EroticAngelina: please I need you guys help.. there is this my friend that has a very bad vagina odor.. so bad that sometimes I ditch her
how do I know this? she told me, when I bought her a perfume as a gift (but really I bought her that pef so that she can use it and so that I will be able to breath ) she told me that she knows that I'm giving her that perfume because of her vagina odor..and I felt so bad for her she begged me to help her stop it, that I just tell her what to do to stop it coz its really a disaster! people don't like coming near her. but as a friend..I wanna help her, so pls any suggestions? and one more thing... is it transferable??
She needs to stop using any of those feminine washes if she uses them. Stop douching(if she is) and stop using her bathing soap to wash her va.gina. she most likely has bacterial vaginosis, her having that smell doesn't mean she is dirty but quite the opposite. When you wash the vagina excessively it can kill all the good bacteria and if there is no good bacteria to keep the bad ones in check they multiply and it's basically them releasing sulphur gas I believe that gives out that foul smell. BV is very common actually after thrush so she shouldn't be made to feel isolated over it. If her discharge comes watery and the smell is stronger around her period or during sex then it is BV. All these things being recommended like dettol and antiseptics should not be used. NO PERFUME!!
-She needs to start washing her va.gina with aqueous cream instead of normal soap and sponge.
-If she has access to yogurt, those plain pot yogurts that says live cultures I.e L. Acidophilius, she can insert it inside her vaginas using some form of tube, maybe a plastic tampon tube. She just needs to remove the tampon, use a small spoon to fill the tube up and squeeze the yogurt in. -She could buy pure tea tree oil, soak a tampon in it and insert it inside her vagina for a couple of hours.
-she can insert a glove of garlic during the night and can increase the dose of garlic by using her fingernails to leave cut marks in it but I won't recommend bleeding the garlic if you have low pain tolerance
-If she has access to balance activ, she can use the pessaries for 7 days and then use it like once a week or something to prevent reoccurrence.
If she is using the yohurt or balance activ, she should use it in the night just before bed because it is very messy. She can dilute the tea tree oil if she wants because some people find it irritating on it's own if you aren't use to it. The tea tree can be used as a va.ginal wipe on a day to day basis by using a cotton pad to wipe before wearing your clothes.
She should go check herself first though to rule out any infection.
P.s, most doctor's recommend antibiotics but they only work for a second and can cause a second problem like thrush. These methods I have given are the best solutions because they are natural and do last. She should try sitting in baking soda water to help get her pH high again.
ratatis: "not having the desire to sleep with a person " is not the same as "not finding the person sexually desirable"
If you love someone and don't have the desire to sleep with them, it means that you don't find them sexually desirable. Na friendzone things be that. if you are attracted to someone your loins and mind naturally gets to work.
Lool, you don't need help. You have accepted your fate or abi na destiny so one cannot help manage your emotions for you. Cry if you want to cry, scream if you want to scream but just don't confront him about it. If you do, that's you being a hypocrite.
Skylarenchanted: I remember once wen I noticed a lump in one of my breasts.It was so painful up 2 d point dat I couldn't sleep well at night. Didn't tell my parents tho cos I felt dey were gonna freak out ,so I went 2 church on a sunday and while d healing service was goin on I placed my hand on my breast nd prayed dat God should heal me. When I woke up d following day there was no lump and no pain in breast. I give God all d glory.
hairyanus: There is nobody who has ever flown that never had fears at one time....Once i seat in that casket called plane...i confess my sins, incase i find myself on the otherside....i dont get ready, i live ready.
I was flying this year from Manchester to France, just 45mins flight time...the plane was very small. I dint complain, fear came when i had, i am captain Catherine, chayi, woman! it just hit me. In my many years of flying, a woman has never flown me. What if she quarelled with her husband or forgot baby food...fear just came....
Empiree: Jinns speak any language in the environment they are. I dont think it's appropriate to call them spirit. The word is too loose. Angels are called spirit. Human soul is also called. It's safe to call them "supernatural beings" in the sense that we cant see them. They live longer than human beings. Some of them live as low as 2000yrs old. Some live longer. They live among human in their own planet(Sammawat). That is, different dimension of space and time. I am sorry there is no way i can describe this without a bit of religious sentiment. So please pardon me. Qur'an says that 1000 yrs is 1 day with God, 50yrs is one day with God etc. This means different sammwat(planet is close definition). Their planet is within the human earth. I wish i can explain better. There is a Yoruba movie titled "Aiye Tuntun"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fAdn40JKM9c . The movie gives a clue about sammawat. So Jinns live among us but in their own sammawat where we cant see them. I tried to explain this.
This makes sense, we have the same stories too where I'm from. I remember being told of this story in which they can see you and let's say you accidentally look at them in the eye, even though you aren't aware due to being in different planes, they will poke you in yours.
@topics, stories of these use to scare the hell out of me. We also had stories of demons dressed as masquerades on stilts following people
coogar: i didn't ask about that - i asked if what you wrote up there is from personal experience... kandiikane, don't start tonight - i don't lust after such, i am a vïrgin.
Isn't the personal experience about my va.gina? Who spoke of lusting? You are drunk,go sleep.
2buff: And this is my point. Maybe it's just black folk, but everyone likes to talk about "being at the top". But when specific questions are asked about managing the process and day-to-day of "getting to the top", it usually turns into something else.
A wise definition of success is not the outcome, but the day-to-day steps to the outcome. While those steps are happening, you still need to live.
Where I am in North America, I cook for myself and eat out on social occasions. And as I mentioned, I would gladly cook for my babe. But if she were so arrogant as to feel it's not something she should do (or learn to do) for me as well, then she will be instantly replaced. When even white babes (wey no get bride-price/list for house ) dey try nowadays na naija girl wan dey fuckup? E no make sense.
H You are talking alot of unnecessary stuff. Specific questions like what? Like who feeds you? Totally irrelevant because ask any successful person you know and they will tell you who cooks or who must cook has little relevance to their achievements because they most likely didn't have time to worry about their stomach.
When you are chasing your dreams all these are trivial issues. There was nothing wrong with bananabender's statement and it is no different to yours.That is what she wants. Goodnight, this has turned to moonlight discussions, I have a nappy to change.
2buff: Totally unrelated question babe. These are the key questions: - On his way to the top, do you think he had the luxury of having personal chefs? - How did he sustain himself in a practical manner day-to-day when he was still building his legacy?
Until you answer that, we will keep on circling.
There is no answer to that because this is not related to what I wrote either. Being at the top was what I was talking about. even if that was what I am talking about, where you are right now in america, who really cooks?
2buff: Regardless of what you might think from this our disagreement, I am thankfully well off, I will not boast on a forum. That said, I am also a realist.
Yes you can see something in the future, but does that mean you won't learn the necessary skills to maintain yourself till you get there? If your answer to that is "No", then I guess you've decided your path.
I never said you weren't well off. Never once crossed my mind, don't know what you earn so won't have assumed. I was speaking in general. I also i'm a realist, darling. As a realist I know that one must work hard to achieve things in life with obstacles and all but thats where determination sets in. We have both established the realities of success and that's working your azz off but what you also are is a pessimist and that is a bad mentality to have if you want to successful. As you have used Tyler Perry as an example, I will use him too. Do you think if he had thought his blackNess would stop him from achieving what he has achieved in hollywood, he would be where he is now?
No one said one shouldn't learn skills in life but if it won't kill you and it is not part of your to do list, to each his/her own. Cooking is not a life skill that one must learn so if one doesn't want to learn it or doesn't think it's necessary to learn, I don't see the big deal, that's their business. If they don't know how to cook they will still eat, so wetin? There are others who are willing to learn and have a passion for it.
2buff: Lol at "disturbing your wife" to be able to do what I can easily do for her without thinking it a big deal. It is well. To each their own.
It's not a big deal so why you disagreeing with me?
Oga, the thing is when we are living hand to mouth, it seems impossible for some of us to see the future as I have described. Open your mind and set your future wide. Living on average salary is not on my list of achievements so I can understand why some will find it hard to get their heads round what I wrote.
2buff: And so you think that lifestyle will just happen like that abi? Every success story has humble beginnings. Roots, and dues that need to be paid. Do you think Tyler Perry was born rich? During those beginnings, how will you survive?
Again, lazy people will continually try introduce irrationality as a means to continue in their decided path. Every one has a perfectly viable reason (to themselves) to support every bad habit they have, even murderers.
You just want to argue for the sake of it, isn't it? Re-read what I wrote before jumping to type. Where did I write that one just sits and the luxuries just drop on their feet like that. Did you not see where I wrote about working hard.
I think the lazy person in question here is you. Work hard and you can have a professional chef so you would stop disturbing your wife. I won't go any further with this discussion because it's stup!d and I respect you.
priscaoge: When they are fed with cereals, what do u expect Just because the teacher scolded @ her for cheating n she choose to kill herself? Hmmmm, odikwa egwu!
Welcome to my School Where the exam hall is always filled with security officers who are ready to beat d hell out of u n still drag u to their office for more insults!
Welcome to my school where d students who cheat during exam are made to fill Malpractice form, face the Panel n still get expelled from school.
My school where the lecturers will always insult and embarrass you during lectures.
Don't be insensitive, if you had read carefully where it was written you would have seen that she suffered emotional problems. This issue goes deeper than just being shouted at.
2buff: Hmm, babes, in this part of the world, just be sure you are pulling in the kind of CEO money to accomodate that lifestyle. Cuz if you want to do that on normal salary, and think it's sustainable, you are on a long thing.
I know proudly lazy people will say everything possible to maintain their laziness, even if it is highly impractical. Na dia life sha.
I think it is lazy people that use condition/situation as an excuse to stop themselves from working that hard to get such luxuries in life. If one was ambitious, where you live shouldn't stop you from living such a lifestyle, It shouldn't even cross your mind.
There is a difference between laziness and determination.
2buff: I was addressing the arrogance. Her being a feminist is really just a minute detail of the actual matter. Why did she not say "I suck at cooking, but I am also interested in learning". She instead relegated it as something her man will be doing, or must insultingly, must learn to do. Because she has just decided that she won't be learning how to do it too.
but that's her own opinion though. Everyone has things they want in their partner and one of hers is someone that can cook or willing to learn to cook. Now, let's be honest, if this was the other way round would you be calling her(if she was a guy) a chauvinist?
Personally, I don't see the big deal in this cooking issue because it is a skill that can be learnt and if both are too busy to learn, there are people out there who enjoy it and get paid to make it for you in your house. Why would I stress myself trying to cook meals for 9 people when I can have a professional chef in my home making us meals? There are better issues in this world to worry about than worrying about who should cook.
2buff: I'm not talking about that. I cook for my GF too, but that would be because she can do the same for me. I was addressing the sheer arrogance of this her implied statement. i.e. "I don't/can't cook and I won't be learning how. The man must know how or be the one to learn how to cook. I can't really be arsed with it."
Oh right.... but maybe you are thinking that's what she meant because she is a feminist, to you, anything that comes out of her mouth would be anti-men even if she wrote blah?
2buff: Ah yes, the feminist. So, HE is the one that should learn abi? And you will continue to proudly/gladly remain in as profound a state of culinary ignorance as possible...because it's the feminist thing to do.
Well done. Best of luck finding that (white) man. That, or You better be the main bread-winner of that house too.
Lol, come off that joor! There are many black men who willingly cook for their women and it's not that once in a blue moon kind of thing, "It's hunny, im hungry can you make me breakfast or cook some bolognese please" You don't need a white man for that.
Hedybee: It is very possible. When one stops having 'it' for a long period of time, the V has a way of returning to its 'default settings'. That's wat is termed- secondary virginity
EroticAngelina: maybe because she hadn't had sex in 2yrs, her v@gina gradually became tight due to the regular diick penetration stopped i think it happens to some women. just like ear or belly piercing.. when u pierce it and u dnt put an earring or bellyring in for long, it closes back.
actually, it's the opposite. The more sex you have the more your vagI.nal muscles tone up and tighten. Think of it as a body muscle and how exercise tightens and tones the body.
Bleeding possibly happened because she was dry therefore got tears.