In Tears Curses Ex-bf Baba Tee (VIDEO) by kandiikane(m): 4:56pm On Jul 09, 2015
See the guy sef she dey cry over...mtcheeeeeeew!
Romance / Re: Guy Takes Girl On A Trip To Dubai, Abandons Her There Because She Refuses Sex by kandiikane(m): 11:07am On Jul 09, 2015
jackpot:
It still doesn't make it right. Not wise too. One could be inviting r.ape

So it's only happens by someone who doesn't love you? Madam, someone you like or care for can turn against you and the worst thing is to get stuck with no money in a country where you know no one. What makes something right regarding these things is subjective, just make sure you always have money on you, that's all I am saying. Nothing hard in that.
Romance / Re: Guy Takes Girl On A Trip To Dubai, Abandons Her There Because She Refuses Sex by kandiikane(m): 5:02am On Jul 09, 2015
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jackpot:
from day one, you should start to know the guy's plan for you, that's when you give your terms and condition. If the relationship just began, do not accept such gifts, defer it till you can decipher his intentions. Is he a player or genuine? After sometime and the Dubai offer crops up, ask probing questions like ''Tony, why are you doing this? Why are you spending this much on me?'' Read in-between lines in his replies.not an option. The probability of that one happening is very very negligible, say, 0.001. By the way, that's extreme wickedness. This one isn't
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Just have money on you, whatever or whoever you decide to do.
Programming / Re: Female OAU Graduate Wins N1m In iROKOtv Programming Contest by kandiikane(m): 11:46pm On Jul 08, 2015
I somehow recognise that chick.
Romance / Re: Guy Takes Girl On A Trip To Dubai, Abandons Her There Because She Refuses Sex by kandiikane(m): 11:44pm On Jul 08, 2015
jackpot:

Never take an offer to go even to another town if you don't love the person. If you must accept the offer, give your terms and condition.

Abeg grow up, talking of love as if its something you can apply to any situation. Terms and conditions of what, that you don't want to phuck? What if he says ok, takes you there and says he changed his mind? Just have money on you!
Romance / Re: Guy Takes Girl On A Trip To Dubai, Abandons Her There Because She Refuses Sex by kandiikane(m): 6:22pm On Jul 08, 2015
Never take on an offer to go even to another town if you don't have the fare or means to get back on your own.

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Family / Re: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by kandiikane(m): 12:45am On Jul 07, 2015
Lol..


For where.... you only feel cheap if you allow yourself to be used and discarded anyhow...
Romance / Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by kandiikane(m): 2:09pm On Jul 06, 2015
queensmith:


you know i agree with this 100%, unfortunately i'm not sure most of the (non sensible men which alot of women are unfortunate to come across) think the same.

I think as a default the woman should assume the guy isn't interested in long term, and stick around long enough to find out whether she's interested in playing his game with him.

Lol but from experience, that game doesn't end well tbh. I guess it tends to be difficult for individuals who don't do the "spur of the moment" relationships. But you always know don't you, like from the beginning, that there is no future there, so like you said, it's up to her to see whether she can wait long enough for any changes.
Romance / Re: ~ladies: Reasons Why Your Guy Dumps You For Other Girls~ by kandiikane(m): 11:39am On Jul 06, 2015
Tallesty1:
Don't talk about the future until it is time to talk about the future.

Eh wrong! Both of you should know exactly what you are in for, is it for the moment or do you see each other long term? Whatever you are looking for should be stated even before you enter into a relationship to avoid confusion.
Celebrities / Re: The Top Booty Queens Of Nollywood (Photos) by kandiikane(m): 11:35am On Jul 06, 2015
I saw Danielle okeke in one movie, friends or foes, her body looked amazeballs...
Family / Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by kandiikane(m): 2:38pm On Jul 05, 2015
germainediva:
The best way to get any woman to love you is to ignore her...........women get irritated with too much attenntion

Wait what!!! Seriously, wth do you guys want sef? And over a 100 people agree? What exactly is too much attention? When he starts ignoring you, you come here to complain too.




@charlezok, do not mind all those saying ignore her, they know nothing and most likely do not have someone they are sharing their lives with. Some people were not bred with affection or brought up with affection so they find it hard to be affectionate even if they want to. Best thing to do is to speak to her and tell her what you want and how it makes you feel that she doesn't show you love. Teach her!

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Health / Re: Common Toilet Disease : Symptoms And Prevention by kandiikane(m): 9:32pm On Jun 28, 2015
Gardnerella : bacterial infection caused by Gardnerella vaginalis. Symptoms include fishy discharge from the vagina with less itching and irritation. Antibiotics are usually administered to treat this infection.



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Health / Re: Lady Lying Lifeless On Obasa Street Off Oba Akran Ikeja (photo) by kandiikane(m): 1:35pm On Jun 27, 2015
Do you have an irish embassy ?
Romance / Re: Don't Ladies Feel Ashamed Taking Photos In Hotel Rooms, Lobbies And Lavatories? by kandiikane(m): 1:30pm On Jun 27, 2015
Jascon4:


Didn't say it was wrong. The idea is, some ladies get taken to a hotel for a night. While in the room, they take different photo of themselves and also while in the lavatory. They post this picture with the thought of impressing people and showing off their supposed class cos of the luxurious background offered by these hotels. But they fail to realize that the picture is rather exposing their sexual escapades where people will be more inclined to look or judge in that direction.

Such ignorance in your people.

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TV/Movies / Re: Ay's 30 DAYS IN ATLANTA Is Overhyped (opinion) by kandiikane(m): 2:33pm On Jun 26, 2015
I agree.

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Food / Re: See What I Saw In A Pepsi Drink This Morning(photos) by kandiikane(m): 2:32pm On Jun 26, 2015
AndreRose:
There's no need. Just pour it all away. Suing them won't do you anything. They are only going to be liable if you drink it and it HARMS YOU. DONOGBUE V STEVESON.
Anything contrary to the above, the pepsi company are not PRIVY to the contract you made with the seller. DUNLOP V SELFRDGE.

Pour it away, for what na? It is obvious he doesn't have a case but he can take it to whatever organisation governs the safety of these products made by manufacturers. These manufacturers are becoming too careless. What if it was dark and the guy had choked on it, or the yellow stuff is something harmful. I won't even tell him to return it and get a refund but actually go report it to the environmental health department. People should start reporting these things, it's not ok.
Family / Re: HELP!!! His Manhood Always Hitch(scratches) Him Only After Sex With His Wife. by kandiikane(m): 1:55pm On Jun 26, 2015
Ewuro4:


See Question grin hehe

OP , answer Missus Kandiikane.
armyofone:
Lol, OP please answer since you are trying to help.
Is it rashly, peeling and scaly ?
Goodness grin
Lol, it's a genuine question. cheesy


EfemenaXY:

I think he's still consulting his friend's uncle for a response. grin
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Family / Re: HELP!!! His Manhood Always Hitch(scratches) Him Only After Sex With His Wife. by kandiikane(m): 11:56pm On Jun 25, 2015
He probably has a fungal infection. Is his pen!s really dry and scaly?
Family / Re: Why Are They So Many Pedophile's Out There? by kandiikane(m): 11:48pm On Jun 25, 2015
kay29000:


I understand that. Sometimes I can't control my urge to have sex, and go sleep with one local girl, but I would never think of sleeping with an 11 year old girl. This is what I want to know. What would make a grown man sleep with an underage girl?

A 12 year old is also underage......
Family / Re: Wives, What If Hubby Wouldn't Cooperate With You With Family Planning? by kandiikane(m): 11:38pm On Jun 25, 2015
You should take your partner to do this if he won't cooperate.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b81Cr97ANrk
Romance / Re: "I Am Tired Of Being His Sex Machine And Abortion Bag" by kandiikane(m): 11:21pm On Jun 25, 2015
Nairalander, Is it that the man refuses to use condoms with you or what?
Islam for Muslims / Re: Barka Juma'ah by kandiikane(m): 6:33pm On Jun 23, 2015
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Islam for Muslims / Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by kandiikane(m): 4:54pm On Jun 23, 2015
greatestluv4all:
Am 28yrs old.
The married muslim man is 35yrs with 4kids.
The non muslim man is 32yrs old.

My opinion, none are right for you...

Have you even spoken to the first wife to know whether she will be ok with it? If you become a second wife, obviously, you will be doted upon more as the new prize but how will you feel in the next couple of years when you because secondhand material because your polygamous husband found one nice younger babe to make a 3rd wife? If first wife is cool and you are also cool with another woman joining the harem in a few years time, you can go for it. Always try to consider the first wife in such situations.

For the second one, any man who gives you an ultimatum to change your beliefs is not for you.
Crime / Re: Robbers Who Stole Huge Sum Of Money Set Ablaze By Mob In Anambra(Graphics Pic) by kandiikane(m): 3:32pm On Jun 23, 2015
funkiebully:
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Look at d village goat talking about primitivity.

I pray u encounter a robber point a gun on ur dumb skull
Cow! Na your entire family and generation go encounter arm robber. Nonsense! What is happening here is not self defence but the evil in your hearts which nor gree allow the fear of taking human life settle and you will be the same one wey dey go church on Sunday dey ask God to take you out of your poverty stricken jungle.
Crime / Re: Man Jailed For Threatening, Injuring Dog At Dutse by kandiikane(m): 2:06pm On Jun 23, 2015
billy187:
Lots of you here fail to see the point. The dog was the property of someone -paid for. Imagine: if you slash the tires of my car and take a dump in the back seat do you think I'd let you go scot free?

Besides, you'd have to be a special kind of retarded to torture animals for craps and giggles.
They are sick..

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Crime / Re: Robbers Who Stole Huge Sum Of Money Set Ablaze By Mob In Anambra(Graphics Pic) by kandiikane(m): 1:59pm On Jun 23, 2015
I really thank God I did not grow up down that side of the world with all the meat I have stolen.

They might as well go make stew out of the burnt flesh since they are already primitive, make it a full package. Shameful!
Celebrities / Re: Actress Empress Njamah Releases Photos From Her Vacation In London by kandiikane(m): 12:47pm On Jun 23, 2015
Ucheosefoh:
Silly question ? Hey dude learn how to mind your business

You should stick to your own statement instead of putting your nose in how other people make their own money.
Celebrities / Re: Actress Empress Njamah Releases Photos From Her Vacation In London by kandiikane(m): 11:43am On Jun 23, 2015
Ucheosefoh:
What baffles me is how this female actresses make their money to be able to spend it lavishly I know nollywood don't pay much and many of them are not brand ambassadors



What a stupid question

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Family / Re: 10 Behaviors Of An Extreme Nairaland Feminist by kandiikane(m): 10:46pm On Jun 22, 2015
shrekandfiona:

touche! I usually don't comment on threads like this but had to like your post.

All these pseudo Femi-Nazis on nairaland that don't know what feminism is all about undecided they keep ranting from thread to thread yet most of them have never earned 1 kobo all their lives. They depend on their boyfriends/ spouse for all their needs ranging from hair to even money to buy pads. They go out on dates and expect their partners to foot their bills still they come here to chant the feminist song cheesy

I honestly hope people aren't fooled by their pseudo lives. " un follows thread
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How exactly do you know about the bolded? Have you been buying pad and hair for all these "femi-nazis"? Bros, can you even afford to eat garri each day? You are just here making speculations like an illiterate. Stop being ignorant and go sit a corner. It is one thing stating your opinion but another coming here and trying to bullshyt us with bullshyt.

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